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How to Text Flirt with a Friend

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Do you know how to text flirt with a friend? Do you want to? Text flirting is easy, and can be a great way to turn a clean friendship into something flirty and sexual!

All of us have shared at least one flirty text with a good friend over the years.

How to text flirt

Sometimes, it’s just a joke, and sometimes, we text flirt with a friend in the hope of getting physical with a friend.

So how does text flirting work, and how does it all start?

TEXT FLIRTING WITH A FRIEND

“Hi wt r u dn?” 

“Jst bout 2 slip in2 my bed” 

“Really? Wt r u wearin? lol!” 

“Umm.. nthin! lol!”

“lol! Wish I was there!”…

It’s that simple, really.

Friends flirt texting late at night, the mood set just right, and no inhibitions between friends can lead to an explicit and flirtilicious conversation.

Well, if you’re surprised, think twice and look around the next time you’re with your bunch of friends.

Almost all the time, there will be at least a few of them who secretly flirt text each other occasionally, if not every day.

Your friends wouldn’t be surprised if you’re indulging in it either.

Men and women have always been attracted towards each other, and at times, even the best of friends can end up having an emotional affair or may set off the vibes that can arouse sexual interest in each other.

Text flirting with a friend

When you text flirt with a friend, it can start off as a cute funny thing, something worth a giggle in the start, but as the days go by, the messages can get kinkier and more sexual.

And another thing is that neither of the involved friends would feel awkward about it, but would look forward to text flirt with the friend the next night. You may be dating someone else, but the urge to flirt text this friend of yours in an intimate flirty manner can be such a turn on that it might be very hard to resist!

Psychologists say that this feeling is an echo of the feeling you get when you fall in love or are aroused by someone new in a sexual manner. This person may be a friend, but when you text flirt with a friend intimately, you’re actually looking at the same friend of yours from another point of view, and every new message shows something new about this person.

When you text flirt with a friend, it can affect you in many ways. It may bring both of you closer, but there will always be sexual tension that is created between you and this friend. So before you go ahead and text flirt while messaging each other on the phone, ask yourself if you’re prepared to fall in love with your friend or whether you’re looking for someone to spend a night with. Quite frankly, both can be achieved through a few rounds of text flirting.

Most of the times, we text flirt only because of an urge to start a taboo relationship with a friend. After all, friends don’t have sex with each other, and it is this very thought that makes a friend hope for something more sexual with a friend.

Text flirting at night – How to text flirt with a friend

Have you ever wanted to know how to text flirt with someone through messages, but didn’t know how to go about it? It’s not hard at all. All you have to do is take your cell phone and text your friend, preferably late at night. In all probability, you would find yourself text flirting outrageously in a matter of days, or in a couple of weeks.

It begins with a message that could be intimate, even something as trivial as “So do you lie on your back or on your tummy when you sleep?”

The text flirting could get steamier soon, and you may just be on your way to a whole night of text flirting with your friend. We always feel more confident and daring when we text flirt over the cell phone, rather than a flirty conversation face to face. And the fact that you can add a little line mentioning you’re kidding, takes away all the pressure while your friend replies to your text flirt.

Your friend, on the other hand, would obviously know what your intentions are, but there’s something in text flirting that makes these flirty conversations all the more fun. It could give you hours of pleasure and a secret sexual relationship may bloom between the both of you, and both of you may end up becoming sex buddies or two people who are extremely aroused by each other but don’t do anything about it. And that’s not a happy situation either!

You would also know a lot about each other through text flirting eventually, physically or otherwise. But surprisingly, when two people start to text flirt each with other, their regular daily lives do not change much. It would be more like a secret text flirt relationship the both of you share, late at night with a cell phone in your hands.

You see, it’s not how to text flirt with a friend that you should be thinking about, it’s what you’re going to do once you start text flirting with each other. Stay as friends or become sexually involved? 

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What Guys REALLY Think Of Your Selfies


Do selfies show that you’re confident … or insecure? What men really think of your self-portraits.

Taking too many photos of yourself for your dude to handle — or not enough? Despite the hot craze blowing up your Instagram and Facebook feeds, researchers in the UK are saying that your selfies could be damaging your friendships, relationships with colleagues and (most importantly), your relationship with your SO.

So, should you quit the selfie system? Here’s what guys had to say about the solo picture trend.

They like to see you looking (and feeling) good:
“When a girl I’m into posts photos of herself, it tells me that she’s confident and proud of the way she looks — and I’m totally into that,” says Marc, 33.

“A girl who’s comfortable enough to take photos of herself and actually post them to her social media accounts (like Facebook and Instagram) is definitely a girl I want to talk to. To me, that’s sexy. It shows she’s confident in her skin,” says Brian, 23.

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But for some, the abundance of your selfies is just too much:
“I was into this girl once and then I checked out her Instagram. Every photo was a photo she’d taken of herself with dozens of filters to make her look better. It just looked desperate. I felt like if I dated her I would just have to constantly feed her ego,” says Danny, 29.

“The last thing I want to see is photos she’s taken of herself all over her house. Like ‘Here I am in the bathroom,’ or ‘Look, standing by the fridge.’ Too many selfies are a deal-breaker for me,” says Kyle, 24.

“I cringe every time I see a girl taking a photo of herself. I don’t think I’d be able to date someone who was that into themselves,” Peter, 27, says.

For some guys, it says you’re insecure:
“If a girl posts photos of herself nonstop on her Facebook, I’m going to think she needs the attention. I don’t want to be with someone who has to be told she’s pretty nonstop,” says Rich, 35.

“It’s one thing to take photos of yourself and send them to your guy in a private message. That’s totally fine. But once you make it public — it’s like your asking for people to validate your beauty or your looks. Sorry, but no thanks,” says Tyler, 26.

So, should you stop?
“I think I’d definitely be the most excited person to see the selfie trend make it’s way out. I’m ready for it to retire,” says Rob, 19.

“Who cares? If a girl feels good — and knows she looks good — then who are we to judge? Clog the feed all you want,” says Anthony, 25.

“I’m torn — obviously I like to see girls looking good when I’m scrolling through my Instagram late at night, but at the same time, I wouldn’t ever want a girl that’s out with me to slink off the bathroom and take photos of herself. So I say yes, keep the selfies around, but only if they’re done right,” says Joe, 22.

“Selfies are less about guys and more about girls. It’s like this thing they do to impress and make each other jealous. I don’t think it has anything to do with guys, which makes it a little pathetic. It’s not like they’re looking for our approval — they’re looking for each other,” says Steve, 26.

 

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The Real Truth Parents Need to Know About Tweens, Teens, and Texting Acronyms

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Many of you may have seen and even read a series of articles that have been circulating on social media about all the different texting acronyms parents should be aware of, one of the largest posts came from CNN. However, what many parents don’t know is that a large number of the texting acronyms are inaccurately defined, and even if that isn’t the case, most are already outdated.

So, why do these lists keep circulating? 

Well, because while they aren’t successful at properly educating parents, they are FANTASTIC at feeding parents worst fears about tweens, teens, and texting.

Do you want to know what the real story is when it comes to tween, teens, and sexting?

In reality, most kids are not out there “sexting” on a regular basis. Reported percentages vary, with the high end being 20% and the low end around 7%. In most cases, the likelihood to engage in “sexting” goes up with age and the greatest percentages are seen in older teens (17+). However, the definition of “sexting” is also not very clear. It can be anything from exchanging some fairly harmless and vague hormone-fueled texts to the more serious, but far less prevalent, instances of sending more sexually graphic texts along with photos of a sexual nature.

Texting Acronyms – Be Smart, Not Scared

As parents, we would prefer none of this was going on via text, but we must also understand that part of it is just the modern day version of the very normal expression of our kids early sexuality. Also, while technology may be providing a new platform for this expression, it isn’t contributing to any increase in teen sexual activity. In fact, depending on the data source, teen sex rates have at worst stayed constant in the last twenty years or have actually declined as much as 7%.

Now, this doesn’t mean that parents can sit back and take a head in the sand approach to the whole topic of inappropriate texting acronyms and “sexting”.  It is still happening and many tweens and teens who admit to engaging in “sexting” said they did it as a result of peer pressure.  One of the best defenses parents have to combat the influence of this kind of negative peer pressure is to simply keep an open and honest dialogue going on with their kids. We need to be willing to tackle the tough talks and make sure they know the risks.

Make Sure Kids Understand the Risks

While our kids may think sexting a photo to their boyfriends or girlfriend is safe, because this other person cares about them, they need to think about what might happen if they break-up and how such photos could then be used to hurt them. Help them to understand that once a sext is sent, whether it is only text or includes pictures, it can never be completely deleted. There can also be legal consequences to sexting as in some states it is considered child pornography distribution.

Also, if you are genuinely concerned about the possibility of your child sending or receiving inappropriate texts, this is not something that is out of your control. There are numerous ways you can manage this situation.

Parental Controls

The most obvious solution is to delay giving your child a cell phone. While it seems like kids are getting phones at younger and younger ages, you don’t have to give into peer pressure. If you choose to give your child a phone, it doesn’t have to be a smartphone. If your goal is for you to be able to reach your child and them to be able to reach you, a basic phone that makes calls, but can’t send or receive text messages will suffice.

If you ultimately still decide to give your child a smartphone, make sure expectations for its use are clear as are the consequences of not following the rules you set for the privilege of having a phone. A great way to do this is with a cell phone contract and we happen to have a handy dandy printable one available in our post Cell Phone Rules for Tweens and Teens.

You can also install apps that enable you to monitor your child’s cell phone activity. This is not “spying” on your child, this is parenting as long as you are upfront with them. One of the more popular apps is My Mobile Watchdog, which provides you with a log of calls, texts, and pictures sent to and from the phone. Over time as your child proves they can use the phone responsibly, then you can consider removing the monitoring.

What Exactly Do Those Texting Acronyms Mean?

Should the occasion arise that you come across any acronyms in your child’s texts that you are not familiar with, you can look almost any of them up using the Urban Dictionary. This site is a user-generated online dictionary of slang terms and phrases. I’m going to warn you, this isn’t a site for the faint of heart of heart, but it will get you the information you need to know. However, I bet most parents will be pleasantly surprised when they discover 2G4E simply means “together forever” or WYCM means ‘will you call me”.

Yes, our kids are growing up fast, but maybe not as fast as we are lead to believe. If you DBEYR (don’t believe everything you read) and practice smart parenting by going ISO (in search of) real facts, these tween and teen years might not be so bad, and could even be GR8 (great)! TTYL.

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One Short Simple Romantic Text Message Can Change EVERYTHING!

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Keeping romance alive in a relationship may be as easy as sending romantic text messages. Just letting someone know how much they mean to you can make all the difference in the world.  Just remember…don’t use these messages unless you mean them from your heart. Nobody likes a player!  AND, try to use only ONE every few days or so…using too many can make your texts seem “scripted”.

With that advice in mind, these messages have been recently “re-inspired” and re-written.  We at Sexytext101.com wanted to make sure that anything we posted for you to send we ourselves would in fact send them to the love of our lives!  So Here They Are!

Example Romantic Text Messages

Recently Added Romantic Texts:

I may not be a photographer but I sure can picture us together forever


When I bring you flowers, it’s so they can see what true beauty really is


honey, you deserve the whole world…which I can never give you…instead, I give you MY whole world


7 billion people on this green earth…my heart chose you


says in the Bible that God knew us from the beginning of time…I feel like I was there with you all along


every love story is beautiful…but ours is my favorite!


every kiss from you takes me somewhere…a place without stress…a place with only happiness


I remember the first time I saw you…my heart whispered “She’s the One”


If snowflakes were kisses…I’d send you a blizzard


If I could give you one thing in life, I’d give you the power to see yourself through my eyes…only then could you realize how much you mean to me


I love you for who you are on the inside…all that sexy on the outside is just a bonus

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‘Shoot Me a Text:’ Why Millennials Prefer Text Over Talk

It wasn’t that long ago that a cell phone was the hottest technology in the world. The ability to open a portable phone and make a call anywhere, at any time, was astounding.

More recently, we’ve passed a point of regression. Millennials are actually shying away from making phone calls. Why is that … and what’s replacing them? Hint: You don’t have to go as far as you may think.

Millennials Want to Text

Millennials Want to Text

Though voice calls aren’t at risk of going extinct anytime soon, millennials — who make up an overwhelmingly vast percentage of the mobile phone market — prefer not to have to speak on the phone. To be more exact, they would rather text.

According to a recent survey we conducted here at OpenMarket, when given the choice between being able only to text versus call on their mobile phone, a whopping 75 percent of millennials chose texting over talking.

In fact, millennials overwhelmingly prefer to receive text messages from businesses, as well, instead of phone calls, which they regard as intrusive. According to Nielsen data from a few years back, the average monthly voice minutes used by millennials fell from roughly 1,200 per month in 2008 to 900 minutes a month in 2010.

During this same period of time, texting among 18 to 24-year-olds more than doubled, climbing from just 600 per month to around 1,400 texts per month. Now, the Nielsen data isn’t exactly brand-new, but it does illustrate that this isn’t a new trend or phase that is likely to fizzle out.

For the past eight-plus years (at least), millennials have increasingly shunned voice and gravitated towards text messaging. If you run a business that may be largely dominated by Baby Boomer thinking, an affinity for SMS may seem strange. After all, phone calls are quick and easy.

But you have to remove yourself from your own biases and think about this from the perspective of your customers. Millennials are unique and clear about what they want … and what they want is to text. So moving forward, it’s in your best interest to move in that direction.

Four Reasons Millennials Love SMS

Before delving into some of the ways you could adapt your marketing strategies to respond to the general popularity of texting, take a look at some of the reasons millennials have fallen in love with SMS.

You’ll want to understand the logic behind this preference so you’ll be better able to target the right individuals with the most effective marketing strategies.

  1. Convenience and Ease of Use

Millennials are all about simplicity and ease of use. This generation has grown up with more technology than all the previous ones combined. They’re conditioned to think in terms of which technology affords the most conveniences, and the simple answer is SMS.

It’s not so much that millennials feel an intense antipathy toward talking on the phone. They still spend time talking, but they’d prefer to do it with parents and close friends.

It’s not a mode of communication they positively associate with brand interaction. Instead, they view unsolicited business calls to be nothing more than pestering from telemarketers.

  1. Easy to Remember

Phone conversations can be difficult for millennials to recall. “What time did they say we were supposed to meet?” “How much did she tell me the tickets cost?” “Was the address 113 or 131?”

Hours after a phone conversation, details like these tend to slip away. But with SMS, everyone has a readily retrievable transcript of the conversation. An individual can go back and see that the meeting was set for 5:30, the tickets cost $25, or the address is 113. There’s less pressure on the recipient to remember everything.

  1. Less Stressful

Text messages are less stressful than phone calls. The latter may require the person to come up with answers on the spot — or remember specific questions he or she wanted to ask.

By contrast, a text message gives the recipient time to think and respond on his or her own time. It’s a more organized experience that involves less overall pressure.

  1. Trumps Voice Mail

Because millennials prefer not to answer phone calls from numbers they don’t recognize, most calls from businesses go unanswered. As a result, companies sometimes leave a voice mail. And millennials hate voice mail.

Voicemails take too long to retrieve and understand; they’re impersonal, intrusive, and sometimes confusing. Worse, if there’s information the recipient needs in the voicemail — such as an address, callback number, etc. — the person has to write the information down on a piece of paper.

With a text message, the crucial data is already written out for the recipient to see and use. So that’s why SMS trumps voice mail for most millennials.

How Businesses Can Respond

This raises the question, as a business how are you to respond appropriately to millennials and their preference for testing? The only reasonable answer is to satisfy their desire by adopting marketing strategies that place an emphasis on text over talk.

According to our research, 75 percent of millennials think receiving texts for things like appointment reminders, payments, deliveries, promotions, and surveys is helpful. Nearly two out of three millennial customers like to receive product offers and coupons. More than half believe it’s helpful to receive texts that address account activity, order alerts, and other general reminders.

You may be wholly unfamiliar with SMS, but it’s not something you can ignore if you hope to engage millennial consumers via modes that are most comfortable to them. SMS is a high-returning marketing channel, and companies should respond by adopting strategies that leverage text messaging and the many benefits this technology has to offer.

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20 Flirty Texting Facts to Help You Have a Good Love Life

Texting is one of the most common modes of communication couples use, which begs the question: how does it affect your romance? Find out with these facts!

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Nobody expected texting to be such a big deal. It was designed to be a convenient way to communicate with the people in your life, but now it’s turned into a whole subculture.

Because of all the attention it’s gained, people are now studying how texting plays into relationships. Good thing they did, because millions of single and non-single people are asking, “What is up with texting?”

The concept of texting didn’t peak until the early 2000’s. That was when cell phone companies started offering texting with their service plans.

Flash forward to a good decade and a half later, where emojis are now the norm, and calls have become almost obsolete. Now that we’re here in the age of texting, the differences in communication and how they affect us have provided more data than we could ever have dreamed of.

And what did we do with that data? What else, but find out why it matters and what we can do to use it wisely—especially for our relationships.

Texting facts for the modern dater

That being said, we’ve compiled a list of facts that might interest you and help you improve how you deal with your relationships and communication.

#1 Married couples text less as their relationship progresses. Don’t freak out. That’s a good thing! It means that they’re communicating more in person than they are through social media and their phones.

#2 Too much texting can be bad for your relationship. Relax. You can still talk to teach other everyday, but the research says that incessantly texting about things that are of no consequence can take its toll on your relationship. Stick to actual conversations and not silence fillers.

#3 Men who text more are unhappier in their relationships. This could be connected to men’s egos, since their primal instincts program them to expect rewards when they provide for their mate. In this case, they provide affection through texting. Not being rewarded with the same amount of attention can, and will, annoy them.

#4 Women who text more are happier in their relationships. In this regard, it seems that women are fueled by the attention that texting gives them. Whether or not their partner texts as much is of no consequence, unless the frequency is alarming—like when a guy rarely texts.

#5 Both men and women are happier when their partner sends them texts that show appreciation or compliments. If you’re worried about items 3 and 4, you can rest easy, because those can be remedied with a simple solution: send texts that matter to you and your partner—preferably ones that show affection and give compliments.

#6 Using texting to fix relationship problems is bad for a couple. Many couples reported that they felt less happy when their partners used texting to solve relationship problems. They preferred to discuss things out in the open, yet their partners opted to hide behind their screens.

#7 Men don’t like being texted while at work. This could be because men consider work one of their highest priorities. When you text about useless things while they’re at work, they see it as a hindrance rather than an act of affection. For women, it might not be as annoying, but the same goes for them when their partners text unnecessarily.

#8 Using one-word texts like “k,” “fine,” and “good,” without capitalization or punctuation is a turn-off. Isn’t it always? Using this as a passive aggressive way to start a fight is also one of the markers of an unhappy relationship.

#9 Too much intense and flirty texting can scare away a person. This only counts when you just started dating—i.e. after the first date, or before you even see each other in person. Men and women find overly affectionate strangers to be tiresome, annoying, and—dare we say—creepy.

#10 Texting during a date is a signal for most people to bolt. It’s rude, impolite, boorish…I could go on and on, but anyone who sees a person texting at the table will be put off by the act.

#11 People aged 17 to 25 text their significant others more than older individuals. Seems legit, considering a lot of younger people have more time on their hands and have very little self-control over their indulgence in gratuitous things like texting – Wanna text more but have no clue what to say? CLICK HERE NOW

#12 Scientists have predicted how people interact with their significant others through text. Not everyone does this, but apparently a majority of the general population do.

a. People meet in person, or online, add each other through Facebook and then briefly *other times, not so briefly* study each other’s profile.

b. One asks for the other’s number. These days, there’s no guarantee that only the guy does it.

c. Texting continues until someone asks the other to meet in person.

#13 One in five texters receive a breakup text. One of the saddest statistics I’ve ever read, but the numbers do not lie.

#14 When someone relies too much on texting, they are much unhappier in their relationships. When a person finds joy in texting and then feels despair when it’s not there, it’s a sign that the relationship itself is not what’s fueling the happiness they need.

#15 People who are secure about themselves don’t require the assurance that constant texting gives. Not everyone is dependent on texting. Those people are the ones who don’t crave attention and do not look too deeply into the short messages they receive.

#16 People who are insecure turn to texting to get assurances from their romantic interests. Insecure people rely on the validation that texting gives them. Texting equals affection; therefore, it tells them that someone cares, even though it’s just a social reflex.

#17 People who are scared of being abandoned will avoid being controlled by texting habits in order to have a semblance of control over their relationships. If someone has abandonment issues, you’re stuck with one or two outcomes: someone who avoids texting or someone who will text you incessantly. Either way, the main goal is to take control over the situation.

#18 The more you use texting as a weapon, the more unattached your partner gets. Every time you use texting to start a fight, your partner withdraws further from you emotionally.

#19 People are dissatisfied with their relationships when texting affects their other relationships or responsibilities. If texting is putting a damper on other important things like work and your other relationships—like with your family and friends—it will significantly decrease your partner’s overall satisfaction with your relationship.

#20 Satisfaction with how people use their phones is related to their satisfaction with their relationships. When someone likes texting, they like their relationship. If not, then it’s obvious where this is going.

Everything written here is not set in stone. These facts simply demonstrate the majority findings uncovered by scientific research. Instead of expecting these things to happen to you, you should take the time to consider whether or not you should rely on texting as the basis for your whole relationship.

Just remember that texting is not as important as actually being present. Talk to your partner, spend time together, take a trip out of town, and just go crazy. Those moments matters more than a few words exchanged through a screen.

Texting is an increasingly pervasive form of communication. Not all texts are created equal, however, as recent research has revealed. Using these facts, make sure your texting habits are supporting your relationship, rather than being your Achilles heel.

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50 Flirty Text Messages that Are Sure to Make Her Smile

http://createspace.com/3734911The age of text message flirting is here and thriving. Are you armed with the perfect lines to woo that special lady in your life?

Whoever you are, whatever your age or whatever your outlook in life, there are few of us who don’t enjoy a little flirt from time to time. It could be with a female colleague, a girlfriend, a potential girlfriend or a long time partner, but a harmless flirt is always appreciated, emphasis on the ‘harmless’ part of that sentence, guys.

Flirting serves to make people feel good about themselves, and boosts their confidence. It is also the most common and effective first step in letting someone know that you like them in a way that is, well, just a little bit more than a friend.

Different types of flirting

There are many different types of flirting. There is the fun flirt, the cheeky flirt, the cute flirt, the cheesy flirt, the romantic flirt, the mildly sexual flirt, the strongly sexual flirt *careful with this one, guys, unless you want to be served with a restraining order rather than a smile*, and a few other goofy variations in between.

Of course, where flirting was once the sole property of the spoken word, it has become increasingly popular to let the mobile text message do the talking, with texting seemingly becoming the flirting medium of choice.

Flirty text messages to brighten up her day

The following list of flirty text messages then, provides a quick and easy option to put a big smile on the face of the lady you’re trying to impress. Some are timeless classics, others are fresh out of the think-tank. Just ensure that you’re making an appropriate choice before sending, with regards to both the circumstances and the person they apply to – not everyone responds well to the same type of flirt!

#1 I wish I was your mirror, so that I could look at you every morning.

#2 You’re so hot, I get a tan every time I look at you.

#3 You were amazing last night. Imagine what it would be like if it wasn’t just in my dreams?

#4 Sweet dreams… I hope I’m in them.

#5 I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… Do you want to make it more?

#6 Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk past you again?

#7 You’re already on my mind, and I’ve only just woken up.

#8 Do you have a to-do list? If so, put me on it.

#9 Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

#10 I’m a bit like a Rubik’s cube. The more you play with me, the harder I get.

#11 I understand you don’t want any more children, but is there any chance we can at least practice tonight?

#12 The best thing about a keyboard is that U and I are together.

#13 Don’t tire yourself out at work. You’ll need some energy for later.

#14 I’m trying my best to fall asleep, but I just can’t stop thinking about you.

#15 At night time I sleep dreaming of you, and in the day time I dream of sleeping with you.

#16 You looked so beautiful the last time I saw you, that I forgot my pickup line.

#17 Do your feet hurt? Because you’ve been wandering around my thoughts all day.

#18 You looked great today. I know I didn’t see you, but I know you look great every day.

#19 Send me a picture so I can send Santa my wish list.

#20 If Van Gogh had you as a subject, the sunflowers would have gone in the trash.

#21 Here’s to hoping your day consists of green traffic lights, the fastest line at the supermarket and all the quickest routes that will bring you straight back into my arms.

#22 On a beautiful day like this, the only thing that could improve it is having you by my side.

#23 A hundred miles away and you’re still here right in my heart.

#24 You’re like a .com domain name – already taken. And I ain’t about to settle for no .org.

#25 Don’t listen to your friends, listen to your heart.

#26 I was thinking of you today, while I was doing some math problems, but there weren’t enough spaces on the calculator to work out how much I love you.

#27 The next time you see your parents, send them my sincerest gratitude.

#28 In my opinion, God’s only mistake when he made the world was that he didn’t keep you to himself.

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#29 Love is blind, but the police aren’t. Let’s book a room.

#30 I want triplets, you want twins, let’s go to bed, and see who wins.

#31 Every time you enter the room, you enter my heart.

#32 I’ve just bought some chocolate spread… Any ideas what we should do with it?

#33 This email is a group message being sent from our company to all 10/10 beauties in your area. Currently, you are the only recipient.

#34 You remind me of a private jet… I want to get inside you five times a day, and fly you to heaven and back.

#35 If Einstein was such a genius, how come he didn’t invent a time machine so he could come and see you?

#36 I’m lying in bed, bored. Want to play Simon says?

#37 Tired out. Been running around like a nutcase at work today. I’m too much of a perfectionist. I’m a perfectionist in most things I do. That’s why I like you so much.

#38 I’d like to say that I couldn’t be more in love with you, but I know that’s not true. I’ll love you even more tomorrow.

#39 Would you mind emptying your pockets – I believe you’ve stolen my heart.

#40 If kisses were raindrops, I’d send you a flood.

#41 Hey, you look a lot like my next girlfriend!

#42 Do you know any good cardiologists, because my heart skips a beat every time I think of you.

#43 I wish I was your teddy bear.

#44 I’ve just got out of the shower. How about coming over and helping me get dirty again?

#45 I don’t think about very many things, and I don’t think for very long, but when I do think, it invariably tends to be about you.

#46 Of all the stars in the sky, there are none as beautiful as you.

#47 Are you free… For the rest of your life?

#48 God created the world in six days, rested on the seventh, but it took him thousands of years to produce someone as perfect as you.

#49 I can’t raise the courage to tell you how much I adore you, so I guess I’ll just keep it to myself.

#50 Can you send me a picture? My friends don’t believe that angels exist.

Whatever the occasion, and especially if there isn’t one, put a smile on her face with a flirty text of choice from the list above. Who knows, it might just lead to other, more interesting things.

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How to Flirt with a Guy Over Text in 11 Sexy Steps

goo.gl/TaERykFlirting with a guy while texting him can be a lot of fun when you know the right way to do it.

There are a few right things to do, and there are a few things that are best avoided.

Depending on what you want from this guy, you can get him to fall in love with you or get sexually attracted to you by using these tips on flirt texting a guy.

How to flirt with a guy over text

To start off, one of the most important things you need to remember is to avoid appearing like you’re the only one doing all the flirting.

When a guy knows the girl likes him, he would usually take a back seat and take her for granted.

Always make it appear like he’s the one trying to woo you or seduce you, and you’ll see just how much fun flirting with a guy over text really can be.

12 tips to text flirt with a guy

The next time you pick your cell phone up to get flirty with a guy, keep these tips on how to flirt with a guy over text in mind and you’ll see how easy it can be to make a guy go crazy about you.

#1 Tell him you remembered him. When you tell a guy you remembered him, it’s a compliment and a huge boost in ego for him. He’ll instantly feel warmer towards you and spend quite a while thinking about you too. “I just remembered that thing you did today and wanted to say it was funny/silly/hilarious”, “I just saw your facebook status and…” etc. will make him try harder to please you and win your attention.

#2 Use a lot of smiley faces. Smiley faces are flirty and fun, especially when you use them in texts. Sometimes, all you need is a smiley face and a wink to say ‘hello’ to begin a conversation. Use smiley faces in your texts almost all the time, and you’ll bring a smile on his face too.

#3 Use his name while texting. Using his name while texting him makes the exchange of texts so much more personal and intimate. Every few texts, use his name especially when you’re saying something complimentary or cute. He’ll start liking you a lot more. And if you do have a pet name for him, make sure you use that often too.

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#4 Arouse him discreetly. Don’t text naughty with a guy directly. Always make him ask the questions. Text him about what you’re doing when he asks, but text something personal or intimate like “I’m trying my new clothes on”, “I just had a shower”, etc. Make him think dirty without really talking dirty. It’s the best way to arouse a guy and flirt with him without making it obvious that you’re initiating any flirty dirty texts.

#5 Keep it short. Don’t explain yourself for every statement you make. Keep it mysterious. It’ll make him create his own stories in his head. If he didn’t understand something you said or wants you to reconfirm what you meant, especially when you’re being flirty, change the topic or ask him another question.

When you leave him confused at times, he’ll try harder to keep the text conversation going just to look better in your eyes.  Make him work hard for your approval, and he’ll pursue you more.

#6 Don’t text flirt in an obvious manner. Don’t make it appear like you’re flirting with him. He’ll think you’re too easy to get and take it easy while you do all the hard work of flirting.

Always make him talk dirty by giving him opportunities to think dirty, but don’t initiate the flirting. It’ll make him fall harder for you. He’ll assume he’s getting lucky or being smooth while texting you when it’ll actually be you doing all the planning.

#7 Compliment him. Now and then, be sweet to him while texting him. Guys love attention and compliments from girls. When you compliment him about how nice he is or how much of a sweetheart he is, he’ll try harder to do something nice for you.

#8 Don’t try too hard and look desperate. Guys can see through that. Saying things like “there’s a new movie in town, wanna go?” will make him lose interest in the chase, especially when he knows you like him already. Don’t ask him out for dinner or the movies unless you’re sure he likes you already.

#9 Don’t ask him to meet you all the time. Don’t text him a line telling him to join you for coffee right away. He may come along just to be with you, but making last minute plans all the time would piss him off after a while. He has his own life, you know. You can’t treat him like a trailing dog unless you’re still in school and you guys have all the time in the world to spare. Indulge in flirting, but don’t ask him to meet you in the last minute unless he texts you mentioning he wants to join you.

#10 Don’t be clingy. If he isn’t responding to your text on time, leave it at that. Don’t even text something funny just to get him to respond back to you. If a guy’s not responding, it’s because he’s busy or not interested in the conversation. Get his point and stop trying to be pushy. If he likes you and wants to impress you, he would text you back in a flash unless he’s busy.

#11 Don’t drag the text conversation. Don’t let the conversation bore either of you. End it or think of something to say if the texts are losing direction or starting to get rather boring. Excuse yourself and tell him you’ll text him back later. If you want to flirt with a guy over text, you need to keep it interesting. Once it starts to get even a wee bit boring, end the conversation and tell him that you’ll text him back later. It’ll ensure that his interest in you won’t wear off soon.

Keep these 11 tips on how to flirt with a guy over text in mind the next time you want to text flirt with a guy. It’ll make him fall harder for you and make flirting with a guy a lot easier for you.

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8 Times Texting Is Actually Better Than Calling

When you lack a clear train of thought

 

When you travel

When you’re in transit, chatting on the phone can be irritating and insensitive to those around you. This is especially true for commuters in transit after a long day of work. If you’re en route to dinner from the office and are running five minutes behind, shoot a quick text to your dining companion instead of calling.

When you’re in danger

As the nation mourned the tragedy of the Orlando nightclub mass shooting that caused the deaths of 49 people in June, investigators uncovered that many people trapped in the horrifying hostage situation texted family and friends to call 911, as they felt doing so themselves would put them at further risk. Because location services are stronger and more accurate for voice calls placed to 911 than texts, it is better to call if possible; many emergency services plug the tagline, “Call if you can, text if you can’t.” Emergency texting services aren’t available all throughout the United States, so check to see if your town or city has this option.

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If you’re stuck in a public place but need to have a time-sensitive conversation in which private information is being discussed, you’re better off sending an eloquent text than trying to make a secretive, hushed phone call.

When you’re super busy

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Perhaps you need to have a conversation with someone but find your day jam-packed with one time-consuming activity after another. While a phone call is a separate task all on its own, a round of texts make it easy for you to coordinate with the sitter or figure out what time to pick up your kids without taking you away from your other responsibilities. For an inflexible schedule, texting is the way to go.


When trying to corral a large group of people to confer over a point or make plans to meet, the most efficient way to do so is creating a group text that allows everyone to communicate openly, instead of reaching out to each person separately.

When you want your business to engage

Many businesses have been turning to texting in recent years as a way to communicate more effectively with customers. According to textrequest.com, of the 8 trillion texts sent in 2014, 95 percent were read within three minutes. Additionally, consumers are more likely to engage with text messages than calls or emails, making them a smart way to call attention to your business.

When you’re shy

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For introverts or those who find themselves unnerved at the thought of expressing an important feeling or opinion in person or over the phone, texting serves as an easier option that may help you say what you need to say without bumbling over your words. These are hidden strengths of being an introvert.

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7 WAYS TO TAKE A STUNNING SEXY SELFIE!

So you want to take a sexy selfie. That’s great! It can also help increase your self-confidence. But the idea of snapping a sexy photo can be a little daunting, especially if you haven’t done it before.

Sexy beautiful woman in lingerieWe’ve curated the following pieces of advice to help you achieve success when aiming for that sexy selfie. There’s no reason to feel self-conscious when sending that photo or if you’re sexting your man.

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1. DRESS UP

You can absolutely take a sexy selfie when you’re wearing day clothes. In fact, if you give your man just a glimpse at your bra or underwear underneath, it can be super effective. Just pop a few buttons on that business attire or slide up your skirt! However, it can be hard to feel sexy enough to want to take a photo if you’re still wearing the same duds you wore at work.

You have tons of options to work with. Perhaps there’s a dress you own that hugs your curves in all the right way. Your favorite pushup bra can provide the perfect boost, too. Heels and boots flatter your legs, and they’re perfect if you or your man has a foot fetish. 

Footwear pairs perfectly with stockings, too. Who doesn’t love the seam running up the back of a woman’s legs?

Consider lingerie, too. But, if you’re of the mind that less is more, wrap yourself in a sheet or blanket to hint that you’re wearing underneath. It will definitely drive your man crazy!

You don’t need to spend a fortune on a wardrobe just to take a selfie. You might be surprised how sexy things in your wardrobe can be. A button down shirt that’s partly open or a longer t-shirt can both be incredibly flattering, and it will definitely turn him on if it’s his shirt you’re wearing!

Remember not to hide your body. And if you’re looking for inspiration on what to wear, then this article on dressing sexy will help a lot.

2. PUT YOUR BEST FACE FORWARD

Yes, this is all about makeup. Even if you don’t wear much – or any – on a daily basis, you might want to wear a little when taking selfies. That’s completely up to you, but we’ve got plenty of advice to help you perfect your makeup application.

  • Don’t be afraid to go bolder than you would normally for daily wear.
  • Highlight the bridge of your nose, cheekbones, center of your chin and forehead.
  • Apply bronzer along your hairline, under your jaw, right beneath your lower lip and under your cheekbones.
  • Avoid too-light makeup, which can make you look washed out when you use the flash on your camera.
  • Use clear mascara to tame your brows – and flyaways!
  • Pinch your cheeks for a rosy glow and you can avoid using blush entirely!
  • Avoid sparkly makeup on your face, which can reflect the flash from your camera.
  • Pick a brighter lipstick so your lips look fuller in your selfie.
  • Opt for a semi-matte or matte foundation or use powder over your foundation to prevent any shine from showing up in your pictures. Blotting paper can help to reduce shine, too.
  • If your hair or skin is looking too dry, a light water spritz can refresh it.
  • Bend over forward real quick to give your hair some volume if your blowout has fallen over the day. 

The right prop can really create the look and feel you’re going for whenever you take a selfie. It might be some sparkly earrings or a white scarf, but it brightens up your face. A pearl necklace will always be in style (if you’re looking for information on the other type of pearl necklace. Plus, holding on to a prop tends to relax your body and create a more natural pose.

This instructional video is a bit shocking, but it will teach you how to build sexual tension, keep your man thinking about you and how to have passionate sex by whispering some very simple “dirty” phrases in his ear. There are so many options when it comes to props. You can grab a teddy bear if you want to look cute in your selfie. Place a pillow to cover your nudity. A banana or lollipop might be cliche, but it can also be sexy as hell. Keep the curlers in your hair for a “getting ready” selfie. Perhaps grab an apron and spatula to show that you’re sexy no matter what you’re doing.

You don’t have to keep it PG, either. A flogger or paddle makes for a great photo prop, and they’re functional for impact play, too. Some leather cuffs or a vibrator can hint at what you’ve got in store for your man when the two of you are together and don’t just have to send selfies back and forth. It’s a great idea when you’re in a long-distance relationship.

4. FLATTER WITH ANGLES

There are so many ways to take a selfie that will boost your confidence and make your man drool! Angles are incredibly important. Not all photos have to be straight on. You can take it from the side, from above, from below or from behind. You could even take a photo from behind you as you look in a mirror. Capturing your reflection shows two angles!

Don’t be afraid of close-ups, either. The angle of your hip or swell of your butt while lace lays against your bare skin makes for a great shot, even if your face isn’t in the photo. That way, people won’t be able to identify you from your sexy selfie, either. Practice framing the body parts you love and try to capture the reason you love them before taking a selfie and sending it off to your man.


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5. PICK YOUR POSE

Now, one thing you don’t want to do is to pick a pose that’s difficult or seems forced. This will come through in your photo. You know exactly what we mean if your “photo smile” looks foreign to your natural smile, so don’t push yourself into any positions that are uncomfortable. That’s just not sexy! Hint: think of something funny as you press the shutter button.

The classic red carpet pose involves placing one hand on your hip, turn your body away from the camera and look back over your shoulder. This will be flattering for both your face and body! We’re also big fans of the pose where you lie on your stomach on the bed with your knees bent behind you. It’s sexy and fun while flattering your breasts!

If you prefer lying on your back, lean your heels against the wall to elongate your legs. Your hair can splay out around you, or you can bend your neck over the edge of a piece of furniture and smile at the camera in your upside down pose!

Posture also helps when you take a selfie. To improve posture, imagine you’re squeezing a lemon between your shoulder blades. This pulls your shoulders back while simultaneously pushing your chest out. For a more boudoir photo, arch your back seductively.

Bend your leg slightly to hide your tummy with your knee if you’re worried about it. You can also show off shoes or boots with a similar pose. Pull your knees to your chest to make footwear the focus of your photo.

Reach toward your shoulders to give your hands something to do when standing up in photos. You can also play with your hair.

Make eye contact with the camera. When your man sees the photo, it’ll be like you’re looking right at him! 

Remember that even the most gorgeous woman can look awkward or unattractive with the wrong pose. Think of those double-chin pictures. This unflattering image is a result of looking down toward your camera. Look straight on or above, which also allows you to show off you bosom.

Similarly, taking a photo from too high above you will make you look smaller and wider.

To highlight your jaw, push your face outward a bit. You can also tilt your chin down as you do this. Looking sideways or backward over your shoulder is a great way to flatter your face, especially when smiling! Look through some existing photos to see if there’s a specific angle you prefer, then use it to take a selfie!

Some of these poses can be difficult if you’re holding a camera or phone with one hand. Fortunately, modern cameras include a countdown mode, and a front-facing camera makes taking selfies incredibly easy!

Set your camera on a steady surface before taking a photo. If you use your phone to take a selfie, a case with kickstand can be useful. Finally, a tripod is useful when it comes to taking selfies, and you can even buy small tripods for use with your phone for under $10!

6. CHOOSE THE RIGHT LIGHTING

Professional photographers often bring a mobile light source with them, even when the sun is bright overhead. It’s a staple in the industry. While you probably don’t have thousands of dollars in photography equipment at your disposal – although you absolutely should use it to take a selfie if you do! – you can still make the best of the light you do have.

There are a number of ways you can play with light when taking a sexy selfie. Try taking your photo at different times of the day. Natural light is almost always flattering to the subject of a photo! Lean against a window or sit on the seat while the light washes in around you.

See how your photos look in different rooms, which will have different types of light and brightness. Move so that your light source is in front of you or behind you.

You can get extra creative and incorporate soft candlelight or even a string of decorative lights. Vary the type of light that brightens your selfies for more interesting images. Dimming the lights can also make you feel more comfortable when you’re on top. 

Finally, be wary of flash. It can be useful, even during daylight, but it can also be harsh and unflattering when it washes you out. Having enough ambient light so you don’t need to use the flash can combat this.

7. USE FILTERS – SPARINGLY

You don’t want to look like someone else in your photos, and some people forget this when learning how to take a sexy selfie. A filter that brightens up a cloudy day or makes colors pop more than your camera was able to capture when taking selfies is okay.

Your camera probably has an option to shoot in sepia or black and white, which can create a cool, artistic effect. Just don’t go overboard.

We all know you (probably) don’t look like Kim Kardashian. Your photos shouldn’t undergo extensive Photoshop. And you don’t need to flatten every wrinkle or blemish. After all, those imperfections are all part of you, and that’s why your man loves you!

Your sexy selfies can be something you take on the fly before you go out to the club because you know you look good, or they may be something you put a little planning and effort into. No one expects you to take professional-quality photos, but you can take a really stunning photo with the right outfit, props and tools.

Still, even with planning, you might find that you need to take a half dozen or more photos until you’re satisfied. Perhaps the reflection you see in the mirror just look better than what the camera snaps. This can be frustrating, but even professionals take many more photos than they decide to keep, so don’t let it get you down!

If you avoid the camera because you think you’re not photogenic, you’ve got a much lower chance of taking a photo that rocks. Similarly, you’ll miss out if you hide because of sexual anxiety.

When you follow this advice on how to take a sexy selfie, however, you’ll get better at taking selfies and may find yourself having to snap fewer photos to get that perfect shot! Discover 43 sexy messages to send with your photos that will make him drool!

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Does Chemistry Equal Relationship Compatibility?

Many couples appear outwardly like polar opposites, but their diversity seems to make their relationships work. For example Stephanie Adams met her husband, Charles, four years ago on Match.com. On paper, you couldn’t find a more disparate pair.
Stephanie describes Charles as a modest, quiet, country type from the Midwest; he’s a conservative, introverted, Christian, heterosexual, Anglo-featured white male doctor. She, on the other hand, is a New
Yorker who’s a flamboyant city type; she’s a radical, esoteric, black, bisexual, exotic-featured female author. Stephanie prefers hot weather; Charles likes it cold. He gets up early, while she gets up late. He loves to swim, and she likes to lie in the sun. He is a Cancer; his wife’s a Leo. “We’re literally the sun and the moon — direct opposites, but our existence blends together peacefully as we complement each other and help to build up our strengths as a family,” says Stephanie. “Even though we are quite different, our chemistry enabled us to realize right from the start that we were soul mates. We feel the same way today as we did on the first day we met — an instant and powerful bond.”

Three surefire chemistry signs
Chemistry is a very strong indicator of relationship success, according to relationship advice expert April Masini, author of Date Out of Your League. “Chemistry is like a strong drug that attracts people to each other, even when they don’t seem like they’d be a good match,” she says. So, what are the signs that you and another person have chemistry? Here are Masini’s top three picks:

1. A smoldering glance that’s actually conveying heat. Your partner gives you that look, and you just melt. When you and another person have chemistry, you can actually feel yourself heat up. In fact, flushing in someone’s presence is a sure sign of chemistry.

2. Feeling butterflies in your stomach. Saying that “you feel butterflies” around someone or that a person “gives you butterflies in your stomach” are a good way to tell if you have chemistry. We’ve all felt it at some point, if we’re lucky — a feeling that isn’t normal, and usually only happens when you’re in the presence of someone with whom you’ve got a strong attraction. It comes on suddenly, because that’s how attraction works. If you feel those telltale butterflies, you’ve got chemistry.

3. Feeling happy when you’re around that particular person. If you feel happy and your problems seem to fade away when you’re in someone’s presence, then you have chemistry. Anyone who makes you lose focus on everything else except the good feeling you have around that person is someone with whom you have chemistry. On the downside, this kind of chemistry can make you careless at work or procrastinate on things that you should be getting accomplished because all you want to do is be in this particular person’s presence.

Craig Malkin, a clinical psychologist at Harvard Medical School, says that we all need to redefine what we mean by saying we’ve got “chemistry” with another person. “You must have some basic physical attraction for there to be any chemistry at all,” Malkin explains. “But something else also happens with the way people respond to and complement one other, and the way they’ve learned to interact in their relationships. When two individual’s styles fit — i.e., when they create psychological synergy — that’s when you have chemistry.”

Still confused? Ask yourself these six questions…
Malkin says that asking yourself the following questions will help you figure out whether the two of you have chemistry… or not:

1. Do you feel attracted enough to the other person? If you don’t feel even a tiny spark for your date, then you’re probably missing a key ingredient of chemistry.

2. Are there moments where everything seems to click? Chemistry means that you should feel like you can be yourself and simply have fun when you’re together.

3. Do you feel like your differences help you appreciate each other more instead of creating distance between the two of you? You want the former to be true when you’re together, not the latter.

4. Does turning to each other for support feel easy and natural? You should be able to share important thoughts and feelings comfortably with each other and expect to be understood by this person.

5. Do you feel open to sharing new experiences with your date? You want to have that sense that even if you haven’t done something before, you’re more than willing to explore it now that the two of you are together.


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6. Do you feel like it’s relatively easy to get closer to this person? It’s important to feel as if you can relax into each other’s arms with a sense of mutual trust.

Dan Collins has had relationships where there was strong chemistry between himself and his partner, but he always walked away, because they weren’t really compatible. “There’s a lot more that’s important than whether or not you ‘click’ with someone,” says Collins. “What matters most to me is knowing that this person shares the same values, is of a similar mind, actually understands me, appreciates me — and ultimately, loves and cares about me. There may be things you’ll disagree about, but these are never the ‘big things’ — i.e., arguing about who takes out the trash — but not about how rude or angry or unfocused the other person is. Conflict about details is one thing; when it’s about substance, that’s completely different.”

Chemistry naturally ebbs and flows in healthy relationships, and that’s why a phrase like “working on your relationship” is often bandied about. “Young people who feel chemistry for the first, second, or even the third time think that chemistry will be enough to see them through anything,” says Masini. “That’s where those phrases from songs and poems come from: ‘Love will find a way;’ ‘All you need is love;’ ‘Love overcomes all obstacles’ — but in reality, that’s simply not true. You can love someone, but it doesn’t mean that person’s a good partner or that love is enough to make your relationship last. So when you do find someone you love and actually are compatible with, keeping that chemistry alive is important.”

How to keep the chemistry alive in your relationship
Want your sizzling chemistry to last? Here are Masini’s top three tips for maintaining chemistry in your relationship:

1. Make the relationship a priority — and by that, I mean the chemistry in the relationship.

2. Cultivate date nights, regular sex and affection, as well as an appreciation for your partner.

3. Don’t let yourself go once you’re partnered up. I see this way too often where women get men by looking hot, sexy and alluring — then they stop wearing makeup, putting on sexy heels and have a drawer full of granny panties stashed where Victoria’s Secret used to reign. No wonder your man is looking elsewhere! Make your best self — as in, the self you were when you got him — the norm.

Professional matchmaker and relationship expert Samantha Daniels says that most (if not all) of these chemistry signs are necessary for any relationship to survive:

1. You find the same things to be funny, and the same things annoy both of you.

2. You find things to talk about with each other, even when there’s nothing going on.

3. You know how to get each other out of a bad mood in ways that no one else can.

4. You have a secret language that only the two of you share and understand.

5. You can give each other looks that signify things which no one else would be able to relate to except your partner.

6. You still get butterflies when you see your partner, even though you see each other all the time.

7. You know what the other person’s thinking without either of you saying a word.

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Why Sexting Can Be Great for Relationships

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A new survey finds more than eight in 10 adults admit to sending or receiving a sexually explicit text message — commonly known as “sexting” — and many say the practice leads to increased sexual satisfaction, particularly when couples are involved.

“Most people have focused on the dangers of sexting and how it can harm a relationship,” said study lead author Emily Stasko, a doctoral candidate in the department of psychology at Drexel University in Philadelphia. “But context matters. Sexting is definitely something that many adults are doing, it’s not going away, and the findings indicate that it can actually be good for relationships and sexual satisfaction.”

The poll found that about three-quarters of those who sext do so with a committed partner. And roughly the same percentage sext while in the comfort of their home.

More than four in 10 of those polled said they had sexted while in a “casual relationship,” and nearly one-third copped to sending sexts either while on the job or elsewhere outside the home. Just 12 percent said they used this form of communication to cheat on someone.

Stasko was scheduled to present her team’s findings Saturday in Toronto at a meeting of the American Psychological Association. Findings presented at meetings are generally viewed as preliminary until they’ve been published in a peer-reviewed journal.

To get a snapshot of current sexting habits, the study team conducted a 20-minute online survey among 870 Americans. The participants were between the ages of 18 and 82, with a median age of 35, the researchers said.

All of the respondents were heterosexual. Nearly six in 10 were women, and more than 80 percent were white. While more than four in 10 said they were currently married, an equal number said they had never been married.


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Investigators found that nearly 88 percent said they had sent or received a sext at least once in their lives. And 82 percent said they had sexted in the last 12 months, the survey revealed.

Men were more likely to think of it as a “fun” and “carefree” experience, and more likely to view the behavior as an expected part of their relationship. Women, on the other hand, appeared to be slightly more likely to want to send texts than to receive them, the researchers said.

But greater sexting frequency was linked to greater sexual satisfaction among both men and women, particularly when sexters were in a relationship, the survey found. In fact, with the exception of those who said they were in a “very committed” relationship, couples who sexted more often were more likely to say they were satisfied with their relationship. For those in very committed relationships, sexting made no difference in sexual satisfaction, the study found.

By contrast, sexting had little effect on sexual satisfaction for people who weren’t in relationships. Twenty-six percent of the group described themselves as single, the survey found.

“Sexting is a behavior that people do for many different reasons,” said Stasko. “The motives can differ, and differ at different times for the same person,” she added.

“So I would say that not all sexting is equal,” Stasko pointed out. “It’s not all positive. For example, while 60 percent said they never sexted when they didn’t want to, that still means that 40 percent did. But at the same time, it’s not all negative. It’s a type of sexual communication, but it’s also more generally just another type of communication, period. And it’s one that might actually make it easier to talk about sex for those who might have a more difficult time of it face to face.”

Jeffrey Hall, an assistant professor in the department of communication studies at the University of Kansas in Lawrence, said the current findings are “part of a larger discussion that is recognizing that sexting is a likely outgrowth of sexual talk in the context of new and ongoing relationships.”

Hall said, “Assuming that no one is scandalized that relationship partners talk about sex, we should also not be scandalized that people in relationships are talking about sex on their mobile phones.”

And, he added, “as mobile devices continue the steady march toward achieving the status of fully domestic technologies — like the television and the home computer — it should come as no surprise that we treat them as a means to carry on relationship business as usual, including talking about sex.”

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How to Make a Girl Like You Over Text, The Adam Levine’s Way

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Lots of guys want to know how to make a girl like you over text. If you’re one of them, you’ve come to the right place. Getting a girl interested in you just by texting will be easy if you follow these tips on how to text girls:

The most important thing when texting girls
Whether you’re texting a girl you just met or texting a girl you’ve known a while, the most important piece of advice for texting girls is to have fun. Always keep your texts with women playful and lighthearted. Making a girl smile and light up when she sees your message is the key to how to make a girl like you over text.

How to make a girl smile over text
As for how to make a girl smile over text, here are some tips and examples of what to text girls that are sure to get the girl to like you.

  • Tease her. Don’t be afraid to poke fun at the girl you’re texting in a playful, good-natured way. Not only does teasing a girl make her laugh, it shows that you’re not a just a suck-up. Teasing alone can show that you have confidence with women and therefore will help build attraction with women.Here’s an example of a fun text to send to a girl that reflects that confident, playful teasing: “you’re a closet dork aren’t you…except without the closet ;)”.
  • Make fun of yourself. A surefire way to get a girl to smile over text is to make fun of yourself (in a tongue-in-cheek kind of way, not through self-deprecation). By making fun of yourself, you get her laughing and show that it’s okay for her to let her guard down. She’ll feel more comfortable with you, which will allow the woman to become more attracted to you.Example: If you’re agreeing with something the girls says, you could respond to her text with something like “Okey dokey little pokey (ya I’m a dork like that..lol)”.
  • Guess her answers. Another way to have fun and keep your texts to girls interesting is to guess her answers. This is a great way to spice up your texts to girls, separate yourself from other guys, and ultimately get the girl interested in you.For example, your text to a girl could read: “What r u up to this weekend? Let me guess…taking a speed knitting class so you can make me a scarf! You are sooo sweet :)”
  • Role play. The same banter techniques that work in meeting and attracting women also work great over text. Whether it’s pretending to be a husband and wife headed toward divorce, a rock star and his groupie – or anything else you can think of – bantering with girls through made-up role play is great. It provides a fun way to create a shared experience that will make the girl smile and get her feeling more connected to you.One example of how to banter with women through text is to pretend she’s a stalker and you’re her victim. Using this banter example you might text a girl something like: “Did I just catch you spying on me as I was changing into my gym clothes my little stalker?!”

Make her chase you
Women want a man who provides a challenge and are turned off by men who make things too easy. So when you’re texting a girl, get her chasing you by giving her a bit of a challenge. You can do that by following the two texting tips below:

  • Disqualify yourself. To look more confident with women and avoid coming across as needy, playfully disqualify yourself from her dating pool. That is, joke about how the two of you would never be right for each other. You could, for instance, text her something like: “Woah woah! You like {thing she likes}? I didn’t know you were that “type” of girl! I might have to get my mom’s permission just to kick it with you… lol :)”. By playfully pushing away like this, you create that space for the girl to chase you.
  • DO NOT OVERTEXT. This is a big one as too much texting can destroy attraction with women. As a general rule, whoever is putting the most effort into the communication is the one doing the chasing. So if you want to have any shot of getting a girl to chase you, then you must not over-text. Instead, look to keep the text ratio close to 1:1 and text the girl about as frequently as she texts you.

Make a girl feel special over text
Another trick for how to make a girl like you over text is to stroke her ego. Let her know that she’s made a positive impact on you and that she’s still on your mind. An example of this would be, “I just saw the cutest little squirrel in the park gathering nuts and it made me think of you :)” A text like that is going to make a girl feel special – and making a girl feel good like that is a surefire way to get the girl to like you.

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Starting a New Relationship? Your Checklist to A Happy Romance

You’re finally starting a new relationship, but what does that actually mean? Well, it’s a lot more work than you think it is, but completely worth it.

Starting a new relationship is exciting! You really don’t know this person, so you spend your time trying to figure out who they are and what their quirks are. What’s not to love about that? You’re basically exploring the uncovered territory.

But what many people don’t realize is how important the beginning of a new relationship is. Yes, you’re exploring, but this is also the time where you’re setting up your boundaries and standards for the relationship. You could say it’s the most important part of a relationship.

Your guide to starting a new relationship

My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Basically, it’s the beginning of the relationship. We’re still getting to know each other and finding out how to communicate. Sure, we argue, usually about stupid things, but how we fix these disagreements is where it matters.

For us, this is where we’re learning the most about each other. See what I’m trying to say? Starting a new relationship is more than getting ice cream and going on romantic picnics. Follow these tips and you’ll be gold.

#1 Be honest. If you can’t be honest right off the bat, then your relationship isn’t going to last. You need to be honest with this person right from the start of your relationship. This is usually the hardest part, but if you’re true to yourself, you’ll be true to the relationship. That’s what will keep you together through thick and thin. 

#2 Take it slow. When you really like someone, you really want to speed things up. It’s completely normal. But this is the mistake that we always make, and what happens is that the honeymoon phase fizzles out quickly. Instead, why not enjoy it?

This is the moment where you’re supposed to be going on exciting and fun dates, having sexy sleepovers, and truly getting to know each other. 

#3 No fights over text. Please, oh please, before you angrily text your partner, think about it. Are they really going to read this message the way you want them to? Of course not. You need to talk about any issue with them face-to-face. This time in the relationship is crucial for establishing communication. You need to create a standard.

#4 Leave your exes out of it. Listen, I’m super guilty of this. I don’t necessarily compare my exes to my current boyfriend, but I do tend to bring them up in conversations when I’m talking about funny situations from the past. I can’t help that they were there! But honestly, you need to keep them out of the conversation or else it looks like you haven’t moved on.


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#5 See your friends. I cannot express this enough. Even I made the mistake of spending too much time with my boyfriend and leaving my friends on the sideline. It’s easy to become wrapped up in a relationship and ignore the people who’ve been around you for years. You need to spend no more than half your time with your partner. You need time with your friends and family.

#6 Establish the boundaries. If you don’t do it now, you’ll have a hard time establishing them later on. Everyone has their own personal boundaries, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

But you need to express them and let the person know where the line is. These boundaries could be about anything such as who pays for what, PDA, personal time alone.

#7 Stay you. When we like someone, it’s easy for us to change our opinions to better suit our partner. We do this because we want to feel a connection with them, this isn’t the way. Instead, if you’re too much alike, it can get boring. Stay true to your opinions and feelings because you have them for a reason.

#8 Be open about sex. Maybe the sex for you would be better if your partner changed the way they went down on you, but they don’t know that because you’re not telling them. We like to pretend that sex isn’t that important when it comes to relationships, but it’s a huge factor. At the beginning of the relationship, be open about your sexual preferences and vice versa.

#9 Go easy with meeting the parents. I once brought a guy home to meet my family, and he was literally sweating through the entire dinner. Needless to say, he ghosted me a couple days later.

Listen, don’t rush to meet the parents. They’ll let you know when they’re ready, and it’s best if they meet your family when they express their desire to. If not, you may put them in an awkward situation. Of course, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t invite them to dinner, just instead, let them decide if they want to go or not.

#10 Get to know their friends. You can learn a lot about another person by seeing who they hang out with. When they introduce you to their friends, make sure that you take the time to get to know them. You’ll be able to see who your partner likes to spend their time with and why they choose the people they hang out with. 

#11 Talk about what the relationship is. You may really like them, but if they think this is just a hookup, well, you’re on different pages. You both need to know and talk to each other about where you’d like this relationship to go. That way, if your partner only wants something casual, you don’t invest emotionally in the relationship.

#12 Appreciate space. In the beginning, we want to spend all the time in the world with our partners, but space is equally important. When we spend too much time with someone, we start to feel suffocated. This is when people tend to distance themselves. Instead of this happening, give each other some space for themselves as it’ll show them that you respect personal time.

#13 Don’t overthink. When starting a new relationship, we tend to overthink things and look above and beyond into the future. Stop doing that. The present is happening now and if you’re looking ahead, you’re missing what’s happening in front of you. Try to stay in the present, you’ll enjoy the relationship more than you would if you’re thinking about the future.

Starting a new relationship can be amazing as you’re learning about someone else. But, it’s also a lot of work. Follow these steps and you won’t have any problems.

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20 Things You Can Do With Your Mouth That Will Drive a Man Crazy

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1. Pay Attention to His Ears

…But no need to go crazy. The ear can pick up subtle sensations — and less is more, says Sándor Gardos, Ph.D., sexologist at mypleasure.com. Here’s what to do: Place your lips an inch away from his ear and release a slow sigh. Then, hen take his earlobe between your lips and gently tug. This will pull at, and indirectly stimulate, the nerve endings inside the ear. “These nerves are almost never stimulated, so you’ll really blow his mind when you do this,” says Gardos. So, yes: ears can be an erogenous zone!

2. Don’t Forget His Fingers

If you think kisses on the hand are only for men courting women in the 1940s, then you haven’t tried this one: Place the tip of your tongue on the webbed area at the base of his fingers, then slowly slide your way up the side. This move will give him goose bumps because this area is very sensitive — but, like the nerves of his inner ear, it rarely gets much attention, says Olivia St. Claire, author of 302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed. Then, to make him completely crazy, take the tip of his finger between your lips. “It’s suggestive of what I could be doing down below,” says Fran, 39. (Hello, foreplay!)

3. Kiss the Roof of His Mouth

So you figure you’ve explored every inch of his mouth with yours? Truth is, the one area that’s often ignored is the roof of his mouth, which is one of the most ticklish parts of the body, says Hess. So the next time you’re lip-to-lip, flick your tongue once or twice in an arc along this area (any more might send him into a fit of giggles). Katrina, 33, has found that this move works wonders on her husband. “When people kiss, they always go for the tongue,” she says. “But the first time I ran my tongue along the roof of my husband’s mouth, he was like, ‘Whoa!’ Now I know that if I ever want to get a rise out of him, that’s what I need to do.”

4. Tease Him

Gently graze your lips (keeping them as dry as possible) across his forehead, looping slowly over to his temple and then down to his mouth. This dry brushing, as Hess calls it, will have a completely different feel from the usual wet kiss. That’s because the face is covered with nearly invisible fuzz called vellum hairs. A slight, subtle touch will activate these hairs, inducing sublime shivers.

The sweetness of this kiss will also strengthen your emotional ties to each other, says Nataly, 31. “It’s tender but sexy, and it always makes my husband smile,” she says. Which means that a kiss like this says, “Let’s get it on” and “I love you.

5. Notice His Neck

Few kisses establish an I-want-you-now connection like ones on the neck. To take the passion level up a notch, gently pull his head back and to the side, which will expose an extra-sensitive tendon running from the ear to the shoulder, says St. Claire. Starting at the base of his ear, work your way down the ridge, randomly alternating between small nibbles and gentle kisses so he won’t know what’s coming next.

6. Try a New Sensitive Spot

The underside of your tongue will feel really good on his most sensitive spots – namely his nipples, an often ignored erogenous zone on men. Its silky texture will feel so sexy on his most sensitive spots – namely his nipples, an often ignored erogenous zone on men. “Although many men are embarrassed to say it – because it seems like something only women should like – they secretly crave to have you pay attention to this area,” says Gardos.

So flick the bottom part of your tongue from side to side across these sweet spots. Then, as he gets into it, throw his senses for a loop by switching to the rougher, upper side of your tongue, alternating back and forth. “Nerves tend to go numb when they receive the same type of stimulation for too long,” says Gardos. But when you switch from one type of texture to another, you’ll keep his senses on maximum alert – which will keep him begging for more.

7. Kiss His Thigh

Starting right above his knee, plant a light-as-a-feather kiss there, then work your way up, increasing the pressure of your lips on his skin the farther you go. That’s exactly what Lisa, 36, does to get her husband primed for super hot sex. “Women typically think men don’t like foreplay, but my husband loves this,” she says. “And sometimes I’ll prolong the agony by starting over again down at his other knee. He goes crazy with anticipation.”


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8. Play With Temperature

All you need is a cup of coffee or an iced drink for this trick. Take a sip, then press your hot (or cold) lips to his inner wrist, planting little kisses up the inside of his arm. “The veins are close to the surface in this area, which makes it especially receptive to touch,” says St. Claire. Plus, you’ll be stimulating both temperatures- and pressure-sensitive nerves, creating a whole new dimension of sensations, says William Cane, author of The Art of Kissing. Liza, 31, stoked her husband’s sex drive with an ice-cold kiss during a picnic one day. “It was really hot out, so I drank some ice water and then reached for his wrist,” she recalls. “He loved it, especially since I almost never use props during kissing. The creativity was sexy in itself.”

9. Kiss His Stomach

Between your man’s navel and his nether region lies a strip of hair known as the “treasure trail,” so named because of its sensitivity (not to mention the fact that it leads right where he’s dying for you to go). Want to show him just how prize-worthy this trail really is? Starting right below his navel, take some strands of hair between your lips and pull – just hard enough that he can feel it, but gently enough that he’s not jumping out of his skin. The pinpricks of slight pain you’ll create will send jolts of electricity throughout his lower abdominal region and even register below the belt.

“Light hair pulling indirectly activates nerves deep beneath the skin’s surface, which is something straight skin-to-skin contact can’t do,” explains Gardos. Plus, the downward direction you’re heading in will make your man’s imagination run wild with hot ‘n’ heavy possibilities.

10. Give a Hands-Free Massage

Straddle your husband as he lies on his stomach, and then press your mouth firmly into the nape of his neck. With your tongue flexed so it’s pointy, probe the grooves on each side of his vertebrae, slowly working your way down to his tailbone. “Essentially you’re giving him a shiatsu massage using your tongue instead of your fingers,” explains Hess. If massages usually lull him to sleep, don’t be surprised if this one has quite the opposite effect. When you use your lips instead of your hands, your message instantly goes from relaxing to racy.

11. Make Your Mouth Vibrate

Here’s one you might not have thought of: humming. At first, you might feel a little weird, but the payoff will be worth it. “Humming causes your mouth to vibrate in a way that feels similar to sex toys,” says Gardos. Plus, varying the pitch of your voice creates a range of sensations: Lower pitches create slower vibrations; higher pitches, faster ones.

12. Pay Attention to the Knees

“This area is one of the most underrated erogenous zones. “The knees are full of nerve endings; that’s why people are often ticklish there,” says St. Claire. The backs of the knees are especially sensitive since the nerves are close to the surface, she adds. For maximum sensual impact, swivel your tongue along the crease and then blow on the area. This puff of air will cause the moisture to evaporate, producing a thrilling hot-then-cold sensation. Plus, he’ll be able to actually feel you breathing, which will tune his body into yours and give your intimacy a surcharge.

13. Suck on the Bottom of His Lips

Take just his bottom lip between yours and suck on it gently, which will bring more blood to the surface of his skin, making this area even more sensitive, says Gardos. To get him in on the act, have him suck on your top lip while you’re working on his bottom one; then switch. “A lot of guys know only two kisses: the lip kiss and the French kiss,” says Cane. “This is something completely different, and since you can switch roles, it never gets monotonous.”

14. Tickle His Torso

Even though “they won’t readily admit it,” there are lots of places men would love if you lavish attention on, says Eric M. Garrison, an author, and clinical sexologist. He suggests flicking your tongue across known erogenous zones — like the underarm — plus not-so-expected locations, like his rib cage.

15. Introduce New Sensations

There’s more to your mouth than just a tongue. “You’ve got a tongue, lips, and teeth,” says Garrison. “All three provide a different feel.” In between licking and sucking sensitive zones like his nipples, try grazing them with your teeth for a little added excitement.

16. Start Talking

It doesn’t get any easier than this. While sighs and moans are sexy in their own right, whispering phrases, demands, or even just their name is such a turn-on. Bonus: Getting vocal about what you want him to do to you guarantees you’ll both enjoy each other even more.

17. Call Him Up

Sexting is fun and all, but nothing beats good old-fashioned phone sex when you’re far apart. Use this opportunity to describe your dirtiest fantasies to each other, and don’t forget the toys: Garrison suggests using one to mimic oral while you’re on the line.

18. Take It Back

“Have him lie on his stomach, then slowly trace a zig-zag up his spine, starting from the very bottom,” Dr. Kristie Overstreet, a California-based sexologist, and psychotherapist says. “The spine contains lots of nerve endings, so you’ll have him begging for more.”

19. Experiment With Other Parts of His Body

Did you know that there are even more sexy places you can touch your partner? And if all those places you touch him feel good, think about how much better he’ll feel when your mouth is on it. Just some places to consider: his elbows, his toes, his clavicle … you get the idea. Every guy is different and will have different specific turn-ons, so it’s worth trying new spots.

20. Ask What He’d Like – And Tell Him What You Want

Yes, questions can be sexy — but the answers can be even better. Ask him if there’s something he’d like for you to try, be it now or in the future. And make sure you tell him what you want to try — he’ll be more than happy to oblige.

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How to Talk Dirty to Your Man Over Text & Leave Him Hard and Horny

 
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Let’s not overthink things here, ladies, on how to talk dirty to your man over text. You’re going to trip here and there on your first couple of texts. I mean, sometimes it can feel a little weird sending texts, especially when you’re used to telling these intimate things to your man in front of him. But he’s not always going to be in front of you.

Sometimes you just want to remind him that he turns you on and that you want to turn him on. So, this is where the dirty text comes in. I mean, it’s about time you learned how to talk dirty to your man over text.

How to talk dirty to your man over text

We all want to be able to turn on our men. I mean it’s a huge vote of confidence when you’re able to turn your man on with a simple text message. But it’s not just about him reading some words on his phone. It’s about you. You sending him these words. And these words are intimate, but they’re coming from you which is what’s the true turn on.

But, naturally, it’s nerve-wracking to send your man dirty texts if you haven’t done it before. But listen, it’s going to be okay. Let’s get with technology, ladies. 

#1 Only do it if you want to. You may be thinking that your man would like you to talk dirty to him which is a high possibility but you don’t have to do it. If you’re not comfortable with it, then you can hold off until you feel like giving it a try. There’s no timeline where you need to start talking dirty to your man. Just go with what feels right to you.

#2 It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. That’s right. We get so focused on what we’re going to say, but it has everything to do with the tone. Now, I know this feature is based on how to dirty talk to your man over text, so you’re probably wondering how can you pass tone through words, but you can. See, “I think you look sexy,” and, “I think you look sexy, baby ;)” gives off a completely different tone. No?

#3 Know what you man likes. If you want to turn him on by dirty texting him, then you need to know what turns him on. Now, if you’ve been intimate with him already, then you know the little things that he likes already.

All you need to do is then bring those little quirks and touches onto paper… or should I say text. If you know what he likes then it won’t be so hard to figure out what to say. 

#4 Be in the mood. If you’re not in the mood to dirty talk to your man, then don’t do it. If you want to turn him on, then you’re going to have to give him the sensation that you want him to be turned on. If not, he’ll feel like it’s just a pity party for him and no one gets turned on by that. Don’t try to force something that isn’t feeling natural. Timing is important.

#5 The dirtiness is in your head. Now, if you want to be dirty, channel your dirty thoughts into a text message. You don’t need to say any four-letter vulgar words in order be dirty. You can say dirty sentences and phrases that you come up with. Talk about things that you want to do to and with them. You have the thoughts all in your head, you just need to pull them out. 

#6 Keep them short. You want to keep your texts short and to the point. If he’s aroused, then he’s not going to want to read a paragraph. He needs them to be short sentences that get right to the point. If there are too many sentences, he’ll get overwhelmed and won’t bother reading everything. Even though you may have great lines, he won’t see them.


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#7 Start ahead of time. When you’re texting him, you should get a head start. You don’t need to talk dirty to him 10 minutes before he comes home. No, no, no. You can start dirty talking with him the minute he leaves home from working, sending him naughty and spicy pictures and texts throughout the day. That way, he can’t wait to run home to you. 

#8 Use all the senses. You have six senses, so you better use them. If you want to get the blood pumping down south then you need to use everything you have available to you. When dirty texting, most people stick to sight and touch. Now, this isn’t bad, however, you’re not expanding on all their sexual senses. Talk about taste, sounds, and smell as well.

#9 Go easy with the profanity. You don’t need to swear every second word in order for him to understand that he should be turned on. For many people, it’s a huge turn off when it comes to dirty talking. You should be more descriptive than that. In addition, don’t use degrading words either, especially if you don’t know what he’s into.

#10 Let him reply. When you’re dirty talking to him via text, you should allow him the time to reply. Okay, you want to turn him on, but it’s a two-way street. He should also reply back to you, working to turn you on as well. That way, you can truly enjoy the experience and not feel like you’re the one who has to do everything. 

#11 Start soft. You don’t need to attack him with an overly sexual line when you’re trying to figure how to talk dirty to your man over text. Instead, start the conversation off softly and flirtatiously, checking his mood. Because it’s over text, you don’t know if he’s having a bad day or not. See how he’s reacting and then proceed with his reactions. Then start to amp up your dirty texts as he gets more into it. [

#12 Make the first move. You don’t need to wait for him to text you something flirtatious in order to dirty talk with him. Be the one who makes the first move. He’ll be pleasantly surprised to see you taking charge when it comes to sex. Plus, it gives you control over your sexual life. Think of it like you have more freedom in your sexual life.

#13 No one knows what they’re doing. At least the first time they dirty text. So, don’t feel weird when you start to dirty text. Just try it out first and you’ll catch the hang of it. If you’re nervous about trying it out, let him know that you’re not experienced in this so he’ll be able to help you out.

You now know how to talk dirty to your man over text, so start practicing. You may trip a couple times along the way, but you’ll get the hang of it.

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SEXT MORE, HAVE A BETTER SEX LIFE?

 https://www.createspace.com/3734911Communication is key in good relationships, so I suppose it makes some bit of sense that couples who sext together stay together. At least, that’s what science is now claiming. As per research presented over the weekend at the American Psychological Association convention in Toronto, sexting and better sex seem pretty closely correlated, as “those who sexted reported high levels of sexual and relationship satisfaction, especially among those who sexted with a committed partner.” Given the rising prevalence of the once taboo practice, this may become the new normal.

According to the survey, which included responses from 870 people between the ages of 18 and 82, a stunning 88 percent admitted to sending a sext at some point in their life. Seventy-four percent sexted a partner in a committed relationship, and 43 percent reported sexting during a casual relationship. Surprisingly, a much lower percentage — only 12 percent — said that they used sexting as a cheating mechanism.

According to Emily Stasko of Philadelphia’s Drexel University, “These findings show a robust relationship between sexting and sexual and relationship satisfaction.” And despite the stigma that has historically been associated with these racy text messages, experts insist that they do have a place in the modern-day relationship. After all, Stasko noted, “… if sexting were only dangerous, it wouldn’t be as popular.”

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Thanks in part to this latest study, researchers now say that sexting carries  “potential positive effects of open sexual communication with a partner.” As a result, it now seems possible that with a little more research to justify the practice, sexting may be used to increase intimacy or address communication problems.

Of course, this isn’t to say that sexting is all great all the time. As relationship expert Siggy Flicker told Today, “If you’re in a relationship and you’re saying, ‘I can’t wait to get home to you and have sex’ — it’s fine. When you’re not in a relationship it’s extremely inappropriate.” Similarly, if an individual is suddenly on the receiving end of unwanted advances, things can also get extremely uncomfortable extremely quickly. So what’s the best way to deal? Says Flicker, “Say ‘Hi, although this could be fun, this is not what I’m about. But I wish you health and happiness in your life.’

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12 WILD DIRTY TALK PHRASES 2 MAKE HIM HORNY!

Nobody likes having boring, quiet sex every single time you jump into bed with your man

Using these dirty talk phrases is a great way to turn your man on and to add a whole new dimension to your sex life. However before you rush out and start using these dirty phrases, there are a few things you should first know…

Most guys really enjoy it when a girl starts talking dirty to them. Only a small percentage of men don’t. So don’t worry if your man happens to be one of those guys who isn’t into it.

If you suddenly start talking really dirty to your man, then there is a good chance that he is going to get a little freaked out. It’s a much better idea to slowly introduce dirty talk that is not too extreme or ‘out there’. You’ll also find that it’s easiest and most natural to introduce dirty talk in the bedroom when you are both alone. But once you get comfortable talking dirty to your man, then definitely start using it outside of the bedroom. Using dirty talk in text messages is also really effective.

As I constantly say to girls learning how to talk dirty, you don’t have to be super sexual with the phrases and lines your use to turn him on. Sometimes the more subtle phrases are great for building sexual tension and to keep him thinking about you, instead of immediately turning him on.


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Below are twelve dirty talk phrases to use on your man. I have organized them into groups of three. Each group is slightly more sexual and ‘out there’ than the last.

 

NOT VERY SEXUAL DIRTY TALK PHRASES

“I feel so small when you wrap your arms around me.”

“Sometimes my legs get weak when you kiss me.”

“I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later… x” (great when sent as a text message/IM/email)

A LITTLE SEXUAL DIRTY TALK PHRASES

“I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long.”

“I love it when you wear tight clothes and I can see your ass.”

“Guess what color my panties are?”

VERY SEXUAL DIRTY TALK

“Just being with you makes me wet!”

“If we weren’t at this party and these people weren’t around, I would jump you right now!”

“I miss your cock.” (great when sent as a text message/IM/email)

SUPER SEXUAL DIRTY TALK

“I just want to be your little fuck doll…”

“I want to feel your cock in my mouth right now.”

“I love it when you fuck me like a slut.”

But don’t solely rely on saying a few dirty phrases to turn your man on. Instead, you should try to really understand why you should talk dirty to your man. Hint: it’s so that you can build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him attracted to you. If you want to learn more (including more dirty talking examples), then you will learn pretty much everything you need to know from “This Dirty Talking Guide”. Enjoy!

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How to Text Girls to Get Dates Over And Over Again – 7 Texting Weapons That Attract Girls

If you struggle texting girls… and are stuck trying to come up with what to text that one girl you’re thinking of, then this guide is for you.

You see, I’ve compiled 7 texting weapons that will give you an unfair advantage over all the other guys she’s texting.

Here’s why:

This guide shows you how to text girls to get dates over and over again. Once you use the 7 weapons in this arsenal, you will start getting better reactions from women. Your texts will ignite feelings of intense chemistry and attraction that get her thinking about you… craving you… and desperately waiting for your next message.

Even women who have been sending you “icy” one-word responses will suddenly be eager to spend time with you.

In particular, you can use these text weapons to:

  • Text your way out of the friend zone…
  • Jumpstart things with a girl who’s slipping away (without seeming too desperate or needy)…
  • Get a girl you met chasing after you, fighting for your attention, and working to win you over…

OK, let’s get started with the first weapon.

Texting Weapon #1: Avoid The 5 Toxic Texting Mistakes

The first thing you must do, before learning how to text girls in a way that creates attraction, is to stop sending texts that KILL the attraction.

That’s why you need to be aware of the very common 5 texting mistakes covered in the video below…

Which ones are you doing?

These are the kind of mistakes that take a girl from seeing you as a guy she might get romantic or physical with… to see you as just a friend.

Ever had a girl seem to lose interest, fizzle out, or go cold after a few texts? If you have, it’s because you probably made one of these 5 texting mistakes.

So let’s stop making them, OK?

Good, now let’s go some ways to get her interest back and focus her thoughts on YOU.

The most effective way to text your way out of the friend zone is to spark her emotions, which takes us to text weapon #2…

Texting Weapon #2: Trigger Her Emotions Over Text And Focus Her Attention On YOU

Here’s the KEY to how to text girls: Emotions = Attention

Getting a girl attracted enough to go out with you is proportional to the degree that you trigger EMOTIONS in her.

Failing to spark a girl’s emotions is why you might have stumbled in the past… and not knowing this is why most of the guys in an attractive girl’s contacts list don’t have what it takes (in her mind).

It’s because they just don’t evoke her emotions enough. They simply don’t know that giving her strong feelings over text is critical to getting a girl feeling that strong desire to see you in person.

In particular, lots of the emotions you make her feel should be of the “fun” variety… so now we head over to texting weapon #3…


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Texting Weapon #3: Make Your Text Conversations Pop With “FUN”

One of the ways you emotionally turn a girl on to meeting you is by injecting fun into a text conversation to trigger her emotions.

This is KEY.

Because as we’ve covered before if you fail to trigger her emotions, you fail in persuading her to meet up with you… among other things.

So here are 3 ways to flirt with a girl over text to push the “FUN” button.

Texting Weapon #4: Master the “Cocky” Compliment”

OK, ready for some “tactics”?

Here’s the deal… while it’s almost always better to SHOW than to tell a girl you like her, sometimes you have to express interest over text to avoid getting text-buddy friend zoned by the girl.

The problem with complimenting women is that guys often make themselves look “weak” by putting the girl on a pedestal. You see, they give off compliments in a way that gives their power away, and the girl instantly loses attraction.

However, there’s a trick around it.  Here’s the “cocky” compliment technique I use to give off a compliment without giving your power away… and while creating massive attraction.

Want more word-for-word texting examples? Then you’re going to like texting weapon #5…

Texting Weapon #5: Handle Logistics and Get Her Out (4 Texts That Ask Her Out Like a Pro)

Ever get stuck texting a girl unable to come up with a texting strategy to get her out? Wondering how to tell her to meet up with you in a confident, playful way that doesn’t make you look “weak”?

If this is you, don’t worry, Frankie’s got your back.

Here are 4 ways to ask a girl out over text

Remember, if you keep playing textual-grabass and getting into long text conversations with her, she will lose interest and start seeing you as a “text-buddy.”

So pick your favorite of these 4 smooth ways to ask her out text examples and get yourself a date today!

Texting Weapon #6: Deal With No-Responses Like a Confident Man (3 Hook Texts That Get Her to Text Back)

Ever had a girl ignored your texts? What am I saying… of course you have! We have all experienced a girl not texting back.

And sometimes… no matter how good you are… it will still happen. Because there are simply some elements that you don’t have control of.

What you DO have control of, however, is how you react to it… and whether or not you show the girl that you’re not fazed by her no-response.

You can either

A) Freak out and show her you are one of the typical weak, insecure guys she normally runs into every day or

B) Show her you’re different by pretending nothing ever happened and continue forward!

In particular, you can even send her specialized “hook” texts that make her extremely curious to text you back.

Texting Weapon #7: The Key Lock Sequence (3 Texts to Turn Her On and Get Her Out)

Imagine you had a chance to peek inside the phone of the type of guy who is massively successful with texting women.

What would you see?

You would see a large number of text conversations he’s had and is currently having with multiple women…

As you started to analyze more and more of them, would begin to see a PATTERN…

You would also notice the TEXTING STYLE he uses to create FUN in his text conversations… and the types of texts he sends to attract women and get them out on dates over and over again.

Then as you fiercely took notes, you’d realize you can create a FORMULA one could use to text girls.

Enter Rob Judge…

You see, Rob Judge has figured out the formula to getting a girl emotional and excited to spend time with you by using a few simple text messages.

From his large database of personal case studies of successful text conversation after text conversation, he has developed a system called the “Key Lock Sequence” that uses 3 types of texts to turn a girl on and get her out on a date with you.

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5 Ways to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over Text

Building *sexual tension* over text is a powerful way to maintain the attraction level you’ve built with a woman.

In fact, there are very specific texts you can send to inject sexual tension into a text conversation and rapidly increase the attraction.

Would you like to learn texting techniques that add a spark to text conversations that have gone cold?

If so, keep reading, because this article covers 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text. These are texting techniques that, when you use them, you will notice the woman give you responses that are more “full of energy”.

But now, you might be asking…

What is Sexual Tension?

Simple. Sexual tension is the CONTRAST between a state of ATTRACTION, and lack of ESCALATION.

For example: When you and a girl are looking into each other’s eyes feeling the attraction, yet without doing anything about it… you are creating tension.

You might be hinting at escalating, but not in an OVERT way. The result is that you TEASE the woman and she gets so excited that she nervously giggles and maybe even jumps you and kisses you.

Awesome.

Now keep in mind that there has to be some attraction between the two of you. If she doesn’t feel any attraction, pulling back to create tension simply does nothing.

But if she feels even a little bit of attraction though, you can use sexual tension to AMPLIFY it.

However, most guys can’t handle the tension. They can’t sit with it. They can’t handle lingering on the topic of sex without pouncing like a puppy on a bone.

So they go too fast and kill the tension…

But if you have the ability to create and maintain sexual tension… women will literally get ADDICTED to you.

They won’t be able to resist it.


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How do you maintain it? With OBSTACLES… ANTICIPATION… HUMOR… and specific ingredients that frustrate or delay the escalation… and as a result… rapidly INCREASES the attraction that exists.

Now let’s focus on the word “OBSTACLE” — because it gives us a clue to how to come up with texting techniques that increase sexual tension.

In essence…

Creating Obstacles to Escalation is the Basic “Trick” We Use to Build Sexual Tension

All you have to do is come up with language or texting techniques that present obstacles to the escalation, and you will IGNITE sexual tension.

Would you like some examples of how to create these obstacles? You got it.

Here are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.

5 Ways to Inject Sexual Tension Into Your Text Conversations

Here’s the first one…

1. Tease Her

When most people think of “teasing”, they think of “making fun of” the woman.

Not here.

Instead, think of teasing a girl as giving her a LITTLE BIT of what she wants… but then taking it away so that she wants MORE of it.

With texting, there are many ways to do this.

If she’s used to getting compliments from you, start giving her a compliment… but then add a twist by making it a compliment about yourself.

i.e. “I couldn’t help noticing you… staring at me”

If you’re texting naughty, don’t go too over right away, and instead, do what is called “teasing the escalation.”

Take my “Pancake Tease” Technique as an Example:

In the example above, I didn’t overtly talk about eating her out, I teased her by describing the same “eating out” behavior on a pancake. Of course, we both knew what was REALLY going on, but the fact that we can use the excuse of “oh we’re just talking about pancakes” creates massive tension.

If I went over and talked about eating her out (without teasing her first), she probably wouldn’t have enjoyed it as much as me lingering just a few inches from… the topic. It is this kind of teasing that drives women WILD.

The next method to create sexual tension over text is very similar to this one, so pay close attention.

2. Use Innuendos

Innuendos are words or phrases that can have double meanings.

The key with innuendos is that you use the concept of “Plausible Deniability”

This means that what you say is ambiguous enough that you can playfully “deny” that you’re coming on to her.

If she accuses you of being a perv,  simply turn it around and playfully accuse HER of having dirty thoughts.

How Plausible Deniability Creates Sexual Tension

You create plausible deniability by using ambiguous language that allows you to playfully deny the meaning or intent of what you’re saying.

Having plausible deniability creates opportunities for sexual tension because this ambiguous language can be used to create obstacles to escalation.

You see, when the words and phrases you text a girl get her aroused… yet you playfully deny that you mean it “in that way” …you create massive sexual tension.

This is exactly what was going on in the “pancake” example.

I used indirect, ambiguous language to…

A) Not go all the way and tease her (created an obstacle to escalation)

B) Bust through her anti-slut defense and gave her permission to get horny with the excuse of “he’s just talking about pancakes”

Some examples of innuendos you can use are

– that’s very big of you (big as in important)

– the test was so hard (very difficult)

– let’s go down (to a place)

– come down here (to this place)

– new direction (sounds like nude erection)

– getting wet (because it’s raining)

– I’m giving you a hard time (teasing you)

– eating out (going out to eat, not eating her out)

— ride it (ride the car)

As you can see, these phrases can be taken in more than one way (and so can this sentence ;))

Simply toss an innuendo as “bait” and see if the girl grabs on to it.

If she goes along with it… IT’S ON.

If you’re wondering what to text a girl before a date,  you’ll want to read through the next technique.

3. Build Anticipation Before the Date

Building anticipation before meeting up with a girl can work wonders when the date finally happens.

Let’s say you’re going to meet a girl for coffee in the afternoon. You can text her in the morning something like,

“Hmmm, I can’t wait until you buy me coffee today… the aroma in that cafe is so delicious and the creamy mochas are the best.”

Not only does this build anticipation, but it also stimulates her senses with descriptive words like aroma… creamy.. delicious… and it begins to get her excited.

This pre-arousal gets her intrigued and gets her wondering and anticipating the date she will have with you later that day.

Plus, you’re giving her a unique and fun personality that’s bound to make you stand out from all the other guys she’s meeting.

4. Push/Pull

The concept of push/pull is simple. A pull suggests to the woman that you like her while a push pushes her away

and suggests that you don’t like her.

When you alternate the two in a playful way, it results in flirting that creates massive sexual tension.

Remember how we talked about creating obstacles to escalation? That’s what the “push” does.

See, most guys “pull” the girl all the time giving her compliments and showing her how much they like her.

But if you can inject a few pushes here and there… you create tension.

And don’t forget: This will REALLY set you apart from every other boring and a predictable guy who is chasing her 24/7 trying to get with her.

And now finally, here’s the 5th way to create sexual tension with a girl over text

5. Blame the Escalation On Her

One of my favorite frames. Try this one out.

When you blame the escalation as something that SHE is doing… it makes it A LOT easier to ram through her objections because “it’s her fault” that she’s making you feel that way/ escalate on her.

Awesome.

Here are some things you can say.

– How did you know I have a weakness for brunettes from Southern Cali

You’re doing this on purpose… I’m on to your tricks little one

– Do you seduce every guy like this?

– Why are you doing this to me? You’re the worst. I hate you.

– Are you trying to hypnotize me with your eyes right now?

– Why are you making me think these thoughts about you?

– You know, it’s really not cool to be so cute and charming. Not fair.

You get the picture.

The lines above should give you an idea of how to blame her for the escalation.

They are also an example of a “pull.”

You can MULTIPLY the effect of this pull-escalation by also doing a “push” called the “Take Away.”

The “take away” is a form of teasing, which as you remember, means you don’t give her everything, and you “take it away”, AMPLIFYING the effect!

Alright, those are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.  (I probably gave you way more than 5… so you’re welcome  )

What did ya think?

If you want more free advanced texting-a-girl training, then you’ll want to get a copy of my Girl Doesn’t Text Back “Cheat Sheet.

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What is Foreplay? 17 Sexy Foreplay Moves to Get Anyone Hot & Horny

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So many people ask what is foreplay and wonder if it’s just a waste of time. But in truth, it’s an integral part of sex where all the fun actually happens!

If you remember the best sexual experience you had, foreplay was probably a big part of it. But what is foreplay really?

What is foreplay?

The touching, licking, sucking, caressing – it all is bundled up in one word: foreplay. Think of it like warming a car before driving it. I know, you really want to hit the gas pedal and go. But maybe it’s better to wait for the engine to warm up. You get what I mean?

17 ways to enjoy foreplay and leave anyone incredibly hot and horny

Foreplay is about sexually and mentally connecting with your partner. You don’t have to marry them, but the sex is the best when you have a connection under the sheets. Taking the time to feel your partner and heighten their senses is what makes the difference between sex and “oh my God, you have no idea what I did last night” sex. Aim for the latter.

Sex is more than just intercourse, and it really has to include foreplay. So, here are 17 foreplay tips that’ll almost always lead to mind-blowing sex after!

#1 Intercourse comes after. I know you want to get to the main event, but foreplay isn’t about vaginal intercourse. That’s coming a bit later. Foreplay is everything but that. Think of it like you’re prepping for intercourse. Your goal is to arouse your partner so that all they want is to have sex. They can’t handle the thought of not having sex with you. Boom. You can thank foreplay for that.

#2 Focus on your partner. This isn’t about you. You need to focus your attention away from your own body and focus it on your partner. If they’re focusing on you, well, then it’s a perfect blend. You’ll both be trying to arouse each other, and well, that can only lead to a positive outcome.

#3 Don’t rush the clock. When it comes to understanding what is foreplay, you need to remember that it isn’t a race. You’re going to have sex, don’t worry. But there’s no point rushing foreplay. Remember, you’re warming up a car. If you drive it too soon when the engine is still cold, it’s not going to run well. Take your time and enjoy the moment.

#4 Make out… high school style. Everyone loves making out, especially women. So, whether you’re a man or woman, take advantage of a good make-out session. It can take you a long way. Plus, women get more aroused while making out, so, it’s a win-win situation.

#5 Ask what turns them on. If you’re not sure if what you’re doing is working, just ask them. Ask them what turns them on. Trust me, they’re horny, so they’re going to tell you. All you need to do is listen. If you can do that, well, then you’ll be fine with following instructions.

#6 Use tongue. Don’t forget to use that beautiful tongue of yours. Use it while making out, during oral sex, while they’re kissing your body, while you’re caressing theirs. You can use your tongue at almost any moment, and if you pick a sensitive area *like the earlobes*, it’ll hit their nerve endings and make them even more aroused. 

#7 Talk dirty. Not everyone likes dirty talk, but most people like hearing a couple words here and there. You don’t have to be vulgar, but you can say things like, “that feels so good” or “I want you inside me.” See, they’re not too extreme, but it’ll definitely turn them on when they hear it being whispered in their ear.

#8 Foreplay it up in public. Foreplay doesn’t have to start in the bedroom. Get that going when you’re out in public. I’m not saying you have to give them oral sex in the middle of a grocery store. But you can do things like holding their hand, caressing their neck, and kissing them softly. Although you may not notice, your partner will slowly be getting aroused before you even get home.

#9 Slow it down. Slow it way down. Foreplay doesn’t have to be super aggressive, I mean it can be, but it’s fun to switch up the tempo. Have you seen the movie Ghost? The scene where they’re sculpting clay? Anyways, watch that scene. That’s foreplay, and they’re moving at an amazingly slow speed.

#10 Grind. You don’t necessarily have to stimulate yourself or them. You can grind against your partner, and that’ll work just as well. It’s also great if you have some music going on in the background. If you have some rhythm, sync your grind along with the song. It’s hot. You can try straddling them and grinding, that’s usually a great way to stimulate your partner.


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#11 Remove one of the five senses. As you already know, humans have five senses. However, when one sense is restricted, the other senses heighten. So, what you can do is blindfold your partner or tie up their hands, preventing them from using that sense. By restricting them and that sense, you arouse them and also open their other senses – a double whammy. 

#12 Massage. Your goal is not to put your partner to sleep, but rather, your goal is to get them horny. If you’re too massage-focused, you’ll turn into a day spa, and that’s not the goal here. Try to hit the areas that will turn your partner on. So, I’m talking about the mid-to-lower back, arms, shoulders, and inner thighs.

#13 Let your hands explore. You have two hands for a reason. You’re supposed to use them to touch and explore. So, this is no different. Get those hands moving, and use them to rub and caress your partner. You can simply use a single finger and run it down their body. The power is in your hands.

#14 Undress your partner. But do it nice and slow. Be sensual with it. You may not even think of it, but undressing someone can be highly arousing if you do it slowly and passionately. Feel their body with your fingers as you take off their shirt and pants. You’ll get them naked eventually, don’t worry, so just enjoy it.

#15 Oral sex. Oral sex is a pretty big component of foreplay. I mean, you don’t have to have oral sex, however, it usually leads to oral sex anyway. Don’t be shy to go down on your girl or give your man a blowjob. Tease them by almost reaching the point where they come and then pull back… they’ll go nuts.

#16 Mutual masturbation. I know you masturbate on your own, but why not do it with your partner? It’s a great way to arouse yourself and your partner while watching each other masturbate. Face each other and look at each other’s faces while touching yourselves.

#17 Bring in the toys. This is when you bring out the sex toys. I mean, you can bring them out during sex too, but this is a great opportunity to test things out and see what turns your partner on or off. Dildos, vibrators, strap-ons, handcuffs – there’s an endless supply of toys to play with.

So what is foreplay? Simply put, foreplay is your best friend in bed, so follow these tips and use them the next time you’re with your partner. If this doesn’t blow their minds, I don’t know what will.

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4 Tricks for Your Steamiest Sexts Yet Forget Snapchat, This is Real Life

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Your 4-point plan for getting him hot via smartphone

My best friend’s on-again, off-again boyfriend had just sent her one of those corny “Hey babe, what are you wearing?” messages. After getting her blessing to mess with him, I decided to beat this guy at his own game. So as a joke, with her by my side, I started sending her BF some sexy messages.

“I’m wearing pigtails and nothing else,” I replied on her behalf. “What are you going to do about it?”

We spent an hour playing what amounted to an X-rated Choose Your Own Adventure. “OK, so he’s pulling your hair while doing you doggie-style,” I’d read from her phone. “Do you think we should go with ‘Oh god, don’t stop’ or ‘I’m flipping you over for a spanking, cowboy'”? We might have been laughing, but actually, it was pretty hot. OK, it was really hot. Obviously, the guy thought so too. Later that night, he called my friend long-distance for the first time in months and engaged in some pretty intense verbal stimulation.

When I tell people I’m a sextpert, most assume I’m talking about naked selfies and Snapchat. But while sexting can involve a quick pic, it’s not a requirement (and it’s safer without one). Sure, men are visually stimulated creatures, but a recent study revealed that women are twice as likely to sext as men are. So if you want to sext and you want the sexting to be sexy, you’ll have to take charge. The trick is to send a clear signal that you want in on some virtual foreplay but to still make your message ambiguous enough that you can claim innocence of any dirty intentions. Here’s how.

Paint a Snapchat With Your Words
So you get the sense that he’s definitely down. Now what? I counsel against sending nudie pics. If it happened to Rihanna and Scarlett Johansson, it can happen to you! Plus, revenge porn is a big problem in this country, and you don’t want some disgruntled ex exposing your boudoir shots all over the World Wide Web. Once you’ve been dating for a while, a naked pic or two may be fine as a memento. But for new sexters, just the thought of sex with you should be enough to get a guy hot and bothered. If your crush is bugging you to send pics, try painting a picture with words instead.

Guy: You’re naked? PIXXX, please.
You: I would, but it might ruin my bid for the next mayoral campaign! Also, I just dropped my cell into this bubble bath I’m slipping into. Looks like I wasn’t supposed to get the screen wet …

(Note: Using the word wet in this context should be enough to get his mind racing. If it doesn’t, his imagination might be malfunctioning.)

2. Cut the Cutesy Emoji
There are enough crossed signals when you’re trying to convey emotions via text — why complicate it with a bunch of random icons? It’s hard for anyone to get hot for a winking panda and a couple of pink hearts. Best-case scenario: He thinks you’re doing an impression of Shoshanna from Girls. Worst? You remind him of his 6-year-old cousin. So cut the cutesy stuff, and keep this conversation adults-only. And if you find yourself overusing emoticons, follow my lead.

Guy: I give great back massages 😉
You: 🙂 😉 :-p
You: Sorry, just got a little overexcited by your semicolon.

3. Let Your Freak Fantasy Flag Fly
I find that the old trick to combat stage fright works doubly well for sexting. I just imagine the recipient in his underwear. And instead of the cute guy who asked for your number at the bar, you’re texting with Ryan Gosling in Drive. Or Mr. Darcy. Eric from True Blood. (Whatever gets you going.) The fun part of sexting is to be aggressive, not passive, so don’t worry about what a “nice guy” would think. Believe me, even the nicest guys appreciate some naughty. Need a reference point? Turn to an inside joke between the two of you, like how obsessed you are with Game of Thrones. Just play it confident and direct the convo. He’ll take the hint.

Guy: You look so hot naked.
You: I look even hotter when I’m wearing nothing but my white robes, surrounded by my pet dragons.
Guy: Is that from GOT? Will you marry me?
You: Dracarys!!

4. Figure Out Your Sext Goals
I once spent two hours at a late-night after-party coaching a TV actor as he tried to phone-seduce a woman he’d recently slept with. Their messages were getting pretty hot and heavy, but we were also hitting the 3 a.m. mark and their banter showed no signs of slowing down. Sure enough, come 4 a.m., this lady was under the mistaken impression that the guy wanted to meet up for a repeat performance at his apartment. By then, he was too tired to continue the hanky-panky IRL. Extracting himself from the situation wasn’t pleasant.

Her: I can be at your house in 20 minutes.
Him: Um, actually, I have to get up early tomorrow. Want to take a rain check for next weekend?
Her: I have to go out of town, it’s my Nana’s birthday.
Him: 🙁

The girl felt rejected and misled, and he never heard from her again. The lesson? Don’t dive into the digital dance of depravity without first deciding what you want the end result to be. Do you want to meet up that night for some nooky? Just looking for a sext buddy? It’s all good, but having a clear idea of what you want to get out of the experience makes it easier to set boundaries and avoid that awkward 4 a.m. rejection. Let’s try again.

Guy: Wow, you can really put your legs behind your head? When can I see this? U busy right now?
You: Actually, it’s going to take me a while to untangle. Tomorrow? I can show you all the tricks I learned that summer interning at Cirque du Soleil …

OK, you’re in control; you’ve set the scene. And if I’ve done my job right, your texting fingers have a busy night ahead.

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Turn Your Phone Into A Seduction Machine: 10 Rules of Seriously Hot Sexting

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There’s More to It Than Just Finding a Great Shot of your Boobs

If you’ve engaged in some naughty texting, you’re not alone. Earlier this month, the sex toy company Adam and Eve surveyed more than 1,000 adults and found that 32 percent of men and 38 percent of women sext. That’s a lot of X-rated content flying around the digital world!

Whether you want to experiment more with sexting or you’re a seasoned vet who wants to step up her game, we talked to several sex-perts to get their tips and tricks for giving—and getting—seriously hot sext.

First, the fun stuff—the “do”s of sexting:

1. Start Out Slow
“Building sexual tension can make the interaction and anticipation even hotter,” says sex and relationship expert Rachel Needle, Psy.D. She offers these opening lines as an example:

2. Be a Little Bit of a Tease

“You want them to have something to look forward to, so try to create some ambiguity and mystery,” says Needle. “They should have to use their imagination to fill in some blanks.” Some examples:

3. Then, Fire Up His Lust

Once you’ve got him worked up, Needle gives these examples for how you can really heat things up:

 4. Jog His Memory
“Tell him what got you totally turned on the last time you were together,” suggests Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. “Maybe it was the way he sensuously ran his hands through your hair. Or the way he swirled his tongue on your clitoris when he went down on you…”


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5. Leave Him Hanging—Just a Little

“Messages that beg to be responded to will keep the game escalating,” says Michele Lisenbury Christensen, the founder of HotLoveRevolution.com. Like this:

6. Give Plenty of Feedback

“Like what your partner is saying? Something stop you in your tracks? Tell them!” says Andy Duran of the Good Vibrations education department. “Your partner on the other end can’t see you and wants to know you’re into what they’re saying.” Positive reinforcement can be just the encouragement your sexting partner needs to keep it coming. (Pun intended!)

7. Do a Sext Strip Tease

Throughout the day, text your partner what you want to do to him—or, what you want him to do to you later that night, suggests Levine. “At times, include a suggestive photo. The anticipation of getting it on can be as exciting as doing the deed.”

8. Remember, a Picture’s Worth a Thousand Words
“Though some might go for full-on crotch shots when it comes to sexting pics, never underestimate the seductive power of a suggestive photo,” says Duran. “A shot of the underwear you’re planning on wearing for your date or of you wrapped in a towel after the shower can be enough to tempt and tease your mate.”

When it comes to “don’t”s, there really aren’t that many, but these two are pretty big ones:

 

9. Don’t Send Pictures That Include Your Face
Remember, you can send really hot photos that don’t include any identifying characteristics, says Levine. You don’t want to be one of those scary stories about leaked photos.

10. Don’t Sext Too Soon
“If you just met someone, you don’t want to turn it sexual too soon because then it becomes all about sex,” says Needle. “Give them something to look forward to—tame it down a bit if your relationship is new. You can talk naughty and flirty, but don’t get too dirty too soon.”

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How to Get a Guy’s Attention on Instagram Without Using Your Body

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It’s the Insta era. Somehow that means the answer to knowing how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram is to get naked. But listen, there are other ways.

Yes, yes, yes. I am fully aware of the frustration of Instagram “likes” and learning how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram can be freaking exhausting. It is just so crowded with girls just like you trying to do the same thing. Since I’m a blogger, and a Public Relations graduate, Instagram is sort of my thing. I’ve done so much research on how to get more likes, more followers, more engagement, etc. It is seriously exhausting.

Girls post a photo of their avocado toast with no filter, and they can post it whenever they want to post it, and they get 300 likes. Me? I filter my photo to match my Instagram theme, post it at the exact time that my followers are online based on my analytics, tag accounts in the photo, geotag the photo, use relevant hashtags, etc., etc., etc. You know what I get? Oh, I don’t know, 50 likes? It is so, so frustrating.

But you know what happened yesterday? My girls and I went to the beach and decided to feel liberated and take topless photos. Slow your roll, dudes, you can’t see a thing in the photos. *The photos were taken from behind*. But anyways, you know how many likes that photo got? Almost 200. HELLO. Welcome to the internet. I hope you enjoy your stay. You might need to do some yoga to destress from it, dang. 

Top tips for how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram

Anyways, I’m on a mission to help you and ME get the attention of our fellow Instagrammers, specifically the guys. So, let’s get to it, shall we?

#1 Take photos of your face. Studies show that photos with faces in them do exponentially better than photos that don’t have faces in them. It makes sense if you think about it. Our generation relates to other people, so seeing a face WORKS. And guys? They definitely want to see your face, because, girl, you’re cute!

#2 Use a saucy caption. Don’t just log into Pinterest and find a profound quote to put as your caption under your Instagram photo. If you want to know how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram you need to be saucy and flirty. Get his attention – maybe a saucy lyric or something? Get creative.

#3 Use a funny caption. This is the other option for a caption that will definitely get a guy’s attention on Instagram. Just be funny! Guys like to make girls laugh, but on the flip side, a guy will appreciate a funny gal, so BE FUNNY. 

#4 Follow them. Maybe it’s just the guys that I am friends with, but every single time a girl follows them on Instagram, they go “Oh, who’s this. I don’t know them. They just followed me.” I don’t think they really understand that Instagram isn’t Facebook. People will follow you that you don’t know.

Anyways, if you follow him on Instagram, he is going to notice you! Chances are, he doesn’t get a ton of cute girls following him on Instagram, so you’re going to stand out.

#5 Like a bunch of his photos. This is a ballsy move, but if you’re feeling brave enough, go for it! There is seriously no way that he ISN’T going to notice you when his feed is full of likes from you. This shows him that you are confident and bold, which is a quality that many men look for in a woman. Be bold ladies.


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#6 Like an OLD photo. Even more ballsy than the last one. Scroll down to the bottom of his feed, and like a photo. This is going to bring it up in his feed and this shows that you really scrolled to find this photo. Proceed with caution with this one because he might think it is funny. Also, he might just think you are crazy. So, like be careful with this one, but if you can pull it off then, GO GIRL!

#7 Occasionally comment on his photos. Don’t get crazy, but comment on some of his photos. While it might be uncommon for cute girls to follow him on Instagram, I guarantee it is even more uncommon for cute girls to comment on his photos. Also, don’t just comment something lame, comment something that he will have to respond to, even if his response is just “thanks!” If you want to know how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram, make sure you comment something that’s attention-grabbing! 

#8 Slide into his DM’s. Ha, classic. For real, ladies, it couldn’t hurt! We’re almost two decades into the 2000s, you no longer have to wait for the guy to come to you! Be bold, and message him first. Message him about a recent post, or just say hey. If you’re feeling really bold tell him that you think he’s cute, or cool, or whatever, man! This is a surefire way to get noticed because unless he is a celebrity, his DM’s probably aren’t full of messages from girls!

#9 Don’t post too often. If you post four selfies a day, he’s not going to be interested. I’ll just be honest. Guys like a humble girl, and if you are posting that many selfies, he is going to get tired of seeing them. If you don’t post as often, he will be excited when you DO post.

Also, if you post less often, it gives the appearance that you live a busy life and you just couldn’t be bothered to post on Instagram. Make him pay attention to you by posting less often. Works every time!

#10 Post cute Instagram stories. Instagram has changed their algorithm recently, so your actual posts are seen by your followers a lot less than they used to be. Instagram stories have taken over Instagram because they still are seen in chronological order, and this means that if you post on your story, chances are he WILL see your post. Take a cute boomerang of your outfit or a kissy face. Just be cute. 

#11 Take pictures of your pet. Believe it or not, I think guys like cats and dogs more than girls do. They DIE over cute cats and dogs. So if you post a photo with or of your pet, he is likely to notice it and might even comment or like it! Yes, use your pet to get a date. Whatevs.

Now that you know how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram, you can go out there and get yourself a date, girlfriend. GO, GO, GO.

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How to Send Sexy Nude Selfies and Not Get Into Trouble

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With hackers, unsecure servers, and downright prying eyes, sending nude photos involves a lot of risks. Here’s what you can do to minimize them!

Are you thinking about sending your boyfriend a frisky little photo on his phone? Are you sure you want to do that? Sending nude photos to your partner can spice up your relationship, but it does have its drawbacks.

Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, Pamela Anderson – any of those names ring a bell? Along with dozens of other celebrities, these women ended up having their private moments distributed all over the globe without their consent. Before you start planning on putting your own photos out into the web stream, you need to consider a few things first.

Why do people send nude photos to each other?

A relationship encompasses a number of things and one of these includes a couple’s ability to keep things interesting. There are many ways in which two people can express their love for one another, but technological advances have allowed us to make things a bit more interactive.

Communicating in a relationship is not isolated to sending sweet nothings through emails, texts and phone calls. A couple can also choose to send each other sexier messages, and some of those are in the form of nude photos or selfies.

A lot of people find it hard to do this, because they’re afraid that their photos might land in the wrong hands. For those who are brave enough to try it, they do so for a number of reasons:

#1 Keeping things interesting. When two people have exhausted all their efforts in trying to surprise their partner, they will try new things that are a bit riskier, just for the thrill and excitement. 

#2 Long distance relationships. When two people in a relationship live far away from each other, they need to find ways in order to keep the sexual part of their relationship alive. Sending nude photos can state the need for intimacy when there is no other choice. Some will even engage in those activities while calling each other using their webcams.

#3 Seduction. Even if a couple does not need to spice things up in their relationship, they can still decide to send nude photos to each other, just to leave their partner hot and bothered. 

#4 Insecurity. One of the motivations for sending nude photos is a person’s need for validation. Some will send their partners nude photos, just to gain a positive reaction to make themselves feel good.

#5 Memories. Why were photos invented? To treasure your memories, of course. The same goes for nude photos. A person can choose to send it or ask for it, just to keep something sexy to remember a person by.

If any of these reasons apply to you, then it is okay to send a nude photo to a person you care about. But you have to be careful. Giving your sweetheart a sexy photo seems sweet, but you are risking your privacy in the process.

What are the risks when sending nude photos?

No matter how secure you feel about the programs you use to send a photo, it does not mean that it is a fool-proof system. Here are some examples of how your private photos can be compromised:

#1 When the program you are using experiences a malfunction, and the files get leaked.

#2 If someone is good enough with computers, they may be able to infiltrate your storage system if they want to.

#3 When someone else knows your password, they can easily get into your gadgets and transfer the photos.

#4 When you accidentally send the photo to someone else.

#5 When you accidentally post the photo on a public platform.

How can you keep your photos safe from prying eyes?

You can’t forego the advantage of technology, just because you are scared of the risks involved. You can still send your partner private photos, but you have to be careful about it. Here’s how:

#1 Know your phone and computer. You need to know the ins and outs of your own gadget, so you will be able to control the storage of your files. Make sure that your files are not automatically uploaded online without you knowing.

#2 Delete everything immediately. Some people forget to do this, thinking that no one will look at their gadgets anyway. Stop thinking like that. Anything can happen, and that includes someone being able to access your gadgets without you knowing.

#3 Double check if you have deleted everything. Check your online storage accounts and your phone’s backup memory storage as well.

#4 Do not take a picture of your face. If worse comes to worst, you can deny that you are the person in a nude photo, if your face can’t be seen. No matter how similar your body type is, as long as no one else has seen your naked body before, they cannot confirm if you are the owner of said photo. That is, unless you have a unique birthmark or tattoo that’s visible in the photo.

#5 Take the photo against a blank wall. A lot of people can be identified because of the backgrounds of their nude photos. Your friend might recognize your wallpaper and any other object included in the photo. This includes sheets, pillows, toys, etc. Those of you who watch “How to Get Away with Murder” will know this!


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#6 Take a photo of your face in front of a different background. To avoid photo comparisons, do not take a photo of your face against the same background you used to take a nude photo.

#7 Avoid taking photos of parts of your body that are recognizable. Someone who knows you can identify your nude photo if they recognize the marks on your body. It can be a mole, a tattoo or even a scar.

#8 Video call instead. This is your safest best. The usual programs don’t usually record video calls. No one can distribute your photos if the photo does not exist.

#9 Do it the old-fashioned way. Use a Polaroid camera. Enjoy the photo while it is in your possession, and then store it in a safe or vault. It seems extreme, but your body is precious. It deserves the utmost security, and should only be seen by other people when you allow it.

#10 Make sure you trust the person you are sending it to. Although it sounds exciting to send nude photos to someone you like, you need to be sure that you trust this person. If you are not emotionally invested in each other, you cannot predict what will happen to your picture once you send it. 

Aside from that, a break-up can cause a person to act out and expose the photo to other people. That is why you need to explicitly trust the person you are sending a nude photo to.

If you think that sending nude photos is a stupid and deplorable thing, think again. It is simply a new way for people to connect with each other on an intimate basis. You should not judge anyone who gets caught doing it. Instead, you should do them the courtesy of not looking at those photos at all. If you were in their place, wouldn’t you want others to do the same for you?

Keep in mind that sending nude photos is a concept not a lot of people understand yet. Most people will judge you for being so callous about your privacy, but always remember that you own your body and you have the right to do anything you want with it.

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TEXTING TIPS FOR GUYS: 3 DIRTY TEXTS YOU SHOULD SEND A GIRL IF YOU WANT TO MAKE HER HORNY

goo.gl/Ewi3mHWouldn’t it be cool if you could get a girl turned on so much within 20 minutes that she was basically pleading with you to let her come over so you could satisfy her?

Not only that, but you’re doing all this just by relaxing at home… chillin in your sweats AND you even have multiple girls on the go at the same time, all texting you…

…naked pics… things they want you to do to them.

Well let me tell you, this is totally possible when you know what to text a girl and I’ve got a bunch of sexting tips for guys that will make you a superstar texter within just 1 day.

Sound good?

Awesome, let’s begin.

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WHY DIRTY TEXTING IS SO EFFECTIVE

Here’s why I think dirty text messages are so freakin cool and appeal to the lazier man:

  • Women get turned on by words – Women are serial fantasists, which mean that get massively aroused by words and imagining sexual scenarios. This can give you tremendous power.
  • It’s private – Your phone is private to you, so noone is going to read those texts unless you want them to. This allows her to be very sexual and naughty without her friends finding out and calling her a slut.
  • Low pressure – There aren’t any cockblocks, social pressures or uncomfortable silences which means that she will be open to say things much faster than she would in person, without the same thought process of a high pressure situation.
  • You set the tone and pace – It’s up to you how fast or slow you want to build things up sexually with a text and no matter how long you leave it before you reply, you will always start from that point. Meaning you won’t have to start the whole sexual build up all over again.

So now you know why a dirty text can be effective, let’s move onto the actual dirty texts to send girls to get them all hot and bothered.


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3 DIRTY TEXTS EXAMPLES THAT WILL GET HER TURNED ON FAST

I’ve put these examples into 3 types. From mild to aggressive, all of them work so it’s up to you to try them out and see which works best for you. You can also mix them up with different girls based on how sexual they are too.

NAUGHTY BUT NICE (FLIRTY BANTER, ALWAYS A SEXUAL UNDERTONE)

  • Her: Hey you, how’s your day going? x
  • You: Well hello my cheeky little fuzzy chicken… a little boring if I’m honest. Need some excitement today x
  • Her: What kind of excitement? 🙂
  • You: Dunno, like a submissive maid who’s does everything I ask… x
  • Her: Shall I get the outfit out of my closet for you? x
  • You: Yes… and make sure you pick up my dry cleaning on the way… otherwise daddy will be angry.
  • Her: Is it bad that I like it when daddy is angry? x
  • You: Yes. And for that I’m going to have to put you over my knee you naughty girl.

Blah blah, you get the picture. She basically loves the tease, because it’s naughty… you’re leading the texts and she’s being submissive.

THE HUNTER (NO FLUFF, JUST STRAIGHT TO THE POINT)

  • You: So it’s Thursday evening… work almost done and I’ve got an overwhelming erection, what is a man to do? x
  • Her: Get some ice 😉 x
  • You: Now now missy, that’s naughty. You weren’t given lips like that for nothing… get the high heels, some red lipstick and get to my place sharpish
  • Her: And if I don’t? x
  • You: I will find you… kidnap you… blind fold you, tie you to my bed and have my way with you… even when you can’t take it anymore.
  • Her: See you at 10… x

THE FANTASIST (BUILDING UP A SEXUAL STORY IN HER MIND THAT WILL KEEP HER HORNY ALL DAY LONG)

  • You: Just been to see Batman… What a badass x
  • Her: Oh yeah? x
  • You: Yep, that deep voice, crazy ninja moves and rock hard six pack… ooooo
  • Her: You got the hots for Batman? x
  • You: Are you telling me that if Batman grabbed you, took you back to his lair, whispered dirty words in that deep gravely voice and dominated you… you wouldn’t like it? x
  • Her: Mmmm… ok I’m in x
  • You: Damn. it’s 11pm, where the hell can I get a bat suit at this hour…
  • Her: Forget the bat suit, just bring the gravely voice! x
  • You: On my way miss…

3 SIMPLE SEXTING TIPS FOR GUYS

Here are some helpful sexting tips that will keep you on track and not feel like you’re stuck after the first bump.

DON’T JUMP THE GUN

Let’s get something straight here, women like guys who are sure of themselves and their actions. So you need to be that guy when texting, however this doesn’t mean that you want to be too brash with your words.

For example, you don’t want to say something like:

“Nice meeting you yesterday, can’t wait to f**k your brains out this week”

This isn’t going to work on any girl, there’s no sizzle or flirting, it’s just too direct and she will think that you think she’s a slut. Game over.

A better example would be:

“Nice meeting you last night… can’t stop thinking about that sexy little bum… Not getting any work done today, you’re a bad influence young lady! x”

IF YOU OFFEND HER, JUST MOVE ON

There will be a point during your dirty texting session that you may offend her, this is totally fine as you need to see where the line is with each girl. But what you don’t want to do is apologise like a needy little bitch.

You need to give an underhanded apology, like this…

Her: “Erm… ok that was a little rude”
You: “Ooo I didn’t hurt your feelings did I? Ok you get one spank and that’s it… ok two, but that’s my final offer.”

SET A SEXUAL FRAME EARLY ON

Most guys are too afraid to turn on the sexual vibe with text messages in case they screw it up. My advice is, don’t worry about screwing it up… if you did a decent job when you met her, then a text message won’t ruin the attraction unless you’re a total tard.

Switch on the naughty stuff and keep dialing it up from the very first text.

Always try and turn things into a sexual innuendo, it’s much more exciting than a boring “how’s your day going” text.

That’s it, fellas… a rundown of simple sexting tips for guys. Do you have any examples you want to share? Leave them in the comments below dude. But Wait! Still, want naughty texting ideas? CLICK HERE NOW 

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19 Sexy Text Messages To Keep The Spark Alive

 
Keep the spark alive with some naughty texts.

Keeping the spark alive is one of the main goals for most couples. When the initial excitement of a new relationship dies down, it can be difficult trying to rekindle it. Before actually giving you these 19 sexy text messages, I first want to give you a few different techniques and tactics to show you how to keep that spark burning for as long as possible. One of these techniques is using sexy text messages.

Sexy text messages are very self-explanatory. In fact, you could probably think up of 3 different sexy text messages to send your man right now without much effort. While actually coming up with sexy text messages to send to your man is easy, how you use them requires a bit more thought and finesse. So before giving you the 19 different sexy text messages to send your man, I need to explain a few crucial things.

1. Some Days, Not Every day: Part of the initial spark with your partner is the freshness and unpredictability that you get to experience at the start of your relationship as you find out about each other. This is something that you absolutely must keep in mind when using sexy text messages. If you send your man a message every day, then it’s going to lose it’s power to turn him on and arouse him pretty fast. A much better strategy is to send your man sexy text messages sparingly, only about 1 or 2 per week and at completely different times. This way each message he receives will be a real surprise.

2. Nasty And Nice: Just like in my previous point about varying when you send your man a sexy text message, you also need to vary the content of your message. Some texts you send your man should be very explicit and detail how you are feeling or what you are going to do to him later, while others should be much tamer and less suggestive. By varying, when you send your messages and their content, you’re man will never know what to expect, perfect for keeping the spark alive in your relationship. Now for some sexy text message examples (notice how some are tame, while others are really wild).


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  1. “Just saw something really hot that made me think of you.”
  2. “What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?”
  3. “Would you be mad if I made out with a girl?”
  4. “I don’t know why, but all I want right now is sex.”
  5. “I dreamt that I was your sex slave last night, it was hot — very hot”
  6. “What would you say if I suggested some sex in public?”
  7. “When you get home, let’s watch some porn, seriously.”
  8. “If you can guess what color my panties are, then I’ll give you a blowjob when you get home.”
  9. “I loved sleeping with you last night.”
  10. “I don’t know if this is normal, but my legs get weak when you kiss me.”
  11. “I wish you were here right now. I’m

    toodamhorny!”

  12. “I’m going to wear the shortest skirt I have tonight”
  13. “What’s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?”
  14. “If you could only have regular, anal or oral sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose?”
  15. “I really miss you. I wish we were together right now.”
  16. “I just had the dirtiest thought about you ever. Too dirty to text — wow, I’ll tell about it later.”
  17. “What would you say if I suggested we spent all day Saturday in bed?”
  18. “Can’t wait to kiss you later.”
  19. “The way you hold me is so hot.”

Notice how some of these messages are very dirty and explicit while others are quite tame? Perfect for keeping things interesting! 

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Naughty Text Messages to Send to a Guy

goo.gl/bwaqm8Nearly every woman is doing it today. Sending dirty text messages to a guy she likes. So rampant is the practice that it has come to be known as “sexting”. Gone are the days when you had to be afraid of talking dirty to guy for fear of getting negative reactions from him. The advent of mobile telephony has made sending dirty messages very easy.

But is it really healthy to engage in dirty talk through texts? The answer is a definite YES, since this is an art of letting out your inner sexual emotions without having to worry about getting misjudged. The good thing with dirty texting is that you can actually tell whether the guy is interested in the responses he is giving. It, therefore, makes it easy to know whether you are doing a good job with the dirty texts and when to quit.

If you don’t know what to say, here are dirty text messages to send to a guy…

· In the morning, when I think about your hard manhood slipping into me, I can’t help but get really horny and wet.

· I wish I could get your tongue and chain it around my hips so that I would get those little tickles you give to me on when I want to.

· If you were here I would set my legs apart and let you get between my legs.

· You don’t know how you make me feel when you give it to me from behind.

· I can never get enough of you.

· Do you have the slightest idea how much you turn me on? The smell of your body alone makes me tremble.

· I can’t stop thinking about last nights’ sex, the way you tasted not to mention the way you made me feel.


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· If you were here with me (mention what it is you would do with him if he was there with you. Don’t forget to keep dirty).

· When you get home tonight (explicitly let him know what you want him to do to your body).

· Hun, try not to think (mention something you know turns him sexually on).

· Can you guess the color of the underwear I am wearing?

· I am watching pornography.

· Guess what? I sent you that text while peeing.

· I am trying to sleep but the thought of your in between my legs won’t let it happen.

· I am under the cover of my blankets but this cold is too much, come to hold me tight.

· I had a naughty dream last night and you were right in it. Do you want to know what you were doing to me?

· I am lying in bed and very bored. Would you mind if we played a naughty game?

· What would you want me to do to you after we are done with the dinner date tomorrow?

· Can I get sex toys online?

· My hands would be very busy if you were next to me right now.

· I bought new underwear; I know you will love it. When do you want me to show it to you?

· I love your broad chest.

· I like the way you embrace with those powerful arms.

· Your six packs turn me on.

· Did I tell you that I find your eyes very sexy?

· There is something about your face that I find very sexy; is it that sexy pair of dimples or the sideburns?

“You see? Tell me which man won’t be fascinated by these dirty text messages?”

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She’s Losing Interest? 2 Slick Messaging Hacks Proven to Spike Her Attraction

Remember that girl who seemed so into you at first, but turned ice cold before you could even take her on a date?

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You know, the one from that dating site, who you swapped a few messages with, then never heard from again.

Maybe it was that girl who seemed so eager to punch her number into your phone, yet suddenly stopped responding to your texts…

Don’t worry—we’ve all been there. Every guy I know has suffered through the disappointment and frustration that comes from wondering, “What happened? Why won’t this girl even give me a chance?”

If you’ve ever wondered that, I have good news…and more good news. First, it wasn’t you—it was your messages. Almost everything she knew about you came via messaging, and so that’s all she really “rejected”—your messages.

Better yet, your messages probably sucked because you—like every other guy—believe the myths of conventional wisdom. It’s an incredibly common mistake for good reason—in fact, for 2 good reasons…

Reason 1: We think she wants us to make it about her world when she wants us to draw her into ours

If you reread the last few texts or messaging exchanges you had with women that went nowhere, you’ll probably notice you made it all about her. I could cite at least a dozen ways men this mistake, but I’ll limit myself to one because it’s easy to spot: becoming a boring interviewer. You’ll find the “mark” of this attraction killer at the end of your sentences. It looks like this: ?. (That’s right—the question mark is ruining your love life.)

Asking “interview-style” questions seems natural because it’s what we usually do whenever we’re getting to know someone. While this may be a good strategy when networking or making friends, it almost NEVER sparks attraction in women.

While it may sound obvious, keep in mind: she’s messaging you because she wants to learn more…ABOUT YOU. How much of “you” shows when you’re conducting an interviewing? Exactly.

Now, this is not to say you shouldn’t get to know her or that you should prattle on about yourself like some clueless narcissist. Instead, you want to draw her into your world while also hearing her story. This was a struggle for me until I discovered a “secret weapon” that instantly injects any exchange with a healthy dose of flirtatiousness.

My secret?

I turned my questions into presumptions that invite her to glimpse into my world. For example, I transformed a cliché question like, “Where’d you grow up?” into a loaded presumption: “Why do I have a sneaking suspicion you grew up on the East Coast… Lemme guess Boston or New York”.

I call this a “loaded” presumption because I’m using it to pique a woman’s curiosity. Right or wrong, she’ll want to know more, which usually leads her to ask, “What makes you think that?”

My answer might be complementary or insightful or even playful. All that matters is I’m pulling her into my world.

Quick Tip: Start turning interview-style questions into loaded presumptions that get her curious about how you think.

Reason 2: We value playing it safe over displaying our personality

If I had a nickel for every time I was told to ‘just be myself,’ I might have enough to pay for the lifetime of therapy needed to cope with my regret over all the girls I lost trying to be myself…and failing miserably.

Ironically, “just be yourself” would be great advice…if someone could explain exactly how to do it. It’s not ‘just’ that easy. That’s because most guys confuse ‘WHO they are’ with ‘HOW they feel.’ No one understands this better than me!


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In my early-20s whenever I found myself talking to an attractive woman, I thought it was a momentous event that I did NOT want to screw up. Desperately, I racked my brain for things to talk about, which I thought would get her to like me.

I was ready to jump on whatever topic would keep a woman talking. (I once entertained a 36-minute conversation on the “cuteness” of Justin Timberlake’s new hairstyle—embarrassing!)

I thought this was how to get women to like me, but it did just the opposite. The more I tried to appease, the more I drove women away. “Well duh,” you might be thinking, “Faking an interest in topics like J.T.’s super cute new doo is clearly NOT being yourself.”

I agree with you, but keep in mind: hindsight is 20/20. While I may know better now, at the time I was CONVINCED that I WANTED to discuss such “women-friendly” topics. Most guys think they know who they are…until they’re flooded with strong emotion. Like a spell, emotions cloud our perception and cause us to lose sight of our identity.

Think back to your last conversation with a very attractive woman. Did you really convey your TRUE opinions, ideas, views, and aspirations? Your sense of humor? Were you completely honest? Did you “fake laugh” at her jokes? (C’mon, we ALL fake laugh!)

Sadly, this is what causes us to seem weird, creepy, and like every other boring guy. Scary as it may be, you need be 100% authentic, 100% of the time. For me, this was (and still is) an ongoing challenge, which first meant learning exactly who I am!

For weeks, I made a habit of writing my hobbies, interests, and likes as well as my dislikes, turn-offs, and opinions. I then “studied” my notes on myself so I could better articulate my identity. Once I combined that newfound understanding with some basic teasing and banter, I became comfortable playfully disagreeing with women.

Not only was this approach more true to myself, it was like discovering I’ve had access to this powerful aphrodisiac my whole life and I was covering it up with small talk, politeness, and playing it safe. Also, I’ll never have to sit through 36 minutes of blabber about Justin Timberlake’s hair.

Quick Tip: Make a list of 20 movies you like and 20 you hate. The next time you’re talking to an attractive woman, try to steer the conversation toward movies, and then playfully disagree with her if she likes a movie on your “hate” list.

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SUPER Sexy Texts to Keep Things HOT(You’re Welcome)

Time to take your sexting game to the next level.

Keeping the spark alive is one of the main goals for most couples. When the initial excitement of a new relationship dies down, it can be difficult trying to rekindle it (especially your sex life). How can you keep the spark burning as long as possible? Sexy texts.

Sexting should feel very self-explanatory. In fact, you could probably think of three different sexy texts to send your man right now without much effort.

While actually coming up with sexy text messages to send to your man is easy, how you use them requires a bit more thought and finesse. So before giving you the 19 sexting examples, I need to explain some crucial things.

Sexting Should NOT Be An Everyday Thing

Part of the initial spark with your partner is the freshness and unpredictability that you get to experience at the start of your relationship as you find out about each other. This is something that you absolutely must keep in mind when using sexy text messages.

Related: Powerful Sexting Advice For Keeping Things Sexy!

Mix It Up — Be Naughty AND Nice

Just like in my previous point about varying when you send your man a sexy text message, you also need to vary the content of your sexts.

Some sexts you send your man should be very explicit and detail how you are feeling or what you are going to do to him later, while others should be much tamer and less suggestive. When you mix it up, your man will never know what to expect, which is perfect for keeping the spark alive in your relationship.

1. “Just saw something really hot that made me think of you.”

2. “What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?”

3. “Would you be mad if I made out with a girl?”

4. “I don’t know why, but all I want right now is sex.”

5. “I dreamt that I was your sex slave last night, it was hot — very hot”


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6. “What would you say if I suggested some sex in public?”

7. “When you get home, let’s watch some porn, seriously.”

8. “If you can guess what color my panties are, then I’ll give you a blow job when you get home.”

9. “I loved sleeping with you last night.”

10. “I don’t know if this is normal, but my legs get weak when you kiss me.”


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11. “I wish you were here right now. I’m too damn horny!”

12. “I’m going to wear the shortest skirt I have tonight”


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13. “What’s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?”

14. “If you could only have regular, anal or oral sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose?”

15. “I really miss you. I wish we were together right now.”

16. “I just had the dirtiest thought about you ever. Too dirty to text — wow, I’ll tell about it later.”

17. “What would you say if I suggested we spent all day Saturday in bed?”

18. “The way you hold me is so hot.”

19. “Can’t wait to kiss you later.”


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Notice how some of these messages are very dirty and explicit, while others are quite tame?

Perfect for keeping things interesting!

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How To Use Snapchat To Spice Up Your Love Life (Wink, Wink)

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Ahhhh, the fun you can have with a disappearing photo.

Snapchat, a picture and video messaging service, describes itself as a  way to share moments with your partner and your friends. Chances are, if you don’t have this app on your phone yet, you’ll have it soon and will need to learn how to use Snapchat.

So, why would someone want this added layer of privacy? There are multiple reasons, including the obvious: 

1. It’s perfect for sending racy photos.

One obvious perk of a disappearing photo messaging service is that it paves the way for you to send a photo to your partner that may be a little risque or suggestive. Be warned, though, that no app is infallible and there are ways in which these photos can come back to haunt you.

For example, if the recipient takes a screenshot of the picture or if the recipient takes a photo of the snapshot with another device. There’s also a rumored repository where hackers can go to retrieve your snaps, but should we really be surprised? (NEVER assume you have a privacy interest in anything that involves technology!)


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Still, Snapchat is a safer, more secure alternative to social media for sharing moments with your friends — or intimate moments with your significant other. Just be careful what you snap.  

It’s also important to realize that Snapchat, which was created in 2011 by two Stanford University students, is good for so much more than just “sexting” and was not created for that purpose. During a time where an increasing amount of teens are starting to rebel against Facebook, Snapchat offers an alternative to posting photos to your friends that may come back to haunt you.

Another plus? Worried parents, beware: Snapchat creators have even created a parenting guide to ensure that the app is safe for children.     

Anyone who’s ever had to go through their phone to delete photos because they’ve saturated their iCloud space understands the sheer annoyance of managing your photos. It can be tedious and stressful to rummage through thousands of files on your phone to delete photos of the sunset from your ex-boyfriend’s back porch, puckered up kiss photos during a night out, or 3,000 calorie gastropub meals you scarfed down 2 years ago.

With Snapchat, these photos magically disappear forever from your device so you never have to see them or sort through them again. If you do decide you want to save a photo, there’s even an option for that. 

3. You can pick and choose who sees what you post.

Have you ever gotten a mass picture text message from someone that was also sent to ten other people you don’t know? Then your phone vibrates with text replies from strangers all day?

Well, Snapchat saves you from this chain of awkwardness by allowing you to send your snap to multiple recipients from a list of friends without those friends being able to see who else it is sent to. Snapchat picture messaging is also way faster because it involves fewer steps when sending a photo.


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4. You can edit your photo.

Snapchat allows you to edit your photos in a way that is different from another popular picture app, Instagram. Snapchat, unlike Instagram, is not a social networking site — it’s just a picture messaging service, but it still allows you to make edits to your photo.

For example, if you want to draw a line to point out something funny or draw a mustache on your selfie, you can do that without posting it for the world to see. You also write the caption for your photo, a great option when you want to send a picture message to your loved one. Now you can write “I’m sorry” or “I love you” or even “I can’t wait until you get home” right on your snapshot.   

5. You can be funny and your true self.

Snapchat frees you from the stress of creating a perfect image of a life on social media — which we all do, consciously or subconsciously. With Snapchat, gone are the days when you need to take 10 different “selfie” snaps that automatically save to your phone, in hopes that you look perfect before posting it on Facebook or sending it to your boyfriend.

Now you can just smile and be yourself, without worries that your photo is going to be a permanent fixture of your social media identity. Snapchat gives you the freedom to be yourself free from fear of what others think, what random friends will see it on your newsfeed, or what may come back to haunt you. This freedom and level of fun restore what we have lost in our addiction to technology and social media — the chance to be our authentic selves.  

Snapchat fosters the kind of sincerity and good-hearted humor that is needed in any real relationship. That freedom to be who you really are, and to have fun while doing it, maybe just the thing to spice up and lighten up your love life.

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6 Essential Sexting Tips That Will Drive Him WILD

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Keeping your relationship red-hot with sexting is easier than you think!

Sexting. It’s all the rage these days. Or at least, you’d think it was if you spent a lot of time watching reality TV and reading Elite Daily. For those of us who don’t sext, but would still love to add another racy gizmo to our toolbox of steaminess, it can seem both desirable and confusing at the same time.

Done right, sexting can turn a guy on, build sexual tension between the two of you, and make him eager to reciprocate — both through the phone and in the bedroom. But done wrong, it can seem sleazy, or worse, downright pathetic and gross.

It’s an art form, you see. Sexting isn’t just a matter of being all, “Hey! Wanna [insert explicit sexual act/photo here]?” There’s a method to the madness, and we’re going to explore it below like I talk about on my site. We’ll discuss how to sext and what role it should play in a healthy sex life, and offer a few examples to illustrate each point.

Ready to sext like a champion? Here we go.

1. Build up slowly.

When you’re first learning how to sext, it’s crucial to build up slowly. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting a new one, you don’t want to come out of the blue with a crazy, hardcore sexual proposition. Your longstanding guy might just laugh at you, but a newer person could go running in the opposite direction.

Instead of getting right to the dirty stuff, start with a little innuendo. Try something like, “Aren’t you curious what I’m wearing right now?” Sending this text in the middle of a workday can make your man even more interested because he’ll assume it’s something you’re wearing underneath your clothing. Other good intros include “I’m looking forward to seeing you tonight … naked,” or “When will you be home? I’m not sure I can wait that long.”

2. Invite participation.

Sexting, like actual sex, shouldn’t be a one-way street. Instead, invite participation. You can do this in several ways. Try hypothetical situations such as, “If I were to walk into your office right now wearing nothing but my matching red panties and bra, what would you do?” When he responds, you can add another hypothetical to the mix, i.e. “What if I were also wearing four-inch heels?” or “What if I secretly had a fire pole installed the night before?”

Another way to do it is to tell him what you’re going to do to him, and then ask “What do you want to do to me?” Go back and forth this way, both of you getting more bold with each text. Beware, though: this is extremely NSFW.

3. Follow through.

Of course, there’s no point in learning how to sext if you’re not going to follow through. A guy will quickly learn to stop engaging with you if you don’t deliver. So while you don’t have to do exactly what you promise in your sexts, it should be close enough that he learns to get truly excited by them.

For instance, if you’ve recently sent something along the lines of “I hope you’re ready when you walk in the door tonight,” then you better be ready too. “I’m wearing that lacy black thing you like” better be followed up with that black thing. And so on.


4. Don’t be TOO explicit.

Here’s a pop quiz. Which is sexier: a picture of a totally naked dude, or a guy wearing low-rise jeans so you can see the perfect V of his abs but nothing below the belt? Most women would answer the latter. Similarly, guys love Victoria’s Secret models because they’re wearing those flimsy little pieces of silk and lace.

This has major implications for learning how to sext. You’ve got to leave a little something to the imagination, as I explain here. A sext along the lines of “And now we’re totally going all the way!” isn’t so hot. After all, it indicates that things are done when the whole point of sexting is to get them going. Try something like “I can feel your hand running up my thigh” or “I had no idea you could take underwear off like that.” It’s pretty clear what you’re talking about, but it’s still ladylike and leaves room for the real show later.

5. Use some humor.

One of the best sexting conversations ever goes like this:

Him: “What would you do if I got you into my bed?”

Her: “Is your bed comfortable?”

Him: “Yes.”

Her: “I would sleep.”

Of course, this sext might not be totally applicable to your situation, but it’s still dang funny and very flirty. The truth is, sexting is an inherently awkward activity, even if you do it well. It’s difficult to type, it takes a while, you may not see each other for days or even weeks after you send the text if you’re long distance, and it’s hard to convey emotion via this medium.

All of this calls for humor, so don’t hold back. Insert a joke or two, some goofing off, a we-don’t-take-this-that-seriously attitude. It will help pave the way to true sensuality if you’re both more relaxed.

6. Engage in other ways.

Learning to sext is a great way to spice up your existing relationship or even get one going with someone new. It’s important not to overdo it, however. Sexting is fun and exciting because it’s a novelty, but just like other bedroom behaviors — think dirty talk or bondage, for example — if used all the time, it can become dull or even lame. Don’t lose an awesome tool that way!

Even if you figure out how to sext like a master, that may not always be the way your man wants to engage with you. And even if you follow through, he may still want encounters to start in other ways as well. This makes sense, as you probably also look for spontaneity in your sex life.

Instead, make sexting a regular addition to your steamy repertoire, and use it when appropriate, especially if you’re excited to see your man and plan on following through as soon as you see him. If you use it right, sexting can make your interactions with your guy even hotter than they already were.

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Flirting Through Text – The Biggest Do’s and Don’ts

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The Biggest Do’s and Don’ts of Flirting through Text

A lot of guys aren’t sure how to flirt through text. Fortunately, The Art of Charm has spent many, many hours analyzing and studying the art of flirting through text. How can you flirt via text and make the most out of it? It’s actually a lot easier than you think. But it’s important to know the do’s as well as the don’t when it comes to texting. Here’s a crash course.

Do: Flirt Over Text

Texting isn’t a good way to get to know someone. It is, however, a great way to flirt with her, create interest and deepen attraction. So don’t underestimate the value of flirting through text. Use text and other text-based forms of communication for flirting. Especially for men who are a little shy, it can be a great way to say things you might be nervous about saying in person.

Don’t: Get to Know Her

So why not get to know her while you’re at it? Basically, because you’re missing out on a huge part of what makes communication what it is. There’s no body language. There’s no tone of voice. It’s just words. Save getting to know her for when the two of you are actually together.

Do: Get Her to Go on a Date

Texting isn’t an end to itself. You want to always be moving things toward getting her to go on a date with you. When you reach a high point in the discussion, you want to tell her that the two of you should get together. Suggest a date and try to maintain that playful tone!


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Don’t: Waste Your Time

Not everyone is going to be interested in you. That’s fine. Instead of sinking endless hours into someone who just isn’t that into communicating with you, spend your time on people who are. If you’re texting her and getting one-word responses, move on. The energy you’re putting into it would be better used finding someone else.

Do: Initiate

As a man, it’s kind of your job to initiate. Sorry, but it’s hard-wired into our species through thousands of years of human evolution. Don’t always wait for her to be the one to contact you. Because more often than not, it’s going to mean that she starts looking for someone else.

Don’t: Respond Immediately All the Time

We’re not saying that you should keep girls hanging for the sake of it. However, don’t feel like you need to respond right away to everything that she says to you. Give yourself room to breathe. Give yourself space. That’s the best way. You’ll come across as confident and you’ll give her the space to want you.

Do: Use Emoticons

Sure, you don’t use them with your bros.. but she’s not one of your bros. Emoticons keep things light and playful and they allow you to communicate when you’re joking around. Remember what we said earlier about how texting removes a lot of how people communicate? Emoticons are by no means a perfect replacement, but they help to restore some of what gets lost. So by all means, explore the wonders of fliring through text. Just be tactful about it.

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11 Ways To Sext So He Won’t Ever Forget Your Phone Number

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Make him fall in love with you — via your phone.

Texting is huge, especially if you’re trying to win someone over. Texting with your crush (or “flirtexting”) gives you more opportunities to flirt with her than just hanging out. Now, instead of the fun ending when he goes home, the flirting can continue that evening and go on during the next day, all while building sexual tension. 

Sexting is a fantastic way to show your crush that you’re thinking about him and want to be with him, but doing it right isn’t nearly as simple as you would believe. You have to be witty, playful and charming in just a sentence or two, and once sent, there’s no way to take a text back.

1. Be creative with your responses.

It’s hard to be original when you only have 160 characters to work with, but if you can pull it off, the person you’re flirting with will be impressed. When you’re trying to think of something flirty to text your crush, you should try to think of something no one else but you could say. This will pique the interest of your crush and will make her more likely to respond to you right away.

  • Make your crush laugh. Start off with a short, funny statement about something you both saw recently, or that references a previous conversation.
  • Make a clever observation. Your crush will certainly respond to that. Flirting with your wit is a great tactic. Just be original. Write something that no one would say but you.

2. Ask questions to initiate a response.

Asking a question is a great way to impress and flirt with your crush. It shows that you’re not texting just because you feel like it, but because you want to keep a conversation going and that you care what he crush thinks. Keep these in mind when you ask questions:

  • Keep it simple. Just ask about something that happened during that person’s day or week, like how his friend’s birthday party went or if her vacation was as fun as she had wished.
  • Ask open-ended questions. Don’t just ask a question that can be answered with a simple “yes” or a “pretty good.” Give your crush room to elaborate and to ask you something back.
  • But don’t be too open-ended. Don’t ask a deep philosophical question that your crush doesn’t know how to answer. He may be confused by your message and could just give up.
  • Don’t be boring. You’re less likely to get a response if you say something like, “What’s up?” or “How are you?” Be original, even when you ask questions.
  • Be thoughtful. If you know your crush had an important event the day before, a text asking how it went shows that you pay attention.

3. Watch your grammar and spelling.

This may seem trivial and unconnected, but if you were flirting with your crush in person, then you would make sure your outfit was neatly put-together and that your hair was in place. Therefore, if you’re sending flirty messages, make sure you’re using suitable punctuation and that your sentences are complete.

  • Don’t be sloppy. If you send sloppy or incoherent texts, it will look like you just don’t care to spend enough time skimming your texts.
  • Remember that your writing doesn’t have to be perfect all the time. Just skim each of your texts before you send it.

4. Don’t come on too strong.

Subtlety is key. Try not to go overboard or your crush will be able to see that you’re trying too hard. Just relax and send a text when the time feels right. You shouldn’t spend more than a minute deciding what’s the best text to send.

  • Don’t always send the first message. If you are, then your crush may not be so excited to hear from you. Play it cool and wait for your crush to chat with you first sometimes, but not all the time.
  • Don’t try too hard to be funny. If your boo can tell you spent hours crafting the perfect opening, it’s not worth it.
  • Remember that flirting over text isn’t so different from flirting in real life. You should still relax and take it easy if you want to be a successful flirt.

5. Keep their attention with teasing.

Teasing over text is a great way to flirt. Be a little bit playful and make fun of your crush, and let them make fun of you back. This shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously and that you’re invested in the person you’re texting.

  • Keep it light. Tease your crush for watching a silly movie or spending too much time with his dog. But don’t be heavy=handed — you don’t want anyone’s feelings to be hurt, especially if it’s the start of a new relationship.
  • Make sure your crush gets that you’re joking. It should be clear that you’re not trying to be offensive and that you just want to have some fun.
  • If you have a silly nickname for your crush, use it when you’re texting.
  • Send a wink face emoticon to show that you’re just teasing.

6. Show them you care.

Find a way to make it clear that you care about the person you’re chatting with, whether it’s by asking a question about his life or just asking how she’s doing.

  • If your crush is feeling sick, check in to see if he’s feeling better.
  • Use your crush’s name occasionally. Doing something this simple is a powerful way to get her to like you.
  • Ask your crush’s opinion on a new movie or restaurant. This may even turn into plans to check out the new event together.
  • Compliment them. Find a subtle way to let her know she looked great the other night, or that you liked his new haircut.

7. Be a little naughty.

You can find subtle ways to arouse them. You don’t have to say, “What are you wearing?” to show her you’re thinking about her in an R-rated manner. Here are some tricks to try:

8. Don’t act too eager.

Remember that you’re supposed to play it cool when you’re texting and flirting, so you shouldn’t be the person who sends twenty questions in a row or asks a question with a zillion question marks. If you’re too excited about texting the person on the other end of the conversation, it will be a major turn-off.

  • Make sure you roughly text each other the equivalent amount of times. If you send him a dozen texts for every one of his responses, you have a problem.
  • Emoticons are great for occasional flirtation but don’t overuse them. The same goes for exclamation marks and questions.
  • Don’t answer the instant you get a text. Play it cool and wait a few minutes, or even a few hours, to answer unless the text is time-sensitive. If your crush takes a day to get back to you, don’t fire back a text immediately or you’ll look desperate.
  • Don’t use texting to build a meaningful connection.
  • Remember that no relationship is made or wrecked through a series of text messages. When you text your crush, remember that texting is a great way to flirt, to make plans, and to take the relationship into the physical world, but not a great way to build understanding or to really get to know someone.
  • Keep it light. Flirting is all about having fun and being full of life, not about getting into a deep discussion.
  • Spend more time talking to him than you do sending text messages.

9. Know when it’s time to stop.

You don’t want to be that person who keeps up a text conversation hours after there’s nothing left to talk about. When you’re talking to a new love interest at a bar, you should talk just long enough to hook the person and then say you have to go so you don’t drag it out. The same goes for texting.

 
  • If you’re doing most of the talking in a textual exchange… it’s time to stop texting. Maybe even give up on them altogether.
  • If you’re the one sending long messages and getting nothing back but one-word answers… it’s time to stop texting.
  • If you can just feel that both of you are struggling to find something to say… it’s time to end the conversation.
  • If you have the sense that you’re doing most of the talking every time and that the person you’re texting doesn’t seem too eager to get back to you… it’s time to end the conversation — permanently.

10. End the conversation on a high note.

Whether you’re just wrapping up the conversation because you’re busy or because you’re going to meet up with someone else, you should leave the person you like with something to think about. Don’t just say “Bye!” or that person won’t be thinking about you after you stop texting.

  • If you’re meeting up, don’t be afraid to say that you can’t wait to see them.
  • If you have to go, tell them where you’re going and what you’re doing. This will make you look like you have a great life outside of texting and will intrigue the person on the other end.
  • Leave an opening to pick up the conversation at another time. Say that you’re looking forward to chatting about whatever is on your minds later.

11. Ask them out.

If your texting sessions have been going well, you should take your relationship to the next level and use texting as an opportunity to ask the person out.

  • Keep it light. If you’re in the middle of a conversation, just say, “How would you like to pick this up over dinner or drinks?”
  • Meet up in person. If you’ve really been texting the person a lot, you can say, “I really like texting you, but I think I would like talking to you even more. How about we continue this in person?”
  • You can also be more casual. Instead of asking for a real date, you can invite the person out to join you and your friends for drinks or at a party.

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8 Times Texting Is Actually Better Than Calling

Text messaging is often knocked as a trivial or insincere means of communication. But it often has its advantages.

When you lack a clear train of thought

Strong opinions and emotions can often mess with your train of thought and compromise your ability to deliver an articulate message or response. In situations like these, texting may be preferred because it allows you to plan out and revise your message in a way you could not do during a phone call, when rash or frenzied thoughts and words may make you difficult to understand or cause the recipient of your communication to take you less seriously. Avoid these phrases that will make any argument worse.

When you travel

When you’re in transit, chatting on the phone can be irritating and insensitive to those around you. This is especially true for commuters in transit after a long day of work. If you’re en route to dinner from the office and are running five minutes behind, shoot a quick text to your dining companion instead of calling. These are other annoying texting habits to avoid.

When you’re in danger

As the nation mourned the tragedy of the Orlando nightclub mass shooting that caused the deaths of 49 people in June, investigators uncovered that many people trapped in the horrifying hostage situation texted family and friends to call 911, as they felt doing so themselves would put them at further risk. Because location services are stronger and more accurate for voice calls placed to 911 than texts, it is better to call if possible; many emergency services plug the tagline, “Call if you can, text if you can’t.” Emergency texting services aren’t available all throughout the United States, so check to see if your town or city has this option.

When discussing sensitive information

If you’re stuck in a public place but need to have a time-sensitive conversation in which private information is being discussed, you’re better off sending an eloquent text than trying to make a secretive, hushed phone call.


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When you’re super busy

Perhaps you need to have a conversation with someone but find your day jam-packed with one time-consuming activity after another. While a phone call is a separate task all on its own, a round of texts makes it easy for you to coordinate with the sitter or figure out what time to pick up your kids without taking you away from your other responsibilities. For an inflexible schedule, texting is the way to go.

When Organizing a Group

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When trying to corral a large group of people to confer over a point or make plans to meet, the most efficient way to do so is creating a group text that allows everyone to communicate openly, instead of reaching out to each person separately. (But if being part of a group text is distracting or frustrating you, here’s how to opt out of it.)

 

When you want your business to engage

Many businesses have been turning to texting in recent years as a way to communicate more effectively with customers. According to textrequest.com, of the 8 trillion texts sent in 2014, 95 percent were read within three minutes. Additionally, consumers are more likely to engage with text messages than calls or emails, making them a smart way to call attention to your business.

 

When you’re shy

For introverts or those who find themselves unnerved at the thought of expressing an important feeling or opinion in person or over the phone, texting serves as an easier option that may help you say what you need to say without bumbling over your words. These are hidden strengths of being an introvert.

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10 Selfie Tricks that Actually Work

Want to look instantly put together? Then stop taking selfies in your messy bathroom

 
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Taking the perfect selfie isn’t luck. It’s talent. It may be the only talent the Kardashians have (just kidding, Kim, I love ya).

Your selfie game is weak: For some reason, all your selfies end up making you look older, heavier, and more washed out than you already are. Well, the good news is that if the Kardashians can master the skill of taking spot-on selfies, so can you, especially if you use these handy tricks to fool your smartphone’s front-facing camera into making you look fabulous.

The head tilt

There’s a reason they tell you to find your “angle.” Unless you have perfectly symmetrical features, tilting your head will almost always look better than taking a straight-on photo of your face. Plus, as a bonus, tilting your head will make you more attractive to the opposite sex.

Finding your light

Because the forward-facing camera you use to take selfies doesn’t have a flash (and smartphone flashes are iffy, anyway), lighting can make or break your selfie. Look for soft, diffused lighting and face toward it, or grab a selfie-light phone case like the Lumee. Avoid harsh light from above (no more high-noon hiking selfies) or from behind your face.


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The right angle

Don’t just tilt your head—tilt your phone, too. Taking a selfie from above will emphasize your eyes and make your face look slimmer, while taking a selfie from below will make you look like a blob fish.

Posing like a champ

Models may look ridiculous vogue-ing all over a photo shoot, but they’re doing it for a reason: Artificial-looking poses usually capture well on camera. The more ridiculous—er…interesting—poses you can capture in a selfie shoot, the higher chance you’ll have of nabbing the perfect selfie.

Remembering the background

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Nothing kills a perfectly-shot selfie faster than a terrible background. So stop taking selfies in your messy bedroom.

Crop it

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If your background is less than perfect, no worries. Take a leaf out of Kylie’s book and crop it for an extreme close-up.

The selfie stick

Taking a selfie from too close can distort your face and make it look wider than it actually is (unless, of course, you’re a pro at those angles). And your arms are probably pretty short, so you’ll need a selfie stick to get the distance you need.

Take tons of photos

Real photographers take hundreds of photos and only use one. Are you an amateur selfie-taker or a real photographer?

The toned-down duckface

An over-the-top duckface isn’t cute, but elongating your neck, drawing your cheeks in slightly, and pouting just a little will give you those model-perfect cheekbones.

Editing with apps

The great thing about a selfie is that it’s candid—no professional photography, no Photoshop, no tricks, right? Uh, wrong. Check out these selfie apps if you truly want to take your selfie game to the next level.

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How to Start a Conversation Over Text & Get Them Texting in No Time

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With our phones being the number one form of communication nowadays, knowing how to start a conversation over text is vital.

Depending on your personality, texting may be easier or more difficult than an in-person conversation for you. When you are face-to-face, things can flow more naturally. Over text, you may overthink and feel the need to plan out what you’re going to say. So, knowing how to start a conversation over text is vital.

Do you start with a simple “hey” and hope it takes off from there? Or do you go in with a question or share a funny meme?

Who are you texting?

There is no one rule or method that applies to everyone you may be texting. If you’re texting someone for the first time, it will be different than starting a follow-up conversation or chatting up a friend.

Before going in with a pickup line or dirty joke, take into account how well you know this person and what sort of conversation will feel natural.

How to start a conversation over text

Start out by knowing that this is something everyone worries about. We have all at one time or another wrote out a text, went back, deleted it all, and replaced it with a simple “hey what’s up.”

No one wants to come off clingy or too interested. You also want to have a conversation, so you have to find a happy medium depending on your relationship with that person.

#1 Are you texting someone new? When it comes to knowing how to start a conversation over text with someone new, that is probably the most challenging. If you didn’t meet at school or work you may not have anything in common to offer a reason for reaching out.

Be unique. Instead of starting with a “hey, what’s up?” try something that makes you stand out a bit. If you’re hoping to make a plan out of this conversation maybe something like…

“Hey, it’s *your name here*. I had a great time meeting you the other day. There’s a new restaurant opening around the corner from me. They’re supposed to have the best cheese fries if you’d like to go sometime.” 

#2 Just want to talk? If you’re texting someone new, but don’t want to commit to meeting up, try something more playful and interesting that will get a conversation going. Even something as simple as, “I was watching The Office and something Michael Scott said reminded me of you.”

Adding a glimpse of your hobbies or interests into your first text will give them something to latch onto to carry on the conversation. It can also welcome follow up questions. Say you mentioned just getting back from a weekend away, you can then talk about traveling.

#3 Are you texting someone from work? If you recently got a mutual friend’s number, say a co-worker or peer, reaching out should be easier. You have common ground to walk on, so to speak.

You can go in asking about a work project, clarifying something your boss said, asking for some notes you missed, or even bringing up something a mutual friend said. This all makes starting a conversation a bit less nerve-racking. It shows you have a reason to reach out on top of just wanting to chat. 

#4 Can you woo a friend? Probably not with one text, but with a series of fun and flirty conversations… maybe so. If you have a crush on a friend of yours, avoid texting them the same way you normally would. That will only push you further into the dreaded friend zone.

Try something subtly flirty. Even a simple compliment like, “You looked great yesterday,” puts a less platonic spin on the conversation. You can also go for the go to, make them laugh. Try a meme or link to a funny article.

Or you could come all out and make it obvious that you are looking to advance your friendship. Send them a BuzzFeed list or quiz about being stuck in the friend zone and see if they pick up on that less than subtle hint. 

#5 Want to reach out to the person you’ve been dating? Knowing exactly how to start a conversation over text with the person you have only just begun dating can be confusing. Do you go straight in all comfy like you’re official with a “Hey, babe?” Or do you hold back?

No matter what, never say, “Sorry if I’m bothering you.” This message in and of itself is bothersome and annoying. It shows you have a lack of confidence and question this person’s interest. So even if they say something like “sorry, busy right now.” Respond with a “No worries, talk later.”


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You want to remain confident, but not too enveloped or else you can come across a little needy. Start with a question regarding something you’ve discussed before. Ask how that meeting at work went or if their mom had a nice birthday. This not only shows you listen but are invested in their life too.

#6 Want to reach out after a fight? Sending the first text after a fight can be awkward. You don’t know if the anger has blown over. You aren’t sure if you can go in with humor or how exactly to measure the situation.

If you want to start a conversation after a fight, whether big or small, an apology is a great place to begin. It doesn’t have to mean you admit you were wrong, but just that you feel bad that you fought and want to work it out.

#7 Can you start a conversation after radio silence? Just like texting someone new, starting back up after weeks, months, or even years of not talking can go array. Either the person won’t answer, will be curious where you’ve been all that time, or will actually want to talk.

The best way to go about this is to either come straight out with the facts, instead of trying to hide it. Saying something like, “Hey, I know it has been a long time since we talked, but I wanted to see how you are,” is a great place to start.

You could also start this conversation with an old picture you may have found or reboot news on a TV show you know they love, anything that would show that something reminded you of them will feel more natural.

#8 Are you still too nervous? If all else fails a wrong text fake out is slightly immature, but still a less risky way to go. If you’re scared of rejection or ghosting you can say something you would text a sibling. Something like, “we’re out of milk,” or “I don’t know, ask mom.” They’ll know this text isn’t for them, but it can be an entryway into a new conversation.

Knowing how to start a conversation over text is pretty much a must-have skill with the way dating works in 2000-something! Follow these tips and send out your first text!

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Tips to Text it to Him Dirty, Baby

If you’re like most girls, the idea of sending your lover a sexy text can be quite exciting. It also doesn’t hurt knowing that the little ding of the cell phone text could alert your lover while he’s in a meeting, in class, or in line somewhere. No matter where he is, he can get your message — loud and clear.


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How to flirt with text messaging

There are so many benefits to sending sweet or naughty text messages. For starters, they are a great way to keep the spice in your relationship and serve as a thoughtful reminder when received unexpectedly. If you want to let your man know what you’re thinking but have a hard time saying it, the text will do it for you!

Likewise, if you’ve just started dating and you’re ready to move your relationship to that next level, a flirty text will certainly have him intrigued and wanting more. But the best reason to send them is that they are safe and fun.

Sending a sexy text can be fun and flirty and can share good insight as to how your partner responds to verbal affection. Also, it can serve as a way to keep things heated up between you two until the next time you see each other in person.

How to sexy text

Depending on what type of phone you have, you may run into the issue of having limited characters to say what you want over a text.

But you don’t have to over-complicate things — when it comes to texting, less is more. You’re not writing a novel, but just delivering a fun, sexy hello. Check out these 10 ideas below for short abbreviated texts that definitely get the message across!

10 Sexy text message ideas

  1. You look hot today
  2. Hey baby
  3. I want to touch you
  4. Wanna come play?
  5. Thinking about you right now
  6. What are you wearing?
  7. Can’t wait to see you
  8. Thanks for last night 😉
  9. Guess what I’m wearing
  10. You are so sexy

Long distance relationship flirty text ideas

If you and your special someone have found yourselves in a long distance relationship, here are a few sexy text message ideas to send.

  • Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.
  • Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.
  • 1000 miles away and you are still right here in my heart
  • I’d walk a thousand miles to touch you tonight
  • I can’t wait to be in your arms again
  • Can’t get you out of my head
  • The best is yet to come
  • My dream come true would be waking up next to you
  • Being away from you is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do

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5 Ways to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over Text

 

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Building *sexual tension* over text is a powerful way to maintain the attraction level you’ve built with a woman. In fact, there are very specific texts you can send to inject sexual tension into a text conversation and rapidly increase the attraction.

 

Would you like to learn texting techniques that add a spark to text conversations that have gone cold?If so, keep reading, because this article covers 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text. These are texting techniques that, when you use them, you will notice the woman give you responses that are more “full of energy”.

But now, you might be asking…

What is Sexual Tension?

Simple. Sexual tension is the CONTRAST between a state of ATTRACTION, and lack of ESCALATION.

For example: When you and a girl are looking into each other’s eyes feeling the attraction, yet without doing anything about it… you are creating tension.

You might be hinting at escalating, but not in an OVERT way. The result is that you TEASE the woman and she gets so excited that she nervously giggles and maybe even jumps you and kisses you.

Awesome.

Now keep in mind that there has to be some attraction between the two of you. If she doesn’t feel any attraction, pulling back to create tension simply does nothing.

But if she feels even a little bit of attraction though, you can use sexual tension to AMPLIFY it.

However, most guys can’t handle the tension. They can’t sit with it. They can’t handle lingering on the topic of sex without pouncing like a puppy on a bone.

So they go too fast and kill the tension…

But if you have the ability to create and maintain sexual tension… women will literally get ADDICTED to you.

They won’t be able to resist it.

How do you maintain it? With OBSTACLES… ANTICIPATION… HUMOR… and specific ingredients that frustrate or delay the escalation… and as a result… rapidly INCREASES the attraction that exists.

Now let’s focus on the word “OBSTACLE” — because it gives us a clue to how to come up with texting techniques that increase sexual tension.

In essence…

Creating Obstacles to Escalation is the Basic “Trick” We Use to Build Sexual Tension

All you have to do is come up with language or texting techniques that present obstacles to the escalation, and you will IGNITE sexual tension.

Would you like some examples of how to create these obstacles? You got it.

Here are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.

5 Ways to Inject Sexual Tension Into Your Text Conversations

Here’s the first one…

1. Tease Her

When most people think of “teasing”, they think of “making fun of” the woman.

Not here.

Instead, think of teasing a girl as giving her a LITTLE BIT of what she wants… but then taking it away so that she wants MORE of it.

With texting, there are many ways to do this.

If she’s used to getting compliments from you, start giving her a compliment… but then add a twist by making it a compliment about yourself.

i.e. “I couldn’t help noticing you… staring at me”

If you’re texting naughty, don’t go too over right away, and instead, do what is called “teasing the escalation.”

Take my “Pancake Tease” Technique as an Example:

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In the example above, I didn’t overtly talk about eating her out, I teased her by describing the same “eating out” behavior on a pancake. Of course, we both knew what was REALLY going on, but the fact that we can use the excuse of “oh we’re just talking about pancakes” creates massive tension.

If I went over and talked about eating her out (without teasing her first), she probably wouldn’t have enjoyed it as much as me lingering just a few inches from… the topic. It is this kind of teasing that drives women WILD.

The next method to create sexual tension over text is very similar to this one, so pay close attention.

2. Use Innuendos

Innuendos are words or phrases that can have double meanings.

The key with innuendos is that you use the concept of “Plausible Deniability”

This means that what you say is ambiguous enough that you can playfully “deny” that you’re coming on to her.

If she accuses you of being a perv,  simply turn it around and playfully accuse HER of having dirty thoughts.

How Plausible Deniability Creates Sexual Tension

You create plausible deniability by using ambiguous language that allows you to playfully deny the meaning or intent of what you’re saying.

Having plausible deniability creates opportunities for sexual tension because this ambiguous language can be used to create obstacles to escalation.

You see, when the words and phrases you text a girl get her aroused… yet you playfully deny that you mean it “in that way” …you create massive sexual tension.

This is exactly what was going on in the “pancake” example.

I used indirect, ambiguous language to…

A) Not go all the way and tease her (created an obstacle to escalation)

B) Bust through her anti-slut defense and gave her permission to get horny with the excuse of “he’s just talking about pancakes”

Some examples of innuendos you can use are

– that’s very big of you (big as in important)
– the test was so hard (very difficult)
– let’s go down (to a place)
– come down here (to this place)
– new direction (sounds like nude erection)
– getting wet (because it’s raining)
– I’m giving you a hard time (teasing you)
– eating out (going out to eat, not eating her out)
— ride it (ride the car)

As you can see, these phrases can be taken in more than one way (and so can this sentence ;))

Simply toss an innuendo as “bait” and see if the girl grabs on to it.

If she goes along with it… IT’S ON.

If you’re wondering what to text a girl before a date,  you’ll want to read through the next technique.


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3. Build Anticipation Before the Date

Building anticipation before meeting up with a girl can work wonders when the date finally happens.

Let’s say you’re going to meet a girl for coffee in the afternoon. You can text her in the morning something like,

“Hmmm, I can’t wait until you buy me a coffee today… the aroma in that cafe is so delicious and the creamy mochas are the best.”

Not only does this build anticipation, but it also stimulates her senses with descriptive words like aroma… creamy.. delicious… and it begins to get her excited.

This pre-arousal gets her intrigued and gets her wondering and anticipating the date she will have with you later that day.

Plus, you’re giving her a unique and fun personality that’s bound to make you stand out from all the other guys she’s meeting.

4. Push/Pull

The concept of push/pull is simple. A pull suggests to the woman that you like her while a push pushes her away
and suggests that you don’t like her.

When you alternate the two in a playful way, it results in flirting that creates massive sexual tension.

Remember how we talked about creating obstacles to escalation? That’s what the “push” does.

See, most guys “pull” the girl all the time giving her compliments and showing her how much they like her.

But if you can inject a few pushes here and there… you create tension.

And don’t forget: This will REALLY set you apart from every other boring and predictable guy who is chasing her 24/7 trying to get with her.

And now finally, here’s the 5th way to create sexual tension with a girl over text

5. Blame the Escalation On Her

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When you blame the escalation as something that SHE is doing… it makes it A LOT easier to ram through her objections because “it’s her fault” that she’s making you feel that way/ escalate on her.

Awesome.

Here are some things you can say.

– How did you know I have a weakness for brunettes from Southern Cali
You’re doing this on purpose… I’m on to your tricks little one

– Do you seduce every guy like this?

– Why are you doing this to me? You’re the worst. I hate you.

– Are you trying to hypnotize me with your eyes right now?

– Why are you making me think these thoughts about you?

– You know, it’s really not cool to be so cute and charming. Not fair.

You get the picture.

The lines above should give you an idea of how to blame her for the escalation.

They are also an example of a “pull.”

You can MULTIPLY the effect of this pull-escalation by also doing a “push” called the “Take Away.”

The “take away” is a form of teasing, which as you remember, means you don’t give her everything, and you “take it away”, AMPLIFYING the effect!

Alright, those are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.  (I probably gave you way more than 5… so you’re welcome 🙂 ).

What did ya think?

If you want more free advanced texting-a-girl training, then you’ll want to get a copy of my Girl Doesn’t Text Back “Cheat Sheet.

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How To Seduce A Woman With Text: 9 Things What You Should Do

It is common. It is becoming a habit, and for many it is becoming an art or you can say their trick of the trade. Texting flirtatiously or texting to tempt is the hype these days and you are stuck in the dilemma on how you should do it. You ask yourself if you are capable of doing it. I will tell you that you can. It is very much possible and within your grasp if you just follow the ideas of how to seduce a woman with text messaging that I have plotted out for you. You must try these if you are on the verge of falling in love with someone.

1. Send Ambiguous Text to Hold Her Up on the Text

Let her imagination do the work. Women are good fantasies. Never be overly precise about what you are trying to say or point. Let her imagine. Make sure the words you send her is cryptic, because it will make her feel more interested in the topic. Let her conceive your wink or how you want to manhandle her when you guys get intimate. Do not be direct about it. Use vivid and lucid, but ambiguous descriptions when you text her. Let her bell starts to ring, unhurriedly but progressively.

2. Bring a Change through an Adorable and Concise Text

Adorable and concise messages are game-changers. Text her that you wish you could see her right now. Or that your hands are getting cold and you wish she held on to them and warmed them with her touch. Keep it short and cute. It will progress to prominence!

3. Revive Her Sensation by Keeping the Mobile Phone Vibrated

You know that vibrations tend to be stuffs that can turn-on any lady depending on the timing (if you know what I mean!). How do you make sure that she has something with her that vibrates? Hey! Don’t think dirty now. What you can do is ask her to keep her phone’s mode set to vibrate when you text her. That way, in conjunction with your seductive texts, it will exert sensations.

4. Win Her through Being Courteous

Make sure you have made her primary notion of you to be a decent one. It matters to a girl if a guy is courteous because such type of a guy is respectful. Even though we are talking about seducing, there is decency to it. To make sure that you are there with her under the covers at the end of the day, you need to be demure.

5. Cut a Little Jokes

Be comical now and then. As long as she is upbeat, the tricks to you are getting her seduced will work more. Did you guys meet recently? Had a good time? Was there any funny incident that upon recalling will cause her to burst out giggling? If there is, then do it. Keeping someone happy and optimistic is an important thing to your notion. You can ask different silly but important questions.


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6. Give Her Your Name

Call her by a name that you have given her. You can be her “bunny” while she is your “cupcake”. This will create an emotional intimacy between you two. This will then help you to flirt with her more. Tender texts that will grow intense by time and let you flirt more. You need to do that. Trust me! I call my boy as ‘Bunny’ and he calls me ‘Tuni’. We would feel good at the beginning and now at this matured state of the relationship, both of us just die to listen to it from each other.

7. Text for Sudden Meeting

Make invitations to meet-ups to be off-the-cuff. This will be unanticipated to her and she will feel like she has no reason to miss it. Then, play the next trick. Make sure you both start to get intimate when you finally meet up. Be lovely for her.

8. Expose Your Real Feelings through Words

Never be artificial of your true feelings. If you can portray your true moods in the texts, it will work as a turn-on more than any other thing.

Some leads to follow: talk about how you are not Leonardo Di Caprio in terms of outlook, but you are the everyday guy working hard. And you are true to yourself and to her. This will work as an emotional turn-on. She’ll find it intimate to be with you more. Also, this emotional feeling will work to make her commit and want you in her life.

9. Describe Your Room in Text

Also, use your texts to be the eyes to predict how her room looks like or what she is wearing. Don’t overexert it though. Keep it liberal.

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27 Super Sweet ‘Good Morning’ Texts Every Girl Deserves To Receive At Least Once

1. Good morning beautiful!

2. I love waking up and knowing I get to see you today.

3. Stay put, I’m bringing you coffee in bed today.

4. Every day I wake up thinking I’m the luckiest man ever because I have you.

5. How’s my girl feeling this morning?

6. It’s too cold to get out of bed, want to call in sick to work and snuggle all day?

7. You were the first thing I thought about this morning.

8. I had the sweetest dream about you last night.

9. I wish I was waking up to your smile.

10. My bed is so cozy this morning, wish you were here.


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11. Good morning my angel.

12. It’s hard to believe I’m not dreaming anymore.

13. Thinking about you has already put a smile on my face this morning.

14. I’m guessing your bedhead looks beautiful right about now.

15. I wish we were waking up together.

16. Good morning, I’m so in love with you.

17. I hope our days of waking up without each other are numbered.

18. Too bad you’re not here for me to kiss you good morning.

19. I bet you look beautiful already.

20. I went to bed excited to wake up because we’re hanging out tonight.

21. I was thinking of you all night.

22. Good morning to the prettiest girl in the world.

23. How many hours until I see you?

24. Can’t wait to see you, sexy.

25. Unlock your door, I’m coming over to make you breakfast in bed.

26. Knowing you’re in my life makes every morning so much better.

27. I wish I were waking up with you in my arms. 

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Why Sexting Is Good for You

Screenwriter Erin Cressida Wilson Explains the Upside to Your Digital Get-downs

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We’ve all heard what techno-alarmists say about sexting: that it’s shameful, deviant, exploitative, and just stupid. But in many ways, it’s a new genre of personalized erotica. Now, everyone is her own author and illustrator with the ability to create provocative, graphic stories for herself and her object of desire.

Think of sexting as the latest chapter in a long history of lovers living out their relationships through written correspondence. In the ’40s, feminist Simone de Beauvoir wrote how she could actually feel her romantic scribblings physically: “Writing to you is like kissing you,” she wrote to her long-distance love, Nelson Algren. She went on: “I’ll be there. … In the sad streets of Chicago … in the lonely room, I’ll be with you.” By putting pen to paper, she inserted herself into Algren’s routines in much the same way that, today, sexting’s intimacy worms its way into our most mundane situations.

Imagine Christmas spent at your parents’ house — sitting around the tree, opening presents — underscored with naughty texts from your boyfriend. Or an image of his naked torso appearing in the middle of dinner. Everyday life is made more thrilling by such never-ending foreplay where you’re secretly bathed in the physical advances of his texts. We write our own love stories all day long, no matter where we are — passcode lock recommended.

To sext is also to meet your partner in a portable erotic classroom — a place where you communicate your needs and desires — so by the time you’re in bed together, you know each others’ deepest fantasies without having to say a word. Our iMessages give us permission to dream big and dare to dream with another person.


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Of course, trust is essential. You probably don’t want to engage in this kind of erotica with a guy who shortly after exchanging numbers requests a picture of your tits or any idiot who sends you a Snapchat of his penis after only a few brief exchanges. Bad sexters are like bad lovers — a huge disappointment. But they shouldn’t turn you off to the act entirely.

Good sexters know that the advantage to putting our thoughts into words is that we can stop, think, edit, or erase entirely. We have time. And it’s often time that is the biggest turn-on. While de Beauvoir was always at the mercy of the mail, now our anticipation peaks within a few minutes. How arousing it is to watch that gray bubble, its row of three periods pulsing, telling you that your guy has re-thought his text, erased it, is perhaps biting his lip, designing the perfect phrase, or filtering the hottest pic before he finally hits Send.

Entering into a written sexual fantasy with someone you trust isn’t some newfangled concept to fear. Take James Joyce, the Irish novelist. “My sweet little whorish Nora,” he wrote to his lover in 1909, “I did as you told me … and pulled myself off twice when I read your letter.” How intimate a thing to tell someone to masturbate to your writings! And how intimate still to tell someone you actually did it. Twice. Nora was a woman ahead of her time. Just think what she could have done with emoji.

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DIRTY TALK PHRASES FOR BUILDING SEXUAL TENSION

  1. If we weren’t at this party and these people weren’t around, I would jump you right now!
  2. What would you say if I asked you to go down on me right now?
  3. It might sound greedy, but I need your cock so bad right now. 
  4. I’m going to drain your balls tonight!
  5. I wish I could control myself better around you, but when I see you, all I want to do is rip your clothes off and fuck you.
  6. I need to feel you inside me.
  7. Nobody has ever fucked me like you do.
  8. Even when you’re in a bad mood, I want to fuck you.
  9. I’m going to mark you as mine tonight.
  10. When we get home, I’m going to make you orgasm so hard.
  11. Knowing that you can completely overpower me makes me so crazy horny.
  12. What would you prefer I wear tonight, a thong or panties or nothing at all?
  13. Would you discipline me if I was acting bratty?
  14. I’m going to break you tonight. 
  15. If these people weren’t here, I would be on my knees with your cock in my mouth.
  16. I can barely concentrate; I just keep thinking about you grabbing me and taking me.
  17. I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later… x (great when sent as a text message/IM/email) – Learn more sext messages to send him here.
  18. I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long – Perfect when he is leaving your place to keep the sexual tension high.
  19. I love it when you wear tight clothes.
  20. Guess what color my panties are?
  21. We need to meet after work; this horniness is killing me.
  22. I just want to wrap my pussy around your cock.
  23. You look so fucking hot in the morning.
  24. I wore these panties just for you.
  25. I feel so horny and helpless when you dominate me.
  26. Tonight is going to be a lot of fun 😉 (Perfect as a message)
  27. If you play your cards right, you’ve got some pleasure/fun coming your way.
  28. Stop looking at me like that, it’s making me wet.
  29. Tonight we’re going to do what I want to do. But don’t worry, it’s going to be a lot of fun!
  30. I’m going to make you scream and shout tonight!
  31. It’s a pity we’re not in bed right now because all I can think of is feeling your body on mine.

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DIRTY TALK PHRASES FOR INTENSE SEX

  1. I just want to be your little fuck doll…
  2. I want to feel your cock in my mouth. 
  3. I love it when you fuck me like a slut.
  4. Fuck me like you mean it!
  5. I don’t want to feel my face or hands after you’re done with me.
  6. I want to taste your cum.
  7. Making you cum hard is my number one priority right now.
  8. Taste me.
  9. I don’t want to be able to walk tomorrow so fuck me harder.
  10. Degrade me.
  11. Use me.
  12. Don’t stop.
  13. Fuck me like your own me.
  14. You’re going to make me cum.
  15. I love your dick.
  16. Fuck my cunt.
  17. Fill me up.
  18. I want your cum.
  19. I want to fall asleep with you inside me.
  20. Grab my breasts and squeeze my nipples.
  21. I’ve been really bad and need to be punished.
  22. You’re not leaving here until I have your cum in my mouth.
  23. Deeper! (then pull him deeper with your arms and legs)
  24. I want to hear you scream my name when you cum.
  25. You like how I fuck you?
  26. Pull my hair and slap me.
  27. Please fuck me harder daddy.
  28. Make me your bitch.
  29. Cum for me.

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12 Wild Dirty Talk Phrases To Make Him Horny!

 

Nobody likes having quiet or even silent sex. It’s a complete turn-off and a recipe for a very dull sex life.
dirty-talking-phrases1. Most guys really enjoy it when a girl starts talking dirty to them. Only a small percentage of men don’t. So don’t worry if your man happens to be one of those guys who isn’t into it.

2. If you suddenly start talking really dirty to your man, then there is a good chance that he is going to get a little freaked out. It’s a much better idea to slowly introduce dirty talk that is not too extreme or ‘out there’. You’ll also find that it’s easiest and most natural to introduce dirty talk in the bedroom when you are both alone. But once you get comfortable talking dirty to your man, then definitely start using it outside of the bedroom. Using dirty talk in text messages is also really effective.


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3. As I constantly say to girls learning how to talk dirty, you don’t have to be super sexual with the phrases and lines your use to turn him on. Sometimes the more subtle phrases are great for building sexual tension and to keep him thinking about you, instead of immediately turning him on.

Below are 12 dirty talk phrases to use on your man. I have organized them into groups of 3. Each group is slightly more sexual and ‘out there’ than the last.

Not Very Sexual Dirty Talk Phrases

I feel so small when you wrap your arms around me.

Sometimes my legs get weak when you kiss me.

I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later… x

(great when sent as a text message/IM/email)

A Little Sexual Dirty Talk Phrases

I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long.

I love it when you wear tight clothes and I can see your ass.

Guess what color my panties are?

Very Sexual Dirty Talk

Just being with you makes me wet!

If we weren’t at this party and these people weren’t around, I would jump you right now!

I miss your cock.

(great when sent as a text message/IM/email)

Super Sexual Dirty Talk

I just want to be your little fuck doll…

I want to feel your cock in my mouth right now.

I love it when you fuck me like a slut.

But don’t solely rely on saying a few dirty phrases to turn your man on. Instead, you should try to really understand why you should talk dirty to your man. Hint: it’s so that you can build sexual tension, turn him on and keep him attracted to you.

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How to Turn a Guy on by Text: Sexting Examples

Have you been flirting with someone and want some ideas of how to get him turned on even if you’re not in the same room? Texting plays an enormous role in modern romance. Those 160-characters at your fingertips have the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and that guy you have your eye on.

In this article, you’ll learn what kinds of things make a text message really sexy for guys as well as see some examples of steamy texts you can send your boy candy.

The reality is that it has never been so easy to excite a man, make him want you, and drive him crazy with desire. You’ll be able to use any of these methods and get a positive response from that hunky guy you’ve been flirting with. Try them out! Your love life will thank you.

20 Dirty Texts to Send Your Boyfriend and Get Him Turned On

  1. I had a naughty dream last night and guess who was in it? I’ll give you a hint. I’m texting him right now.
  2. Lying in bed and bored. Wish you were here to play Simon Says with me 😉
  3. I feel like something’s missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.
  4. If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
  5. I want to get naked with you right now.
  6. 
Sucking on a blow pop right now and thinking of you. . .
  7. Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it . . .
  8. I’m listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you! If you were here we’d probably make some of them reality 😉
  9. Guess what I’m thinking? OK I’ll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you, naked.
  10. I’m dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
  11. Confession: Sometimes I can’t help but touch myself when I think about you.
  12. Have you ever had a wet dream with me in it? Be honest . . .
  13. If you could do anything you want to me, what would you do?
  14. Work sucks. Especially when I’m getting distracted thinking about this hot guy I know and his fantastic body.
  15. Hey, just wanted to let you know that if you’re ever having a hard time, like a really hard time, I’m there for you. I mean, I can give you hand. Or something.

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  1. know you’re not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
  2. Just got out of the shower and had to text this really sexy guy I know. Didn’t even have time to put clothes on.
  3. Could really use some help putting this sunscreen on right now. And I’ll need help taking the bikini off later.
  4. Just ate dinner, but you wanna come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothing.
  5. What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? I know what mine is about you . . .

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20 Dirty Texts to Send Your Boyfriend and Get Him Turned On

  1. I had a naughty dream last night and guess who was in it? I’ll give you a hint. I’m texting him right now.
  2. Lying in bed and bored. Wish you were here to play Simon Says with me 😉
  3. I feel like something’s missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.
  4. If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
  5. I want to get naked with you right now.
  6. 
Sucking on a blow pop right now and thinking of you. . .
  7. Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it . . .
  8. I’m listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you! If you were here we’d probably make some of them reality 😉
  9. Guess what I’m thinking? OK I’ll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you, naked.
  10. I’m dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
  11. Confession: Sometimes I can’t help but touch myself when I think about you.
  12. Have you ever had a wet dream with me in it? Be honest . . .
  13. If you could do anything you want to me, what would you do?
  14. Work sucks. Especially when I’m getting distracted thinking about this hot guy I know and his fantastic body.
  15. Hey, just wanted to let you know that if you’re ever having a hard time, like a really hard time, I’m there for you. I mean, I can give you hand. Or something.

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  1. know you’re not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
  2. Just got out of the shower and had to text this really sexy guy I know. Didn’t even have time to put clothes on.
  3. Could really use some help putting this sunscreen on right now. And I’ll need help taking the bikini off later.
  4. Just ate dinner, but you wanna come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothing.
  5. What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? I know what mine is about you . . .

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Romance Isn’t Dead, It’s Just Changing

Romance Isn’t Dead, It’s Just Changing

It’s rare to scroll through your Facebook feed without seeing something about how millennials have “killed dating” or how romance no longer exists in this generation.

I don’t know about you, but as a millennial who has confidence that romance and decent dates exist amidst the crappy ones, I’m sick of seeing all of the articles claiming that dating and romance don’t exist anymore, really, I am. The claims that dates these days solely consist of Netflix and chill irritate me deeply. P.S. as an aside, the term “Netflix and chill” needs to go away because we’re all sick of reading it and hearing the older generation use it incorrectly.

Maybe dates in the modern times don’t consist of having doors held for you, having your date meet your parents and then grabbing a soda pop at the ‘ol bowling alley, but that doesn’t mean every date is unromantic trash.  With that being said, not every person you date is equivalent to a gentleman caller or suitor. I guarantee dating a decade ago had just as many so-called flaws as it does now, it just wasn’t plastered all over the Internet.

Maybe modern romance consists more of selfies and good morning texts, but is that such a bad thing? Society and technology evolve and the culture does with it. Who doesn’t love a good morning text? Romance isn’t waiting for someone else to make a move or perform a huge gesture, oftentimes it’s the small things.


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If your date’s idea of a romantic date is ordering pizza and sitting on the couch and that doesn’t match your idea of romance, make a change. Not everyone’s idea of romance is the same. To me, romantic might be an unexpected bouquet of flowers but to someone else, it might just be helping to wash the dishes or remembering her Starbucks order. Remember that not everyone thinks like you and thus, not everyone defines “romantic” the same way as you.

Furthermore, no one’s forcing you to settle for crappy dates or to be with someone who doesn’t have the same ideas of what’s romantic and what constitutes a date. Lest we not forget that age-old expression, “it takes two to tango.” No one’s forcing you to hook up with a random frat dude who doesn’t treat you well (and if they are, it’s sexual assault). If that’s what you want to do, power to you, but you can’t claim that romance and the dating culture is trash if you’re settling for much less and you’ve given up. I mean, if you go out with someone and the date sucks, it wasn’t meant to be. A lack of chemistry and a shitty dinner date doesn’t mean romance has died and dating is doomed.

Can we also point out that it’s 2016 and the whole stereotype of the guy having to be the one to incite romance and walks on the beach is a load of BS? Feminism and women’s equality and all of that jazz are rising and it’s EVERYWHERE. It applies to this, too. If you think romance is dead, bring it back to life. You can’t rely on someone else to be romantic and build you a castle while you sit on a throne and scroll through Insta.

There’s nothing wrong with waiting for a knight in shining armor to carry you off into the sunset, but you also can’t be afraid to grab the reins yourself. We can’t claim that society has killed romance and the concept of dating because we are society and society isn’t just a giant amorphous blob. Society is made up of the individuals and blaming anything on society is just a cop-out.  We are all individual people who have the capability to plan romantic dates, buy flowers, walk along the beach and watch the freaking sunset. 

So, yeah, dating in the modern times might mean swiping right more often than you’re getting swept off of your feet, but is it really so bad? Kiss a few frogs, plan some romantic dates and find someone that gives you butterflies. Romance isn’t dead, you might just not be trying hard enough.

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Prince Harry bombarded Meghan Markle with texts until she agreed to a date, claims friend

PRINCE Harry is so smitten with his new girlfriend Meghan Markle he texted her repeatedly until she agreed to a date, it has been claimed.

 Prince Harry and Meghan Markle
 

Prince Harry texted Meghan Markle repeatedly until she agreed to a date, claims a friend.

Reports suggest the fifth-in-line to the throne pursued the US TV star after meeting her at a charity event in May.  Insiders say Prince Harry is “besotted” with the Suits actress and charmed her following a string of dates over the summer. 

The couple are said to be “extremely serious about each other and massively loved up”.

One friend told The Sun: “They are the real deal. He definitely pursued her and besieged her with texts until she agreed to a date.


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“They went out with a group of friends to Soho House in London in early July, followed by two dates by themselves where Harry swept her off her feet. By August it was serious.“He is very full-on but she was going through quite a tough time with her previous boyfriend and she was very flattered.

Meghan Markle met Prince Harry at a charity event in May.

“She couldn’t contain her excitement, but once she got back from London she became very secretive. It was then that it changed from them just ‘seeing each other’ to boyfriend and girlfriend.

“He’s head over heels and she feels the same.”

Prince Harry reportedly wooed Meghan Markle as she went through a complicated break-up. 

The TV star split from her husband of three years, film producer Trevor Engelson, in 2013, and was dating celebrity chef Cory Vitiello

Prince Harry is said to be “besotted” with the actress. 

A friend said: “Their relationship was on the rocks but it was complicated as they were still living together and had to sort out custody of the dogs.“Cory is quite the player and they were on the outs in April.

“Meghan was feeling pretty down and vulnerable. She’d been very hurt by Cory. Then suddenly there’s a Prince Charming who’s pursuing her like mad and she couldn’t contain her excitement.”

Despite Prince Harry, 32, keeping the relationship under wraps, his new love regularly updates her one million Instagram followers with photos. 

Eagle-eyed fans noticed the pair have been sporting matching “his and hers”jewelry, wearing identical blue beaded bracelets.  

The LA-born actress is also known for her humanitarian work and was recently appointed an Advocate for Women by the United Nations. She also shares Prince Harry’s love for Africa and visited Rwanda to work on a clean water project and has supported the armed forces in Afghanistan. 

Meghan is known for her role in TV drama Suits

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A source told The Sun: “Harry loves her humanitarian work in Africa and the fact she’s an independent, sassy girl, while she’s part of a power clique in Toronto that includes the prime minister and major TV stars so she’s not intimidated by celebrity.”Rumors of Prince Harry’s romance with American actress Meghan have seen bookmakers tempting punters with odds on when the couple will first appear together.

Paddy Power has odds of 5/2 the Prince and the actress will appear together at the traditional Royal Christmas church service at Sandringham.

The actress was seen at Wimbleon this year. 
Prince Harry reportedly wooed Meghan as she went through a complicated break-up William
Hill believe seeing the two of them in church with the Queen over the festive period is a long-shot at 50/1, but are offering odds of 5/1 the pair will watch international rugby at Twickenham in a royal box, during a six nations or autumn international match and Camilla Thurlow.Paddy Power is offering odds of 6-1 for the prince and actress to get married in 2017, while William Hill are not as convinced Meghan will snare Britain’s most eligible bachelor and have odds of 25/1 on a royal engagement.
“The fifth-in-line to the throne isn’t getting any younger and is rumored to be desperate to settle down so it would come as no surprise to see the pair get hitched next year – I’ll await my royal invite.”William Hill spokesman Rupert Adams said: “It looks like very early stages here and any hope of an engagement looks a serious long-shot.”Although we have a sneaky suspicion that Harry might take Meghan to a rugby match as their first public outing.”

Kensington Palace has said it will not comment on private matters and Meghan has not confirmed or denied the reports since they emerged.

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10 Femdom Ideas To Dominate Your Man With

Is there anything hotter than a woman clad in PVC or a corset, with a flogger or paddle in her hand as she stands over her bound submissive partner? Maybe there’s fear or another gleam in his eye because he secretly relishes the pain or teasing that’s to come. With the right partner, props and even costume, that image could be you!

Before We Begin

Let’s address the elephant in the room, shall we? A lot of guides are going to give you advice about how to submit to your man. There’s nothing wrong with that, and you should check out this post, instead, if that’s what you’re looking for. But those guides often assume that a male dominant and female submissive are the default way to practice bondage role play — more tips here — or the only way to do it.

Those guides are wrong!

Many women aspire to dominate their men, and same-sex couples can enjoy power exchange, too. That’s why femdom is so popular, and why large cities have booming dominatrix industries! .

Whether you need to take control in the bedroom because you’re not quite at the top of the food chain at work or you simply prefer to retain control in as many aspects of your life as possible, you’re sure to find these femdom ideas thrilling!

You’ll especially enjoy this list of femdom ideas if you feel a strong pull toward dominating your partner, but you can still get pleasure from these role-playing scenarios if you’re playing the role because your partner desires domination. In some instances, however, someone with a truly submissive streak may prefer BDSM scenes with someone who identifies as a dominant and going through the motions may not be enough on your part.

We invite you to give these scenes a try if you’re still new to BDSM; although, you might want to stick to the less intense scenes. This can help you decide how dominant you are. You might find that you prefer being on the receiving end or even that you enjoy both sides of play. People with those dispositions are known as switches, and it’s a great way to experience a wide range of sensations and emotions! Try our helpful guide to BDSM.

Occasionally, you may run into a man who declares, usually in a pompous manner, that women cannot be dominant. Feel free to walk away without any further exchanging of pleasantries. There’s no need to let a small-minded bully make you feel less, and, in fact, he may simply fail if you’re a truly dominant personality 24/7.

Above all, enjoy trying something new even if it’s not something you try twice!

Onto the Femdom Ideas!

1. Foot Worship – Is there anything more subservient than an adoring partner kissing or licking your shoes? No! This is especially true if you’re wearing a pair of sexy knee or thigh-high boots, and his hands or mouth can travel up your leg. Bonus if he’s too eager and you can keep him at arm’s distance — or leg’s distance — away from you. Plus, prodding, kicking or stepping is one way to literally put your foot down in this relationship!

2. Cock and Ball Bondage – Now, this sounds extreme, but it doesn’t have to be. If you’re just starting out, try a stretchy cock ring on for size. After he’s comfortable wearing that, you can carefully measure for a stone, glass or metal cock ring. Then, you can move on to the “Gates of Hell,” a metal device with multiple rings.

For the ultimate in cock and ball bondage, consider a cage, which wraps his genitals in plastic or another material and prevents him from fully growing hard. This is a great option if you know your partner has trouble listening to directions! Some are even lockable, so he can’t get out!

3. Sissy Play – Some guys secretly love dressing up in frilly underpants, stockings, garter belters and other woman’s clothing. And others hate it. Either way, you can leverage the “sissification” of your submissive to your advantage by rewarding him with something lacy or punishing him with it! Make sure to remind him of how pretty, girly or even weak he is. If you’re aiming for punishment, you can spin those comments in a negative way, but you can praise him for rocking the look, too.

Plus, hopping for those sexy little things can be a lot of fun, and it’s different than shopping for your own body.

4. Impact Play – Whether you prefer good, old-fashioned spanking with your hand, grabbing a cane or long-tailed flogger for serious sensation or a furry paddle that provides more bark than bite, impact play is definitely something you’ll need to try at least once.

5. Bondage – Bondage is something that everyone should try in the bedroom at least once, and there are plenty of options when it comes to tying up your own lover. You can bind his wrists or ankles together with regular cuffs or invest in a hogtie system to bind all four together behind his back and really stretch his body out! Under-the-bed-restraints make it easy to turn your bedroom into a sex dungeon.

Other bondage devices include gags, which prevent him from speaking, blindfolds, ankle spreads that force his legs open, and even nipple clamps.


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6. Teasing – The final element that every femdom scene needs is a little teasing. Whether your lover’s bound or you’ve instructed him not to touch you, make a noise or get hard, you have got to tease him! This will push him to his limits. Teasing can take place as the lightest of touches. Consider a feather tickler if you want to barely touch his skin. You can also get close to his sensitive spots or imply that you’re going to touch him or get him off and then take it back.

Of course, many male submissives take a delicious yet painful glee by not being able to touch or taste their dommes, and masturbating in front of him might be the perfect way to tease him!

Role play FemDom Ideas

Now that you’ve got some ideas for activities and devices you can use t0 exact a little — or a lot — of pain, what kind of roles can you play that will work with femdom? Fortunately, many of the roles where a woman can be submissive also work well for a male to submit, and you can easily come up with other femdom ideas of your own.

Here are just a few scenes with dominant female roles that we love.

1. Student and Teacher – It’s easy to put this scene into action. As a teacher, you can dress stern or just a little sexy and meet our punishment to your “student” who might be late for class, interrupt your lesson or simply talk back! You can switch up the roles by playing a sexy librarian, which provides you plenty of opportunities to dress sexy enough to make your man drool — even if he’s not allowed to touch you!

Increase the kink factor by playing a nun and Catholic schoolboy, complete with costumes! Of course, you’ll have plenty of fun shopping for your own costumes, too!

2. Boss and Underling – Here’s another tried and true power exchange role playing idea. As his boss, you have all the power. If you stick to the school setting, you can be the principal, but you can just as easily play like you’re alone together in the office after hours. As a bonus, you can grab anything that might naturally be in the room — a ruler, for example — to use during your sexy play.

3. Cop and Robber – This one’s an oldie but goodie. Not only do you get to combine bondage in the form of handcuffs, but you can play rough as you chase and tackle a criminal that needs to be brought to justice. Of course, if you punish him for his crimes against the world — or even just against you! — you get to play the judge and jury, too!

4. Animal Play  – If you really want to try something different, then animal play might be up your alley. One common type is pony play, and you’ll find bits and harnesses, crops and even blinders that make your partner look more like a pony and experience the world like one, too. One thing fun thing you can try is a butt plug that has a ponytail attached. More about butt plugs here.

You can ride him around, instruct him to crawl on all fours with your crop and even reward him with a carrot — or something more tantalizing — if he’s a good boy.

Check out your local kinky shop for similar implements for puppy or kitty play, including food and water dishes! See if you can teach him to fetch or decide if he’ll need a bit more training!

Although we’ve given you plenty of good femdom ideas to get started with, there’s room for creativity and interpretation. When you add costumes and props, there’s almost an endless list of things you can try. Remember to take baby steps when dominating your man, and you can unlock a kinky side of yourself and relationship that will keep both of you on the edge of your seat!

At the end of the day, you might get to shed submissive shackles placed on you by society, boost your confidence or make your man cum like never before! Enjoy it.

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Snapchat Sexting: How to Own Your Lover With the Snap of a Camera

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There’s nothing that can liven your sex life like some strategic snapchat sexting. Here’s how to turn your lover on through just one picture.

If you’re looking for a way to spice up your relationship, hopping on board with snapchat sexting is definitely the best idea. Even if you’re new to sexting in general, it can really help add that something special that your relationship is currently missing.

It might sound a little scary to send a sexy picture to your lover, but that’s half the fun of it! When you try something new and take risks, your partner will notice. And believe me, they’ll definitely appreciate it.

Why you have to keep your sex life fresh and exciting

Too many couples forget the importance of sex in the relationship. It’s crucial to maintain a healthy sex life. There are too many ways sex can connect two people and maintaining that connection is what you need for a healthy relationship.

But let’s be real, having sex with the same person for the rest of your life can get a little stale. It can even become boring. In order to keep your relationship happy and healthy, you need to keep the sex exciting. You need to continuously try and put forth the effort to please your partner and surprise them.

How snapchat sexting can change the game in your sex life

It may seem silly that sending one little picture can completely change the sex dynamic between you and your partner. But take it from someone who knows, it definitely will.

If you want to know just how to own your significant other with a single picture, we have what you need. Follow these tips in order to send the perfect picture that will wow your lover every time.

#1 Practice. This might sound silly, but trust me. You really need to practice taking pictures of yourself. You really never know how hard it is to snap a sexy picture until you try for the first time. When you practice, you’ll start getting really good at taking high-quality pictures to send over to your lover.

#2 Think about what turns them on. Consider what they like. You may not think your belly is all that sexy. However, your partner might be super turned on by it! Don’t just cater the picture to make yourself look good in your eyes. Thoroughly think about the things they enjoy seeing in the bedroom and try to fit it in a snap for them.

#3 Find your best angles. Snapchat sexting without knowing your good angles is extremely hard. You need to work the camera, shift it around, and take a lot of practice shots before sending it off to your significant other.

To make this easier, stand in front of a mirror and figure out which angles you look best from. Then try to get in that same position, hold your phone out, and take the picture.

#4 Use a mirror for help. Instead of relying on yourself to take the picture, just use the mirror. Stand in front of it in a sexy stance and take a photo of your reflection. This is also a perfect way to add variety and get your entire body in the shot and not just one part. A full body nude picture sent to your lover can be very powerful.

#5 Get a friend’s opinion. If you’re really comfortable with a friend, send them the picture you want to use first and see what they think. They can give you an honest opinion on if it looks great or if you need to work on those angles a little more.


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#6 Have confidence. Confidence is half of what makes snapchat sexting great. If you’re shy and nervous, it’ll come across. And that’s something that can really ruin a picture and even the sexting in general.

So have some confidence. Send that picture with pride. If you choose to add a message, make it a hot one. Show them how proud you are of your body and they’ll feel the same pride.

#7 Make sure the background is clear. Nothing ruins a sexy picture like an awkward background. If you send it with something bad in the picture, it can kill the mood. Not only that, but you never want something to be more distracting than your naked body parts. So make sure it’s a clear, plain background before sending it off.

#8 Do it as a surprise. One of the best things about snapchat sexting is that it can be super spontaneous. You can surprise your significant other by sending them a picture when they least expect it. Don’t tell them what’s coming. Just snap it and send it without any message. 

#9 Send tasteful, teasing pictures. If you really want to use snapchat sexting to your advantage, be a tease. Usually, teasing can be a bit annoying. But in the case of snapchat, it’s even better.

Send little pictures that give your lover a hint as to what you may be sending next. The side of your panties, a loose bra strap, or even your panties on the floor can be very sexy. Make them think about what you look like behind the scenes. 

#10 Choose your words carefully. If you choose to send a little message with your naughty picture, be careful. Often times, people think they’re sending something really steamy when it’s actually a little awkward.

Use something you know they’ll like no matter what. It doesn’t have to be elaborate or really dirty. Sometimes, simple is even better. 

#11 Make sure you can back up any claims you make. You really have to be careful with what you say and how you say it. If you send a naughty message while snapchat sexting, make sure you can back it up.

If you tell your lover you’re going to do something for them when they get home and then you refuse, it’ll ruin everything. They’ll never believe another snap you send them. So be careful and only make promises you can keep.

#12 Send an innocent snap to make sure it’s a good place and time. If you’re worried about your lover opening the snap in a meeting at work, just send a quick message first. Ask them what they’re doing. If they seem to be in a good place, then go ahead and send that naughty snap.

#13 Show what they love most and forget about any insecurities. The truth is, your partner might love and be really turned on by something you don’t like in a picture. You may not like a certain picture of your ass. However, if that’s what your significant other loves, any picture of that will turn them on.

Snapchat sexting is a perfect way to spice up or even save your sex life. Put on your big kid pants – or take them off – and send that sexy snap. Let your partner know what they have to come home to.

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How to Take Sexy Pictures and Look Great No Matter Where You Are

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Wanting to look good for your special person is normal. Knowing how to take sexy pictures even in the oddest of places isn’t. Here’s how to do it.

If there’s one thing all relationships can use more of, it’s naughty pictures of each other. It’s true! While nakedness can’t solve every problem, it’s a great way to stay connected and be intimate even while apart. But knowing how to take sexy pictures isn’t really common knowledge.

And if you don’t take a good one, things can get a little weird. Bad nude photos are really embarrassing and can often ruin the moment. Plus, you can’t always be decked out in sexy lingerie when you take them.

Using naughty pictures can help keep your sex life alive

We all know how important a healthy sex life it. Even if your romantic relationship is on point, a lacking sex life can cause some issues in your relationship. Sending each other hot text messages and naughty pictures can help ignite it again.

But you have to be willing to put yourself out there. Not knowing how to take sexy pictures isn’t an excuse not to take them. You can – and should – always learn how to take great photos no matter where you are so you can impress your partner and keep your sex life going strong. 

How to take sexy pictures anywhere and look great doing it

If you’re not that great at working a camera and you can’t take a very good naked selfie, you’ll need some help. Here’s how you can take some amazing naughty pictures no matter where you are.

#1 Work up to it. If you’re not the type to send a naughty picture, you may want to work up to it instead of just snapping something and sending it right away. You want to warm up. You want to get good at it.

So start slow and even start with some dirty talk. Get your lover in the mood before sending over the big reveal. Getting comfortable doing some explicit texting and talking before sending these pictures. 

#2 Wear some nice underwear regularly. If you want to snap some sexy shots on the go, having the appropriate underwear regularly is a fantastic idea. You won’t have to worry about your underwear being unsightly or just not very cute in pictures.

The tricky part about this is getting into the habit of wearing something sexy all the time. The great part? Wearing sexier underwear on a regular basis helps you feel more confident in your day-to-day life.

#3 Practice poses in the mirror. I know you’ll probably feel silly at first, but this really does help. Knowing which angles are your best ones takes time and the only way to figure it out is to look at yourself.

So get in front of a full-length mirror and start looking at yourself. You can even try to mimic poses of great nudies you see on the internet. So long as you feel good doing them and you think they look good, you can do them when you snap a selfie. 

#4 Add a camera to the mix. Now you can finally grab a camera or your phone. You can really choose which you’d rather take pictures one, as some cameras come with the ability to transfer photos to your phone right away.

But if you’re just looking for a way to snap some sexy pictures on the go, your phone is all you need. Now you can actually start taking some pictures. Carve out some time to practice taking pictures in your specific poses and doing it quickly.

#5 Practice all the time until you find the right angles. Everyone has angles that work best for them. You just have to find yours. Certain angles of other images you’ve seen online will never work for you. It’s really up to you to practice and figure out what makes your body look the best.

But you also want to remember that your partner might find certain angles more attractive than what you think are good. So experiment with a few different types and gauge their reaction too.

#6 Remember lighting. Lighting can make all the difference when it comes to knowing how to take sexy photos with finesse. Getting some good shadows can make you look leaner and more shapely. But you also want to make sure the photo isn’t too dark because that can take away from what’s actually there.

Your partner will be squinting trying to see what you’re even wearing. So remember to think about the lighting when taking a photo. And no matter what, never turn the flash on. It washes everything out and isn’t attractive. 


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#7 Take pictures of what your partner wants to see. You may think your booty isn’t very photographable, but I think your significant other might argue that. And that’s especially true if they’re the booty-loving type.

Just make sure you’re taking photos you know they’ll like. Think about all the areas they pay the most attention to in the bedroom. Photograph those and send them on over. They’ll be itching to get their mouth on you.

#8 Invest in a selfie stick if need be. Not everyone can take great selfies. Those of you on the smaller side just can’t get your arm far enough away. If you want to up your selfie game, get a stick!

You can fit a lot more in your picture if you use a selfie stick and that gives you a lot more freedom of what to snap and send. Just remember that if you’ll use the stick you have to practice with it first. 

#9 Use what you’re wearing as a prop if you can’t get undressed. Your clothes can actually be great for you. They can work to your advantage if you want to snap a quick sexy picture at work.

If you’re wearing a blouse and a sexy lace bra underneath, just give your partner a peek. It’s really a great way to remain clothed but send a hot photo. Not all sexy pictures have to be completely nude.

#10 Have fun with it and send what makes you feel good. If you really like a picture, send it. It’s about having fun and feeling good about yourself just as much as it is about getting your partner hot and bothered.

So just relax and be goofy about it. You can even send a sexy picture with a silly face. It’ll make your significant other want to kiss you and hold you all at once, which is the goal, right? Sit back, relax, and send your partner something intimate.

Learning how to take sexy pictures is more about practice, finding those angles, and nailing the lighting. Once you have that down, you can take them just about anywhere.

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13 Important Teen Texting Terms Decoded For Middle-Aged Parents

When your kid texts ‘143,’ should you be alarmed?

Periodically, mid-lifers need a short refresher course in texting slang. How else do you know what your teens are telling you? Your answer to that question was probably IDK, amirite?

Help is on the way:

1. IDK means I don’t know.

In the same vein, IK stands for “I know.”

2. Amirite is shorthand for “am I right?”

We aren’t quite sure how that’s any faster to thumb-type but you do shave a few characters off. As for meaning, the texter is seeking affirmation or agreement.

3. NISM? means “need I say more?”

4. RME is short for “rolling my eyes.”

5. QQ4U is “quick question for you.”

6. XYZ is short for “examine your zipper.”

7. NMR is “not my responsibility.”

We hope to never see 6 and 7 in the same thread.

8. KMP means “keep me posted.”

And no, not posted in this sense.

9. 637 means “always and forever.”

This comes from the number of letters in each word and has stumped many a parent before you.

Same letter-counting deal as above.

11. 39 means “thank you.”

Not same letter-counting deal as above. We feel you, parents. This is confusing stuff, amirite?

12. CWTCU is “can’t wait to see you.”

The letter C sometimes shows up representing “see.” 

13. HIFW is “how I felt when.”

Followed by an event and generally a reaction GIF. An example:

“HIFW I realized today is Friday.”

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10 Things To Text Your Mom On Mother’s Day, If You’re Not Spending The Day Together

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While we wish we lived closer to home, sometimes we find ourselves far away from key family members on big holidays. That’s why it’s important to think of the best text to send your mom on Mother’s Day, so she knows she’s appreciated. For the record, a FaceTime session is also a solid idea, because you’re her child and she would probably like to see your face — but, some mothers aren’t quite technologically advanced. (And that’s OK.)

Even if you and your mom aren’t, say, Gilmore Girls-level close, it’s still a good thing to acknowledge the holiday. In fact, a text might be perfect in a situation like this. It shows that you’re thinking about her, and hope she’s doing well. Of course, even if you two are close, it’s possible that texting is just your prime way of communicating. So amidst the 900 texts you normally send, you’ll want to make sure your Mother’s Day text is top notch.

If you’re suffering from a bit of writer’s block, here are a few good suggestions on what to send.

1“Thinking of you today, and every day.”

Mother’s Day is great, but it’s kind of important to acknowledge that your mom really made a lot of sacrifices in life so that you’d grow up as well-adjusted as you did. You should make sure to tell her that her wise words and emotional support mean something to you every day, not just today.

 

It might sound cliche that there’s “nothing greater than a mother’s love,” but it’s true. When a child is born, the attachment a mother feels is pretty much immediate. It’s weird, but it’s one of the reasons as to why we often form such strong relationships with our moms. The bond is tight.

3“Just reflecting on how happy I am that you’re in my life.”

There’s a good chance she’ll respond to this one with “likewise.” Children really mix things up, but your mom has been there for you since the beginning.

4“Let’s grab coffee soon.”

Your schedule is so jam-packed, and your mom is fully aware of it. In fact, you usually vent to her about having no free time on a weekly basis. A text like this shows that you want to make more of an effort for a little more one-on-one time, and it’s such a sweet gesture.

 

I’m going to get personal here — my own mom passed away around 13 years ago. Even so, I’ve noticed so many little things I do now, as an adult, that are so like my mom. I think she would have appreciated the fact that a lot of her traits have continued on — even the quirky ones. I can imagine that something like this would be the ultimate compliment if it came from the right place.

6“You did a really good job.”

Moms often don’t get a lot of compliments. In fact, some people assume that mothers do what they do simply because they have to. Sure, they’re expected to fill a certain amount of requirements, but you turned out so well because your mother went above and beyond. Make sure you recognize that.


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7“Plan for a bunch of hugs when I see you next.

Hugs are great. They make you feel good, and you don’t have to carry them around with you if you live a distance away. From here, you can plan a specific day and time for a lengthy and worthwhile visit.

 

Moms like to recollect on old memories just like we do. Before you throw them on Instagram, text your mom a few of your favorite photos from childhood. Or even better, the two of you can swap. Seeing yourself as a kid, hanging out with mom, will make you respect your mother even more. (If that’s even possible.)

 

If you’re not a writer, you can probably find something that definitely relates. This is a nice text to get, since it’s totally different than your standard text, and is the closest thing you can get to a “texted gift.” If your mom is an avid reader, she’ll love it even more.

10“You’ll always be an important part of my life.

Sometimes, as you grow older, your mom kind of feels like she might be “intruding” into your new life. It’s important for her to know that no matter what, she’ll always have a place.

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How To Start Sexting A Girl – What Every Guy Must Know

 If a guy doesn’t know how to start sexting a girl, one of two things is likely to happen.

Either he’ll never try it, and therefore miss out on the crucial and exhilarating process of escalating with a girl, or he’ll have a much more difficult time of engaging the women in his life.

If you want to know how to start sexting a girl in a way that will get her engaged and excited, here is a crash course.

How to Start Sexting: Setting the Tone

Stating your sexual desires completely out of the blue isn’t a great technique for how to start sexting a girl as it can catch her off-guard.  Rather than looking to just start sexting out of nowhere, it’s often a good idea to set a casual, authentic sexual tone that will allow sexting to arise naturally.

A great way to steer the conversation in a sexual direction without being too crass is through misinterpretation. Interpret what she says in a way that makes it appear as though she is trying to seduce you.  She’s the one being sexually suggestive while you’re just there having an innocent conversation.  Doing this brings the sexual tension into the interaction while keeping it fun and playful.  This gives you a foundation to build sexual tension to the point where sexting becomes inevitable.

For example, if the girl asks if you want to meet for a drink, you can playfully tease her about how she’s obviously trying to get you drunk so she can take advantage of you. That kind of playfulness goes a long way and kicks off a rapport that gives her freedom to express herself sexually.

More Tension-Building Techniques

It might seem a little strange to be teaching how to start sexting a girl. Shouldn’t that sort of thing just happen organically? Misinterpretation isn’t the only way to playfully build sexual tension over text. Sexual innuendo (changing the meaning of what she says to make it sound sexual) is also a great tool to use in your texts to women. It’s fun and easy, and leads to a great back-and-forth exchange where you are both playful and sexual.

Another easy way to casually infuse sex into your conversation is the “let’s do it” text.  If she texts you something like “Want to go to a show at 6?” you can respond with “Let’s do it. Go to the show, I mean… not sex. Not yet :)”  A playful text like this helps her to see you as a sexual being without you coming on too strong.

Be Bold

If you want to learn how to start sexting a girl, you need to learn to build sexual tension playfully. And while flirting is great, at a certain point you’ll have to dive in and really own and express your sexual desires.

When the moment is right — and you’ll know when you can cross this exciting line — you can and should tell her what you’re thinking, feeling, and wanting.  Doing this can feel edgy for many of guys, but it’s necessary to take that risk.  Otherwise, you’ll never see much – if any – change in the way you text women.


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To help you take those risks, keep in mind that it’s perfectly acceptable to make mistakes.  You may say something now and then that doesn’t land well (I discuss how to recover from that below).  That’s to be expected to allow yourself room to slip up and don’t be too hard on yourself when you do.

And always remember, the more risks you take, the better. Your calibration will be for future texts.  Plus, you never know when that risky text will be the one that sends her over the edge and really turn her on.

Sharing Your Fantasies

Want a woman to share her sexual fantasies with you?  Want her to tell you all the things she imagines you doing to her?  To get her to open up in this way she first needs to feel safe doing so.  And the way to help her feel safe is to open up and share your own fantasies and desires first — thereby paving the way for her to join you.

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Once the conversation has taken a more sexual turn you can begin to share the kind of dirty thoughts you have about her.  Use descriptive language as you do this.  Take it slow, allowing the tension to build gradually, and don’t shy away from the little details (the thoughts and feelings going on as you imagine yourself peeling her shirt off, the way you imagine her reacting, the parts of her body that draw your attention and excite you, and all the other things you imagine doing with her…) There is a classy and safe way to do this while still indulging in a sexual exchange, especially if you’re not sure how to start sexting a girl.

By going first and sharing your own sexual fantasies and desires, you show it’s safe for her to do the same.  She won’t feel as timid about opening up since you were willing to be vulnerable first.

What if She Doesn’t Play Along?

Don’t worry. As we’ve said, there may be occasions when the girl isn’t really into what you’re saying and may even become upset by it.  If this happens, don’t worry.  Recovering from a miscalculation like this is easy.

If she doesn’t like the direction you took things simply acknowledge how she feels and move on.  You want to be empathetic towards her feelings without getting too wrapped up in them.  If you start to freak out and act like it was a big deal, then it validates the thought that it was a big deal.  If you brush it off like it was just a little mistake and not worth stressing over, then she’ll be more likely to see it that way, too.

So if she gets upset, respond with a simple “I’m sorry if that upset you, you just really turn me on is all.”  Who knows — she just might respond to your candor. If not, then you can just change the subject and move on. Don’t let the possibility of miscalculating deter you. If you remain honest and respectful, there’s always a smooth dismount.

The Sexting Mindset

A lot of the hesitation guys have about sexting comes from a fear of being seen as gross or creepy when expressing their sexual interest.  To avoid coming across in that way it’s important to maintain the proper mindset when you are sexting a girl.

First, remember that this isn’t just about you.  There is an amazing, beautiful woman on the other end of these texts.  So get in touch with that sense of awe and appreciation for the woman you’re texting.  This will naturally keep you away from comments that are too crude or disrespectful. Setting the right tone is crucial if you’re teaching yourself how to start sexting a girl.

Second, tap into that raw, animalistic desire you have for this woman and let that seep out in your texts.  When a woman is attracted to you she will want to see that side of you.  Instead of overthinking it and trying to text exactly what you think she wants to hear, simply express how you feel and what she inspires you.  Take ownership of those feelings and don’t ever feel you need to apologize for finding her sexy.

The combination of these two mindsets will help a woman feel both respected and turned on and will go a long way in getting her excited to sext with you.

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Flirty Text Messages and Friends

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If you want a few sneaky and sexy tips on flirty texts, click here to read the introduction on how to text flirt.

As we’ve seen in the introductory post, it’s really easy to start exchanging flirty text messages with a friend.

Well, as long as you know how to start getting flirty at the right time, that is.

We’ll talk more about these flirty texts and friendships in this feature, and how texts can affect two friends.

Flirty text messages between friends

Once you’ve learned how to start flirt texting each other, it’s only a matter of time before one thing leads to another.

No matter what, exchanging flirty texts with a friend has a snowball effect.

Once you start it, there’s really not much you can do but go with the roll.

You can’t stop, and you seriously can’t predict what could happen in future.

It’s quite hard to completely predict if the flirty text messages you share with your friend can lead to something sexual between friends, but in most cases, yep, it does.

But then again, the snowball can come to a stop if someone gets distracted along the way!

Flirty text messages and sex

When you exchange flirty texts with a friend and mention something like “I wonder how you look naked…” or “what color is your underwear…” it’s pretty obvious to your friend that you’re visualizing a picture of your friend at that moment. 

And when your flirty text partner replies back with something, either naughty or flirty, it just shows reciprocation. This can happen every now and then, and may even get bolder with each passing night.

Now if you flirt outrageously at night, and meet each other the next morning, there will obviously be a lot of blushing when you catch each other’s eye. On the outside, it might seem like you’re embarrassed, but in your mind, it is actually an acknowledgment that you enjoyed the previous night’s flirty text messages!


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Taking flirty text messages to the next level

This could happen more often, until one fine day, one of you work up the courage to flirt text back, saying that you want to try out that steamy fantasy in reality. Or it might just happen sometime when it’s just the both of you out somewhere, and the scene is clear. It can also happen when both of you have had one too many shots to drink. 

But don’t try pushing your luck to make these flirt text fantasies come true because it is meant to be fun, and it may just be fun in the end.

Is your friendship at stake?

At the start, the naughty flirting might seem like fun, and both of you look forward to text flirt with each other every night, but it can have its rough edges. It’s hard to predict whether this secret flirty texting would jeopardize your friendship, but everything depends on how much you push your luck.

You could leave all the flirting for those messages at night and behave normally during the day. 

But on the other hand, if you try making those moves off the phone, your flirting text partner might comply and you might hit it off as a couple or worse, as sex buddies!

But if your flirty text partner backs away when you voice your naughty sexual thoughts, you could call the whole texting game quits and forget about having another carefree conversation with your friend because things will just not be the same after that! 

So either ways, some things can blow if you cross the fine line between flirty text messages and reality. So think twice about voicing your mind, or even better, think a lot more than just twice before you send that text asking someone to describe what they’re wearing while sleeping in bed!

Flirty messages and saving friendships

As much as you’d love to participate in a round of frisky finger flirting, it’s easier to avoid complications if you just avoid those thoughts, especially with a good friend. Use those naughty tacky lines for the ones you meet or hook up in key parties or orgy nights.

If you do find a text that’s provocative in your inbox one night, try avoiding it. But if you want to indulge in a bit of harmless flirty text messaging, then go ahead and have fun, but avoid anything that’s overly sexual in nature, however tempting it may seem. Talking dirty and flirting could actually be more fun and something that you could indulge in even when you meet each other in person, as long as either of you doesn’t cross the line of flirting and border on sexual tension.

So the next time you see a message asking you to describe what you’re wearing to bed, you have two options. One, you text the color of your underwear. Or two, you send a message that says “Y dnt u ask ur mum? lol! Gdnght”

Flirty text messages are fun and can add just that little bit of chemistry in friendship, but should you take it beyond flirting? That’s a text you’ll have to decide on!

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How to Text Flirt with a Friend

Do you know how to text flirt with a friend? Do you want to? Text flirting is easy, and can be a great way to turn a clean friendship into something flirty and sexual!

All of us have shared at least one flirty text with a good friend over the years.

How to text flirt

Sometimes, it’s just a joke, and sometimes, we text flirt with a friend in the hope of getting physical with a friend.

So how does text flirting work, and how does it all start?

TEXT FLIRTING WITH A FRIEND

“Hi wt r u dn?”

“Jst bout 2 slip in2 my bed”

“Really? Wt r u wearing? lol!”

“Umm.. nthin! lol!”

“lol! Wish I was there!”

It’s that simple, really.

Friends flirt texting late at night, the mood set just right, and no inhibitions between friends, can lead to an explicit and flirtilicious conversation.

Well, if you’re surprised, think twice and look around the next time you’re with your bunch of friends.

Almost all the time, there will be at least a few of them who secretly flirt text each other occasionally, if not everyday.

Your friends wouldn’t be surprised if you’re indulging in it either.

Men and women have always been attracted towards each other, and at times, even the best of friends can end up having an emotional affair or may set off the vibes that can arouse sexual interest in each other.

Text flirting with a friend

When you text flirt with a friend, it can start off as a cute funny thing, something worth a giggle in the start, but as the days go by, the messages can get kinkier and more sexual.

And another thing is that, neither of the involved friends would feel awkward about it, but would look forward to text flirt with the friend the next night. You may be dating someone else, but the urge to flirt text this friend of yours in an intimate flirty manner can be such a turn on that it might be very hard to resist!

Psychologists say that this feeling is an echo of the feeling you get when you fall in love, or are aroused by someone new in a sexual manner. This person may be a friend, but when you text flirt with a friend intimately, you’re actually looking at the same friend of yours from another point of view, and every new message shows something new about this person.

When you text flirt with a friend, it can affect you in many ways. It may bring both of you closer, but there will always be sexual tension that is created between you and this friend. So before you go ahead and text flirt while messaging each other on the phone, ask yourself if you’re prepared to fall in love  with your friend or whether you’re looking for someone to spend a night with. Quite frankly, both can be achieved through a few rounds of text flirting. 

Most of the times, we text flirt only because of an urge to start a taboo relationship with a friend. After all, friends don’t have sex with each other, and it is this very thought that makes a friend hope for something more sexual with a friend.

Text flirting at night – How to text flirt with a friend

Have you ever wanted to know how to text flirt with someone through messages, but didn’t know how to go about it? It’s not hard at all. All you have to do is take your cell phone and text your friend, preferably late at night. In all probability, you would find yourself text flirting outrageously in a matter of days, or in a couple of weeks.

It begins with a message that could be intimate, even something as trivial as “So do you lie on your back or on your tummy when you sleep?”

The text flirting could get steamier soon, and you may just be on your way to a whole night of text flirting with your friend. We always feel more confident and daring when we text flirt over the cell phone, rather than a flirty conversation face to face. And the fact that you can add a little line mentioning you’re kidding, takes away all the pressure while your friend replies to your text flirt.

Your friend, on the other hand, would obviously know what your intentions are, but there’s something in text flirting that makes these flirty conversations all the more fun. It could give you hours of pleasure and a secret sexual relationship may bloom between the both of you, and both of you may end up becoming sex buddies or two people who are extremely aroused by each other, but don’t do anything about it. And that’s not a happy situation either! 

You would also know a lot about each other through text flirting eventually, physically or otherwise. But surprisingly, when two people start to text flirt each with other, their regular day lives do not change much. It would be more like a secret text flirt relationship the both of you share, late at night with a cell phone in your hands.

You see, it’s not how to text flirt with a friend that you should be thinking about, it’s what you’re going to do once you start text flirting with each other. Stay as friends or become sexually involved? Click here to continue reading about flirty text messages and how to take it to the next level.

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12 Flirty Emojis that’ll Make You a Pro Flirty Texter in No Time

Flirty Emojis

The world has changed. We no longer flirt in coffee shops and grocery stores. We use flirty emojis to get our points across via text.

Remember when texting first became a thing? We were all so excited about it, and we pressed a button three times just to get one letter. Now we all have smartphones that we speak into and it sends a text for us. Technology has done a 360, and times are changing. Thankfully, we have flirty emojis to help us express our feelings in a clear way and flirt our way into somebody’s heart.

Technology may have evolved, but some of us still live in the past and don’t know how to flirt *at all*, or specifically via text. I was in that boat, until I unlocked the code to flirting with emojis.

Top 12 flirty emojis that you need to start using

Fun fact: When 15, I had a crush on a boy, so I got his number from my best friend, sent him a text that said, “You’re cute <3” and then blocked his number and avoided him for the rest of high school. I had no game, let’s just say it.

I’d like to tell you my flirting game amplified since then, but it would be a lie. I have become quite clever at crafting the perfect text—yes, even the flirty ones. Since emojis became popular, crafting flirty text messages, and every other text message for that matter, has become a million times easier—and a lot more fun!

Adding a simple emoji to a line of text changes the entire meaning of the phrase. It’s really quite amazing. For those of you hopeless at flirting, like myself, flirting via text could be your strength! To help you out, I’ve compiled a list of the top flirty emojis that will have you sending flirty texts like nobody’s business.

#1 Winky face. C’mon, people. You know how much a winky face changes a phrase. You could say something as simple as “Meet me at Wal-Mart later,” and it’s completely acceptable. But once you add a winky face to that, it becomes “Meet me at Wal-Mart later ;)” and all of a sudden your evening just became a little more exciting. 

#2 Winky kiss. Again, with the wink! The winky kiss makes things a little less seductive, and a whole lot more cute and sweet. This shows your warm and kind side, and likely has the recipient smiling at their phones or saying “awwwww.” The winky kiss—always a good idea.

#3 Heart eyes. This one is pretty obvious, no? It’s basically saying they are so happy/into you that their love is explosive—even out of their eyes. I mean, I also use this emoji when talking about sushi or avocado toast, so it’s pretty diverse. Food and love are interchangeable anyways, let’s be honest.

#4 See no evil. This adorable little monkey is just that: adorable. This can be used after saying something cute, that might make you or the recipient blush. It adds an extra bit of “awwww” to the conversation, which is always a great addition to a flirty conversation.

#5 Smirking face. This one has the same effect as the winky face, but it’s a little less bold. It’s sort of seductive with an air of mystery to it. Use this emoji when you want the recipient to read between the lines of your text. This is a great flirty emoji and adds spice to your conversations.


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#6 Laughing crying. Let’s just be honest, people like to think they are funny, even if they really aren’t. If you are into somebody, you will laugh at their jokes—every single painful joke they tell.

This emoji is the best flirty emoji to use because it probably expresses laughter better than the rest. I mean, you literally cry from laughing so hard. It’s the equivalent of saying LMFAO, which used to be hugely popular for whatever reason? I’m not the internet police, I’m just saying.

#7 Rosy cheeks smile. By far, this is my favorite emoji, and I use it in all my conversations, even if they aren’t flirty conversations. This emoji is a sweet, joyful one to be used in any context.

#8 Waving hand. This might sound strange, but for some reason it’s a goofy emoji to use, especially for men. It brings a smile to the other person’s face, maybe even a slight laugh. It’s cute and harmless. If used in the right context it really wins somebody over.

#9 Two hearts. A nice variation of the traditional red heart. This catches the recipients eye and gives them warm feelings towards you. It is the emoji version of saying “I’m thinking about you” and/or “I care about you.” This is another sweet emoji.

#10 Sassy girl. I don’t know what it is, but when a guy sends this flirty emoji, they win every time. It’s goofy and silly and that is what girls like. This could potentially work for a female to send as well, depending on the context, but without a doubt, females like to receive this text emoji.

#11 Tongue. This emoji definitely is used in flirty conversations but tends to be more on the intense spectrum. It falls more into the sexting category. This emoji is almost always used in a sexual context. If that is the messaging you want to get across, use this flirty emoji. 

#12 Peach. They like your BOOTY! This is a clear sign they dig your body, specifically your behind. Take it how you want, but they are totally into you.

Now that we’ve all been brought up to speed on the evolution of texting and using flirty emojis, I’m confident in your ability to go out there and find yourself a person to send adorable, sweet, and sometimes just entirely sexual texts to. Hey, I’m not judging.

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Sexy Texts For Him: 9 Ways To Make Him Go Crazy Over You

 

Struggling to come up with sexy texts for him? I get it.

Texting someone you’re into isn’t easy, especially if the last time you dated…texting as a form of communication didn’t exist.

Maybe you just got back into the dating game after divorce, and you’re trying to understand the social rules of texting a man. coffee date.

Perhaps you’ve been dating a guy and want to get a little hot and steamy with your QWERTY self.

Whatever your excuse, you need help coming up with sexy texts for him that will ensure this man salivates over you.

Are you ready? Excited? Let’s look at some texting strategies that will amp up your game significantly.

Sexy Texts for Him: Tips to Get Started

Realize that texting has its own language. What might come off as funny in a face-to-face conversation might seem creepy or angry via text (that’s where emojis come in handy!), so be aware of how what you’re saying might be taken. Sarcasm rarely comes across well via text, especially with a guy you don’t know well.

Asking a question every few texts will help the conversation keep going, especially if your guy isn’t wordy via text (it’s common, believe me.).

While there’s some debate on whether you should wait a while to respond to a text (this can be considered a form of game-playing, which isn’t cool), I just suggest not focusing on waiting around to get his text. Turn your phone on silent, or just don’t jump up to check it every time it buzzes. This way you aren’t deliberately waiting to respond to his text, but you’re also not making getting a text from him the center of your world.

Also, try to match his cadence in texting. If he’s writing one-liners and you’re writing paragraphs, you’re off balance. Either try to get him to share more, or pull back on giving him the entire lowdown of your life via text. And let him initiate a text convo now and then. I get that you’re impatient and don’t like waiting, but you want to make sure he’s equally into you, and if he doesn’t hear from you for a day, he’ll likely reach out to check in with you.

And don’t be shy about asking him if he wants to talk on the phone!

I’m not sure why or when talking on the phone became a lost art (damn you, Millennials!), but when it comes to getting to know someone you’re interested in, talking on the phone can help things move a lot faster than texting.

You might find out that this guy is actually pretty chatty, but that his thumbs are big, making texts awkward.

When he asks how your day went, give him highlights that show you’re active and interesting. 

And Even More Texting Tips…

Maybe you didn’t go skydiving today, but tell a quick story about how you gave someone the Heimlich maneuver at lunch (if it’s true). Responding with “it was good” is yawn-worthy, so be more descriptive, and you’ll automatically catch his attention.

That being said, make sure there’s good back-and-forth. If he’s asking all the questions, that means you’re doing all the talking about yourself.

Respond by asking him questions.

That’s what a conversation is all about. Plus you’re in the getting-to-know-you phase of this relationship, and the best way to do that is be a little nosy.

While an occasional acronym (TTYL! BRB! OMG!) is okay, avoid texting like a 16-year-old. You are an adult. You know how to spell words. This guy wants to see that you’re not too lazy to spell out you’re rather than UR.

Likewise, curb your emoji use. One per conversation is usually adequate, but using too many emojis can, once again, make you look juvenile.

And please, ladies, don’t get all twisted when he doesn’t text you back right away. Too many women waste too much energy wondering why a man hasn’t responded. We’ve gotten so used to being able to access anyone via text at any time. Most of us text while at work. Or driving. Or sitting on the toilet. So you worry when you don’t hear back from him.

But trust me.

He didn’t fall into the ocean.

He didn’t perish in a fire.

He’s not on a date with another woman.

He hasn’t stopped liking you.

The man has a life. He may be in the middle of a meeting. Or with friends, and he’s not one of those to text in the middle of dinner (and that’s a great thing!). Sure, he might be playing games by waiting a day to respond to you, but if he’s that kind of guy, you’ll figure it out one way or another soon.

If he does ghost, back away.

Texting and demanding to know why he’s not talking to you in no way will get the response that you want. You will come off as a crazy person! If he was too chicken to tell you why he lost interest, he’s not the guy for you. Move on, Sexy Lady.

And now, let’s look at some sexy texts for him that will inspire you to step up your texting game.

Texts to Get Him to Ask You Out

If you’re meeting men on dating apps, there’s a good chance things could peter out before you even get to meet a guy. Most people on dating apps are simultaneously chatting with several people at once, so essentially you’re competing for this guy’s attention.

Your goal here is to keep his interest. How do you do that? Be intriguing, ask questions, and give him a reason to ask you out.

1. The Initial Text

Apps like Bumble require women to make the first move, which can be intimidating. What can you say to spark this guy’s interest?

You already know a guy you want to message is interested because he also swiped right on your photo.

(Not to put a damper on things, but a recent study showed that men are far less discerning than women on which profiles they swipe right on.

Some men swipe right on all, considering dating apps a “numbers game.)

Still, the worst that can happen is that he doesn’t respond. No harm, no foul.

So your first text should pique his interest. Look at his profile and his photos and make a comment, along with a question that gets him to respond.

Wow! You and that baby elephant are adorable! What country were you in?

Congratulations! You have the most filled-out profile I’ve seen here. Tell me more about growing up in Scandinavia.

2. Once You’ve Texted a Few Days or Weeks

After you’ve been texting back and forth a while, you might be getting tired of your online-only relationship and be ready to meet this guy. After all, you can’t know if there is chemistry with him until you’re together in person.

There’s a fine line between waiting long enough to know you’re both interested before going out and waiting so long that you probably will just be pen pals. The texts you send at this point are critical in getting him to ask you out.

Have you heard anything about the new [insert action movie here] film? It’s supposed to be killer! (hint hint)

There’s a new Korean BBQ joint I’ve been wanting to check out in my ‘hood, but all of my friends are vegetarian.

And there’s no reason why you can’t ask him out yourself!

I’ve always wanted to try rock climbing! Now that I know an expert, wanna be my instructor? 😉


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3. When You’re Ready to Line Up Date #2

You’ve now gone out with this guy, and you both had a great time. Strike while the iron is hot to line up your next date. Remind him how much fun you had together.

My arms are soo sore from our climb! Maybe next time we opt for something less exertive…happy hour?

Who knew skeeball was a competitive sport? I let you win…but that won’t happen next time!

Sexy Texts for Him Before You Have Sex

So things are going well, and you are just about ready to get physical with this man. Sexy texts for him, if done correctly, can be like foreplay. Make him salivate, thinking about the potential of being with you.

4. Here’s the Windup…

You’ve made out on dates and things have gotten a little heated, but nothing more than over the clothes. Pique his interest about what’s under there.

Whew! So tired. Went bra shopping today. Who knew it could be so exhausting? 😊

Had a great time last night. Who knows where it would have led had that group of school children not come up on us on the playground? 

5. Let Your Intentions Be Known

Maybe he’s already expressed interest in having sex with you, but you let him know that you needed to take things slow. However, now you’re ready to take things to the next level and you want to let him know.

I find it incredibly sexy that you’ve been patient with me about taking things slow. Trust me, I’m worth the wait!

Congrats. You’ve leveled up. I won’t be holding back the next time I see you. Prepare yourself!

6. Let’s Get It On…Tonight

Just like Baby’s sister in Dirty Dancing, you’ve decided tonight’s the night with Robbie — er, whatever his name is. You want to give him a heads up so he can buy condoms, shower, and manscape. Sexy texts for him like these will get your point across.

Just bought a new red bra. Want me to model it for you after dinner?

Sorry, you’ve had a hard week. Come over and I’ll give you a massage. After that? Who knows? 😘

Texts to Keep Him Wanting You

Some of the newnesses of your relationship has now worn off, but you want to keep your man lusting after you even if you’re not having sex every day anymore. (And hey, not to worry if that’s the case: studies show that couples who have sex more than once a week aren’t any happier than those who have it weekly.) Rather than texting him to pick up the dry cleaning after work, try one of these texts to keep things spicy.

7. If You Haven’t Had Sex in a While

I get it. Life gets in the way. Sometimes you get so busy and don’t realize how long it’s been since you had sex with your man. But it’s time to stop making excuses and start making whoopee (sorry, I couldn’t resist). Send him a text while he’s at work to make him totally distracted from pretending to actually work.

Hey, meet me at home for lunch. I hope you’re hungry. What’s on the menu? Me.

[No words needed. Just send a photo of you in lingerie.]

8. If You Want to Break Out of Your Routine

Bethany and Billy met six months ago. While at the beginning, they went out several times a week for dinner or an event, they’ve quickly settled into the typical Netflix and Chill routine that so many couples end up in. Now, while Bethany knows she’ll get some the second the credits roll on Game of Thrones, she misses the old days when they’d get dressed up, admire one another all night in public, and then rip each other’s clothes off the second they walked in the door.

She decides to try a different approach to get Billy off of the couch.

Iron your blue shirt, baby. I’m taking you out for oysters. And yes, they’re an aphrodisiac. The rules? You can’t touch me til we get home.

Remember we’ve got that work party tonight. This’ll keep you awake: I’m not going to be wearing underwear!

9. If You Want to Remind Him Of How Hot You Are For Him

After those oysters, you and your man lit a fire in the bedroom, and you can’t stop smiling. Don’t keep it to yourself; let him know by writing sexy texts for him to feel like a stud.

Our bed will never be the same. Should we burn the sheets? I blush at the memory.

Wow. I’m still speechless at how fantastic you were last night. I look forward to a repeat performance…tonight?

Waiting by the phone isn’t going to make it buzz. And the more energy you put into waiting, the more fantastical scenarios you’ll envision as to why he isn’t texting. (He’s going out with my BFF! I just know it!) Curb your hysteria and find something to do to distract yourself.

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Texting Your Crush: A Step-By-Step Guide to Doing It Right

texting your crush

It is difficult when you have a crush. You know, that person who makes your heart pound like crazy, your mouth a bit dry, and the butterflies in your tummy fluttering like never before.

Approaching them face-to-face can feel like too much of an ordeal. Particularly if you don’t know whether the feeling is mutual, and that’s where the humble text can come in to save the day.

Where were we before mobile phones, we wonder? There were probably a lot more cases of unrequited love, simply because the person didn’t have the courage to contact their crush.

The beauty of a text is simple. You can write it, modify it, save it for later, ask your friends what they think about it… you can basically create the most perfectly crafted witty, flirty, clever little sentence in the whole world.

Face-to-face meetings where you want to come across as poised and sophisticated, but instead come off a stuttering and a little bit sweaty, just don’t do you justice in the same way a killer text can.

Things to think about when texting your crush

Texts are a perfect way to break the ice, put the feelers out there, and see what kind of response you get. You can keep them as casual as you like, and while the pain of a no reply or a not-what-you-had-hoped-for response can feel pretty bad, it is definitely not as crushing *or embarrassing* as being rejected face-to-face.

#1 Get the conversation started. Obviously securing your crush’s number is imperative. Try to do this as casually as you can. Blurting it out randomly in the middle of a conversation or running up to them breathlessly and demanding it in that half-shouting nervous voice of yours is not going to go down well at all.

Be as cool, calm, and collected about it as humanly possible. And once it’s secured, the next steps are much easier when texting your crush! 

#2 Simplicity. For your first text, you might just want to keep things simple. A “Hi, how are you?” can work well, or just “It was great to see you the other day, we should try to bump into one another more often.” It all depends on how well you know your crush and how much you are willing to put yourself out there initially. If you are the kind of person who prefers to play it safe, then simple might be best. Try some of these:

-“Hey, how’s it going? What are you up to?”

-“Really enjoyed talking to you the other day, would be great to get to know you better.”

-“I was just thinking about what we talked about the other day, would be great to get your thoughts on…” 

#3 Being funny. Being funny can work really well when it comes to texting your crush. Everyone wants to be with someone who can make them laugh. So if you can say something witty and clever, then you may well increase your chances of getting a response and getting your crush interested in you. Some funny messages you could write are:

-“Stop making me think about you. I’m busy.”

-“God, leave me alone already – why are you stalking me?!” This one only works as funny if they haven’t texted you already!”

-Or why not open with a joke? “Last night I renamed my iPod ‘The Titanic’ so when I plug it in it says, ‘“The Titanic is Syncing.”

Making him or her laugh is a great ice-breaker, and if they respond with something funny too, you’ll know you are onto a winner! 

#4 Compliments. Giving someone a compliment is usually a sure-fire way to get them to respond when texting your crush. It is also more straightforward. It will demonstrate that you are not into playing games, that you like the person, and you want them to know it. This can be seriously refreshing to some people, and regardless, flattery usually will get you everywhere!

If you want to compliment someone, then be specific. “You’ve got nice hair” is kind of dull and shows that you haven’t put much thought into it. You could have texted that to loads of other people!

Make sure you keep it light too. Going too intense too early could really freak your crush out. Try these:

-That *insert item of clothing here* you were wearing the other day was super cool – you have a great sense of style.

-You have seriously incredible *insert eye color* eyes – they are so unusual, and pretty hot too!

Or simply just insert a little compliment into your text without making a big deal out of it i.e. “Hey good-looking” or “Hey cutie,” etc. 

#5 Flirting. If you are texting your crush, then we can only assume you are doing so because you want to see it go somewhere. Obviously, you don’t have to rush in with the whole truth like, “I have a MASSIVE CRUSH ON YOU!!!” That might be a little too much for a first message *but hey, it has probably worked for some!*

Keeping your texts flirty will stop you from hitting the dreaded friend-zone. It is important to do this from text number one!

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You might feel nervous, but if you ask them something mundane, or contact them under the pretense you want something from them, i.e. “Can I borrow that textbook you were talking about?” they may misread your intentions and start to think of you as only a friend. Don’t let that happen – be flirty in your messages at all times. 

You could keep it simple:

-Morning sleepyhead… hope you have a great day! xo

Or funny:

-Would u rather… get your foot stuck in a bear trap or hang out with me this weekend?

Or more full on:

I’m thinking about when you wear _________ it is getting me seriously hot and bothered! 

#6 Asking questions. Being interested in your crush is important. You want them to feel like you want to get to know them better, and that you have listened to what they have told you. If you have already chatted a few times, then make sure you remember something from the conversation and include that in your text. Asking a question makes it much more likely that they will reply as well!

-It was so interesting chatting with you about…

-Can you tell me more about…?

-You made me laugh so much when you said…

#7 Finding something in common. Finding common ground is a great way to start any conversation. Where do you know your crush from? Maybe it is a hobby or you work together? If you don’t know their likes and interests, then try to find them out.

Letting them know you both enjoy the same things will make them feel like you are more likely to get on. 

#8 Having a checker. When texting your crush, it’s always good to have a buddy look over your text before you send it. If you think it might be a bit over the top or too forward, get someone you trust to take a look first. If they give you the go-ahead, then just be brave and hit send!

#9 Waiting time. After you have sent your text, it can be a very nerve-racking time waiting for your crush to respond. Don’t be too disheartened if your crush doesn’t respond right away – they may simply be busy doing other things, playing it cool, or desperately trying to think of what to text you back

#10 Responding. When your crush replies, the conversation has begun – well done! Responding naturally all depends on what they say, so make sure you pay attention to it. Answer their questions and ask some back to keep the conversation flowing.

As for when the right time is to ask them out, after a few messages going back and forth, bite the bullet and just do it. You don’t want the conversation to fizzle out, and you can’t just keep texting forever!

We all know that texting your crush can be a bit scary. But if you follow the above advice, you’ll no doubt come up with a great text that they’ll definitely want to respond to!

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My Biggest Issue with The Game: Texting

(Christian here. This blog post is a Guest post from the winner of my From Beta To Alpha 6 Month Coaching Program Contest, Eric ‘The Chef’.)

It didn’t occur to me until a few months ago, how much improvement my text game needed. Face to face with a girl, I generally consider myself a charmer with a playful vibe and good stories about adventures abroad.

However, sometimes that humor does not transcend well into texting. I either get too silly, use too many smiley faces and have a hard time to hold frame and getting the girl to pursue me.

One of my favorite parts of Christian’s mentoring program is how I have instant access to any game question I may have by texting him. At least 1-3 times a week I’ll not be sure how to respond to a girl’s message. I’ll take a screenshot of the conversation and send it to Christian for analysis, like James Bond sending enemy information back to Q Branch. He’ll break down how to better hold the frame and convey a chill, non-needy vibe.

Here are 5 tips to texting I’ve learned along the way:

5) Turn Off Your Auto-Capitalization Feature On Your Phone.

Now when you text a girl, it has a much more laid back feeling.

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4) Never Use Question Marks, Exclamation Points Or Emoticons.

For one, they just aren’t necessary. Your humor and it should be conveyed without any of these features. You can laugh a bit, but don’t do it often. Remember, your life is fucking awesome and full of cool shit and you don’t have time to waste by texting girls. Hit her up, drop a bit of charm and plan the date.

3) Grammar Is Also Unnecessary.

Again, it just makes you more laid-back.

2) Respond At Her Pace, Or Take More Time.

If she responds back in 15 minutes, hit her back in 20. If she waits 2 hours, you get back to her in 2.5-3 hours. It doesn’t have to be exact, just remember that it all comes back to respect. If she doesn’t respect your time by responding promptly, she doesn’t deserve a quick response.

It’s human nature that when you send a text, you naturally check your phone within 1-5 minutes for a response. If you have more discipline, you’ll put your phone on silent and put it in the opposite corner of the room, while you fill your time with productive things like working on yourself, your business or meeting more women.

Kick the validation habit of expecting a text quickly. The slow burn is powerful, as most chicks are surrounded by beta orbiters hungry for their attention.

1) Figure Out What Texts Work, And Play To Your Strengths.

After trial and error, I now have a pretty simple pattern. If I meet a girl I say, “it’s…the sexy chef from (where we met)” If they’re into me, they’ll respond back enthusiastically and if not, I move on.

Then I chill back for a day or two, and begin the conversation with:

Me: “hey cutie (or sexy), hows your day going”

Her: “blah blah.. you?”

Me: (something cool I did, usually involving cooking because I play to my strengths and chicks dig a guy who can cook)

Her: blah blah

Me: “let’s grab a drink sometime”

Her: (either a yes or a no, it’s just to see if she’s interested)

Me: “cool, lets hit up XYZ lounge they have the best cocktails in town, hows thurs at 9”

Her: (either a yes, no or maybe (which usually means no). If she counteroffers with another day, that’s a good sign. If she says, “maybe next week” that’s generally a terrible sign and she wants more validation as she’s demanding that you ask her out again if you want a shot with her. Wait a week, reinitiate the conversation and see what happens.)

I don’t think texting can be more stripped down.

Oh, and one more thing.

Be aware of shit tests.

I’ve seen this a lot, where a girl will respond with “I’m not a big drinker, but how about dinner.”

First off, that’s arrogant and entitled that if someone asks you out for a free and delicious alcoholic beverage that you respond with “No, how about you spend 3x-4x as much so you can fill my belly.”

Plus, nobody feels sexy after eating plates of Italian or Chinese food.

Your response?

“water for u then, but XYZ has the best cocktails in town. how bout Thurs at 9”

In that response, I teased her by saying she can only have water and ignored her demand for dinner. Then I went right back into my offer and spiced it up with promising delicious cocktails (and, to be honest, they ARE the best cocktails in town. Plus the head bartender is a close friend…and it’s walking distance to my apartment).

Her response will reveal where she stands with you.

In fact, the better I get at the game, the more I’m learning how to filter girls out as quickly as possible.

She lives 45-60 minutes drive away? Rejected, as she’s geographically undesirable.

Is she 30 years old and still single? Nah, not worth jumping through all the hoops.

Does she have kids? Definitely not.

She’s a 7 but has a ton of attitude? Nope, plenty of better behaved girls who will respect my time.

Guys, what are your big issues when it comes to text? Drop a comment below and let’s help each other.

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7 Dirty Texts For Him — Messages You MUST Send Him TONIGHT

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Texting guys is not difficult if you know what we respond to.

The problem is when women assume that guys only want you to have dirty texts for him, or to hear you “talk dirty” – or “text dirty” – to us. It’s not as simple as throwing in a few naughty words and hoping that will turn him on.

First of all, what should a good text do?

– A good text should keep his attention

Contrary to popular belief, most guys will not drop you like 1st period French for the next hussy that comes along. HOWEVER – you want to keep his attention on YOU for as long as possible.

This gives him a chance to crystallize you into his mind – and that means you’re the first woman that makes him think of doing the naughty.

– A good text should keep him thinking about you…

Yes, even after he’s done reading it, your dirty texts for him should stick in his mind – along with his thoughts of you. You want him fascinated and obsessed for as long as possible when you’re not around.

A good text should make him text you back

Yeah, it’s actually an important thing to get a reply text from a guy. It shows you’ve managed to bend him to your will – at least a little bit. And you’ve started up his curiosity. Because if he isn’t replying to you… what is he up to?

A good dirty text for him should make him a little turned on…

Let’s face it – a man’s sex drive is the expressway to his heart. Knowing dirty texts for him and how to text him into a little arousal is a good way to light the fires of passion with him.

Dirty texts for him are the perfect way to do this.

So how do you send a naughty text to a guy?

You don’t want to seem slutty or desperate. But you know you need to make a mark on him – before some other woman comes along who knows how to spark his desire.

I’m going to share 7 dirty texts for him with you – and these aren’t the ones that you read about in fluffy fashion magazines, either.

I want to give you messages that will really have an impact on him – and an emotional impact.

I want to caution you to not use the texts you see in articles on other sites. Many of them were created by writers with no experience in coaching women to succeed in their relationships.

Let’s start with a few tips on how to dirty text men…

Dirty texts for him tip #1: Don’t go overboard

You don’t want to send him too many naughty texts at once. You’ll lose your impact on him and risk boring him.

What usually happens is that a woman will send something a little dirty in a text, and she gets a response from him.

She assumes that she’s got him hooked, so she keeps going with the same texting thread, only to eventually bore him.

You have to make any dirty texts feel like it’s GOING somewhere with him. This is a critical difference in the text messages that work versus the ones that fail with guys – and almost no women know about it.

If you send dirty texts to a guy and then keep that pattern without it leading to the hope of meeting up with you, it will feel like he’s being teased. And you don’t want him thinking of you as a tease.

I”ll give you a great way to do this in just a minute…

Dirty texts for him tip #2: Don’t go TOO dirty…

Some women think that because men have such sexually driven minds, that we must really like raunchy talk.

There’s really only one place where we enjoy that – and it’s in the bedroom. And it’s not nearly as dirty as you might think.

Texting is different, so you want to use the right words to get him excited.

Men respond to certain words more intensely than others. And these words are not the ones that women normally use, which is why so many women scare men off with their texts instead of draw him in closer.

Naughty texts for him tip #3: Get him curious, but don’t give away the ending…

Look, human beings love to be teased. But there’s no fun if you don’t leave stuff to his imagination.

One of the mistakes I’ve seen is when the dirty text message conversation gets carried away, and it crosses over into X-rated talk.

Guys might SEEM like they want this – but they don’t want this. As crude as men seems, we like some things being held back to our imagination.

And we don’t necessarily want to hear you using filthy talk to explain it to us.

Yes, this even goes for naughty pictures, too. Which leads us to this last tip:

Dirty Text Messages for Him Tip #4: Nothing naked.

Some guys really like the thought of getting a woman to send a nude selfie.

Some are blunt: “Hey send me pic of your boobs…”

Others not so blunt: “Whatcha wearing?”

Which is leading toward an eventual: “Send me a pic…”

Either way, the goal is the same. We want to see some skin.

It’s not that we’re foul, lusting creatures of perversion…

We just can’t help it – we men are visual creatures, and we’d really like to get a gander at “the goods.”

But you can’t let yourself get carried away. The more approval he seems to give you, the more tempting it is to start sexting wild images.

Don’t go there.

Keep it to his imagination. Nothing naked should happen on your cell phone.

It’s too risky, and no matter what you might think from his cajoling and begging, he’ll be much happier if the payoff is left in his imagination for now.

And yes, even if he sends you a dick pic, don’t go there.

So now let’s jump into some quick text messages you can use to dirty text him…

#1. Dirty Text For Him – The Fascinator

Remember how I told you that you need to text him into curiosity?

One of the best strategies to get a man thinking about you all day long, is to send something like this first thing in the morning:

TEXT: “I had the weirdest dream about you last night…”

Of course he’s going to want to know what it was about, and if it was sexual.

Whatever he texts you back, you simply say:

“I’ll give you the details when we get together again…”

BOOM! Fascination has been installed, and he will now be thinking about you all week.

You only need to plant the suggestion now and again to get him fantasizing about you.

#2. Sexy Text For Him – The Teaser

Every so often, a well-placed tease text is fine to start some “naughty talk.” The key is to give him something fun and funny, without being too mean about the “just kidding” part.

Example: “My hands are down THERE right now…”

Of course, he’ll send something back to this. He won’t be able to resist…

HIM: “Oh, really? Tell me more…”

Then you – nicely – bust his bubble with this reply: “In the bottom of my closet, rearranging all my shoes… this is work! ;)”

Just remember to not carry it too far before you let him in on the joke. And you might send him a consolation prize text…

#3. Naughty Text For Him – The Consolation Prize

If you do tease him a bit, or if you just want to end the conversation on a sexy message, send this: “Mmmm… Don’t worry. You’ll get yours…”

You haven’t said what “yours” is, and that’s fine. You’ve just reassured him that he’s not going to be left hanging forever.

He won’t be eternally teased. And that’s important.

Of course, this will leave him deliciously tempted, and be wondering what “his” will be – and when he gets it.

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#4. Dirty Text For Him – The Neighbors

Sometimes the best way to bridge into a naughty text conversation is to use fictional neighbors.

Try this one: “Hey, my neighbors are at it again… must be newlyweds…”

Again, bringing up sex indirectly is the best way to do it in text, since you want to make sure you don’t carry it too far.

#5. Dirty Texts For Him – The Too Bad

You can use this one opening with a bunch of add-ons. The way it works is you just start out your message with: “Too bad…”

Example: “Too bad you’re not here right now…”

Now, the way this works in a guy is that it makes us feel almost challenged on a certain level. Like it’s something we could change. And we’ll start throwing out ways of overcoming the obstacle of “Too bad.”

He might respond with: “Well, I could be over there in about 20 minutes…”

Or: “You could come over for a late night tuck in…”

The cool part is that this opening on your texts gives you a lot of room to challenge him. It’s a bit like the princess laying out the quest for the knight to overcome.

And it works like crazy!

#6. Dirty Text Message For Him – The Hot Shower

This one is…steamy. (Pun intended.)

You send him this: “Wow… just took a shower… that was so hot I couldn’t stop myself…”

Again, you’re teasing at what *might* have happened in that shower. And he’ll take the ball from there and run with it.

He’ll be guessing what it was you couldn’t stop yourself from doing.

Just play up the details of your self-cleansing session… how you applied the soap… where you had to lather up…

Geez, I’m getting excited just writing this, so I’m sure it’s going to work on him.

Use This Naughty Text Message 7 – The Girl Kiss

This one is SUPER naughty, so use it with care, because it will drive him insane.

I call it the Girl Kiss:

“Hey, would you be mad if I kissed a girl?”

Now, whether or not you have done this, it doesn’t matter. Yes, guys go crazy with desire when they think there’s this chance of girl-on-girl action.

It can just be in our imagination, but it’s enough to get him hot and bothered for days.

You can always follow up later with: “Not that I have… I was just wondering if you’d be jealous of losing me…”

This one is a real firestarter, so use with caution.

There you go – 7 dirty texts for him – but not so raunchy – that you can use.

These work so well because they use the most powerful sexual stimulant: Imagination.

Guys don’t need the vivid details, or the heavy swearing – or even the x-rated stuff to get us excited.

Just let us know you’re THINKING about sex and you’re willing to play with it, and that’s enough to get almost any man turned on and fantasizing about you.

But this is just the tip of the tantalizing iceberg of desire you can create in his heart and mind.

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Exactly How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Using Text Messages

 

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Oh, texting. What a lovely, convenient yet potentially horrible way to try to get your ex back. Texting can be an extremely powerful way to make your ex-miss you, remind him of how good your relationship was and make him want to get back together. 

Before I go into the types of texts to use when texting your ex to get him back, though, I must first describe one of the most common (and fatal) mistakes both women and men make when it comes to texting their ex (and texting anyone they like in general).So the mistake is… a constant barrage of texting.

I am talking about the kind of texting where you do something like this…

You know the kind of sequence I am talking about.

This might be an extreme example, but you get the idea.
Now, I am not trying to say that it makes you (or anyone who does this) a bad person because they get caught up in this kind of texting frenzy. Not at all. It is self-sabotaging, because it makes the person never want to text you back.

So, now that you know what you should not do (ever, no matter how tempted you are to do this… and if you have already done this, stop NOW).

No Contact Is Necessary

What you should do is…do “no contact” for four weeks. At least four weeks.

Why? When you do this, it gives you the best shot of putting yourself in a position where you can ultimately use texts to get your ex back. If you do not follow the no-contact rule, the rest of this advice has a low chance of working…

Yes, the no contact rule is that important.

It is necessary because it gives you time to gather your thoughts.

It also gives him the space to miss you. If you constantly contact him, he can’t miss you.

Rather than miss you, he will feel bombarded by an endless stream of texts. Trust me, I understand the impulse (and am even guilty of doing it myself) but you need to make a concerted effort to not contact him.

Rather than him feel a sense of satisfaction that you are clearly still interested in him, by doing this, you “turn the tables,” putting yourself in a position of power in a sense. The reason is that he will be confused about why you aren’t constantly texting him.

Plus when you do this, you eliminate all worry you would have when you end up in one of the most common traps women end up in…

Texting a guy and getting no response. The act of texting and getting no response is much worse than simply not texting in the first place. There is nothing worse than putting that text out there only to wonder when and if he will respond.

OK SO

You have followed the no-contact rule, what comes next?

Well…

There are specific categories when it comes to the type of texts you need to send in order to make your ex want to get back together.

 

First Impression Text /Intrigue Generator

So you’ve maintained no contact for a good enough time, right? Good. This is KEY (I know I keep repeating myself, but trust me, this is so important it is worth repeating a million times to make sure it happens!).

When you do text him for the first time, the key is to say something intriguing and interesting. What I mean is, do not send a text saying, “Hey. How r u.”

Example:

The key is to make it happy, alive and fresh. When you show him you are doing something fun and feel happy, he will feel a positive vibe from your text. All men love a woman who gives off a happy, fun vibe. This will make him want to text you.

Nostalgia Text

Nostalgia is an extremely powerful emotion. You know how when a song comes on that reminds you of the past, it can make a mountain of emotion well up in your throat? Well, think of the nostalgia text in this context.

 

When you use the nostalgia text, you invoke powerful emotions in him that reminds him of the best parts of the relationship. You were obviously together for a reason, right?

So reminding him of those highlights of your time together is a powerful way to make him miss you and think about the good times you spend together.

The best type of text to use in this case is something very specific between the two of you, something unique and off the wall that only you guys would understand. It creates a sense of unity and shared understanding.

Example:

Envy Creation

A lot of people say trying to make your ex jealous is an effective strategy. To be honest, this is an extremely tricky, dangerous one. But I am going to mention it because it is something a lot of people discuss. In certain situations, it can be extremely effective. In other situations, though, it can be a total trainwreck and lead to a complete disaster.

Here is the psychology behind it.

If you were in a relationship with someone, you get used to the person. You might even get bored of them sexually or in terms of how attracted you feel to them.

What happens, though, when you see that the person you got bored of is intensely desired by someone else? What happens is a burning attraction CAN be created if you do this the right way and in the right circumstance.

To some men, it is attractive (in an angry, furious sort of way) to know that someone else desires the woman you were with. It’s a primal, instinctual feeling.

However, if the man you are dealing with is an insecure type or an extremely emotional, jealous type… DO NOT use any kind of jealousy when dealing with him.

I repeat: this will only create more problems if you try to make someone jealous if they are the wrong “type” to make jealous.

Another thing to keep in mind is… you can only do this text after you have already been texting him in a pleasant way where you have built up some kind of mutual rapport.

So here is an example of a “jealousy” text.

The issue here is this could end up being an extremely obvious attempt to make him jealous. So you might want to consider doing something less obvious.

If you want to take the risk though, you can go for it.

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Freestyle Text

So this is the last type of “text” to use when it comes to your ex. What I mean by this is… if a certain kind of rapport of mutually exciting conversation develops, simply go with the vibe and let things unfold as they may.

That is the best way to think of it: if something happens naturally and organically that feels good for both of you, keep going with it. This is actually the best kind of “texting” to engage in, because it builds the foundation for a solid, healthy new relationship.

Whatever happens, at the end of the day, know this: even if nothing works, I promise, you will be OK. You have to know this, to truly believe this and live by this principle. This gives you the best shot of getting your ex back (when you really believe that you will be OK in your life whether or not you get him back). It gives off a positive vibe that makes him more likely to want to be with you.

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19 Sexy Text Messages To Keep The Spark Alive

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Keep the spark alive with some naughty texts.

Keeping the spark alive is one of the main goals for most couples. When the initial excitement of a new relationship dies down, it can be difficult trying to rekindle it. Before actually giving you these 19 sexy text messages, I first want to give you a few different techniques and tactics to show you how to keep that spark burning for as long as possible. One of these techniques is using sexy text messages.

Sexy text messages are very self-explanatory. In fact, you could probably think up to 3 different sexy text messages to send your man right now without much effort. While actually coming up with sexy text messages to send to your man is easy, how you use them requires a bit more thought and finesse. So before giving you the 19 different sexy text messages to send your man, I need to explain a few crucial things.

1. Some Days, Not Every day: Part of the initial spark with your partner is the freshness and unpredictability that you get to experience at the start of your relationship as you find out about each other. This is something that you absolutely must keep in mind when using sexy text messages. If you send your man a message every day, then it’s going to lose its power to turn him on and arouse him pretty fast. A much better strategy is to send your man sexy text messages sparingly, only about 1 or 2 per week and at completely different times. This way each message he receives will be a real surprise. This should be the exact same approach you take when giving your man a blow job. Too many, too often make them boring.

2. Nasty And Nice: Just like in my previous point about varying when you send your man a sexy text message, you also need to vary the content of your message. Some texts you send your man should be very explicit and detail how you are feeling or what you are going to do to him later, while others should be much tamer and less suggestive. By varying, when you send your messages and their content, you’re a man will never know what to expect, perfect for keeping the spark alive in your relationship. Now for some sexy text message examples (notice how some are tame, while others are really wild).

“Just saw something really hot that made me think of you.”

  1. “What would you like me to wear to bed tonight?”
  2. “Would you be mad if I made out with a girl?”
  3. “I don’t know why, but all I want right now is sex.”
  4. “I dreamt that I was your sex slave last night, it was hot — very hot”
  5. “What would you say if I suggested some sex in public?”
  6. “When you get home, let’s watch some porn, seriously.”
  7. “If you can guess what color my panties are, then I’ll give you a blowjob when you get home.”
  8. “I loved sleeping with you last night.”
  9. “I don’t know if this is normal, but my legs get weak when you kiss me.”
  10. “I wish you were here right now. I’m too damn horny!”
  11. “I’m going to wear the shortest skirt I have tonight”
  12. “What’s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?”
  13. “If you could only have regular, anal or oral sex for the rest of your life, what would you choose?”
  14. “I really miss you. I wish we were together right now.”
  15. “I just had the dirtiest thought about you ever. Too dirty to text — wow, I’ll tell about it later.”
  16. “What would you say if I suggested we spent all day Saturday in bed?”
  17. “Can’t wait to kiss you later.”
  18. “The way you hold me is so hot.”

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Notice how some of these messages are very dirty and explicit while others are quite tame? Perfect for keeping things interesting!

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190+ Really Cute Good Night Text Messages for Her

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What do women love? A sweet man that can be her knight in shining armor. While it sounds romantic, it is also a necessity for any man that wants to put a smile on his woman’s face before they go to bed at night.

Whether you don’t live together, or you’re away for work, there are cute text messages that you can send to her before going to sleep. The following list of 190+ cute goodnight SMS will put a huge smile on her face.

UNIVERSAL GOOD NIGHT MESSAGES FOR HER

1. “Night is purer than a day; it is better for thinking, loving and dreaming. At night everything is more intense, more true. The echo of words that have been spoken during the day takes on a new and deeper meaning. Good Night My Dear.”5

2. “I know that every nightmare is free from my mind when I go to bed at night. The thought of you can bring me nothing but heavenly dreams.”

3. “Dream touches your heart and soul. It is a magical memory that unites fantasy and reality. Hope you’ll have the sweetest dream tonight… Good Night”

4. “At this moment, there are over a billion people sleeping or just waking up to start their day. It’s amazing that the only person that I think about at night is you. I hope you dream of love and happiness.”

5. “Good night! Sleep tight. I may not be by your side, but know that you’re always in my heart.”

6. “Hold your phone tightly because this text message is a hug in disguise. Good night :)”2

7. “Saying good night is not just putting an end to a day, it´s a way of saying, I remember you before I go to sleep. Hope you can feel the care that goes with it, Good Night…”3

8. “You are the reason why I have sleepless nights. You are the reason why I tend to hold my pillow tight. And you are the reason I can’t sleep without saying goodnight.”

9. “Always end the day with a positive thought and grateful heart. Good Night!”

10. “I like the night. Without the dark, we’d never see the stars. I wish you sweet dreams!”

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11. “Beautiful dreams, stars, the moon, flowers, and sunsets have nothing on you girl. You make the world a brighter place even when you’re going to bed.”

12. “I know that you are busy, but I wanted to tell you to have a good night.”

13. “I never have to worry about bad dreams again. I just close my eyes, think of you, and everything is perfect again.”

14. “My night is always the same. I jump in the shower, brush my teeth and spend the whole night thinking about you. It is perfect!”

15. “My wishes for you tonight are dreams filled with love, peace, comfort and thoughts of me.”

16. “Night is silent; night is beautiful; night is calm; night is quiet… But any night is not complete without wishing you good night. Sweet dreams!”

17. “When I lay in bed, I thank my lucky stars that I have you in my life.”

18. “A million todays and a million tomorrows would never equal the amount of happiness that I have when you’re in my life.”

19. “You are the one thing I love the most in this world. You have given me hope when all I see is darkness.”

20. “The stars are shining, and the wind is blowing. Everything seems still and perfect awaiting for earth’s angel to rest her head on the pillow and close her eyes. Good night!”

21. “Hey! It’s time to go to bed, but I want you to know that I love you and cherish every moment that we spend together.”

22. “I hope it’s not too late to tell you goodnight and that I love you more than anything in this world.”

23. “Fall asleep happy tonight, my love. Know that we are always together in our hearts even when we are separated in the distance.2

24. “Sweet dreams airlines is boarding, and it’s time to meet your captain – ME!”

25. “Quick. It’s time to go to bed. The faster you fall asleep, the faster we can be together in the morning.”

26. “I just woke up realizing that something was missing. Without you by my side, it is so hard to fall asleep.”

27. “You are the light of the world. When I wake up, you are the sun that beams on my face. When I am in bed, you are the light of the moon that creeps in between the shades. I love you.”

28. “You are on my mind so much that I thought I would text you to tell you goodnight, and I love you.”

29. “Every night, God sprinkles a little magic dust on you when you’re sleeping to make you even more beautiful when you wake up.”

. 30. “I have never dreamed of you. I can never fall asleep because you’re always on my mind.”

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How to Text Your Crush: 12 Moves to Play It Cool & Win Them Over

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If you’re into someone, start a conversation.Texting is a great way to start, but there are some things you need to know about how to text your crush.

Texting is usually the easiest way to start a conversation with someone. For many people with social anxiety, texting is a huge relief. But here’s the thing, texting is somewhat of an art form. Though it seems easier, it can be tricky since you try to get to know them without seeing their facial expressions. But that doesn’t mean you cannot succeed if you know how to text your crush.

You just need to be more aware of what you say and how you say it. So, learn these tricks of the trade to get you the master texter.

How to text your crush and win them over

Now, at the end of the day, there are no strict rules that you must follow, since you’re the one in the conversation and not me. However, use these tips and tricks as a guideline if you’re not sure how to text your crush.

They help you put yourself on the right path to success with your crush. Who knows, maybe you’ll even get yourself a first date out of it. So, before you freak out, just follow these tips to help you find the happy texting balance.

#1 Send one text. If you send the very first text, just send one. Whether you just want to talk or ask them out, start out with one text. Don’t make it an essay long, just a simple and sweet text which lets them know that you’re thinking of them. Now, if there is no reply from them after a day or two, you can send them one more.  After that? That’s it, no more texts. 

#2 Go meme easy. Listen, I think you can send memes to your crush, just don’t swarm them with every meme you find hilarious. Social media is a great tool to use if you want to communicate with someone. You don’t want to come across as annoying. If you’re always sending memes then you’re annoying. Only send them the gems.

#3 If they aren’t texting you, don’t ask them. There is nothing more desperate than asking someone why they’re not replying. There’s a reason why: they’re just not that into you. I know you want them to reply to you. I know the feeling, but not everyone is going to like you. Of course, it’s rude of them not to reply, even to tell you they’re not into you. But if they were into you, they’d reply. It’s that simple.

#4 Ask them questions. Now, don’t go on this interview-type conversation. Try to get a flow going and insert a question every here and there to get to know them. Of course, the best way to get to know them is to actually spend time with them, but you can also do this virtually through texting or FaceTime. So, do ask questions but not to the point where it looks like you dig for information. Slow and steady wins the race.

#5 Leave out talks about the ex. We all have baggage, but that doesn’t mean you have to talk about it right now. You’re trying to get to know your crush, so if that’s the case then leave out exes. Sure, you can talk about past relationships. If they’ve had any, for example. But you’re trying to keep the conversation fresh and about shared interests. 

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#6 No midnight texts. It’s just not a good idea, I mean, don’t you have things to do? Not only does it look like you have nothing to do if you’re always texting them, but it also can give off the impression that you’re looking for a booty call.

Simply avoid texting your crush at times of the day where it comes off as a “casual sex” type of text. That is unless you work night shifts or have crazy schedules.

#7 Keep the goal in mind. Your goal isn’t to spend the rest of your life talking to your crush. Your goal is to land a date with them. So, yes, text them, but make sure that you eventually achieve the goal of asking them out on a date. You want to get to know them but you want this to happen face-to-face.

#8 Use shared interests. If you both like the same TV show or sport, then use that as a way to start a conversation. You can bring up the hockey game coming up next weekend or what just happened in the last episode of the show you both love. You want to make a connection with your crush and using shared interests are a great way to do so.

#9 Three-day rule doesn’t exist. If you get your crush’s number, you don’t have to wait three days to contact them. Contact them the next day or a couple hours after. The three-day rule doesn’t work for anyone really, and if someone did that to me, I wouldn’t go on a date with them. So, if you’re interested, then don’t wait. Go and get it. 

#10 Be direct. If you like this person, be direct when you’re asking them out. In addition, make it clear that you’re into them by flirting with them. Don’t try to beat around the bush and be subtle, as this will land you in an unclear area. So, if you like them, let them know.

#11 No far future talks. Listen, talking about watching a movie next weekend is fine. But if you talk about going to Spain next year, well, you’re going to freak your crush out. Any talks about the future, keep them in the near future. Otherwise, they think you got too serious too fast. 

#12 Be yourself. I know this sounds so High School Musical, but seriously, you need to be yourself. If your crush isn’t letting you be yourself then this may not be the person for you. Of course, you give your best first impression but make sure that you stick to who you are.

Now that you know the tips and tricks on how to text your crush, it’s time you used them when you’re texting your crush. Just remember to be yourself!

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How to Take a Good Selfie & Look Cute Every Time You Snap a Photo

 
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 Taking the perfect photo of yourself isn’t always easy. But don’t worry. You can learn how to take a good selfie that makes you look great every time.
 

In the world of social media, being able to take the perfect selfie seems to be the most important thing. If you take a bad one, it can make your entire profile look bad, even if you’re really an adorable person. That’s why everyone should learn how to take a good selfie.

You use selfies all the time. Everything from snapchatting to setting up an online dating profile relies on your ability to take a great photo of yourself. If you don’t know how to do that, you can end up making someone think you don’t look anything like what you really do.

All the ways learning how to take a good selfie can help you

I’m not going to lie, there are more important things in life than knowing how to take a good selfie. However, knowing how to snap a great picture of yourself can actually come in handy for a number of reasons.

Like if you see your favorite celebrity and want to get a great picture. Imagine meeting them, getting a picture, and having it turn out awful because you didn’t know how to get a great shot. It can also help you attract followers and it can even give your self-esteem a boost when you know how to take a good selfie.

Learning how to take a good selfie made easy

There’s definitely a system to follow if you want to snap that perfect selfie. In order to learn how to make yourself look the best when you have to take your own picture, follow these steps.

#1 Get into an area of good lighting. The light is really what’ll make the photo look good or bad. But the thing about photo lighting is that is can be tricky. You may think the best lighting is on a sunny day, but that can actually be a bit harsh.

The absolute best lighting is outside on a cloudy day. You have the raw, natural light without the harshness of direct sunlight. You can also learn where in your house has great lighting and just take your photos there. 

#2 Look your best. You can’t take a great picture of yourself when you’re looking like crap. If you really want a good selfie, look your best. Make sure you’re groomed and selfie-appropriate.

#3 Learn which angles are your best. Everyone has angles that suit their face and body better than others. You have to learn what those are so you can always capture them when you take that photo. In order to do this, all you have to do is keep practicing until you find an angle that looks great. Then you just have to replicate it each time.

#4 Practice in a mirror before snapping the photo. If you’re having a hard time figuring out which angles are best, get in front of a mirror. Move your body and face until you look in the mirror and think, “Wow! This looks great.” That’s your angle.

#5 Use great selfie apps. There are tons of apps out there dedicated to taking a great picture of you. They’re full of features and editing options that can give your selfie something extra. Just keep in mind that sometimes, less is more.

#6 Use props or your hands. Don’t just take a picture of your face every single time. You have to mix it up. Add some props or even your hands to give is something different that not everyone sees. The trick to learning how to take a good selfie is all about knowing when to use other objects in it.

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#7 Use interesting expressions. If you upload a selfie and all of them look exactly the same with the same angle and the same expression, it’ll be really boring. You have to mix it up! Don’t be afraid to show your smile, give a winking face, and even stick your tongue out. Make it fun!

#8 Try full-length selfies sometimes. Selfies aren’t just about your face. If you have a full-length mirror, then take pictures of your whole body. Changing it up every once in a while can be a great thing!

#9 Keep the editing simple. People can tell when you heavily edit your photos and it won’t look good. If you do choose to edit your features or add a cool filter, keep it as natural looking as possible. People will get annoyed if they can tell you’ve added a lot of effects. 

#10 Avoid awkward poses. You know the ones I’m talking about; the duck lips, the peace sign, and sticking your butt out are all poses that have been overused. They’ll get old really quickly and make you look like you don’t know what you’re doing. Be unique and your selfie will stand out.

#11 Use the back camera – not the front. I know what you’re thinking! You think the front camera is meant for selfies. While that may be true, it doesn’t mean it’s the best camera to use. The one that’s on the back of your phone is actually a better camera all around. Therefore, you’ll get a better selfie.

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#12 Snap selfies with your pets and friends. Everybody loves a selfie with an animal! If you have pets, take a picture with them and upload it. You can also take selfies with your friends to increase the quality. The more, the merrier. 

#13 Learn the current selfie trends. These trends are always changing. Remember when making duck lips was really big? Going on social media and checking out the selfies everyone else is uploading can help you figure out which trends are biggest. Then you can replicate them for your own selfies.

#14 Pay attention to which photos get the most likes. This is just something anyone should be doing with all photos. Find out which ones are getting the most likes and take more selfies like those ones. People like it for a reason.

#15 Smile! There’s a time and a place for grumpy-looking selfies, but everyone loves to see you happy and smiling. No matter what, having a genuine smile when you take a selfie can make is SO much better. So if you’re having a hard time and you’re not sure how to take a good selfie, just smile and you’re halfway there.

Learning how to take a good selfie isn’t something that you’ll pick up right away. It can take time to figure out which angles make you look best. Keep practicing with these tips and post those selfies!

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10 Ways to Get Your Man in the Mood for Naughty Romance

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There are days when you feel particularly frisky, while your partner feels a little distant. With these few simple tips, you are guaranteed to get him in the mood in no time. It’s just a matter of reading your partner well and being attuned to his needs. Your partner’s body is your playground, and it is your time to go exploring. Read him well, and the rewards will be great for the both of you.

While men respond well enough to an outright declaration of wanting sex, there is something fun in the art of being subtle that challenges you to spice up the relationship. After all, why go the easy route when you can prolong the teasing for both your pleasures?

Seduction plays a crucial role in every romance. It keeps the relationship new and exciting. With seduction, passions are kept alive, and desires are rekindled anew. This is the secret to a long-lasting, passionate relationship.

Subtle seduction techniques for women

They say subtlety is what women are great at, but sometimes, being too subtle can end up with your man not noticing your efforts. In this case, let us give you some tips on how to successfully pull off your subtle seduction moves.

#1 Play up on the scents. There is nothing quite like the scent of vanilla to put one in the mood. According to neurologist Alan Hirsch, vanilla is the scent that turns men on the most. Imagine this: vanilla-scented candles surrounding a specially prepared bubble bath, plus a bottle of fine wine. That should be more than enough to get your man in the mood for a romp between the sheets. Let your inner sex kitten come out to play, you know that she wants to take the lead! 

#2 Set up the mood music. They say that music delights the senses and soothes the heart and mind. Why not put your partner in the mood for sex with some seductive music? Rich tones are always guaranteed to arouse one’s senses. Heat up the room with some soothing mood music, and clothes are guaranteed to come off in just a matter of seconds. 

#3 Treat him to a kinky massage. When your partner is feeling particularly frazzled out, offer to give him a massage. Why not take the massage to a sexual level and strip down to your lingerie? Use calming scents of lavender oils to make your partner relax. Touch him, and make him feel your skin against his. He will surely get the message with the heat of your touches. Using a blindfold is optional, but is recommended for added sensuality.

#4 Tempt him, tease him. Nothing quite like the art of the tease. Kiss him passionately, give light nibbles to his earlobe. This is foreplay leading to THE foreplay, let the games begin!

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#5 Talk dirty to me. Nothing puts a man quite in the mood for sex than a woman who knows how to talk dirty. Leave a dirty message for him on his voicemail, talk dirty to him on your next date night when you two are left alone, or whisper seductive words into his ear when you two are behind closed doors. Your partner will certainly get the hint, and it will let him know how much you want him.

#6 Play up your sexiest assets. Men are visual creatures by nature, and it will only take him a glance to realize that there’s something sexy going on with your outfit. Is your man seduced by your legs? Draw attention to them by wearing a flattering pair of shorts. Is your man more drawn to your cleavage? Wear a V-neck top on your next date. That will certainly get him in the mood and will make him want to take you into bed later. 

#7 Maintain eye contact. A sexy and confident woman knows how to maintain eye contact. Seduce him with your eyes when you two are maintaining a conversation. When he flirts with you, flirt back, and add in a sexy sweep of your lashes with each glance. A man finds a woman who can hold her own extremely attractive. Women who maintain great eye contact are proven to be more aggressive and confident, which are both top turn-ons for men. He will certainly turn into putty in your hands. 

#8 Flirt with him. Men love it when their woman still flirts with them despite the duration of the relationship. Even if you think it’s corny, show your sweet side towards him. Flatter him when you can, and leave subtle touches when he doesn’t expect it. Your man will certainly yearn for your touches the whole night through.

#9 Watch an erotic film together. While there are couples who watch porn together, watching an erotic film with your partner can prove to feel a lot more intimate. It’s not overly aggressive in nature like porn, but it can certainly put you both in the mood. Think of porn as a loud announcement of sex, whereas an erotic film is a hushed whisper that you want to get naughty.

There are many erotic films that are guaranteed to arouse your man, despite being more suggestive as opposed to explicit. And even though it may take a while before the racy bits get shown on the screen, you can use that time to give him accidentally-on-purpose touches on his thigh, the small of his back, or near his jawline. 

#10 Mind f*ck him. Men love intelligent women. They love a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it. When you two are having a conversation, don’t be afraid to voice out your opinions and engage in a healthy debate. He will certainly know that you are particularly aggressive and open-minded, and he won’t be able to resist getting turned on by your wit and charm.

Keeping your intimacy through subtle means of seduction strengthens your bond and brings you closer together. Sex may be essential in a relationship, but intimacy is key in keeping passions alive. Don’t be afraid to take charge when it comes to initiating sex, as women need sex just as much as men do.

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Top Eight Reasons to Text vs. Call

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Text messages: short, sweet, and efficient. While there are still times when a phone call is better than a text, there remain many instances when a text is not only convenient but encouraged.

Nature’s call, the call you take alone: For those in need of this reminder, I’m putting it at the top. Don’t talk on the phone when you’re in the bathroom. It needs to stop and I aim to aid in this public service announcement. If you’re talking to someone and taking care of business, they can hear you.

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Tight quarters: If you’re on the bus and chatting on the phone while surrounded by strangers, I can tell you, you’re everybody’s the least favorite person on the bus. The exception here being if you’re on a bus with winos or passengers who yell at everybody (usually one in the same), but do you really want to be associated with that crowd? Note: I don’t know why a two-person conversation won’t bother me a bit, but HALF of a two-person conversation, that just throws me over the freaking ledge. It’s not logical, but I don’t make the rules. Text on the bus.

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Reminders: Whether it’s to a roommate, partner, friend or yourself (guilty), text messages serve as great reminder tools. Addresses, grocery items, upcoming events, etc. can all be conveniently stored in a text message for future reference. “Don’t forget the eggs!” requires no memory if it’s sitting in a text. Without that text, you could end up thinking, “What did he shout when I was running out the door again? Bananas? I think it was bananas… I’ll get bananas.”

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Quiet time: Whether you’re in a coffee shop, library, or any place where people go to relax, it’s best to text. Much like the bus, if your voice is the only one echoing through a quiet space, you’re doing others a disservice. Somehow, there is still a portion of our population that seems to believe that being seen on a phone call *wow* makes them seem important. Everybody has a phone now. It’s not new technology and you’re not curing cancer. Allow those looking for peace and quiet to enjoy the sound, or lack thereof, of your silence.

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Quickies: Release your mind from the gutter. I’m talking about short, quick messages. “Be there in 10 min.” “Call you right back!” “Love you!” “Still on for tonight?” “Would you like some Grey Poupon?” You know, all the usual things.

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Not usual. But points for creativity!

Appointments: Technology has brought us the opportunity to simply text a “YES” to confirm doctor’s appointments, haircuts, teeth cleanings, massages, etc. It’s an incredible time saver and, bonus, it can also be joined with the benefit of “Reminders”.

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I. Can’t. Even.: We all have those moments where we have zero energy to give and simply, don’t want to talk on the phone. In those times, when you don’t want to have a full conversation but still need to communicate with someone, texting is a welcome option. Cozy up in your PJ’s, multitask with a tub of rocky road and enjoy the noncommittal joys of texting.

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Safety third: If I’m great at anything, it’s assuring someone I’ll text them when I get home safely and then forgetting all about it. *That pillow has my name alllllll over it, nighty nite.* That being said, waking up to texts from concerned friends never feels good so don’t follow my lead. If your loved ones are asking for a text upon your safe arrival, send it.

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How to Send Texts that Build Sexual Tension

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Seduction University – Build Sexual Tension

The Modern Man is a Renaissance Man; these days, it’s not enough to just read her love poetry. To get the girl of your dreams, you have to appeal to her body just as much as to her mind.

One way to do that? By sending texts that build sexual tension.

Build Sexual Tension: Where Do I Start?

If the idea of sending naughty texts as a way to build sexual tension intimidates you, don’t worry: we’re not saying you’re required to send nudes.

In fact, research has shown that sending an unsolicited naked photo to a woman is one of the biggest turn-offs out there.

Instead, start by appealing to a woman’s secret fantasies to build sexual tension. If you’re only just getting to know each other, you can start by sending her texts on the theme of some of the most popular sexual fantasies out there for women.

Surveys and studies have proven that these include taking part in group sex, dominant/submissive fantasies, (think Fifty Shades of Grey) and even same-sex flings.

How Can I Tell If She’s Into It?

When it comes to building sexual tension, one of the most crucial things is making sure she’s ten times more turned on than you are.

Still, we get it – directing the conversation all on your own can be exhausting, not to mention at times risky. To let her guide you into what she’s into, ask questions to determine if she’s in the mood to talk, and to figure out what she likes.

Don’t be afraid to be blunt once you’ve gotten the initial OK – women are attracted to confident men who are open about their desires, and it makes them want to be open about their own with you.

For example, you might send a text to build tension along the lines of “I just had the craziest dream about you, but I’m not sure if I’m even comfortable telling you about it – is it ok if things get a little weird?”

Women are getting the “Hey, u up?” text way more often than they want – you’ll need to be a little more creative.

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Pro Tip: Don’t be afraid to inject a little humor into your conversation. Not only do women find humor attractive, but it’s a good way to cool things down if things get too heated, or if you want to pull back so you can build sexual tension later.

Be Fearless

Nearly 60% of adults aged 20-26 have sent a naughty text – and we’re willing to bet that other 40 % are in for a lot of boring, lonely nights.

One final tip: never underestimate the power of exploring and explaining different settings. Even the wildest fantasies can lose their edge after a while if you don’t add an element of surprise.

If you feel things starting to slow down between you and your sexting partner, suggest a place you’d like to try having sex: a museum bathroom stall, on the beach, or even a stable!

How Can I Keep Building Sexual Tension?

More often than not, real seduction is a long game – there’s no such thing as instant gratification, and if there were, that might take half the fun out of it.

For more tips on how to build your self-confidence, approach women with ease, and get more numbers and dates when you go out for the night, follow our blog or get in touch with us.

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10 Sexy Conversation Starters to Get You Both Horny

Screen Shot 2015-09-26 at 9.56.26 PMNever underestimate the power of words when it comes to turning your partner on. Here are some conversation starters to set the mood.

Have you ever felt like turning your partner on, but putting on lingerie and doing a sexy dance seems like too much of a routine? You want to aim for subtle, but you can’t seem to find anything to take your partner off his online game or her Facebook feed without outright sitting on their face?

The perfect solution lies in the art of conversation, where you can steer your partner’s mind in a sexy direction… And you don’t even need to take your clothes off!

How to turn your partner on with words

It may seem like you have to be a pro at dirty talk to pull this off, but in reality, a few subtle lines are all you really need.

#1 Give them a sexy phone call from within the house. Go into the bathroom or the bedroom or any room where you prefer to do your sexual activity, light some candles and send your lover a message saying, “What are you wearing?” After you’ve sent this message, send them an extremely sexy photo of you saying, “I’m wearing my birthday suit, would you like to wear yours? Find me.”

#2 Sometimes, if you start describing how you would have sex with that person, it’s enough to drive them crazy. Ask those questions like, “Do you like to be licked or sucked? Do you like your balls to be licked or you prefer them untouched? Do you want your nipples pinched?” If you start this conversation before you actually meet, the effect will be triplex, he or she will be eager to devour you.  How you do this? Sexting! send him/her sexy sexting messages few hours before your encounter, you”ll be surprise about the results of this naughty technique. Have no clue how to start this type of dialogue? CLICK HERE NOW

Giving them a description of the naughty acts you’re willing to try can be enough to get those “I’m getting some!” bells ringing in your partner’s head. Plus points if you describe these suggestions in the sultriest or huskiest voice you can muster.

#3 The position discussion. Discussing sexual positions is almost always a turn on for anyone. Ask your lover what they thought of the most recent exotic sexual position that you just had, and if they liked it a lot, tell them that there is more in store, and that you would like to discuss it with them.

Even if your partner says that they did not like the previous sexual position you tried, you could still use the same comeback and say that, “Well, we could try something else,” and start discussing other options. Try your best to be as informative and descriptive as possible.

#4 “I would like to masturbate you and use sex toys to pleasure you,” will be a very strong declaration that you would really like to have sex. The very idea of lying back and letting your lover pleasure you could be enough to get you into the mood within seconds.

Make sure that you are ready to follow through on your plan, though. If your partner’s libido was initially down, it might take some time to get it up and running. So make sure you’ve got the energy to get them from unaroused to aroused enough to jump you.

#5 The “areas covered” discussion. Even if you live in a small apartment, there are still several areas that you still haven’t had sex on, that is for sure. Have you ever done it on the dining table? Or the work table? The balcony? In the shower? On the roofdeck?

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Asking “Would you like to try the kitchen counter next?” might ignite a spark in your lover, especially if you have discussed doing it in as many places in the house as you can. Be adventurous, there are almost always new things to try.

#6 If your lover is the kind of person who likes to play board games such as scrabble or answering trivia and crossword puzzles, then this might just work for you. Invite her to play scrabble and try to put in as many dirty words as you can like suck, insert, penis, vagina, nipples, sex, and other slang words like pussy, cunt, dick, cock – you get the drift. Try to write this down as well in a crossword puzzle that they are trying to solve and hopefully things will get warmer from there.

#7 If you are still in the office or school and you would really like some hot bedroom activity as soon as you arrive home to your lover, make sure to get them excited. One way to do this is to start sending them messages that will pique their interest, especially if you know they are already at home and not doing anything. Tell them, “I have handcuffs, edible underwear, and a can of whipped cream…” and leave the rest to their imagination.

Or you can also say, “I am in a lingerie store getting you lacey thongs, and after this I’ll buy some flavored lubricant,” if your lover is a female. If your lover is male, you can still utter the same sentence, just say that you are shopping for sexy lingerie that you cannot wait to wear tonight after showering and shaving. The very idea that you’re putting in some extra effort to make tonight’s session steamier than usual is sure to get your partner excited!

#8 UNF = Universal Noise of F*cking. If neither of you makes any moaning sounds while having sex, then start learning to moan by trying to copy what you hear from adult videos. Your partner might look at you oddly the very first time, but once the noise registers in their mind, they can definitely have a mental image of what should be happening in order to make you repeat that sexy sound.

#9 If your partner is a bookworm, buy a few romance novels or erotic literature for them to read. Show this to your partner, and ask them to read it to you or to read it together. One way to make this even more exciting is by asking your partner to read some of the steamiest chapters aloud as you pleasure them with your hands and mouth. Watch them squirm as they try to read coherently while stifling their moans.

#10 Visual stimuli seem to be the easiest way to start a conversation that will increase libido. Put on an adult film and watch it together. Don’t instantly go for the hardcore films, though! If you’re a guy, your woman will most likely prefer something more romantic and sensual. If you’re a girl, your man might prefer something with a lot of focus on the female lead. It’s going to be a herculean feat to get your hands off each other after watching two hot porn actors go at it onscreen!

Getting your partner in the mood for some sexy lovin’ can be done with a few carefully chosen words, along with a perfectly seductive tone. Give these a try with your partner the next time you’re feeling frisky!

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These 18 Texts Will Get Your Man To Text Back F-A-S-T

 
 
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If you want him to respond, try one of these lines to catch his attention.

He’s handsome. He’s interesting. He’s worthwhile. But for some reason, he won’t text you back. Why is that? 

Your first date was AMAZING! Now it’s time for the next step: it’s time for you to grab his attention and let him know that you’re interested (just as he should be too). 

Sometimes finding the perfect words to describe how you feel is hard. But why does it have to be? Just as much as you’re worrying about your words, so is he. He doesn’t know what to say or how to perfectly speak his mind. We’re ALL human. So do him a favor: Speak your mind first and WOO him out of any doubt.

Let him know how you feel, what you want, and how you want it. Let’s be honest: why be shy? Be confident, he’ll appreciate it. And it’ll make him that much more confident that you’re the right choice for him. 

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If you’re searching for the best quotes and memes to share with the people you love (or just want to feel inspired yourself) … look no further! From the sweetest love quotes, inspirational sayings, and hilarious friendship truths, we’ve got you covered. 

“Good morning handsome. Have a great day!”

“Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.”

 

“I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts? 

“Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.”

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“Black panties or red panties…? I’ll model the winner for you tonight.”

 

“Just got out of the shower. Want to come help me dry off?” 

“Can I have you for breakfast in bed today?”

“I smile whenever I get a message from you <3”

“Thank you for reminding me what butterflies feel like.”

 

“Sweet dreams… with me in them ;)”

“I’m in my bed, you’re in your bed… One of us is in the wrong place.”

“Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it ;)”

“My phone is in my hands, but I would rather be holding you.”

 

“Blue is definitely your color ;)” 

“Been thinking about you… and it hasn’t all been PG.”

 

“You looked good in that new shirt.”

 

“Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!”

“I always wake up smiling… I think it’s your fault.”

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Top 140+ Cute Good Morning Text Messages for Him

There’s no better way to start the day than by sending him a sweet text message. From a simple “Good morning handsome” to a heartfelt poem, there are so many ways to tell the guy you love how much you care about him.

So here are 140+ cute, good morning messages you can send to him. Please, let us know which one you liked the most in the comments section available at the end of this article.

TOP UNIVERSAL GOOD MORNING MESSAGES FOR HIM

1. “It really doesn’t matter whether I drink coffee or tea. I’ll always feel the same as long as you’re thinking about me.”

2. “The warmth of the sun’s rays reminds me that we were meant to be together. Each time I see the sunrise, I realize how lucky I am to get to spend another day with you.”

3. “Before you open your eyes and have your first yawn; before you step outside to meet the dawn; before you sip your morning coffee, I hope that you close your eyes and think only of me.2

4. “You know what I’m doing right now? Gazing outside the window at the morning sun while I sip on my morning coffee and think of you. This is the best part of the day. Good morning!”

5. “I could send you the most profound or beautiful love quote in the world, but it wouldn’t do our love any justice. It wasn’t chance that brought us together. It was destiny.”

6. “The sunrise was beautiful, but it can’t compare to our love. The glow that you have brought into my life is more radiant and beautiful than a million sunrises.”

7. “I just want to come over, hug you tight and kiss you good morning.”

8. “My love, you are the sweetest of dreams come true.”

9. “I love the sun, but sometimes it rises too soon. All I want is some more time to dream about you – the man who makes me weak in the knees. Xoxo”

10. “Many girls dream of being with a guy as handsome and sweet as you. I dream about it too, but I’m the luckiest one of all. Why? Because I live out my dream every single day.”

11. “The radiant colors of the morning sunrise aren’t nearly as dreamy as the kisses and hugs that you give me.”1

12. “Night has gone now and so has the moon. The sun shines against a sky so blue. Open your eyes, dear1 – there’s a new message just for you. Good morning!”

13. “Just thinking of you brightens my morning.”

14. “I don’t need coffee in the morning. All I need is your love to give me that extra boost I need to make it through the day.”

15. “Did you feel extra warm this morning? That’s because I sent you hugs from my dreams. Good morning!”

16. “On this beautiful morning, I wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you. You were my first thought the moment I opened my eyes. You are one amazing guy. I hope that your day is just as amazing.”

17. “All of the stars in the galaxy could never outshine my love for you. A lifetime of sunrises could never compare to the light you bring into my life.”

18. “I hope that all of your wishes come true today. Sending you positive vibes and a big hug to let you know how much I love you.”

19. “Much of the joy in my morning is because of you. Much of the happiness in the moments of the day are because of you. My life wouldn’t be so great without you in it. I love you, my sweet.”

20. “Each morning provides you with endless opportunities to be glad, especially when your first thought of the day is me.”

21. “A beautiful morning is incomplete without the sun’s yellow hue. My morning is incomplete without seeing you.”

22. “Follow these five steps to having a great morning: 1. Open up your eyes. 2. Take a deep breath. 3. Get out from under the covers. 4. Get out of bed. 5. Read my sweet message.”

23. “Good morning, love! Thank you for always being there. Thank you for being my only dear. Thank you for being near. Ever grateful am I, my dear.”1

24. “Every morning that I wake up, I forget all of the things that make me sad. That’s because I only need one reason to make me happy, and that reason is YOU.”

25. “Good morning to my knight in shining armor. The one man who can make all of my troubles and sorrows disappear with just one kiss. Thank you for bringing so much joy into my life.”

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26. “Whenever I close my eyes at night, I think of you. When I wake in the morning, I think of you again. There is nothing I can do without always thinking of you.”

27. “Wake up lazy bones! It’s time to embrace a new day. Welcome success and happiness. Have a great morning.”

28. “Each morning with you is beautiful. It starts with your love, and your love stays with me all day long. Good morning, my sweet.”

29. “Your kisses and hugs are the only sunshine I’ll ever need.”

30. “It may be raining today, but thanks to you, I only see sunny skies. You will always brighten up my day.”

 Are you thinking of someone special? There are a lot of quotes and images you can send to a special someone to let him…

GOOD MORNING MESSAGES FOR A BOYFRIEND

31. “You, my love, have replaced all of my worries with happiness; all of my nightmares with beautiful dreams; and all of my fears with nothing but pure love. Good morning!”

32. “Mornings are so lonely without you. My first thought when I wake up is how much I wish you were here to give me warm hugs and cuddles. I miss you!”

33. “It was chilly this morning – until I thought of you. The mere mention of your name and the thought of your embrace warmed me right up.”

34. “The morning sun is slowly creeping through the blinds, but the only thing on my mind is being with you.”

35. “You know – I really hate sending you morning text messages. I would much rather be with you night and day so that I can love you in every way. As a new day starts, I wanted to tell you that I love you with all of my hear1t.”

36. “I love the sun. Each time it rises, it gives me yet another chance to spend the day with you. And you are the one and only guy I dream about at night.”

37. “The best part of my morning is that I’m thinking of you. The worst part of my morning is that I’m far away from you.”

38. “I can make your morning coffee perfect. Just add a pinch of my hugs and a heaping teaspoon of my love.”

39. “So many girls need to put on makeup in the morning to feel confident. All I need is to think about you. Good morning, love!”

40. “Each morning is like a painting: you need some inspiration to get moving, the silhouette of that beautiful smile on your face, and a message from someone you love to color the day.”

41. “You are the light that brightens my dark world; the music in my quiet heart; the very first thought in my day. Good morning, handsome.”

42. “Mornings are a blessing – even if the skies are cloudy. Each time the sun rises, we have hope that we can hold each other again.”

43. “With you by my side, I know that every single day will be filled with joy. With your heart in mine, I know that we can take on anything that life brings.”

44. “Do you know why it’s such a good morning? Because I know I have you.”

45. “I hope that your morning is as bright as your handsome smile. I hope that the rest of your day is as sweet as our love.”

46. “The sun would be darkness without your light. The coolness of the day would be sweltering hot without the gentle breeze of your love. My sleeping and waking would cease to be if it were not for your love. Xoxo”

47. “Each morning, my love for you grows. With each passing day, I feel I am getting so much closer to you. I need you in the morning and every day. You are my dream love. Good morning.”

48. “The lion may be the king of the jungle, but you are the king of my heart. Long live the king! I love you now and forever.”

49. “The sun and the sky are shining, but I’m shining, too. Why? Because I woke up dreaming about you. Thank you for being such an important part of my life. I hope your day is as wonderful as you.”

50. “Sending you a big hug so that you can start off your day with enthusiasm. I love being your girl because you make me feel so special. Good morning!”

51. “The best mornings are with you. The warmth of your cuddles and the tickling of your kiss helps me greet the day with confidence and joy. Even when you aren’t here, the thought of you reminds me that I have nothing to fear. Time to wake up and face the morning!”

52. “Today is going to be a beautiful day. Care to join me for a picnic in the park?”

53. “Good morning! If I were with you right now, I’d shower you with kisses. Wishing you all the best this morning and the rest of the day.”

54. “If I were beside you this morning, I would gaze into your eyes and wake you up with a sweet morning kiss.”

55. “Isn’t it amazing how just the thought of you brightens up my entire morning. Your love is what carries me through the day. Knowing I’ll see your handsome face when I get home makes each day worthwhile.”

56. “Boy am I tired. All I did was dreaming of you all night. I didn’t want to wake up!”

57. “Good morning – time to greet the dawn. I hope you have a perfect day and know that I love you in every way.”

58. “I can’t wait for the day when I can finally wake up right next to you. All I want is to fall asleep in your arms and to wake up next to your handsome face each morning.”

59. “If I were with you this morning, I would make you a big plate of pancakes, bacon, and eggs. I’d top if off with a kiss from me.”

60. “Good morning, love! Did you sleep well, or were you too busy dreaming about us? I know I was.”

61. “Hey, babe – can I have you for breakfast in bed this morning?”

62. “I hope your morning is as nice as your sexy butt! 🙂 ”

63. “If I as there I’d be kissing you right now.”

64. “I can’t wait for the chance to get you all hot and bothered.”

65. “I tasted you in my dreams. I woke up knowing exactly what I want for my breakfast.”

66. “Mornings were made for sleeping, wild sex, and bacon!”

67. “Hey sexy, could you put me on your to-do list this morning? I will gladly do the same.”

68. “I want you in the worst way… your taste, scent, and feel of your warm skin next to mine… I want it all right now my love.”

69. “It is not that I am horny all the time… It´s just that you are always f**king sexy my love. Good morning.”

70. “I do not think you understand just how much I want your lips right now! Good morning handsome.”

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Lina received a text from a random number. Now, she’s married to the stranger who sent it.

a person posing for the camera: Lina Dahlbeck and husband Matthew Evangelou.Receiving a message from a random number rarely turns out so sweet. There might be awkwardness at best, an unsolicited graphic pic at worst.

But, for UK couple, Lina Dahlbeck and Michael Evangelou, an accidental message sent to a random number led to the pair meeting and dating. Now? They’re married.

All because one day, last September, Michael was trying to send himself a reminder on Whatsapp but mistyped his own number. Guess who the recipient was?

Michael had wanted to remind himself to watch the movie Girls Trip, the 2017 comedy starring Regina Hall, Queen Latifah, Tiffany Haddish, and Jada Pinkett Smith.

But, after attempting to message himself the two words ‘Girls Trip’, he received a reply from another number: “Who’s this please?”

Michael, 44, had serendipitously added a ‘one’ to his phone number, and messaged a complete stranger, 37-year-old Lina, instead.

“I was shocked when someone texted back, saying, ‘Hi! Girls trip? Who’s this please?,” he told The Sun.

“I was so confused and, at first, assumed we’d met before. How else would I have her number?”

They quickly established that no, they didn’t know each other. But, within five hours, the makeup artist and car salesman met for drinks at a restaurant in London’s Waterloo.

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“We kissed at the end of the date and the next day met up for brunch. We haven’t been apart since” Lina told The Sun.

“I still can’t believe I met the love of my life by a mistaken text. There was something about his messages that intrigued me. He seemed really nice and funny and, when I sneaked a look at his picture, I thought he was good looking.

“The rest is ­history. I’m glad that technology brought us together, even if it was by mistake.”

It had been years since both Lina and Michael had been in serious relationships and the pair is convinced fate brought them together. They are wasting no time.

It took only two weeks for Michael to propose, and he did so for logistical reasons as much as anything else.

“We were talking about our dreams and I said I’d always wanted to live in Dubai. Michael said, ‘Let’s do it, let’s move there’,” Lina said.

“I pointed out it’s a Muslim country so we’d have to be married to live together. He just said, ‘Let’s do it then. Let’s get married’.”

After marrying in a small ceremony on December 7, the pair says they are excited to spend the rest of their lives together. And even though their whirlwind romance shocked friends and family at first, everyone is delighted at their happiness.

“I’d given up on love when Michael’s message popped up on my phone,” Lina said.

“My story gives hope to everyone — you should never give up.”

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Flirting SMS Examples

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SMS, an abbreviation for Short Message Service, has provided new and improved method of communication without disturbing others around you. You can see almost everyone smiling and making different facial expressions while looking at the screen of their cell phones. They go mischievous and naughty in messaging while others around them remain unaware of the underlined subject of the messaging.  Talking in terms of flirting, people have utilized it most to impress the potential lover and express their unsaid-unheard love. This unique way of flirting comes with an added advantage that if the recipient of the message has any issue with the language or type of content then it can be settled by calling it as a ‘group message’ however, intentional and personal the message is. Here we are providing you some of the most effective and creative messages that can be very useful for you in the journey of expressing your love. Pick any of them and help your irresistible feelings to get conveyed through SMS. Have a look. 

Flirting Text Messages :

  • If I were a tear in your eye I would roll down onto your lips. But if you were a tear in my eye I would never cry as I would be afraid to lose you!
  • It takes two to tango, two to kiss, two to talk & reminisce. So many good things come in pair & one of those things is ME and YOU!
  • Hello! What’s wrong with your mobile?
  • Tried so many times but Every time I call it says: The subscriber you are trying to reach is in your heart!
  • I have had a really bad day and it always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. So, would you smile for me?
  • Those who can’t have you hate you, those who have you can’t handle you, those who abuse you lose you, and then there are those like me who just can’t refuse you!
  • Flirting: It is a habit for those who are “Single”, it is their way of saying ‘I m Free’. But for those who are “Committed”, it is their way of saying ‘I m Bored’.
  • If all the girls lived on the other side of the sea, what a good swimmer I would be?
  • I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes!
  • Only the open heart receives love. Only the open mind receives wisdom. Only the open hand receives gifts and only the cute person receives SMS from me!
  • I think you are very careless! You come & leave things behind! See now what you have left? You just came in my mind and left a smile on my face.
  • If I could be any part of you, I’d be your tear. To be conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheeks, and die on your lips.
  • Always be Happy; always wear a smile; not because life is full of reasons to smile but because your smile itself is a reason for many others to smile.
  • Love is an illusion!It’s a highly dependency disorder of weak hearted People. People with strong hearts believe in FLIRTING!

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  • New style of proposing a girl “I have spent many sleepless nights in your Love and I don’t want my son to do the same for your daughter so lets make them siblings.
  • You look sweet when you read my message. You look sweeter when you read my message & smile. You look sweetest when you read my message, smile and reply. So, try to look sweetest.
  • Excuse me! Do you have a Band-Aid? I skinned my knee when I fell for you.
  • You may be out of my sight but not out of my heart. You may be out of my reach but not out of my mind. I don’t know what I mean to you, but you’ll always be special to me.
  • The length, breadth, and height of you total up to quite a view, But to taste the true delight of you, I’ll have to take a bite of u.
  • I wish I was a teddy bear that lay upon your bed, so every time you cuddled it, you cuddled me instead.
  • Even if I had a wish… I wouldn’t wish for you to love me, because I don’t want your love to come from a wish… but straight from your heart.
  • Too many stars in the sky, too many tears that have left my eyes. Too many girls out in the blue, but they are nothing compared to you!
  • Girl: What can you do for me? Boy: I would die for you… Girl: I don’t like you! Boy: Why? Girl: I m looking for someone who would live for me, not someone who would just die and leave me alone!

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5 Kinky Sex Tips For Hot, Nasty Sex!

Once you’ve tried all the usual sex positions, techniques and tips on talking dirty, it’s time start thinking about something new and exciting to try with your man. That’s exactly why I have put together this list of 5 kinky sex tips.http://www.createspace.com/3734911

You shouldn’t feel compelled to try every single one of these sex tips. Some may seem a little too kinky for you. That’s perfectly fine. Hopefully though they will at least give your an idea of what you may be interested in trying in the future. Springing these kinky sex tips on your man when you first meet him may freak him out a little bit.

It’s a much better idea to first try the regular sex techniques that you’ll find throughout the Bad Girl’s Bible (you’ll find a good list here), then slowly graduate to the kinkier stuff, making sure that he’s comfortable with everything first.

Ok, lets learn some kinky sex techniques and tips to uses on your man!

1. Get Dominant

Becoming the dominant partner is a great way to make things a lot kinkier for you and your man. When you see the words, “Become dominant”, you may start thinking that you need to buy some whips and chains. The truth is, you can! But you don’t need to jump in at the deep end to become more dominant over your man. There are a lot of much easier ways to do it. Here are a few:

Start With Woman-On-Top Sex Positions – If you’ve never been the dominant partner in the bedroom before, then you may be a little apprehensive about it. That’s why I recommend that you start with something simple like woman-on-top sex positions. While the cowgirl is a favorite, you’ll find 14 other woman-on-top sex positions (with professional photographs) in this section here.

Take The Initiative – If you are already comfortable with being on top of your man during sex, but find that your man is usually the initiator, then it’s time to switch things around and become the one who’s initiating things in the bedroom.

You don’t need to suddenly become a voracious tiger, instead it can be something as simple as grabbing your man and bringing him into the bedroom or even just start giving him a blow job when he’s least expecting it (like when you’re both watching TV).

Tell Him What To Do – Once you see your man’s positive reactions to you being the dominant one, then it’s time to take things to the next level. It’s time to start giving him commands and telling him what you want him to do. Again, start with easy things before giving him more hardcore commands like, “I want you to go down on me” or “I want to climax at least twice before you do”.

A Little Slap Here & There – Now we are getting into seriously kinky territory! The next time you are having sex with your man, try grabbing his butt as well as slapping it a few times. Once you can see that he’s ok with this, then take it a little further…try slap it a little harder!

Then start thinking about other areas of his body that you can slap…his back, his legs…even his face.

2. Roleplaying With Your Man(men love this type of foreplay)http://www.createspace.com/3734911

If becoming more dominant over your man in the bedroom is a kinky sex tip that doesn’t really do it for you, then another awesome way to make things kinkier is to try some roleplaying with him. Just like with being dominant over your man, you don’t necessarily need to take roleplaying to it’s limit, it can be just as much fun when you experiment with it.

There are a 2 main themes that permeate roleplaying with your man. One theme is that one of you has all the power, while the other is bold or naughty or needs to be punished or is generally in a submissive role. Role-plays that involve this include:

  • Prison guard & prisoner
  • Headmaster & naughty school girl/boy
  • Cop & Criminal
  • Nurse/Doctor & sick patient
  • Sports coach & athlete
  • The Boss & Secretary

Others include an element of you being sexy, sultry and irresistible. These are role plays where your man is in a position where he is irresistibly drawn to you. Kinky roleplays that involve this include:

  • The bored housewife/girlfriend & the plumber/milkman
  • Stripper & customer
  • Escort & client
  • Model & photographer
  • The Lolita roleplay where you are an irresistible younger woman and your man ‘has to have you’.

However, these aren’t the only themes that you should think about when roleplaying with your man. There is literally a never-ending stream of roleplays that you can try out with your man. The only limit to what roleplays you do try is your imagination and fantasies.

A Few Notes On Roleplaying

1. Remember that the idea of roleplaying is creating a fun & safe environment where you can act out your fantasies and kinks with your partner. With that in mind, you should never do anything your partner is not comfortable with it, even if it’s a kinky sex tip that you really want to try. Sometimes it can be hard to tell if your partner is or isn’t enjoying something, especially when you are experimenting. This is an exactly why you should use a safe word.

A safe word is a word or phrase that you wouldn’t normally use during sex with your man to indicate that you want him to stop what he’s doing. Here are a few examples, “Angry Birds”“Walmart” or “iPhone”.

2. Getting in the mood to roleplay with your man can sometimes be tricky. You may really want to try something, but you may be nervous or feeling a little awkward about it. A really simple way to get over these awkward feelings is to have a glass of wine (no more, you don’t want to be drunk!).

3. Just because your man suggests a roleplay to try out doesn’t mean you have to do it. At the very least hear him out, then let him know that you aren’t interested right now. If it happens to sound totally ridiculous, don’t laugh or belittle him for it.

Use naughty texting to warm up his sexual appetite before you two get together. Texting Manual 4 Every1 can help you accomplish this.http://www.createspace.com/3734911

3. Public Sex

Before you even think about ‘banging outdoors’ make sure to first check that you aren’t breaking any laws.

If you aren’t sure, then it’s not worth risking it. So make sure to check your local laws first!

Public sex is one of those kinky sex tips that most people seem to either love or hate. Some people really get off to it: the thought of being caught, the feeling of freedom, the breeze blowing against your skin, even feeling the sunshine on them. However, there are people who aren’t so enamored with it. They are either indifferent to it…or they are actually turned off by it.

So before you jump in head first and drag you man somewhere for public sex, make sure to talk to him about it to make sure that he truly is on board. Once you are sure he is, then it’s time to start having some fun!

Picking Your Spot – Sure, spontaneous sex is usually the best, but it’s not always possible, so the first thing that you’ll be doing is choosing a place to have sex with your man.

If you love the idea of being watched by others, then the safest place to go is a swingers club. That way you can be sure that you aren’t offending people while at the same enjoying being watched by people who are respectful of your lifestyle.

If you’d prefer to be all alone, then a great choice is a wooded area or even a private beach (if you can find one). If you do choose somewhere like this, then make sure to bring a rug for comfort and to help prevent sand, dirt and other things going where you don’t want them!

Lube Factor – Another thing to think about if you are having sex outside if you are in a warm, but dry place, then you may find that you are drying out much faster than usual. If this is the case, make sure to bring some lube.

Just to remind you one last time, if you live in an area where public sex acts are illegal, don’t risk it.

4. Toy Story

Introducing sex toys is a kinky sex tip that you absolutely must try. Of course, some say that it’s cheating or that it’s not fair, but the truth is that it’s not. It’s just another fabulous way to keep things hot and fun.

The only time an issue will arise is if your man thinks that you NEED sex toys to get off. It can be a big blow to his ego if he THINKS that he can’t get you off. So if you suspect that he is someone who may be a bit insecure about you using a sex toy, make sure to explain the situation to him.

Choosing the right sex toy can be somewhat of a minefield. There are literally thousands of different toys that you can choose from. There are various different kinds of vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, prostate massagers and more. The reason being…different people have different preferences when it comes to this thing. Some people love certain toys, while others don’t get any pleasure from them.

So rather than letting me suggest what you should try, my advice is to take a look yourself and decide for yourself what you want to try and use. Of course, the most popular sex toy for women is the vibrator, so if you need advice on how to get the most out of it, you may want to read this article.

5. Get Submissive

I covered becoming dominant earlier, but not everyone likes or even gets turned on by the idea of being more dominant over their man. For these people, they just don’t find it to be a kinky sex tip worth trying.

But what about the polar opposite of being dominant, what about becoming more submissive to your man? This is obviously going to be way hotter if your man enjoys being dominant in bed too! Let’s look at a few different strategies that you can use to explore being submissive with your man…

Tell Him – By far the easiest and most direct way to introduce the idea of you being submissive to your man is to just tell him. If you are super direct about it, then it might work well or…it might catch him off guard and freak him out.

A better way to tell him is to just start talking to just bring up how much you enjoy seeing and feeling him be ‘manly’ & dominant. The next time you are finished having sex, tell him something like this:

That was so hot how you just pounded me harder & harder. I felt completely helpless, it was incredible

I love how you throw me around when we’re in bed together. It really turns me on.

I feel like the more aggressive and dominant you get, the more submissive I become.

Complimenting your man is the perfect way to boost his ego and is a kinky sex tip on its own. The more your reinforce how awesome it is and how much you love it when he is dominant with you, the more he is likely to continue doing it.

Even if he’s not particularly dominant with you right now, let him know how kinky you find anything that he does that is even slightly dominant. If doesn’t work, then there are other ways to approach it…

Just Do It – Rather than waiting for your man to be more dominant, a quicker strategy is to take the bull by the horns and just go for it. You can start acting submissive to your man sexually without him prompting it. So what kinds of things can you do to be more submissive to him?

Don’t Even Ask – The next time you are both getting ready for bed, just drop to your knees as he is changing out of his clothes and start giving him a blowjob. Don’t worry, he won’t be upset!

The Unprompted Hand Job – When you and your man are just lying in bed together, slowly slide your hand down his stomach, grab his penis and start giving him a hand job. Bonus kinky, submissive points for giving him puppy eyes as you are doing it. Continue reading

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7 Golden Rules of Texting

In this article, you’ll discover 7 rules that I use in my texting with my fiance in order to make sure that I avoid neediness and I keep my woman attracted.

Even though these 7 rules are pretty common sense, unfortunately, most guys are NOT aware of their existence.

But if you are aware of these rules and you stick to them in your text communication, then you’ll be amazed at how much more enjoyable and attractive your text communication will become.

Rule #1 – Rule of reciprocity

If a man does not follow the rule of reciprocity, then he might easily fall into the neediness trap. And in my experience, neediness is one of the biggest killers of attraction in a relationship, especially if it comes from a man.

In a long distance relationship, guys can easily fall into the neediness trap by suffocating their girlfriends with a lot of text messages. And not following the rule of reciprocity.

Here’s how to use the rule of reciprocity in your texting:

If you are the one that sends her more texts than she sends you, then make sure to either cut down from the number of texts that you send her daily and/or encourage her to send you more texts.

Tell her that you love receiving texts from her; it makes your day, so encourage her to text you more often.

Ask her to send you a text any time she thinks more intensely of you, or anytime she does something interesting, or any times she sees a yellow car etc.

Yes, that could be a little text game you could be playing…Any time one of you sees on the street a yellow car, he/she should send a text message to the other partner. (you could also be creative about this game and make your own rules)

Sometimes let her be the one to send you the first text that day, especially if you were the one to send her the last text the day before.

Rule # 2 – Send and forget!

It happens very often that we send them a text message and then we keep checking our phone every 5 minutes for the next 3 hours, even though there’s no sound that says “you’ve got a message”. We still check our phone to see if “maybe” you didn’t hear the sound, or “maybe” the phone is broken, or “maybe” she sent you a text while you were in the toilet, etc.

Now, that’s not only very stressful for you, but also very needy. It took me a good while to figure out a solution to this problem, a lot of fights with my past girlfriend and even a “break up” because of this particular reason. (she didn’t answer my text until 10 hours later). So, believe it or not, I know the ins and outs of this problem.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I am not talking about the situation where your girlfriend always texts you back a few hours later, because if she does so, then it means that she doesn’t really care about getting back to you, so she’s not very attracted.

I am talking right now about the special situations where you know that your girl loves you a lot, but for some specific reasons like: she didn’t hear her phone, or maybe she was too busy at the time, or her phone was dead, she forgot her phone at home, she didn’t have credit etc.; sometimes she texts you back in a few hours. And that’s when you start freaking out.

I have tried many ways to solve this issue, but the best one that has been working form me for the past 2 years already, is the following:

1)    Write the text.

2)    Send it.

3)    Forget about it.

My point here is that you don’t write texts in order to get back a reply. You write a text because you want to tell her something, and THAT’S IT. You don’t care if she’ll answer you back or not, it’s her problem.

So you send the text and actually forget about the fact that you’ve sent her a text.

Also, when writing the text, try not to ask questions. Make your text more like an affirmation rather than a question.

However, if you notice that she’s texting a lot less lately, and her texts are not as meaningful as they used to be. You can just feel that something is off, and she’s not showing as much interest anymore… then most probably that’s because losing attraction. And you may want to find a few ways to re-kindle that desire in her.

She used to text you a lot more before, right? That’s because she was very attracted at the beginning. Now however because her attraction is fading, the effort she puts into texting is fading too.

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Rule #3 – The Tennis Rule

Don’t send her too many texts, especially if she’s not answering.

Texting for me is a way of keeping in touch during the day. It usually never passed 4-5 hours without one of us sending a text, a picture, or even calling each other.

So texting is a great way to stay on the top of her mind, but you have to avoid sending her too many texts and looking needy.

So you want to write her once, and then letting her text you back before you write her some more.

Same applies on with pictures and smiley faces, gifs or other things.

This way you throw the ball in her field and wait for her to throw the ball back. And of course, you use the “Send and Forget” rule to avoid freaking out. ?

Rule #4 – Use diversity.

What I mean by “using diversity”, is that you want to be sending her different types of texts, instead of the same old “love texts” that you’ve been sending her for the past 2 months.

In my article“7 Types Of Texts To Send Her” I present what options do you have and give you a bunch of examples for each type of text messages.

Also try to be a bit more spontaneous about texting by sending her texts at different times of the day, instead of a text around the same time every day.

Rule #5 – Tease her.

Oh, I love teasing. It’s just an amazing way to keep attraction on fire, and it also works great in texting communication. So teasing is using a playful vibe in your texts. It could be making her a compliment and then taking it away, like “You’re a very smart girl…Sometimes!”, or it could be something like “Really? You miss me, baby?… I understand you so well, I’d miss myself too if I were you.”

So you want to include some teasing in your texts from time to time in order to create attraction. I explain in a much more detailed way what Teasing is, why it’s so attractive and how to use it in your relationship, in my “How To Keep Attraction On Fire” article.

Rule #6 – The 15 Minutes Rule

Don’t be too eager to answer her texts back…answer her texts a few minutes later. It could be after 10 – 15 – 30 minutes, and even a few hours later sometimes.

Of course, you don’t want to make a habit out of this, but doing that 50% of times will make you more attractive to her. And there are two reasons for that:

1)    Now she’ll be the one to be waiting for your texts, thus very excited about receiving them.

2)    You won’t look needy.

Rule #7 – Never have text fights!

Texts are a very impersonal way of communication and can be very easily misinterpreted. If you’re having a tense communication while texting each other then better postpone the communication until you’ll be able to talk on the phone, or even better on Skype.

Research says that fifty-five percent of other people’s reactions to us are based on our facial expression, 38% based on our tone of voice, and only 7% of their reaction is from the words we are actually saying.

Therefore, communication is more than words and fighting through text messages would actually mean 93% of guessing and only 7% of understanding of what’s really being said. Not only that but, text fighting last so much longer than a normal fight.

Instead of having a 5-10 minutes fight and then cooling off, you’d text fight for a few hours in a row, thus prolonging those negative emotions for a longer time than necessary.

It’s a bad choice from any perspective, especially because you’ll have your fight “saved” on your phone. And things that are said in anger, are not the best things to be re-read again later on, because we all just say stupid things in anger.

So my advice – never have a text fight. if it happens to start one – postpone it until you can talk on the phone. But if you still have a text fight, then delete the texts right away.

Recap:

So, the 7 rules of texting in a long distance relationship are the following:

1)    Reciprocity Rule – Don’t send her more texts than she sends you.

2)    Send and Forget Rule – Don’t send a text with the expectation of getting a reply.

3)    The Tennis Rule – Don’t text her again, until she sent you a text back.

4)    Diversity Rule – Send her different types of texts.

5)    The Teasing Rule – Make sure to tease her from time to time.

6)    The 15 Minutes Rule – Don’t be too eager to text her back.

7)    No Fighting Trough Texts Rule – Postpone fights/arguments until you can talk on the phone or Skype.

Last words…

Now, I don’t want to be too Dogmatic here. Of course all these rules have their exceptions, and given the circumstances you could send her 5 texts in a row, or your could have a text fight or you could be waiting for a quick reply from her.

My goal here is to give you 7 rules of thumb that you should keep in mind when texting your girl, in order to have a more effective text communication, avoid being needy and keeping your girlfriend attracted.

But how you use these rules will depend only on the circumstances and on your own judgement.

All the best, Besski Livius

P.S. There’s one more RULE for you: Keep reading my articles and get yourself inspired with new ideas for a better long distance relationship. ? And if seriously, don’t miss the Texting Magnet – one text to send her when she’s acting cold, to get her instantly attracted again: Get the Texting Magnet Here.

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5 Tips on How to Up Your Game Plan for Summer Love!

It has been a long and dreary winter, and now that summer is almost here, I know, like me, you are all ready to shed those heavy winter clothes and ready yourself for the long awaited Season of Love-Summer!

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Almost everyone goes through some form of hibernation mode during winter and fall into a dating rut, hiding themselves away with promises to ‘snap out of it when it gets warm’. Well, guess what? It is definitely warmer now and it’s time to put your money where your mouth is. To break that dating rut, you have to shake things up and also put a plan of action together.

I believe that in life, having a plan with goal specific short term and long term action points are highly effective in actually attaining those goals. This is applicable and also highly effective when it comes to dating.

Here are my 5 tips for getting you back into the game:

1. Set a Goal

Goal setting is the #1 way to accomplish anything. This is the starting point because this will drive your actions. Without clear direction of what you want from your dating life, is like getting behind the wheel without knowing where you want to go. You might eventually get there, but with many detours, rerouting and backtracking, and a lot of wasted time and energy (Love Example: I will go to 10 new places each month to meet eligible men).

2. Make an Intention List

You would be surprised to learn that setting your intentions on something, like for example, I want to lose 10 pounds by a specific date, will get you there faster than just having a ‘pie in the sky’ attitude about it. Intentions drive actions. The best approach is: clearly state your intention about a specific goal and giving yourself a deadline. (Love Example: I will meet 5 desirable dates by June 1st by being more approachable and smiling more).

3. Write a Commitment Letter

Writing things down has been proven to be a powerful tool in accomplishing anything in life and this holds true for your love life also. It has been proven that when you write a Commitment Letter to yourself and sign it, it becomes more concrete and tangible as opposed to just a promise you make to yourself. Post your signed and dated commitment letter on your fridge or somewhere you will see it every day. It will serve as a daily reminder of what your goal is and keep you on track in fulfilling that promise and keeping the commitment to yourself. (Love Example: Write down your 3 top dating goals with a due date in your commitment letter, sign, date and post it).

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4. Progress Report

Keeping a progress report that charts your efforts will give you a visual of how far you’ve come and how far you have to go to meet your goal. This is an incredibly powerful motivational technique that has shown to be invaluable for success and this includes dating. Make a daily progress report with the following: a) Goal for the day, b) Was it done, c) Course of action if you did not meet your daily goal and a new due date, d) Initial the new due date and move forward. This will allow you to have off days but not to allow yourself to wallow in your misstep. Beating up on yourself when things don’t go as planned, will not accomplish anything. It’s best to assess where you went wrong, acknowledge it, make a new plan and move FORWARD.

5. Reward

It’s been shown that having a payoff/reward, whether it’s that pair of killer shoes you’ve been eyeing, or splurging on a massage, will keep you most motivated, especially on those days when your energy is sapped and you begin to lapse on your commitments. It doesn’t have to be anything big or expensive, but something tangible and something you really want that makes you feel special. Ultimately, it is whatever that will keep you motivated to stay on track in your search for NEW LOVE!

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ADVANCED CLOSING TACTICS: 11 INSANE WAYS TO TURN A GIRL ON SEXUALLY

Do You Find it Hard Turning a Girl on Sexually?

Want to know some proven ways to turn a girl on without getting her blind drunk?

I’m talking to the point where she’ll be dry humping your leg, begging you to take her back to your place.

Yep these techniques are THAT good 🙂

Unfortunately a lot of guys find it incredibly difficult to turn a woman on and that’s why they don’t get laid.

So I’m going to put a stop to that today, by showing you the best ways to turn a girl on sexually with both verbal and non-verbal techniques.

Oh and these have all been proven to work… Adam Lyons approved in fact, so you know they’ve been tested in-field a ridiculous amount of times! They will blow her mind.

Without further ado… let’s get grooving:

VERBALLY (NON-PHYSICAL SEXUAL ESCALATION)

The first key to sexual escalation is verbal, you need to seduce her with your words… then you move onto the physical which will push things over the edge with her.

TALK ABOUT SEX… DOH!

How can you expect a woman to think about having sex with you, if you don’t plant those thoughts in her mind? Well the simple answer is, she won’t.

Whilst you’re building rapport with her, you need to throw in a few thought provokers that help her think about you in the sack.

Things like:

  • Hey look at the way that girl is dancing over there, you can totally tell she’d be terrible in bed by the way she’s moving.
  • I was reading something in the paper on the tube the other day which said that women who wear bright red lipstick are better at giving blowjobs than women who don’t (WARNING ON THIS ONE, IT’S ADVANCED)
  • I was talking to a girl-friend the other day and she said that women relate dancing with a guy to sex… is that true?

ISOLATE THE GIRL

If you want to seriously ramp up the sexual tension you need to isolate the girl, it’s the only way she won’t be distracted by her friends and you can work your magic. Lead the situation by taking her somewhere quiet and continue to build rapport further.

If you don’t know how to take her away from her friends, say something like:

  • Hey listen, I need to get a drink… come with me.
  • Man I’m starving, let’s go and get some food then we can come back before it closes
  • Come with me I need to show you something…

SLOW DOWN AND TALK SEXY

If you want to be more seductive you have to be smooth with your words. By slowing down with the way you speak, pausing in between words and looking into her eyes while you do this, she will be eating out of your hands.

Think James Bond and you’ll be fine.

NON-VERBALLY (PHYSICAL SEXUAL ESCALATION)

So now we’ve covered the verbal side of sexual escalation, we’re now going to go over the physical side of things… this is where it really heats up.

PULL HER INTO YOU

Women like a guy who is strong… so look into her eyes, put your hands around her waist and slowly pull her into you, so your pelvis is touching hers. This is very sexual and will set up a kiss perfectly.

I’d go as far to say that it’s the best way to turn a girl on, because it shows you’re a dominant male.

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USE THE “TRIANGLE GAZE METHOD”

This is a proven technique that helps build sexual rapport and accelerates the chance of a kiss very quickly.

When you are looking at her, start from the left eye (hold for 3 seconds) then move to the right eye (hold for another 3 seconds) then look at her lips for a couple of seconds. Repeat this for a minute or two… you are basically planting the idea in her mind that you want to kiss her.

If she asks you why you keep looking at her lips, tell her the truth!

CHEEK KISS TEST

Some guys just don’t know when they should be going in for a kiss, here’s a great way to tell if she’s ready.

Go in for a cheek kiss (with your hands holding each arm), but make sure it’s very close to her mouth, when you’re close see what her reaction is… does she move her head away as if to reject you or does she go in for a real kiss? If she moves away, go in for a second kiss but keep your hands holding her arms. Why you ask?

Simple, if you remove your hands from her arms when she moves her head away from the kiss, it sub communicates that you have acknowledged she is rejecting your kiss. However if you leave your hands there and go in for a third kiss, making it obvious that you’re going for the cheek, it makes her look like the fool… clever huh?

GROOM HER

We’re all highly sexual animals at the end of the day, so grooming her will communicate that you “care” about the way she looks and her well being. Simply brushing her hair away from her face and placing it behind her ear is enough to escalate.

KISS HER FOREHEAD

Girls love it when guys kiss their forehead, it shows affection and no matter how hard a girl tries, she won’t be able to resist liking you that little bit more.

It’s what they see in the movies, so it’s subconsciously embedded in their mind and just always works, so use it.

TOUCH HER WAIST/STOMACH

If a girl let’s you touch her waist and leave your hand there without pulling away… then you can kiss her. It’s a surefire sign my friend, go in for the kiss.

On the flip side, if she ever touches your stomach or chest, it means she wants to kiss you, guaranteed.

PLACE YOUR HAND ON HER FACE (OPTIONAL)

This is quite a manly dominant thing to do, if you place both hands or one hand on her face, then go in for the kiss… there’s not much she will do to resist.

Seen as though women like to be lead sexually (well most do anyway) she will never pull away, she’ll just go with it.

READ HER SIGNS AND ACT

If she’s looking at you (lingering) with intent, her pupils are dilated and she’s leaving her hand on your stomach or arm, it means she wants to kiss… so go for it.

The more you do this, the easier it will become because you’re going to be able to read the signs and instinctively act.

THESE ARE THE BEST WAYS TO TURN A GIRL ON

If you can nail the verbal and non-verbal, you’ll be getting into her panties in no time. I can’t think of any other ways that would work better then the tips above, so use them wisely.

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Foreplay tips: 10 tips for red hot foreplay

Bondage ForeplayInvesting some time and effort into your foreplay techniques can go a long way and with that in mind we’ve rounded up the best sex and relationships experts out there to share their advice on mind-blowing foreplay – things are about to get sexy!

Dr. Pam Spurr author of Sex Academy says, “For no holds barred pleasure the best foreplay really teases your partner increasing their desire meaning they’re far more likely to climax.”

Foreplay is all about the anticipation. There’s a time and a place for a tease and when you’re warming up before getting down, there’s no better time to use this to your advantage.

So if you’re looking for ways to fire him up, or for some all important inspiration for things he can do to you, read on for some OMG foreplay tips!

Top 10 foreplay tips for the of you:

1. Eastern swirl and poke: Dr Pam suggests a little trick that your man can use to make you go wild.

“When you’ve started foreplay and you’re kissing and caressing, he should move on down your body and use the ‘Eastern Swirl and Poke’ kissing technique,” she explains.

“He relaxes his lips and allows his tongue to swirl around the tips of your nipples. Then he alternates this sensation with a gentle poking action from the tip of his tongue. This is one hot foreplay tip that he can move on down your body to use on you for oral-sex pleasure.”

2. Go for the grind: Emily Dubberly, founder of Cliterati.co.uk says it’s all about the grind to get you all worked up.

Rather than going purely for penetration or clitoral stimulation, try grinding against your man’s thigh or opt for some good old-fashioned dry humping,” she suggests. “That way, you can stimulate your pubic mound and way more of your clitoris than usual – it can work just as well with your clothes on as off.”

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3. Moves like a movie star: Being a bit of a tease is a good thing when it comes down to foreplay, and Emily says when you’re getting down to it, why not try and keep up the anticipation for an entire film!

“If you want to really turn your guy on try lubing your hand thoroughly then gripping and releasing your man rather than sliding your hand up and down – it’ll slide in your hand of its own accord and make it easier for you to keep going for longer.

Position your thumb on the frenulum (the stringy bit that runs from the head to the shaft) as it tends to be the most sensitive. Try teasing him for an entire film, stopping just before climax then starting again for a truly explosive finish.”

4. For his ears only: When it comes to your guy, sometimes you can forget that it’s not just about stimulating the obvious areas. Dr. Pam suggests you move your attention elsewhere:

“A much neglected erogenous zone for him is that delicious area we ladies love to have stimulated – behind the ears and the earlobes. Create some new sensations for him by stroking this area with your fingertips as you kiss.

Better yet if you have long nails gently scratch and tickle behind his ears. Now trace a line with your tongue around his earlobe – if you feel like it, start whispering the beginning of a hot fantasy scenario into his ear.” Trust us, he’ll be up for anything you want after that.

5. Experiment with new sensations: Christina Weller, Sex and Relationships Expert, and columnist for GQ says the trick to fiery foreplay is playing it hot and cold.

“Mixing it up with hot (try massage candles or hot drinks) and cold (play with ice cubes) temperatures is a fun and easy way to provide an invigorating twist on your favorite foreplay techniques, like massage and oral sex,” she says.

“An icy tongue on the tip of his penis or a hot mouth enveloping it will make a blowjob even more mind-blowing than usual.”

6. Mix it up: Christina says:Couples’ tend to favor certain foreplay techniques and that’s fine, but try mixing them up a bit.

Break away from the usual order of events and take each other by surprise from time to time. When you suspect your partner is getting comfortable and used to a particular rhythm or sensation, break off and do something else to them. The element of surprise will catch them off guard and heighten their levels of sensory experience and excitement.”7. Oral Sex for him: Sex and Relationship expert Rachael McCoy spills her sexiest secret for mind-blowing oral sex for him. 

“The key to this is teasing! Don’t go straight in for the goodies. Get on your knees looking provocatively into your partner’s eyes, part his legs and slowly lick his inner thighs in long, soft stroking motions.

Blow over the area that you’ve just licked to create a different sensation and then lay soft, warm kisses getting closer and closer towards his naughty bits. Use your hands to run over his chest, abdomen, and thighs using a firm pressure. The contrast of firm and light pressure will have him just about ready to explode waiting for you to get your mouth around him.”

8. Mutual Masturbation: This might not be one for everyone, but Rachael says mutual masturbation can be a huge turn-on.

“If you’re nervous, start by setting the mood with some saucy music, candles and dressing in something seductive to boost your confidence.

Make sure that you’re comfortable and start to touch and stroke your skin, all over your body using the front and back of your hands. Watch your own hands as they glide over your body and then look up every so often to give him a cheeky smile.

When you’ve built up enough anticipation, look him dead in the eye as you start to please yourself. Make sure to show him what you’re doing when you’re enjoying yourself before bringing yourself to full-on climax. You doing this shows confidence which is incredibly sexy. It’ll be a naughty experience that will be very hard to forget!

9. Arousing the senses: Being blindfolded can be a super-kinky way to take your foreplay to the next level.

Rachael says: “Take turns to blindfold each-other and caress and tease one body part at a time with as many different textures as possible. Try using ice, feathers, some silk, a paddle or whip and experiment with different techniques and sensations.”

Heightening all of your senses will make each touch extra intense!

10. Bondage: Last but not least it’s a bit of bondage. Rachael says: “Sit your man on a chair in the middle of a room and tie his hands behind his back. Get some sexy heels on and an eye-catching outfit and provocatively walk around the chair gliding your hands over his body as you go.

When you’re ready sit on his lap facing him with your legs straddled around his waist. Dominantly move his head to one side as you lick and gently bite his neck and earlobes.

Then wrap your arms around his shoulders and gyrate over his bulge without letting him enter you, with your breasts pushed against his chest until he begs to be untied.” Continue reading

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How Texting Changes Communication

happy-woman-with-cell-phoneTexting has, in many ways, made communication easier by helping people avoid long, unpleasant phone conversations and making a quick “Hello” much easier. According to the Pew Research Center, 72% of teenagers text regularly, and one in three sends more than 100 texts per day. Clearly, texting is the preferred method of communication among young people, and that trend is moving upward toward adults, who are also texting much more frequently. While texting hasn’t been around long enough for researchers to study its long-term effects on communication, there is circumstantial evidence that it is rapidly altering the ways people communicate with one another both via text and in person.

Face-to-Face Communication

Texting encourages rapid-fire, single-sentence thoughts, but this style of communication isn’t conducive to face-to-face communication. Consequently, people who text a lot may be more uncomfortable with in-person communication and may even use their cell phones to communicate with people who are in their presence. Parents often report that their teens’ text during dinner and the friend who texts during a group night out is a common phenomenon. The reality may be not that these people are being rude but that they are uncomfortable with slow-paced, in-person communication.

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Surface-Level Communication

Texting increases the frequency of small talk and can be a great asset to people beginning to form a friendship; they may be much more comfortable texting each other witty one-liners than they are picking up the phone and calling. But texting is, almost by definition, surface-level communication. When people communicate primarily via text, they’re much less likely to have meaningful conversations.

Written Communication

People know they’re using improper grammar when they text; it’s merely a shortcut that enables them to relay a message quickly and effectively. But over time, the way we communicate—even if we know the way we communicate is “technically” wrong—affects the way we think. The result is that people who have grown up texting may have much poorer writing skills than people who regularly communicate using grammatically correct sentences either in person, over the phone, or via email. Even worse, they may lose their ability to modify their tone and style depending on who they talk to. Many employers complain that entry-level hires have no idea how to send a business email or communicate appropriately to superiors.

Impatience and Instant Gratification

Texting is real-time communication but is not in person. This creates an odd situation in which people feel compelled to respond immediately via text, but they aren’t really participating in an ongoing, progressively deepening conversation. The instant gratification of texting can lead to incredible impatience, even aggression. But when people are in person, the requirement of communicating immediately can be daunting for people communicating primarily via text. Thus texting can inhibit both in-person communication and texting itself.

Social Boundaries

Unlike phone calls, there are no clear rules about when it’s acceptable to text. And because texting doesn’t result in an angry person answering on the other end, many people feel more comfortable texting at any time and in any circumstance. The result is a decrease in privacy and social boundaries. People may text in the middle of the night or while someone is on vacation and expect an immediate response, because of the impatience texting encourages. The result is a blurring of the lines between public and private. While a couple might previously expect no interruptions on a vacation or honeymoon, they can now anticipate receiving and responding to texts. Because texting is not old enough for psychologists to know how this affects intimacy, we can only guess at its long-term effects on relationships.

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6 Naughty Ways to Tease your Man and Leave Him Hard

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Looking to get your man all geared up for later? Here are some foolproof hot and heavy ways to tease him and leave him wanting more.

 

Some girls may be under the impression that men like to get right to the point when getting hot and heavy between the sheets, but the truth is that they like a little naughty teasing just as much as girls do!

Some say that the best way to tease your man is to withhold sex from him, but if you’re doing it for the sake of a “tease,” then just know there are much better ways to do so that give greater results. In fact, there are tons of reasons to build sexual tension in your relationship! For one, it gets both parties excited for what’s to come. It also gives you a chance to get creative with your sex life. And most of all, it’s a total thrill to take control of your man and lead the show!

How to tease your man and make him crazy for you

Teasing is mostly about doing something seemingly mundane, but with a sexy twist. It’s a promise for later and a way to keep him thinking about you all day. So whether you’re looking to leave a naughty note in his lunch or go full-on dirty girl at the office, there are plenty of ways to tease your man and leave him hard.

#1 Naughty texting. Texting is a great way to get him hot and bothered when you can’t actually be with your man. The most obvious way to get him all riled up is with a nudie pic – but with the dangers of naked sexting, sharing, and internet hacking, this may not be the route for you. Plus, it leaves little to the imagination. Instead of baring it all, tease your man with sensual texts.

Is he working hard? Tell him: “I hope not too hard. I want you to have plenty of energy for what I plan to do with you tonight.” Want to get a little more to the point? Try something more overt, like: “I got myself all wet thinking about you licking me last night. What should I do now?”

Or play a dirty game of “If you were here” with him via text. Start all of your sentences with “If you were here” and follow up with naughty sayings such as: “I wouldn’t be able to keep myself from groping you through your pants,” and gradually get dirtier from there, telling him exactly what you would do to him. Since you don’t actually have to speak the words, you may find it easier to lose your inhibitions, so go wild! – Still need help getting a naughty texting conversation started? CLICK HERE FOR HELP

#2 Teasing him in public. If you’re feeling brave, this one is definitely exciting. The next time you’re out at a function or a wedding reception, make sure you give your man a subtle grind on the dance floor. Better yet, the next time you’re out with your friends at a restaurant, simply lean in to his ear when no one’s looking, and whisper “All I want to do right now is wrap my mouth around your c*ck.”

If you’re feeling brave after your brazen tease, reach under the table and give his package a little rubdown. Quickly rejoin the conversation with your friends, so they’ll be none the wiser. Remember not to get him too riled up during dinner, or you may just end up skipping out on the bill!

#3 It’s all about your lips. Not those ones! The ones on your face, silly! My husband said that the first time he ever viewed me in a sexual way was when I was using my tongue to play with the straw of my cocktail. So by all means, ladies, flirt with your lips. When you’re out on a date with your man, make sure you’re making full use of licking your lips and using your tongue to caress your straw. Show him what he’s in for later.

#4 Surprise lunch strip show. Everyone loves a pop-in at work from their beloved, right? And he’ll especially love it when a great lunch is paired with some great fondling. Figure out when his lunch break is and show up with his favorite take-out. Let him know that lunch isn’t your only reason for coming. After his meal, give him your best lap dance as a sexy form of dessert. Make out like you were teenagers, and promise him there’ll be more waiting for him after work.

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#5 Morning shower make out. Is he running a bit late for work? Drive him crazy and catch him just after he gets out of the shower right before he gets his clothes back on, and tell him how much you’re dying to get on your knees – and then do it.

Make him go wild by showing his member some much-needed affection, but don’t give him the full monty just yet. Suck lightly and focus on licking the head and balls while you stroke him up and down. Remember, he doesn’t get a happy ending until he either A: gets home or B: relents to being super late.

#6 Have a little taste. For those girls who don’t mind get a little, erm, personal with themselves, then this one is sure to get him hot. While you’re out in public, have friends over, or are otherwise entertaining, get into a nook of the next room where only he can see you and dip your fingers into your panties, lifting them back up into your mouth, so he can watch you tasting yourself – then give him a playful wink.

Remember, you’ll be fully clothed for this, so you don’t actually have to do the deed. Just let him think you’re being a naughty girl, and you’ll gain the desired affect!

Beware of blue balls

So pawing and licking and teasing your man is hot and all, but don’t take it too far! Being super stimulated with no release can result in something men affectionately refer to as “blue balls” – a buildup of pressure and stimulation that can make his testicles swell with varying levels of pain. Teasing is fun, but happy endings are way better!

It’s one thing to be a sexy tease, it’s another to be a cruel one. So be the sexy tease your man has been fantasizing about with these tips. Have fun with them as you titillate your man, and then hopefully, he’ll return the favor!

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10 Naughty Sex Games for Couples to Feel Horny Again!

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Want to feel sexy and horny every time you’re in bed with your lover? Try these 10 naughty sex games for couples and you’ll never get bored in bed again!

If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’d know that it’s not easy to keep that rush of sexual passion alive every single night.

Sometimes, as hard as both of you try, sex can start to feel pretty repetitive.

It’s no one’s fault really.

At times, you need more than just to and fro motion in bed to keep dirty sex alive in bed.

Making sex exciting and horny again

The first thing you need to remember is that sex, as much as it’s about the things that happen down there, is all in your head.

Your brain is your biggest sex organ.

And as long as you excite it and stimulate it with sexual thoughts, you’ll start feeling hornier and have a hard time keeping your hands off your lover’s body.

Don’t let things get repetitive.

Look for something new to try in bed all the time, and even if several years pass by, your sex lives will stay just as fresh and sexy as the first few years when both of you hooked up!

Dirty sex games for couples

The easiest way to try something new in bed is by trying a new sex position.

But practicing a new sex position every time both of you have sex can get pretty tiresome and daunting after a while. What with all those carpet burns, limp erections and cramped muscles! If you can think of a few fun things to do together instead of focusing just on penetration, you’d see that your sex life can be so much more interesting.

10 naughty sex games for couples to feel horny again!

The next time both of you are in bed, wondering how to deal with the elephant in the room *when sex starts to get boring*, stop worrying about it. Just play a few games, and watch your libidos soar through the roof.

Here are 10 sex games for couples that could help you in the right direction. Once you use these, just improvise on the tips and make your own games with them. Try a few, and you’ll see just how horny your lover will feel within the next few minutes!

#1 Fantasy bowl. Write down five dark, secret fantasies of yours in five individual pieces of paper. Fold them up and drop them in a bowl. Ask your partner to do the same. Shuffle the chits of paper and pick one, and talk about that fantasy together. You don’t need to focus on having sex at all!

Just turn off the lights, get under the sheets and discuss why you or your partner likes that sexual fantasy and what stimulates each other about it. If your partner describes their fantasy to you, just listen to them and run your hands along their body as they describe the fantasy. Before you even realize it, both of you will be really turned on. Just remember, the darker the sexual fantasies, the more aroused both of you will feel.

#2 Roleplaying. Role-playing is always fun, irrespective of the characters both of you choose. The guy could pretend to be the doctor, and the girl could pretend to be a patient who’s come to the doctor’s office. Ask your partner to lie down on the bed *fully clothed* and pretend like you’re examining them. Look for excuses to touch the patient, and undress the patient giving different excuses.

You could also use blindfolds to make the experience feel more real. Use characters that work for you and arouse each other, if you want the experience to be fun.

#3 Dirty would-you-rather questions. Lie down in bed with each other on a lazy afternoon or at night, and ask each other a few dirty questions. It could start off feeling awkward, but it’ll only take a question or two to light up both your eyes with lust.

And even if you’re not thinking of sex, ask each other the right questions and both of you would be making love within the next fifteen minutes!

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#4 Strip questions. This is just like strip poker, but with a little twist. Instead of playing this game with cards, ask each other personal questions. If you ask your partner a question and they get it wrong, they need to down a shot of alcohol and take off one piece of clothing.

If you want to make it more fun and sexy, wear old clothes while playing the game. And instead of taking one piece of clothing off, each time a partner gives a wrong answer, the other partner tears a piece of clothing off their body!

#5 Horny truth or dare. Both of you can play this game with each other. All you need to do is ask each other to perform a dare or tell the truth. Use a bottle and spin it on the floor, and the person the bottle points to has to perform the dare.

But quite frankly, it’s so much sexier and hornier if you’ve got another couple to play this game with. If you have another couple as friends, ask them to come over for a night, or try this on a vacation. But we assure you, play this game once and you’ll be on a horny high for several months!

#6 Sexy dice. This is simple and easy. And if you want to have some fun in bed without getting too creative yourself, pick up a pair of sexy dice from an adult shop near your place. Or you could even make two sets of notes, one set with names of different parts of the body, and another set of notes with different actions and things to do. It’s simple, and for starters into the world of sex games for couples, this is a safe bet.

#7 Tarzan and Jane. Are you into rough sex? Well, play this game and you will be! The goal here is simple. Both of you are in bed. There are a few scarves or ropes lying in bed. The guy has to wrestle the girl, pin her down and tie her hands to the headboard or tie them up together, and her legs to the foot of the bed. The girl has to resist him by kicking him away or pushing him. The guy’s goal or mission is to penetrate the girl, and the girl’s goal is to stop the guy.

This game could start out funny, but it’ll only be a few minutes before the animal sides come out and things start to get aggressive. And even before either of you realize it, both of you will be really angry and really horny. And totally ready for rough sex!

#8 Blindfolds and food. This game requires a blindfold and a tub of ice cream. Sit down at the foot of the bed, blindfold your partner and give them a spoon. They need to scoop out a spoonful of ice cream and feed you while they’re still blindfolded.

If any of the ice cream falls on your body, your partner has to lick the ice cream off. This game may start simple, but the spoon will end up in many different places in no time!

#9 The sexy walk and drive. Do you get turned on when your partner does something naughty on a vacation or in public? Then this game is for you.

The girl wears a thin tee shirt without her bra. And the guy wears a rather flimsy pair of shorts or pants without wearing any underwear. Both of you could take a short drive around the house, or even step out of the car and take a short walk together. Stop by at a little store if you want to be seen by someone, whatever works for you! By the time both of you come back home, the sexy adrenalin would leave both of you on a horny high.

#10 Reenact porn. This is simple and straightforward. Get into bed together, don’t build the pressure up by focusing on sex. Just play a porn movie and watch the movie together. Both of you can run your hands on each other while watching it.

But if you want to take it one step higher, watch a movie that’s rather risqué and fetishist, or revolves around a sexual fantasy of yours. Both of you can reenact the characters and do exactly as they’re doing, as both of you watch the movie.

If you’re having a hard time staying horny in bed, just use these 10 naughty and sexy games for couples. These games will only take a minute to arouse both of you, and the horny high will keep things exciting for a lot longer!

 
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8 Hot Texting Examples to Wake His Sexual Beast…

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As I got older, I realized that I was not afraid to explore my sexual prowess anymore. Whether it was the changes happening in my body or my brain, my desire for sex increased as I got past the age of 25. On the contrary, I was dating a man who wasn’t so ready to show his sexual side to me.

I decided to take the initiative and take the ball to his court. I had to find ways of turning him on so that his sexual desire was at the same level as mine. I went on a rampage looking for hot texting examples, and it wasn’t long before he towed the line. Here are a few lessons I learned from that experience.

Don’t Relent Until You Get What You Want… Some men are slow in giving a response to naughty text messages. Some love it but some do not, that is just how it is. Make no mistake that does not mean that they do not think about sex. In fact, some quarters argue that the average guy will think about sex a couple of times every day.

If your man does not respond to your texts as he should, keep sending them to him until he can comfortably engage with you in a naughty text exchange. You can never arouse your man’s sexual desires if having an intimate conversation over the phone is a problem. Send him naughty texts over and again until he can engage in dirty talk with you freely. That is the first step towards triggering his sexual senses.


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Stay Nasty and Nice at the Same Time… Gather as many hot texting examples as you can and let the content of each message vary. You should have explicit sexy text messages and other than not so explicit. Send distinct messages depending on the direction and tone of the conversation. If the exchange of texts is hot and steamy, go for the dirtier phrases, and if you are doing it for fun, you may send him the“less” dirty texts.

When I was starting out, I used to engage my guy in a dirty game and pick it up from there. As he got used to it, I would sometimes take it straight to him by saying something like “I am so wet!” or “If I were there I would make you so hard”. Either way, I would frame my phrases in such a way that he will be so turned on by the end of the conversation and have fun while at it.

Here is a look at eight hot texting examples that I used to send my guy.

* I just cannot tell the reason behind it, but I want to have sex right now.

*I had a dream having sex with you at the balcony by the full moon.

* If you can correctly guess the color of my panties, you can be sure I will give a sensual blowjob when you get here.

* Today you were looking so hot, I felt like making out with you in public.

* I always get weak when your tender lips kiss my lips.

* Today I will wear the sexiest lingerie just for you.

* How does the idea of spending the whole Sunday in bed sound to you?

* I miss your tight embrace.

As you notice from the above dirty text messages, there are those that are outrightly nasty and other not so nasty. To avoid sound boring or too predictable, mix the messages, and you may give them a spin depending on how deep you want to go with your man. You may not have hot texting examples at your fingertips especially if you are just new to dirty talk. However, that should not worry you since there are so many resources you can get them from including blogs, magazine and erotic novels just to name but a few.

You always compose dirty flirty text messages based on your man’s behavior in bed. Men are easily turned on by words that remind them of how good they are in bed or how they behave during sex. For instance, try telling your guy “I liked the way you groaned” or “The way you bite and close your eyes makes me so turned on” and you will be surprised at how such lines can trigger their sexual arousal.

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Things Men Can Learn From Fifty Shades Of Grey

Ever heard of Fifty Shades Of Grey?

It’s a recent cultural phenomenon loved (and hated) by people of all ages.

And before I dive into it…

Yes, the books are terribly written.

Yes, the books were written as Twilight fan fiction.

Yes, the books romanticize certain damaging relationship habits.

And yes, the books represent a laughably unrealistic viewpoint of what kink/BDSM relationships look like.

BUT… to not try and learn something from a book series that so clearly hit a nerve on such a massive scale would be silly.

So here’s what you need to know… a virginal 21 year old student (Anastasia Steele) meets a super sexy/successful 27 year old billionaire (Christian Grey) who happens to take a liking to her. Christian also happens to like kinky sex. They like each other, they fight, they make up, they have a lot of kinky sex, they fall in love, the end.

Here’s the thing that you actually need to know…

The book sold over 100 million copies and was one of the most purchased books in the history of human beings. Why? Because the book tapped into something about human sexuality at the right time. What exactly did it tap into? The fact that a lot of women are sexually frustrated and want to live out explorative sexual fantasies with a leading character who they respond to.

And this is the reason why I had a brain-boner throughout the entire book… the way that the author portrayed Christian Grey was brilliant. Having studied attraction, romantic love, and psychology for the past decade, seeing what the author was layering into Christian was just so smart and culturally well timed.

As much as some guys (I would assume that less than 10% of the original Fifty Shades readership was male) want to attribute Christian’s attractiveness to his money or ripped abs (hint: SO not those things), there is some pretty smart writing going on in terms of how the character was structured.

Enough mental masturbation…

So what is it exactly that makes Christian Grey so attractive to over a hundred million women?

Here are the seven things that you can learn from Christian Grey that will help you be a better boyfriend/husband/partner.

1. Single Minded Attention

Christian is supremely single minded when it comes to Anastasia. He’s focused on her, and only her.

He doesn’t squander his attention or sexual energy on other women in any way. If there is a gorgeous woman within sight, he doesn’t take his eyes off of Anastasia for a second.

While his character takes it a bit too far at times (she refers to his superior “stalking” abilities repeatedly in the first two books), this kind of laser-beamed attention is intoxicating to so many women who have never experienced anything close to it. Especially younger women who have grown up in a dating culture where the cultural narrative says that it’s alright for a guy to text message her a vague sign of interest in order to initiate a first date.

Christian wants Anastasia, and he is clear in his intent.

Action steps: stop looking at other women when you’re out on dates with your partner. Give solid eye contact to your partner when you’re talking to them. Remove distractions from your dates and bedroom when you’re engaging with your partner one on one. When you are away from them get on with your life, but give them your full attention whenever you are with them.

2. Unapologetic Sexual Desire

Christian unapologetically craves Anastasia. He is a calm, controlled man with a healthy relationship to his sexuality and he finds Anastasia absolutely captivating. He lusts after her like most women have never experienced in real life.

It’s an aphrodisiac to feel someone’s eyes on you from across the room (something that she does several times throughout the trilogy).

Christian is always in control of his sexual desire, but just barely. It is the line that he walks between being in control of his sexual beast, and her alllllmost making him lose control of himself that she finds so erotic.

Action steps: dive into your relationship to your sexuality. Figure out exactly what it is you respond to in the bedroom. Don’t be afraid to experiment with new things that you think you might enjoy. Work through any mental or emotional blocks you have surrounding sexuality from past trauma or conditioning.

3. Driven

It’s not the fact that Christian has billions of dollars or a chiseled torso that women find attractive so much what those things say about him as a person. The external markers of success and health speak to his unrelenting drive and passion for what he does in his life.

It’s not that he has strong muscles, it’s the fact that he has a strong enough of a mind to have earned those muscles. And it is much the same in real life. Most women aren’t attracted to rich men because they have lots of money as much as they’re attracted to those kinds of men because those men are self-aware, driven, and actually care enough about something in their lives that they want to chase it down and conquer it.

Action steps: figure out what you’re passionate about and follow it with abandon. Don’t be afraid to chase down every single one of your dreams no matter how outlandish or socially out of the box they seem. Always be improving as a person.

4. Love and affection

If he was only ever sexually aggressive with her then it would get old fast. Predictability is death to sexual passion. It would be like if someone learned how to play one chord on a guitar and then only played that one chord over and over again (whereas knowing just four or five chords enables you to play entire songs that are much more emotionally engaging). Christian is the opposite of someone who knows how to play one chord. In fact, he is described as “mercurial” 17 times in the trilogy.

When Christian isn’t tying up/spanking/flogging Anastasia, he frequently holds her, caresses her, adores her, and kisses her on the forehead. He is strong, and soft. Aggressive and sweet. He is all things in an ever-changing hurricane of masculine energy.

Action steps: love and compliment your woman. Be sweet to her when she’s sick, grumpy, or having a rough day. Kiss her on the forehead, play with her hair, make dinner for her. Be a good partner.

5. Decisive

Christian knows who he is and what he wants out of life… so when he decides that he WANTS Anastasia… it actually means something. Most guys choose a woman because they choose him first or simply because of how they look.

Christian has standards. He has insanely strict standards in fact. He orders a simple gin and tonic with about 30 hyper detailed words of specificity. The man knows himself. So his decisions mean something. He does not have low standards in any area of his life.

Action steps: make firm decisions. Stop settling when it comes to matters of your integrity. Feel passionate about something and let it show. Don’t be afraid to lead your dates. Proactively communicate to your partner things that they can do to make you even happier, and strive to do the same for them.

6. Intentionality

Christian is always in control of himself. He is super capable because he decided early on in life to regularly invest time and effort into developing a wide range of abilities. Simply put, he is hyper intentional about his life. He believes in self-mastery and is always looking for ways to challenge himself and improve as a person.

And it would be so easy to scoff at this book and say “This is an impossible level of greatness to achieve… these kinds of guys don’t exist in real life.” And you’re probably 100% right. The number of 27 year old self-made billionaires in the world is next to non-existent. But I have several friends in my social circle that come very close to how Christian is described throughout the trilogy.

I have one friend who is under 35 and has completed over 10 IronMan competitions across the world while running a massively successful home based business and being one of the greatest husbands and fathers that anyone could ever hope for. I have another friend who wrote and published over 20 books by the time he was 25 years old (while living with his beautiful wife in Hawaii). And yet another friend who worked at Apple for over a decade, owns and flies his own aircraft (just like Christian Grey), is a former pro-surfer, and is one of the sweetest and most loyal men on the face of this planet.

These men exist. And I don’t say this to boast that I know them… I’m saying this to dispel the idea that someone can’t be successful, fit, and emotionally intelligent at a young age… or at any age.

Action steps: live your life on purpose. Commit to growing as a person every single day. Challenge your comfort zones by traveling as often as possible and taking on new skills.

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7. Willingness To Be Vulnerable

Christian has a mean history of trauma and abuse in his early life. It’s part of what drove him to succeed to the extent that he did. And one of the most endearing qualities of Christian as a character is that he slowly lets Anastasia into his emotional world and he lets her help heal his emotional wounds.

Modern men are raised with such a shamed mentality around their emotions.

Boys don’t cry. Never let ‘em see you sweat. Feel less, achieve more, don’t complain about anything.

Because of socially conditioned ideas like these being hammered into us, we also tend to intuit the lesson that women will lose attraction to us if we ever DO let them see us sweat/suffer/have a moment of “weakness”.

In reality, a quality woman will genuinely want to be let into your emotional world. She knows that you have some cracks in your proverbial armour because everyone has emotional wounds in their past to be worked through. Holding her back from letting her see you is like repeatedly denying her something she desperately longs for. She wants to be let in. And not to judge you or think any less of you… but to help heal your heart with her feminine nurturing and love.

While Christian doesn’t dump his past and heavy emotional baggage on Anastasia upon first meeting her (as he shouldn’t), he slowly lets her know more about him as he grows to trust her more through their relationship. This is the essence of healthy, high-functioning boundaries… he lets her in because he trusts her, and women (like all people) want to feel like they are trusted.

Action steps: let your partner see you. Don’t be afraid to share your secrets with people you trust. Let your lover in to your world and trust that they have your best interest at heart.

Are There Any Christian Greys Out There?

You don’t need to be every single one of these things in order to attract a partner or maintain a thriving relationship. But if you found yourself thinking “I might have some work to do”, then you’re already on the right path.

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WHY DIRTY TEXTING IS SO EFFECTIVE

Here’s why I think dirty text messages are so freakin cool and appeal to the lazier man:

  • Women get turned on by words – Women are serial fantasists, which mean that get massively aroused by words and imagining sexual scenarios. This can give you tremendous power.
  • It’s private – Your phone is private to you, so noone is going to read those texts unless you want them to. This allows her to be very sexual and naughty without her friends finding out and calling her a slut.
  • Low pressure – There aren’t any cockblocks, social pressures or uncomfortable silences which means that she will be open to say things much faster than she would in person, without the same thought process of a high pressure situation.
  • You set the tone and pace – It’s up to you how fast or slow you want to build things up sexually with a text and no matter how long you leave it before you reply, you will always start from that point. Meaning you won’t have to start the whole sexual build up all over again.

So now you know why a dirty text can be effective, let’s move onto the actual dirty texts to send girls to get them all hot and bothered.

3 DIRTY TEXTS EXAMPLES THAT WILL GET HER TURNED ON FAST

I’ve put these examples into 3 types. From mild to aggressive, all of them work so it’s up to you to try them out and see which works best for you. You can also mix them up with different girls based on how sexual they are too.

NAUGHTY BUT NICE (FLIRTY BANTER, ALWAYS A SEXUAL UNDERTONE)

  • Her: Hey you, how’s your day going? x
  • You: Well hello my cheeky little fuzzy chicken… a little boring if I’m honest. Need some excitement today x
  • Her: What kind of excitement? 🙂
  • You: Dunno, like a submissive maid who’s does everything I ask… x
  • Her: Shall I get the outfit out of my closet for you? x
  • You: Yes… and make sure you pick up my dry cleaning on the way… otherwise daddy will be angry.
  • Her: Is it bad that I like it when daddy is angry? x
  • You: Yes. And for that I’m going to have to put you over my knee you naughty girl.

Blah blah, you get the picture. She basically loves the tease, because it’s naughty… you’re leading the texts and she’s being submissive.

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THE HUNTER (NO FLUFF, JUST STRAIGHT TO THE POINT)

  • You: So it’s Thursday evening… work almost done and I’ve got an overwhelming erection, what is a man to do? x
  • Her: Get some ice 😉 x
  • You: Now now missy, that’s naughty. You weren’t given lips like that for nothing… get the high heels, some red lipstick and get to my place sharpish
  • Her: And if I don’t? x
  • You: I will find you… kidnap you… blind fold you, tie you to my bed and have my way with you… even when you can’t take it anymore.
  • Her: See you at 10… x

THE FANTASIST (BUILDING UP A SEXUAL STORY IN HER MIND THAT WILL KEEP HER HORNY ALL DAY LONG)

  • You: Just been to see Batman… What a badass x
  • Her: Oh yeah? x
  • You: Yep, that deep voice, crazy ninja moves and rock hard six pack… ooooo
  • Her: You got the hots for Batman? x
  • You: Are you telling me that if Batman grabbed you, took you back to his lair, whispered dirty words in that deep gravely voice and dominated you… you wouldn’t like it? x
  • Her: Mmmm… ok I’m in x
  • You: Damn. it’s 11pm, where the hell can I get a bat suit at this hour…
  • Her: Forget the bat suit, just bring the gravely voice! x
  • You: On my way miss…

3 SIMPLE SEXTING TIPS FOR GUYS

Here are some helpful sexting tips that will keep you on track and not feel like you’re stuck after the first bump.

DON’T JUMP THE GUN

Let’s get something straight here, women like guys who are sure of themselves and their actions. So you need to be that guy when texting, however this doesn’t mean that you want to be too brash with your words.

For example, you don’t want to say something like:

“Nice meeting you yesterday, can’t wait to f**k your brains out this week”

This isn’t going to work on any girl, there’s no sizzle or flirting, it’s just too direct and she will think that you think she’s a slut. Game over.

A better example would be:

“Nice meeting you last night… can’t stop thinking about that sexy little bum… Not getting any work done today, you’re a bad influence young lady! x”

IF YOU OFFEND HER, JUST MOVE ON

There will be a point during your dirty texting session that you may offend her, this is totally fine as you need to see where the line is with each girl. But what you don’t want to do is apologise like a needy little bitch.

You need to give an underhanded apology, like this…

Her: “Erm… ok that was a little rude”
You: “Ooo I didn’t hurt your feelings did I? Ok you get one spank and that’s it… ok two, but that’s my final offer.”

SET A SEXUAL FRAME EARLY ON

Most guys are too afraid to turn on the sexual vibe with text messages in case they screw it up. My advice is, don’t worry about screwing it up… if you did a decent job when you met her, then a text message won’t ruin the attraction unless you’re a total tard.

Switch on the naughty stuff and keep dialing it up from the very first text.

Always try and turn things into a sexual innuendo, it’s much more exciting than a boring “how’s your day going” text.

That’s it fellas… a rundown of simple sexting tips for guys. Do you have any examples you want to share? Leave them in the comments below dude.

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8 Little Texting Mistakes New Couples Often Make

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When you’re in a new relationship, it can be tempting to text your partner anything, anytime. But this might end up ruining your relationship.

Technology has changed so quickly, and along with this, changed the dating world drastically. Instead of calling, we have text. Instead of meeting people out at a bar, we meet them online. We no longer live in the era of having pen pals, having to use dial-up modems, talking to friends on AIM or Instant Messenger or typing ‘a/s/l’ in chat-rooms.

We don’t need Webcams because we have Skype, and guys don’t have to drive over to your house to physically ask your parents’ permission to take you out on a date. And thanks to Instagram, photo filters were born, allowing social media users everywhere to edit photos, showing the world only their “best sides.”

All these things have changed how people date, some without even realizing it. Dating has become interesting and confusing, more so now than ever. Is what you see really what you get?

Texting mistakes to avoid in your relationship

With texting being one of the easiest forms of communication, you might find yourself resorting to it whenever you start missing your partner. But are you inadvertently ruining your relationship with your texting habits?

#1 Too often, too soon. If you’re in a new relationship, it’s probably pretty accurate to say that you two are excited about each other. It’s natural to talk a lot and often about something you are excited about. But if you’re always texting 24/7, seriously you need to slow down!

Unless you’re trying to kill the intrigue and desire, then by all means, go ahead and text them that you’re awake, and now you’re getting coffee, and now you’re at the gym, and now you’re actually working out at the gym, and now you’re in the bathroom at the gym, and now you’re leaving the gym, and now you’re eating lunch with your friend Tiffany, and… yeah.

Seriously, think about how much effort actually goes into texting all this. A LOT. Imagine being the one on the receiving end, they will be even more exhausted reading your pointless drivel. Have you ever made fun of someone on Facebook because they posted what they had for breakfast and that they got all their laundry done? Don’t be that person! Don’t flood your new flame with the trivialities of your life! 

#2 You hardly ever talk in person. If you actually plan on dating your new flame for a long period of time and are looking for true love, then you’re going to need to get up off your texting butt and actually communicate, with your mouths, in person!

What’s the point of being in a relationship with a living, breathing human being if the majority of your communication revolves around reading each other’s texts and emojis? How are you going to know if your partner is being sarcastic, if the story they’ll tell is sad if they’re looking to get some advice? And when you finally do get to meet up in person, you’ll get so used to each other’s texting habits that having an actual conversation may start to feel awkward. Is that what you want?

#3 Playing detective. If you’re dating someone new, and they tell you they are going to go play dodgeball with some friends, or they text you they are “hanging at their boys’ house” this does not mean you should text them asking “What friends are you hanging with? Where are you playing dodge ball? What time are you playing dodge ball? What do you mean ‘hanging’ with the boys? Who are you with? Is it just boys?”

Does this sound crazy to you? It should! If it doesn’t, well, there are certain behaviors that people do that are considered to be insane, and yeah, this would be within that category for certain. Do not scare away the new person in your life with incessant questions that sound like the script for an interrogator. You are not their mother, their local police officer, and certainly not their babysitter. You are their significant other, so be the romantic, not frantic!

#4 Selfie overload. It’s human nature to get tired of listening to the same song on the radio, seeing the same models everywhere, reading the same book. Just like the world is pretty exhausted with the Kardashians posting their faces everywhere, your significant other will get pretty worn out really fast if you keep posting yours via social media and texting them.

We get it. You’re attractive, and feeling good. Bravo! But it’s safe to say if you’re dating someone new, the physical attraction is a non-issue and they are already way into you, as far as how you look. Why bother with sending a hundred daily selfies if you’re going to meet up with your partner eventually anyway? Wouldn’t they appreciate the real deal more? 

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#5 You compose text novels. It’s great if you have a really awesome story to tell, but if you think sending a 500-character text to your significant other is the way to go, then you’re going the wrong way. There is a reason Twitter only allows tweets with 140 characters or less. Less is MORE. If you have MORE to say, pick up the phone and talk. It’s that simple.

No one wants to read a long-ass text from someone they like about how their doctor’s appointment went way longer because the nurse did this, and someone did that, and someone’s in the emergency room for stubbing their toe. Just imagine casually checking your phone and being greeting with a gigantic block of text!

If you want to write a novel, pick up a pen and paper, or use your actual computer and hit “save” instead of “send.” If you really want them to know about your little anecdote, why not just pick up the phone, as mentioned earlier, or better yet, wait until you meet up so you’ll have a fun story to tell?

#6 Filler texts. One of the most annoying texts you could possibly get is the dreaded “K.” Why? For one, it’s unnecessary, and two, it adds nothing to the conversation. Don’t send a pointless text just for the sake of keeping your “conversation” going.

Your partner doesn’t need a constant reminder that you exist, beeping away at their phones. Before you send over a generic filler text or a random smiley that doesn’t really add any substance to your conversation, think again. Send something with meaning like a short, funny story or something interesting you saw on your commute.

If you can’t come up with anything, just accept the silence. Give each other a little space. Let your partner do their thing without having to feel the incessant vibration of their phone, only to open up a message with a pointless smiley. 

#7 Compliment count = 0. This is the opposite of mistake 4, because if you’re lucky enough to be dating someone who isn’t self-absorbed and sending you photos all the time, then when they do send you a photo, it makes it that much more special and sincere.

If you’re dating someone who sends you a picture of themselves once in a blue moon, the basic rule of thumb would be to write back to them something nice about the photo. If you two are in the middle of a text conversation, but they randomly throw in a pic, and then carry on with the conversation casually, without really mentioning the picture they just sent you, don’t ignore it even if your partner diverts the conversation because they’re feeling awkward.

Completely ignoring the photo will seriously shatter your partner’s heart. So don’t even think of going down that road!

#8 Text fighting. With texting, you can only assume you know the tone your partner is using as you have an argument. But if you’re in a new relationship, or really any relationship, you should never fight over text messaging. EVER.

Seriously, think about how many times your iPhone automatically fills in the completely wrong spelling of the word sh*t or fu*k, a lot. You end up looking so ridiculous because the text gets delivered looking something like “Duck you!” or “I don’t give a shit!” The time you spend in a rage trying to autocorrect your text messages and using your caps locks are the minutes you’ve just waste when you could have just used a calm and gentle voice to get your point across and potentially avoid an argument in the first place! 

Though technology has made relationships easier, relying on it too much will make your relationship deteriorate much faster. Take a break from all this texting, and just go on a nice face-to-face date to keep the romance alive!

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Three moves to spice up your sex life & Turn up the heat in the bedroom

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As with any form of exercise, sex requires a healthy injection of variety in order to avoid a slow segue from pleasure to chore. “Men and women constantly complain to me about boredom from doing the same old position – or two – every time they have sex,” says Dr Pam Spurr, author of Steamy Sex: The Sex Doctor’s Answers For keeping It Hot. Use her three guaranteed temperature-raisers to upgrade your sex life instantly.

1. The Courtesan

Best for… intimacy

Guide her on to a pile of cushions at the foot of the bed so that her back is resting against it. Now slip into a kneeling position on the floor facing her. Because the cushions give her some lift she can wrap her legs around your lower back as you rise up on your knees to enter her.

”Slow and sensual thrusts will keep you both in place,” says Spurr. “Tighten your hold on her waist as your rhythm quickens so she doesn’t slip around on the cushions. This position allows lots of kissing and sensuous cuddling during penetration.”


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2. Lovers’ Snake

Best for… her pleasure

Place her on her back and lie at her side facing towards her. Then bend both her legs and throw them over yours so that they angle over your hips until you have contact to slowly start penetration. Reach around and grab the side of her hips to pull her into you.

”From this slightly sideways angle use slow-but-sure thrusts,” says Spurr. “This position gives you fantastic access to stroke her intimately in various ways – try giving her clitoral stimulation with the hand that has helped angle her hips in place.”

3. The Monkey

Best for… the adventurous

Lie on your back and bend your knees into your chest. Then sit her gently back on to your erection, facing away from you. She can rest her arms slightly behind her so that you can help hold her in place – ideally supporting her bent elbows. For added stability, press your feet into her upper-back.

”This position isn’t for the fainthearted – you should have good abdominal and lower back muscles as well as strong arms,” says Spurr. “Thrusting needs to be gentle, slow and sensuous.”

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A Beginner’s Guide To Bondage (Because We KNOW You’re Curious!)

 
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Do these three things BEFORE you break out the handcuffs …

Different people normally have different sexual needs and fantasies where something that you may find normal/exciting may be frowned upon by others. There are some people who would like to know the process of getting involved in bondage and below are a few guidelines on how to go about it.

  1. Know What It Is: Before you get involved in this sexual practice, it is important to know exactly what it is all about to know whether it is for you or not. Formally, in regards to sexual gratification, bondage can be described as the use of restraints as well as the restriction of movement to enhance sexual pleasure of the partners involved. It can be something simple as using a pair of fuzzy handcuffs or as complex as sensory deprivation or full mummification. It can be activity that individuals take part in just for the fun of it or it can be the tool that is used to improve a larger and more complex relationship. Like very many sexual concepts out there, it is easy to recognize, but it can be challenging to define. This is because it takes up many forms some that are less obvious than the others.S

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  2. Find A Person Who Is Interested: An unwritten rule when you want to get involved in bondage is to make sure that you find a partner who’s also interested or willing to try it out. (If he or she isn’t, you just won’t have much fun.) Pressuring someone to do something that they don’t know or are not interested in can be, at a minimum, awkward, and more importantly, it could damage your relationship. It’s best to talk to the person before you get them involved in the process to be on the safe side.
  3. Get The Right Gear: For bondage to work out well, there are a couple of equipment items you need to have to fulfill the whole purpose. In some cases, especially if you are just starting out, you may not need a closet that is full of elaborate gear. A couple of ties, bungee cords and scarves can work out well. However, there are some people who might not do well with things such as fetish clothing, tools that are used for restrictions and many more to make certain they enjoy the entire process in the proper way.

People want to get involved in bondage for various reasons. There are some people who find it a great way to spice up a rather bland sex life. There are some people who consider it a very important thing that should be included in their sexual practices. For other people, they like the visual impact that it brings about thanks to the tools, clothing and equipment.

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20 Flirty Ways to Text Your Crush to Get Them Interested

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These days, the easiest way to get someone’s attention is through their phone. Here’s how you can use texting to get your crush interested in no time.

The average teenager sends 3,000 texts per month, and the average person probably doesn’t deviate much from those numbers. With that being said, we can all agree that texting is one sure-fire way to communicate with someone you like. The problem is keeping them interested in what you have to say.

Why is texting an effective way of communicating?

The only relevant answer is that texting is extremely convenient. It’s very affordable nowadays and it bridges distances that span continents and zip codes. So no matter where your crush is situated, you can at least rest assured that the message will be received if they are within the vicinity of a working cell tower.

In terms of creating connections, texting helps express things that are difficult to say in person. The only problem is expressing those things in the right context. That’s where emojis and punctuation comes in. If you want to show how happy you are, you can simply add a smiley. If you want to express sadness, just flip it over for a sad smiley.

It’s that easy, but there are still some limitations on what texting can offer you in terms of relationships. When you use texting to express your emotions, the sincerity of your message becomes questionable. If you fail to reply or if you use texts as a weapon during a fight, you open yourself up to misunderstandings and unprecedented fights.

Still, it’s nice to know that texting can at least get the conversation going. The question now is, “How you can do that?”

How to get your crush’s attention with a text

Human beings are complex and simple at the same time. In order to take advantage of the latter, you just have to be honest and direct about what you want to say. In terms of texting, getting someone’s attention is still complicated, especially when they’re entertaining more than one person through the tiny screen in the palm of their hand.

So, if you really want to make an impression, here are a few ways you can amp up your texting game and walk away with the winning prize: an eggplant and taco emoji. We’re kidding, but if that’s what you’re into, go right ahead.

#1 Say hi. A simple “hi” would probably suffice, but it’s best that you add a smiley face or at least a question at the end of it. Asking a person how they’re doing is fine, but you can also say it in a way that allows them to reply longer, like texting, “How’s school/work/your mom?”

#2 Follow up with an open-ended question. Apart from that, you can continue the conversation by adding questions that don’t warrant a yes or no answer. This will require a little more grammar proficiency on your part, but isn’t it all worth it in the end?


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#3 Ask about their day. If you ask about their day, they might have a lot to say or not much at all. The purpose of this is to show that you care about what’s going on with their lives. If they don’t reply with a long text, just ask them why their day went the way it did.

#4 Show them a funny meme. Most people use memes to start conversations or to actually carry on a conversation. Nobody dislikes a funny meme, and if you end up sending one they’ve never seen, your crush will laugh their butt off and be very grateful for the little burst of happiness you gave them.

#5 Send a conservative amount of emojis. Do not under any circumstance flood your crush’s phone with emojis. The perfect amount to send is an emoji for every emotion you express and a smiley at the start or end of your conversation. Also, try not to send vague emojis, lest you offend your crush in the process.

#6 Make your presence known once a day, max. If your crush is not much of a texter or if they rarely reply immediately, make sure you only say hello once a day. Don’t keep sending messages, hoping they’ll reply to at least one. This can be perceived as annoying, so it’s better if you let someone reply when they have the time.

#7 Give them compliments. This is pretty much a game-changer in communication. Studies show that people who receive compliments are more likely to become attracted to the giver. So go ahead and stroke that ego.

#8 Congratulate them on a job well done. Appreciating their achievements is also a great way to make them notice you. That’s because it can be surprising if someone other than their friends or co-workers take notice of their achievements.

#9 Ask them for a favor. It was Benjamin Franklin who discovered that asking an enemy for a favor would result in their liking you. This could probably work for texting as well.

#10 Show them that you care. Remind them to eat even though they know when they should. Tell them to bring an umbrella when it looks like it’s going to rain. It sounds domineering and overbearing, but it actually shows that you care.

#11 Be cute. Try sending a few mushy statements that don’t make you look like you’re trying too hard. For example, “I really like talking to you” would be a nice text for your crush to receive.

#12 Be sexy. Try to also say things that make you look like you’re trying hard enough. For example, “Netflix and chill?” This shows that you actually want to do something with them outside of texting.

#13 Be assertive. Rather than wait for your crush to start the conversation, go right ahead and send them a message whenever you feel like it. Tell them what’s on your mind. They’ll appreciate the honesty and vivaciousness.

#14 Open up about their favorite things. The best part about hacking communication is that it’s easy to make someone enjoy talking to you. And that’s through talking about them.

#15 Ask them personal questions. Talking about personal things can bring people closer together. Just make sure you don’t overstep your boundaries or ask anything offensive.

#16 Tell them you just got out of the shower. Then, let their imagination do the rest of the work for you.

#17 Send a bored selfie. Remind them how good you look by sending a strategically posed pic that seems like you didn’t put much effort into your look.

#18 Sign your goodbye or goodnight texts with a kissy face. This type of emoji exchange can elicit feelings of happiness and giddiness. The kissy face is the be-all and end-all of flirty texts, so don’t forget to use it whenever possible.

#19 Use their name whenever you can. Using someone’s name breeds familiarity and also shows that you’re confident enough to approach them. Even if it’s through texts, the principle is the same. Say their name to promote closeness and intimacy.

#20 Skip the text and Facetime them instead. If you’re at that point where you’ve been texting for a while, you might want to ask them if it’s okay to Facetime instead of texting all the time. This can add another level of intimacy and familiarity to your budding relationship.

Even though texting can seem a bit impersonal, if you know and follow these simple tricks, you can enhance the texting experience for yourself and your crush, leaving them wanting more!  Want more texting sexy ideas? CLICK HERE

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How to Decode Cryptic Texts from the Guy You Like

 
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Thanks to technology, we now have to learn to decode a guy’s intentions by reading between the lines of his texts. Here’s how you can do that.

It’s true that men aren’t as good at communicating as women. So it should be no surprise that communicating via text message is challenging. If you’re having a hard time understanding the texts your crush sends you, don’t worry. You don’t need to be a cryptologist to figure out what’s on his mind.

If you’ve recently started talking to a guy you have a crush on, you probably have also noticed how often you’ve been using your little fingers to rapidly type out text after text. Sure, you two may talk to each other on the phone or even meet up, but chances are, you’ve been texting each other way more.

But when you find yourself starting to constantly analyze every text message from your crush, you will find yourself feeling like a crazy person who’s obsessed with his latest reply. It’s time to stop feeling crazy, and time to start understanding what those typed out words really mean.

What do guys mean when they’re texting you?

Back in the day of phone calls, it was easier to decipher what a guy is saying based on what he says and the way he says it. These days, all you have to work with are a bunch of words and emojis on a screen. Here’s the real deal on what he’s actually trying to say.

#1 One-word answers. If you send a long paragraph-type text, only to receive a very short one-word reply back, don’t panic. This does not necessarily mean your crush isn’t into you. Some guys just don’t like texting. If he sends a one-word reply, it can mean he’s busy, or maybe he doesn’t feel like texting at the moment, or it could even be both. Try again at a later time, and see how it goes.

If he’s consistent with his monosyllabic responses, he’s probably not into you and doesn’t know how to tell you. He’s just being polite by responding. If you’re the one to always initiate the conversation, and he has never sent out anything longer than the average Tweet, then he’s probably trying to hint at the fact that he’s not interested in you. 

#2 Asking you to send a sexy pic or video. This text message means he’s horny and wants to see you naked, duh. If your crush asks for a sexy pic, what he’s really saying is “let’s get it on,” and he wants to see you naked. It also means that he wants to see how far you’ll go. He wants to find out if you’ll even send him a sexy photo.

Just remember, he might end up saving what you sent him. Ask yourself if you’re okay with your crush having a sexy photo or video of you on his phone. You don’t really want to end up with a sex tape like Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian, do you? 

#3 “Good morning” and “good night” texts. It’s nice to wake up in the morning to see your crush has texted you “good morning!” If you are receiving messages from him first thing when you wake up or right before you go to bed, it’s safe to say your crush has a crush on you as well. It means you are the first thing on his mind when he wakes up, and last thing on his mind before he goes to sleep. 

#4 White noise. If all you ever hear is white noise, take this as a huge hint that he doesn’t like you. If you’re not getting any replies back, stop texting him immediately. Seriously.

By not replying to your text messages, the only crushing that is happening is the crushing blow to your heart and ego. Besides, why would you want to text someone who doesn’t even bother to reply? If a guy is really into you, he’ll text you back. Even if he’s busy or not into texting or can’t operate a mobile phone for the life of him, he will definitely find some way of contacting you if he likes you.


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#5 “Sorry, can’t make it” texts. Life happens, and it can get in the way of plans. If your crush sends you a last-minute text bailing on the plans you two had, giving no explanation may be annoying, but it’s also not the end of the world. This situation can mean a couple of things.

Not offering an explanation means either he’s too busy to explain why. Perhaps whatever came up is very personal, and he’s not ready to tell you about it, or it means he let his nerves get the best of him, so he bailed.

Don’t assume the worst has happened. If he cancels on you last minute, wait and see if he initiates rescheduling another time to hang out. If he reaches out to reschedule, that’s wonderful. If not, take the silence as a hint. When a guy wants to see you, he will. 

#6 The winking emoji. We all know the wink face means sex. Okay, not exactly. But, there is a big difference between the standard smiley face and the wink face. The wink face has the flirtatious element the smiley face lacks.

Something about the wink face makes you feel all giddy inside. If your crush sends you the wink face, he’s definitely flirting with you. He wants you to know he’s crushing just as hard on you as you are on him.

#7 “LOL.” If your crush replies “LOL” to everything you text him, I assure you he’s not actually laughing out loud every single time. You may very well be a funny, witty text messaging machine, and there are probably times when he does actually laugh out loud. But every time is not one of them.

For example, if you send a long, somewhat serious text message, only to get a reply of “LOL,” then it’s time to figure out what the heck is going on. If he’s always replying the same thing, this means he’s just replying for the sake of replying, or it means he’s not taking the time to even read the messages you’re sending, or it means he’s an idiot.

If he’s not actually trying to engage in the conversation with you, take the hint. Then you will be the one doing all the LOLs when you laugh at the fact you ever had a crush on this dude in the first place.

#8 Text messages asking to hang out again. This one should be obvious. If your crush asks you to hang out again, it means he is totally into you. If he’s texting you to hang out again, he wants to hang out with you as soon as possible because he enjoys your company. That means it’s time to stash your phone away, so you can actually have some real, face-to-face interaction!

A final note on decrypting his texts

Having a crush on a guy is exciting and exhausting. It leaves you feeling giddy and excited, with butterflies fluttering in your stomach. It also leaves you constantly wondering what he’s up to, what he’s doing if he likes you, and everything else in between, taking up all your energy.

When you have a crush on a guy, you want to be in contact with him all the time. You want to feel like you’re a part of his life, and you want him to be a part of yours. Which is why being able to text back and forth with your crush and having normal conversations, seems rather simple. 

But for some reason, it’s completely the opposite. And because it’s not simple, we find ourselves exasperating all of our energy, staring at the same text messages over and over again, trying to make sense of it. We end up treating his vague, cryptic text messages as if it’s our very own Da Vinci Code just waiting to be solved.

But the reality is, these text messages should be taken for exactly what they are. The most difficult thing to understand is that your crush and his text messages aren’t complicated at all.

Stop overanalyzing all the vague *or seemingly vague* text messages your crush sends you, and start accepting them for exactly what they say!

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How to Not Be a Boring Texter and Keep Your Crush Interested

 
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If you suck at texting, your crush will lose interest. Knowing how to not be a boring texter will come in handy for making them yours.

One of the most popular ways to communicate nowadays is via texting. This is also the form of communication you’ll use the most when you meet someone new and want to date them. You’ll text all the time and based on those conversations, they’ll decide if they like you. And that means you’ll want to know how to not be a boring texter.

Because nobody likes trying to get through a flat, dull conversation. Not only does it make them want to avoid talking to you, but they’ll think you’re also boring. When they don’t get excited to talk to you, how do you think they’ll be able to get excited to see you and potentially date you?

Excitement is an important base of any new relationship

Do you remember all of those butterflies you use to get when your crush talked to you in school? Well, you still need to feel those. Better yet, you need to make someone else feel those.

Those feelings of excitement and giddiness are what make someone come back to you time and time again. If you connect with them and get them really excited about you, they won’t be able to stay away.

How to not be a boring texter and keep your crush interested

Your crush won’t be interested if you’re boring. You might not even be a boring person, either. If you’re texting them and you just can’t seem to hold a conversation, you’ll seem boring to them and who wants to pursue a boring person? Nobody.

That’s why you’ll need to learn how to not be a boring texter. With these tips, you’ll be able to keep your crush and anyone else you want interested in you.

#1 Avoid one-word responses. There’s really nothing good about quick, one-word responses. They don’t add anything to the conversation and you’re sending the message that you’re not interested in talking.

If you really do like your crush, then you should know they deserve much better than a simple response. Dig a little deeper and add some value to the conversation with more than one word.

#2 Don’t ask typical questions. The typical, “how are you?” and “What are you doing?” texts are way overused. They’re boring and truthfully, you don’t really care. They’re a formality and it’s boring. Ask more interesting questions instead, something that’ll get their attention and make them think.

#3 Actually start an interesting conversation. You need to know how to have a real conversation if you want to know how to not be a boring texter. Talking about things they’re passionate about and have a lot to say about will help you seem less boring. 

#4 Don’t take forever to text back. Sometimes you’re busy and can’t help it but usually, you just don’t pay attention or want to play hard to get. Well, it’ll actually hurt you if you do this. Sending a text once in an hour is really, really boring. How can you have a real conversation this way? Text back as soon as you can and you’ll seem much less boring.

#5 Show your personality. Your true self-needs to shine. Adding personality to your texts by telling jokes and whatnot will make you seem far less boring. This also shows someone who you really are so they can determine if they really like you or not.


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#6 Use emojis. Emojis add so much more to texts. You can easily flirt or make a simple question a little devious with a little emoji. It’ll make you appear far more invested and interested in the other person, which is less boring to them.

#7 Be the first to text sometimes. Don’t always make them text you first. Again, this is classic “playing hard to get” behavior that really doesn’t work. If they’re always having to text you first, it’ll seem like you’re just boring and don’t want to text them.

#8 Text with a purpose. If you’re bored and looking for entertainment, don’t do it through texting. If you’re bored, the person you’re texting will be bored because you’re not texting them for any reason.

You need to text with a purpose in order to avoid being a boring texter. Ask a question right away and be active in the conversation.

#9 Send some GIFs. GIFs are just an amazing gift sent to spice up boring conversations. They can give you perfect reactions and make your entire conversation all the more interesting. Utilize those GIF keyboards and you won’t be a boring texter anymore.

#10 Invest in the conversation. The person you’re texting is worth your time. When you don’t invest the time and energy into the conversation, you seem boring. They can pick up on the fact that you’re not completely present. If you’re going to text, then invest in it.

#11 Get flirty. Flirting is not boring. If you do it right, it’s very, very exciting. Learn how to flirt over texting and send your crush a few things once you’re in the midst of a conversation. Throwing casual flirty comments really goes a long way and you’ll have learned how to not be a boring texter.

#12 Figure out what you like about a fun texter’s style. The best way to learn is to figure out what other people are doing right. If you’ve noticed your crush is a really fun texter, ask yourself why? What do they do that you could be doing? This will help you see what you’re lacking so you can figure out how to not be a boring texter.

Nobody likes having lackluster conversations. Knowing how to not be a boring texter will help you with more than just getting your crush interested. These tips for spicing up your text convos will definitely help.

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How to Keep a Text Conversation Going When You Have Nothing to Say

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There are some people I literally cringe at when I see their name pop up on my phone. Oh god, not them again. Now, why would I say that? Sure, I may generally find them annoying, but in all honesty, they’re terrible at knowing how to keep a text conversation going.

How can a conversation progress when you ask me, “what’s up?” or say “I’m bored.” Like, come on people, I’d rather watch paint dry. Now, they could be brilliant conversationalists in person, but to be honest, I don’t want to waste my time to find out.

How to keep a text conversation going

That’s the thing. If we go on first impressions, you want your conversation on text message to be solid. If your goal is to get this person to ask you out or you to ask them out, make sure that you excite them and create curiosity about seeing you.

Now, if you only say one word answers or ask job interview questions, you’re not going to get as far as you think. In fact, if you get a date out of it, even I’ll be surprised. Keep the text conversation going with these easy-to-do tips!

#1 Relax. Listen, when nervous or tense, we say stupid things or act like someone we’re actually not. You don’t want that, you want the opposite. You want this person to see who you actually are.

So, if this means you take a couple minutes to think of a reply or put your phone away and just take a breath, then do it. It’s a text, not a wedding proposal—if you get what I mean. 

#2 Make sure it goes both ways. People like to talk about themselves. It’s always me, me, me, me, me. Now, this isn’t a bad thing. In fact, if you’re nervous, ask a question and let them ramble on gives you some time to relax. Plus, you find out a lot about them. But, you want to make sure you limit the number of things you say about yourself. Yes, talk about yourself, but don’t make it all about you.

#3 Be yourself. If you’re used to texting sarcastically, then that’s your style and you shouldn’t change it. This person will learn and get used to the way you text if they like you. Though, I do want to tell you to write with proper words, don’t text like you’re in grade eight. I mean, “brb” and “lol” are outdated.

#4 Know when to pull out. If you feel the conversation is dying, end it. Just end it before the flame goes out. This doesn’t mean you lost your chance with this person, this just means the conversation ended. Tell them you should get to work or that you have something to do. Then, text them later. But, if you end the conversation, let them know instead of just disappearing.

#5 Bring up details from past conversations. If they spoke to you about the shirt they bought yesterday or the exam they had last week, ask them how it went or how the new shirt looks. I know it doesn’t sound like a big deal but it is. You remembered a small and somewhat insignificant detail about them. But that detail shows you pay attention, and it keeps them interested.


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#6 Be light. Isn’t life hard enough as it is? If you want to keep the conversation going, give them a reason to stay in it. So, if they feel good talking to you, they want to continue the conversation. If you make them feel bad, they’ll pull out. It’s that simple. People stick to things that make them feel happy.

#7 Don’t multi-text them. Sending twenty texts messages in a row isn’t cute like really, it’s not cute. If anything, it looks needy and that’s a huge red flag for most people. If you send a text, send one or two in a row and leave them the opportunity to reply. If you want to keep the conversation going, it needs to be a two-way street.

#8 Be patient. People work, they go to school, they have friends and family, so if they don’t message you right away, don’t assume they’re not interested in you. Instead, be cool. They’ll reply to you, don’t worry. And if they don’t reply, well, then you found out that they’re not the one for you. So, either way, it works out.

#9 Use memes. I never thought I’d say this but memes are actually a great way to build a connection and keep the conversation going. Memes are light and meant to make people laugh. If you want them to giggle, send them a meme you find funny and see how they react. Maybe they’ll send you one back. It’s a good way to just talk without a reason.

#10 Be flirty. If you’re wondering how to keep a text conversation going, throw in some playful and flirty texts here and there. If you received a flirty text before then you know how exciting it is to reply back. It’s fun, light, and you build the sexual chemistry. You don’t have to go all R rated, but cute and innocent texts never hurt anyone.

#11 If it’s too long of a text, call. Come on people, the telephone is still alive and well! I know we’re in this era where it’s weird to call people, but it’s actually not. Plus, since no one calls each other anymore, it actually shows the person how much you like them. It’s a pretty big move. And if you need to write an essay to them, it’s easier to call them.

#12 No one-worded answers. If you’re actually interested in them, why would you reply with just one word? Drop that habit. If someone gives you a proper text message with a question, then answer it. If you think a one-word answer is playing hard to get, it’s not. In reality, it’s annoying. 

#13 Talk about life. No, I don’t mean you need to get all philosophical, but talking about each other’s day and things that happened throughout is a great way to build a connection. This allows both of you to see how you live your lives and that brings out curiosity.

Now that you know how to keep a text conversation going, you have no excuse to not put these pointers into use. Try some of these out to keep the conversation lively and fun.

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Kinky Valentine’s Day Ideas

17 Kinky V-Day Ideas To Help You Turn Up The Heat In The Bedroom

Valentine’s Day is said to be the most romantic day of the year, but a lot of us aren’t basic flowers-and-chocolates types of people. If you want to do something a little more special than the same old thing that everyone else does (we have Hallmark cards for that!), there’s a lot of edgy, fun, and absolutely still romantic ways to have a sexy and exciting V-Day.
 
Whether you embrace the day by trying a new toy or a new sex game, or do so via a gift — there’s many ways to be naughty and still share the love. There are a lot of kinky ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day. There’s also experiential options: you can go on a trip or do something really meaningful together that will bring your relationship to a whole new level.
The most important rule of the day is that there are no rules: Have fun and celebrate in a way that fits your relationship, not the cookie cutter ideal of everyone else.

1. New Accessories

If you are into a little Fifty Shades-type action, Valentine’s Day is a great time to purchase a new, personalized collar for your submissive, suggests Antonia Hall, MA, a psychologist, relationship expert and sexpert, and the award-winning author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life. Or maybe a fur-lined red collar to remind you both of your devotion.

2. Set The Mood

Set the mood at home with deep red roses, candle light and your favorite music. “Devote time for sense play, titillating your partner’s senses with heat, cold, feathers, silk, leather and all your favorite toys,” says Hall.

3. Dip Your Toes Into Bondage

Bondage can be a wonderful way to connect with your partner. “If you’re not adept at rope play, purchase bed restraints or bondage tape. Be sure to communicate prior to play with your partner, have a safe word, and watch your partner to ensure their safety,” says Hall.

4. Get Kinky

The best kinky sex positions have the dominant partner on top. “Take control and pace between slow and faster rhythms to make your partner ache for more. Lie on your partner in missionary to remind them who’s boss, or take them from behind, which is a great position for some spankings and clitoris play,” says Hall.

5. Use Candles

Massage candles are made of soy wax, so their melt temperature is lower than conventional wax candles. “You can do the kinky ‘pour hot wax on your boo’ thing much more safely, and then, voila — it becomes warm massage oil! Sensual and sexual exploration may proceed,” says Carol Queen, PhD, and Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist. A blindfold used along with this is even kinkier. “This helps the recipient of the hot wax + massage focus on sensory input and makes the experience that much more sexy and intense.”

6. Write A Song

Do you have a song that you consider yours? Even if you do, make one that really is your own. Consider a gift from a company like Songfinch; they crafts original songs from people’s stories for them to share as unique gifts. Occasions like Valentine’s Day have become very bogged down by gift ideas that don’t really come from the heart, so this is a way to give really creative gifts that are much more personalized than flowers, chocolates and gift cards. You start by telling Songfinch your story, experiences and feelings. They reach out to one of the songwriters in their community of professional songwriters to turn that story into a one-of-a-kind, radio-quality song.

7. Try A New Toy

Try the Hello Touch X Wearable Vibrator; this fan favorite turns natural touch into a supernatural sensation. It can massage, tickle and please better than any other vibrator. The Hello Touch X Wearable Vibrator is the smallest fingertip vibrator available, and the only one optimized for both internal and clitoral stimulation. Its intuitive design features a pair of ultra-compact Vibration Pods, each enclosed in a supple silicone Fingerpad. The designers have minimized every dimension so you can deliver powerful sensations anywhere hands may roam, without limitation. The Vibration Pods are as mobile and versatile as your fingers: Hello Touch X can stroke, squeeze and surround in sensation, unlike any other vibrator.

8. Watch Yourselves Play

Sometimes, watching yourself in the mirror can be incredibly exciting for both of you. But imagine having a mirror just to break out for play. The LUVVU mirror is ideal for couples seeking new ways to enhance their intimacy. This is the world’s first and only detachable round ceiling mirror, created for lovers to enjoy an intimate reflection of their own enjoyment; it provides an erotic visual experience for more intense pleasure. The height and the angle of the LUVVU mirror are adjustable for a range of viewing options. Each mirror has the choice of a clear and red reflection.

9. Something Sweet

Cupcakes and candy are so last year. Give it an edge with sexual pics on Selffee Cookies delivered to your girl’s door. Surprise! They print images directly onto food using an exclusive technology and app. Snap, print, sip. Cookies, coffee, cupcakes…there’s so many possibilities!

10. Naughty Photos

But not in the way you think. “A boudoir photo shoot is a triple threat gift! It’s amazing foreplay — posing in sexy lingerie and feeling sexy, an opportunity to push your limits and play up your Fifty Shades fantasies in your naughtiest lingerie, and you get to keep the photos and relive the fantasy time and time again!” says Laurel House, an author, spokesperson, and dating coach, who personally recommends Jenny Taylor Boudoir Photography as a must-try.


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11. Something To Sip

While you may find reality TV to be a little cheesy, chances are she’s obsessed, and one of the shows she loves to watch is The Bachelor. The Bachelor Wines is a collection of wines inspired by the award-winning television series The Bachelor and The Bachelorette. The Bachelor Wines features three varietals: The Fantasy Suite, One on One, and The Final Rosé. The collection is comprised of three wines blended by award-winning winemakers Linda Trotta and Aaron Bader from California’s premium Central Coast and Central Valley. To purchase the Bachelor Wines, visit bachelorwines.com. MSRP: $15.96/bottle.

12. Edible Panties (And More!)

Want to nibble her panties right off her? Naughty edible undies are where it’s at. IT’SUGAR has quite the assortment of edible sexy goodies: The IT’SUGAR Edible G-String ($9.99), Candy Bra ($9.99), Lovers Body Pen Set, Looking For More Than a Bear Hug Gummies ($7.99) — and who could forget the SNL Dick in a Box ($9.99).

13. A Magic Kiss

Before that next magical kiss, apply Morphine Lips and kiss your partner. After seconds have passed, your partner’s heart will be racing and their body trembling for more, leading to superior sensual explorations. Made in an FDA-certified facility in Los Angeles of 100% essential oils and a proprietary numbing agent, this lip balm is a one-of-a-kind secret weapon for those seeking a sexier experience.

14. Hands-Free Netflix & Chill

This Valentine’s Day, there’s no need to grab the remote. Singlecue seamlessly adds gesture control capabilities to existing home & smart devices. Users can now effortlessly control their home with a simple wave of a finger — flip the channel, turn on/off the lights, turn up/down the temperature, etc. — making for a perfect romantic night in with your partner. Singlecue Gen 2 is $149 and is available for purchase at www.singlecue.com.

15. Warming Sensations

We all know the power of lube, but warmed lube is so much better. Pulsetransforms and dramatically improves your lubricant experience with one simple and smooth motion of the hand by dispensing warm lubricant at 90 F — the perfect temperature to enhance your pleasure. It also has a night light that can changes colors to enhance the ambiance: linen grey, sunrise red, sunset purple, ocean blue, meadow green and candle light yellow.

16. Reading Material

Sure, you can buy her chick lit. But how do you benefit from this? The Bedroom Boredom Busters book lists 31 scintillating activities for couples to enjoy together: 15 for her to plan, 15 for him, and 1 “bonus” for both! 31 days, 31 ways to play!

17. A Touch Of Tech

The PlsPlsMe app is designed to foster communication and deepen intimacy by getting couples to talk about things that might be hard to discuss otherwise. Decks range from more PG things like date night ideas to more taboo topics like fetishes. They offer a few decks free with the download, and users who are looking to go deeper can buy a pack with a partner.

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3 Valentine’s Day Ideas That Will Blow His Mind

 

Valentine’s Day is one holiday we can give ourselves permission to let loose and have fun with our mates. Whether we are dating or married to our Valentine, this holiday gives us a little nudge to show our partner how much we really love him. Here’s how to spice it up a notch and really blow his mind.

  1. Give him a vision he will never forget. Greet him wearing nothing but your sexiest lingerie, your most tantalizing perfume, and a pretty Pink ribbon tied around your waist. (Hint: Don’t concentrate on any insecurities you may have about your body. No one is model perfect, but you are perfectly you and that’s why he loves you. His sole focus will be unraveling that ribbon as quickly as he can and giving you the most seductive kisses ever.)
  2. Leave pretty lingerie in his car seat. Attach a note that says, “Bring this to me tonight and I will put it on just for you.” Guaranteed he’s going to be thinking about you all day and he’ll slip out of work early (if he even gets there, that is).
  3. Turn your bedroom into his fantasy room. Dress it up. Post huge red hearts (bought or cut out of wrapping paper) all over the walls. Light groupings of candles (battery-operated ones are safe and just as romantic as real-flame candles) and place them on the bed. Offer to give him a massage using warm massage oil and slow, circular strokes.

Make this Valentine’s one he’ll never forget and he’ll be craving more of delectable, seductive you.

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The 8 Best Tips For Valentine’s Day Sex

Skip the cheesy parts and get to the good stuff.

Have sex *before* dinner
 

Think about it: you have a delicious glass of wine, and another, and another. Then the dinner, then the dessert, and all of a sudden its midnight and you have work the next day. Full, buzzed, and exhausted aren’t always the best circumstances for boning. So get it on before you leave for your date instead, and spend the rest of the meal basking in a sexy afterglow. And you know, more wine.

Or better yet, get it on the next morning
 

You shouldn’t go into a holiday that’s supposed to be fun all worked up over expectations of sex. If it doesn’t naturally happen, that’s okay! There’s nothing quite like rolling over the next morning and whispering all the things you wish you had done last night into your partner’s ear. (You can be a little late to work).

Buy each other one new sexy item for the bedroom
 

Be it a massage oil candle or a new vibrator, if your hope is to shake up your lurve making routine, commit to bringing one new thing to the bedroom.

Get *each other* chocolate
 

This one is pretty straightforward because… double chocolate!

Do something fun, rather than sexy
 

Some people are all about the candle-lit meal with the soft violin music, and if that’s you, go for it! But if all the extra bells and whistles aren’t really your style, it’s easy to feel like you’re forcing the ~romance~, which can leave you feeling anything but sexy. Instead, try an activity that focuses on togetherness and fun. Go bowling, see a movie, see a concert. An event that leaves you feeling connected might be more likely to inspire sexy times than a four-course dinner.

Get a (hotel) room
 

If you live with hella roomies, this may be the most considerate option provided there’s a reasonable hotel deal you can track down. If not, an Airbnb getaway can give you guys the time to focus on yourselves, rather than your paper-thin walls.

 
 

Spend the day sexting

If you shoot off quick, sexy missives of what you want to do to each other throughout the day, come night time you’ll have a hot script of your own to act out. Plus the build-up of anticipation is unbearable in the best way.


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8 Crucial Moves You Need to Do to Turn Your Girl On

Though it takes more to arouse a woman, exerting the extra effort can be more than worth it. Here’s how to master the fine art of female arousal.

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Turning a woman on isn’t rocket science. The key to arousing your partner lies in your knowledge of the female anatomy, your empathy towards your partner’s needs, and a keen sense of timing. Don’t be intimidated by the thought of not knowing how to arouse your girlfriend or wife. Once you learn how to do it right, you can both enjoy the pleasures of turning each other on.

Women believe that men are simple creatures that need only a flick of the wrist to get them going. Men, however, are practically terrified of acknowledging that they have to perform certain things to get a girl going.

That’s why when two strangers sleep together, it’s doesn’t always turn out the way they want it to. First, there’s the awkward stage where you discover each other’s naked bodies. After that, you realize that you need to get intimate without knowing how to provide the specific needs of your partner.

It happens for couples in relationships as well. It’s usually because it’s too embarrassing to admit that they have no idea what they’re doing, or they’re too cocky to acknowledge that what they’re doing is wrong.

Why is it important to turn your girlfriend on?

The purpose of turning a woman on can be broken down into a few simple reasons:

#1 You want her to sleep with you.

#2 You want her to like sleeping with you.

#3 You want her to sleep with you again.

The problem is that you may not know how to arouse your girlfriend enough to accomplish any of those things. When a woman doesn’t want to fool around or sleep with you, she will definitely tell you so.

It could be due to a number of reasons like her period, she’s tired, she doesn’t have time or it could be something else that you can’t argue against. If the reason is because she’s not in the mood, it’s your job to get her in the mood.

Don’t just rely on nature to do it for you. Yes, women do feel hornier when they’re ovulating and when they’re in their 2nd trimester of pregnancy. But that doesn’t mean that you have to wait every month for the perfect moment or start a family to get your partner all riled up.

When two people are in a relationship and they plan on sleeping together, both people should make an effort to know what they like to do in bed. For men, it’s usually easy because they rely more on visual cues and touch.

Turning a woman on requires a bit more forethought. It’s not just about where you touch a woman. It’s about how you touch her. It’s about watching her reaction and looking to see if you did it right. It’s about being connected enough emotionally and physically to generate waves of pleasure without even having sex yet.

How do you arouse a girl in bed?

The next step is finding out how you can arouse your partner enough to want to sleep with you. If that’s your problem area, these tips should be your guide.

#1 Set the stage. It’s all about location. Bear in mind that you can arouse a woman wherever she is. Just make sure it’s in an appropriate location. Don’t attempt this at a funeral, an emergency room, a children’s playground or anywhere else you can get arrested.

You can do this while eating dinner, while watching a movie or even while you’re shopping for clothes. Just make sure that she’s not so distracted that she’ll end up ignoring your advances.

#2 Set the mood. Now that you know where to do the job, you have to make sure that it’s conducive to your plans to arouse your date. Take her to a romantic restaurant with dim lighting. If you’re doing this at home, put some music on and light some candles.

Wherever it is, make sure that the timing allows you to make a move. You can start turning her on while you’re out so you can finish the job when you’re at home.

#3 Use her brain. You don’t need to ask her for ideas, but you can use her brain’s normal functions and reactions to make your job easier.  Try to use red sheets in the bedroom because this color is known to increase arousal. The yellow light from the candles helps as well because it works the same way.

#4 Smell good. Some scents are also known to increase a person’s libido. According to a study by Dr Alan Hirsch, MD, the most effective scents to increase arousal are cucumber and licorice. Try to use cucumber shampoo and soap before your date and light up some licorice-scented candles when you get home.

#5 Use your eyes. One of the best ways to turn a woman on is to make her feel that she’s wanted. Look at her and take it all in. Make sure she knows it. Always start from top to bottom. Look at her eyes, linger for a few moments and slowly make your way down.

Linger on the spots she knows you like, like her breasts, her butt and her legs. Be obvious about it and let her absorb the fact that you’re thinking very naughty things while you’re admiring her.

#6 Tell her. One of the most unutilized tools for flattery and arousal is words. A lot of people are reluctant to talk dirty to their partner because they don’t know how it will be received. Start with a few innocent and moderately sexy phrases like, “You look amazing in that dress.”

If the timing is right, you can progress to whispering how much you want to take it off and do perfectly imaginable things to your partner. Take note of the tone of your voice. Make sure it’s sultry and denotes your intentions without having to say so.


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#7 Touch her. There are certain places on a woman’s body that can trigger a burst of hormones that can help you in your quest to bed her. These are called the erogenous zones. Many men believe that there are only a few erogenous zones in a woman’s body like the neck, breasts, clitoris and the G-spot. The truth is there are hundreds *and maybe thousands!*

The whole surface area of a woman’s body is one huge erogenous zone that you can use to pleasure her. Don’t just grab anything you can find. Start from top to bottom, like with your eyes, and use fleeting and light touches to stimulate her nerve endings. This concept can beat any other form of arousal methods you can think of.

Apart from the erogenous zones mentioned above, don’t forget to focus on her shoulders, the sides of her stomach, her spine, her inner thighs, the backs of her knees, and her inner ankles. Some women have sensitive toes as well, so you can decide whether you want to focus on those as well.

#8 Watch her. Not only is this sexy, but it can help you determine whether you’re doing everything right. Is your touch making her gasp and moan? Is she obviously faking it? Do you think you should kiss her faster or slower? It all depends on how she reacts. You can ask her about it, but try to do it in a sexy voice so you can cover it up as dirty talk. Remember that confidence can also turn a woman on.

Once you’ve done all you can to get her hot and bothered, you can rest knowing what the next step is. We can’t teach you that in this article, but at least you are now one step closer to your goal.

Arousing a woman in bed benefits both of you. When a woman is turned on enough before you have sex, her orgasms will reach a peak that is higher than what she would have experienced, had there been no mental and physical foreplay. The best thing about being able to do that is that they are more likely to reciprocate and reward you handsomely for your efforts.

Learning how to turn your partner on is essential because it can make or break your sexual relationship. If these things are not included in your relationship, you might end up with a boring sex life or possibly none at all.

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15 HOT Lines From ‘Fifty Shades’ You Can Use To Start Sexting!

1. ‘I’d like to bite that lip.’

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2. ‘You will not be able to see me or hear me. But you’ll be able to feel me.’

3. ‘I want to do rude things to you and my alter ego knows a trick or two.’

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4. ‘Anticipation is the key to seduction, and right now, I’m really into delayed gratification.’


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5. ‘You want me, baby, and I sure as hell want you. You know what to do.’

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6.

‘I want you to want to please me.’

7. ‘I want you to be reminded that I’ve been here. Only me. You’re mine.’

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8. ‘You beguile me… Completely overwhelm me.’

9. ‘I’ve never wanted more, until I met you.’

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10. ‘This is your punishment, so close and yet so far. Is this nice?’

11. ‘Do you have any idea how exquisite your scent is? It’s irresistible.’

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12. ‘There is something about you, though, and I’m finding it impossible to stay away. But I think you’ve figured that out already.’

13. ‘I’ve only got a taste for you.’

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14. ‘Forget about rules. Forget about all those details for tonight. I want you.’

15. ‘With my body, I will worship you.’

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‘Fifty Shades Freed’ Mixes Wealth Porn And Empowerment Fantasy Into A Campy Good Time

The Box Office:

Universal and Perfect World Pictures doesn’t have much at stake with this third and final installment of the Fifty Shades of Grey series. Sure, they are on the hook for the $55 million budget, as well as marketing costs, but this is a wildly successful franchise that paid for itself the first time out. These movies have thus far earned $952m worldwide on a budget of $95m total. Even if Fifty Shades Freed somehow makes zero dollars at the global box office, we’re still looking at a trilogy that earned 6.3x its combined budget on the first two movies alone.


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But yeah, even with excitement obviously down a bit since Fifty Shades of Grey inspired hope for more female-driven biggies and female-led romantic dramas three years ago (we were so young and naïve), this third Dakota Johnson/Jamie Dornan chapter will still take the franchise over the $1 billion mark, presumably as early as Saturday or Sunday. Presuming it makes at least $100 million in North America, it’ll end as the 12th-highest-grossing R-rated franchise in unadjusted domestic grosses. Overseas is a different story, but that’s some math for another day.

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How To Make Your Man Hard – 5 Hard On Tips

I’m going to show you exactly how to make your man super hard and really horny for you. Doing this is going to massively increase his desire for you and…make sex a lot more enjoyable for both of you.

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The thing is some men can get hard at the sight of a woman, while others need specific things to turn them on and get hard.

Let Him Know How Much He Turns You On

Letting your man know how much he turns you on is one of the fastest ways to give him a boner, erection, stiffy or whatever you want to call it!

Why?

Guys have egos. They want to believe that they can conquer the world, earn tons of money as well as turn on & attract their girl.

By letting him know how much he turns you on, you are playing to his ego, which is highly attractive to a man. In turn, this will turn him on, make him horny and invariably give him a hard-on.

So how can you let him know that he is turning you on?

It’s pretty simple. The easiest way is to start talking dirty to him. If you’re both not in the same place, then you can pre-prepare the scenario by start sending him/her some dirty text messages, spice-up his/her brain’s sexual side before you guys actually get together, have no clue how to do this?  CLICK HERE NOW. As well as talking dirty to him, don’t forget to touch him too in a way that FRIENDS WOULDN’T (ie. be a little more aggressive).

Touching him in a way that is more than just friendly means things like resting your hand on his arm, rubbing his leg, putting your arm around his shoulder, kissing him, etc.

Foreplay, Foreplay, Foreplay…

If you have been talking dirty to your man for a number of hours (or even days if you are sending him dirty text messages) then it’s time to ramp it up a little and start thinking about moving towards foreplay.

But for the time being, think about how you are going to move from kissing him to giving him a handjob/blowjob in a smooth way while getting him rock hard at the same time. Try this 5 step process to do just that:

  1. Start by grazing his leg with your legs and hands as you are talking to him.
  2. After doing for a while, start to rub his inner leg with your hand.
  3. Then after a minute or 2 of rubbing his inner leg, start to massage his crotch outside his trousers
  4. At this stage, your man should be starting to get really aroused. It’s now time to put your hand inside his trousers but outside his jocks/briefs then rub & massage his balls and cock.
  5. Finally, put your hands inside his briefs/jocks and start giving him a blowjob or handjob.

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At this stage, your man should be rock hard. But if he’s not, then simply grab his penis in your hand and start to jerk him off.

Keep The Pressure Off

One of the worst things you can do to a guy is put pressure on him to ‘perform’ and get an erection.

If you want to be sure that you make him hard, you need to make it a low-pressure situation for him. Here are 2 simple, yet highly effective ways of keeping the pressure off your man:

  • The easiest way of keeping the pressure off is by NOT expecting or caring if he gets a boner or erection. Instead, just make sure that he is having fun and enjoying himself with you.
  • If he is not hard or initially can’t get an erection, don’t make a big deal about it. This means that you shouldn’t talk about it too much or change your body language or act surprised. The truth is, it isn’t a big deal, all men at some stage will have trouble getting an erection. It’s natural.

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  • Talk To A Doctor

Often guys find it difficult to get a proper erection when they are very tired or stressed. This is no biggie, especially if it only happens on rare occasions. It’s something that shouldn’t concern either you or your man…

However, a very small percentage of guys, unfortunately, have serious problems ever getting an erection. If this is the case, then it’s best that he talk to a doctor. There’s a reason drug like Viagra, Levitra and Cialis are worth billions of dollars a year as lots of guys have erectile problems.

An Interesting Finding

One question I often get is:

“I can’t make my man hard. What am I doing wrong, Sean?”

My answer:

If he likes being with you as well as getting sexual with you, THEN YOU ARE DOING NOTHING WRONG.

Stop worrying. Seriously!

Here are some of the most likely reasons that he has trouble getting hard for you:

  • Most likely it’s because he’s nervous about making sure everything goes right and that he can get hard for you.
  • He could be very tired, stressed with work/school or anxious about something.
  • He’s drunk.

It’s almost never your fault. So stop thinking it is!.

Enjoy!

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Six Major Texting Mistakes You’re Making with Girls

1.    You’re over-analyzing everything she texts

Texts are not nearly as important to what you say and do when you actually meet her. They’re a great way to flirt and keep in contact but never give them much importance. Over-analyzing behavior is what destroys most guys’ chances with the girl.

2.    You’re needy

Many guys don’t even realize what neediness is. If you’re always asking her if and when she wants to go out next if you’re always laughing and LOLing at her jokes, if you’re constantly trying to get more useless chitchatting out of her, you’re needy.

Neediness is one of the major turn-offs for both men and women. You should refrain from such horrible texting habits.

3.    You’re asking her too many questions

This goes back to neediness (trying to get more conversation out of her) but at the end of the day, it’s a mistake on its own. Do you really care about the day she had punching data into some database at work? Nope. All you care about is getting to see her again.

If that’s what you really want, why the hell are you asking her so many terrible questions? Keep it cool, make clear and intriguing statements and don’t put too many or even ANY question marks at the end of your messages. It will only get her more interested in you.

4.    You’re just like everyone else

Every guy that gets her number sends her the classic “Hey cutie/sexy, how’s it going? Xx” or “Hey you, are you free this Wednesday?” Believe me, when I say this, every guy does that. If you do it too, then you’re just as boring as everyone else.

You want her to smile when she sees your name pop-up on the screen so mix things up a little, call her out on things, tease her, intrigue her, make your texts exciting.


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5.    You wait too long

There’s no such thing as a 3-day rule or any other bullshit you hear about. The best thing to do is to get her number and then just say, “I’m going to text/call you tomorrow.” Once you say that, she’s already expecting it, which means she’s much more likely to reply.

If you wait it out too long, you’re just going to give her more time to forget about you. If you didn’t spit quality game and that number wasn’t all that solid, that girl is as good as gone.

6.    You’re not funny

One of the key things about texting is humor. When you’re texting someone, you’re not having the serious conversation you’d have in person. That’s the big issue many people overlook. You’re just exchanging short messages between each other.

These messages need to be funny, sexy and witty. Without that, your texts are identical to everyone else’s. If you make her laugh, make her feel sexy, if you actually stand out, you can rest assure knowing that you’re almost halfway into her pants.

Texting isn’t all that complicated. You just have to make sure that the attraction keeps going. Remind her of how good she felt when she met you and work on setting up the next meeting. It’s really just that simple.

If you want to increase your success with women, and get late more often, this is the sort of stuff you need to learn, on “Fifty Shades of Sexting” it is all covered. Get it here now